in 1 sentence: this site is full of visa seeking gorgeous girls.
i am australian 39 yr old, seperated male, and i joined up with this site about 4 months ago, and stayed a gold member for 2 months, and afternthat 2 motnhs i deleted my account. during that time i met quite a number of girls, more than a fair share, which gave me a lot experience how to deal with these women.
once you join up you will get a lot interests and messages from girls 15~20 years younger than you. i mean MANY MANY girls. and most of them are gorgeous (if you like asian women).
however, here's a simple trick to see if you are really desirable for who you are, or are these women just after a visa:
SEND A MESSAGE TO A WOMAN IN YOUR OWN COUNTRY to see if she's interested in you. the only way these hot ~20yr olds want to be with you is because you live in a western country.
regardless, i ended up visiting phils for a week, and never spent a night alone, all different girls. i made my arrangements before going there, booked a few different hotels, and scheduled to meet a girl for everyday. do not be disheartened if they seem conservative: they ALL will spend their night with you. after all, there's a possibility that you will pick her to bring back to australia. oh and definitely use protection!!!
so if you are really after a GENUINE LOVING RELATIONSHIP, look for her in your own country. otherwise you will never know if they want you for yourself, or your passport.
you get rockstar treatment from gorgeous girls.
noone is genuinely interested in who you are.
ian does NOT recommend FilipinoCupid to friends/family