I've been on the website for a about 2 weeks now and have received quite a few a messages but they are definate issues I'm having. First, the majority of the guys pay for a premium membership so their messages won't be screened but don't get paid to get verified. Maybe one out of 10 guys will even have a picture and some aren't willing to even send you one because "the internet is forever and they need to be discreet". Obviously I'm not going to go meet with a stranger that I don't even know what he looks like.
Others are very arrogant and basically just want you to come sleep with them on the 1st date and if you say your not a prostitute and not willing to come have sex right away they want to get an attitude.
Some are just into some weird 50 shades of grey stuff and worse and I wont even get into that.
The benefits of the site may be that everyone can be upfront about what they want, but personally I am not a prostitute, I am just looking for a non-commited relationship where theres benefits. But I cant agree to these guys that have no respect and have an expectation for me to come sleep with them at their houses when i don't know them, we've messaged only a few times, or in some cases, they wont even show you a pic, bcuz besides of moral issues, most of them think they're 30x sexier than what they are just because they have money and girls tell them what they want. So, I am yet to find someone that has tried to get to know me or doesn't just want to say what they want from sex...
Openness about what each other expects.
Not totally commited relationships.
Creepy old arrogent men.
Mostly married men.