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Seeking Arrangement is the largest dating website for those seeking mutually beneficial arrangements ? i.e., a relationship between a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mommy, and a Sugar Baby.

Seeking Arrangement is designed to meet the needs of those seeking mutually rewarding arrangements. Seeking Arrangement understands that their members need privacy as well as a secure dating environment. As such, their website maintains and upholds a strict privacy policy. To further protect their members, all profiles and photographs submitted to Seeking Arrangement are screened for relevancy.

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Seeking Arrangement - Good for What It Is

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Seeking Arrangement is a sugardaddy dating site. That means that girls are looking to make money for hanging out with guys who have some money. If you understand and accept that, the site is not that bad. I found that, as a reasonably attractive male, I could go on there, set the allowance amounts to something reasonable, and find a huge array of women.

The trick of being successful as a guy on this site is to have rules and be upfront about them. There are a lot of women who get on the site and want to be paid hundreds of dollars just so you can buy them dinner. If you are like me, you do not need to pay for friends. You may, on the other hand, be willing to use money as a social lubricant to make dating faster and weed out competition, right? So, my rule, which I had to explain far less often than you might expect, was that I would be happy to meet and buy dinner and what not, but if she wanted cash and stuff, then we had to be on an intimate/sexual level.

Now, some girls will immediately start calling you cheap and act insulted like you called them a prostitute. In reality, these girls would have milked you for every penny they could squeeze out of you and offered nothing in return. My response to all that is to ask her if she thinks I am anything more than an ATM. If she is not willing to invest something of herself in you, why would you do the same for her? So, even if she's the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, do not cave in and agree to pay her just to hang out with you. There are lots of other women who will understand how it works and will be much more worth your time.

Of course, this brings up the opposite problem you will encounter: the actual prostitutes. They may not even realize that they are doing it, but you will find girls who are willing to trade sex for money with little or no getting to know each other before it happens. If that does not make you feel weird, then the minute they start talking about all of the other guys they are doing that with probably will. You cannot always tell who is going to be this way, and a few obviously snuck by me, but I recommend as soon as you find out you should cut ties. She could easily end up getting arrested and you could get dragged down with her (yes, police have been known to run stings on SA), and you also should probably be worried about things like diseases and raising other guys' babies, etc.

With all of these caveats out of the way, I will say that I have had marvelous success on that site. I've used it off and on for over 10 years now. If I am getting out of a long relationship, I find it is a great way to kickstart the process of getting back out in the dating world. I sign up for a month, easily meet 3 to 6 different girls, and can probably count on getting intimate with about 8 out of 10 of them. It might just start out as a fun fling, but a few have actually turned into longer term relationships, and many required no payment or allowance of any kind. Of course, most of the people willing to put themselves out there to date guys for money probably have a few scars and they invariably pop up at some point and can kill a budding relationship.

For example, met a girl, hit it off, things were great and we were using the scary "L" word with each other. Then it all went wrong because of issues with her parents that made it difficult for her to trust love. So she told me that although she loved me she was going to go back on SA to find a guy to hook up with for money for a new apartment. When I offered to give it to her myself, her logic was that owing people you love messes things up, so it was better to have sex with a stranger. Needless to say, I disagreed and that was the end of it.

Now, ladies, having met quite a few women from the site, I can say that you will likely encounter emails from a few creeps. Just as anywhere else in the world, there are people who will want to hide behind the Internet to indulge all of their fantasies and feelings of inadequacy. There will be picture collectors, there will be guys with strange desires, there will be guys the age of your father or grandfather, there will be married guys, and there will be the guys who look nothing like their photos. It is just like any dating site, though perhaps a bit grittier because of the connotation of the site. But, if you do not let that bug you, the site can be rewarding for you, as well. You can meet someone (like me) who just wants to spark up a little romance without the headaches of regular dating sites and doesn't mind helping you in the process. Really, sugar daddy dating is (at least to my mind) what regular dating should be: two people who like and care for each other and provide for one another's needs. Nice, right?

So, to sum up: have realistic expectations, and the site can be amazing. But, it requires that you be smart about your interactions and ready to move on to the next person if things are wrong.

Pros:
-Easy to meet large numbers of women
-Helps you avoid the headaches of normal dating
-Money acts as a "social lubricant" to facilitate intimacy

Cons:
-Have to be smart to avoid being scammed
-Most people will be a little damaged, making true relationships harder (though not impossible)

Chris does recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - Avoid and use a concierge service

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Most of the women on here are nothing more than spoiled brats expecting an anatomically challenged, life-size, Ken doll that shoots American Express Cards out his rear when patted on the head. They all expect something for nothing, and would not dare step out of their comfort zone for less than the Throne of England. Most profiles expose a resentment of men in general and an insecurity or dissatisfaction with being a woman. After exploring thousands of profiles, most of these young women are not capable of understanding the theme behind "Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory".

Gentlemen, if you want a SB, do the same thing you would do if you wanted a trained, knowledgeable, experienced, companion for a single event or a professional, trained, service provider for something a little more discreet--use a concierge service. Your time, money, and security are too valuable to waste here with those who would not appreciate or understand what you offer.

Pros:
Approximately 10% could be real assets to your life.

Cons:
The 10% are difficult and time consuming to vet.

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Seeking Arrangement - SA is BS

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I wish I had read all the reviews about this sight. everything I have read up to now is true. They say its free for women that's a lie I had to pay for premium membership to even be heard. Every guy is looking for a model and half of them definitely don't answer when they find out you are afro American This website is a waste of time and I will make sure they don't charge my card again. I have been on for three weeks and nothing I am a average built women with curves 49 years of age. I am not 19 - 25 which seems the age these men want. This sight should make that clear before taking money. I am writing to warn women don't use this sight its bogus. I have been a sugar baby before for 15 years so I know the ropes. This is not the way to go. Live and learn

lisa does NOT recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - seeking arrangements sucks

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was on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.

Pros:
lots of beautiful people

Cons:
99.9% are fake scammers

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Seeking Arrangement - Not best reviews yet..

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I've been on the website for a about 2 weeks now and have received quite a few a messages but they are definate issues I'm having. First, the majority of the guys pay for a premium membership so their messages won't be screened but don't get paid to get verified. Maybe one out of 10 guys will even have a picture and some aren't willing to even send you one because "the internet is forever and they need to be discreet". Obviously I'm not going to go meet with a stranger that I don't even know what he looks like.
Others are very arrogant and basically just want you to come sleep with them on the 1st date and if you say your not a prostitute and not willing to come have sex right away they want to get an attitude.
Some are just into some weird 50 shades of grey stuff and worse and I wont even get into that.
The benefits of the site may be that everyone can be upfront about what they want, but personally I am not a prostitute, I am just looking for a non-commited relationship where theres benefits. But I cant agree to these guys that have no respect and have an expectation for me to come sleep with them at their houses when i don't know them, we've messaged only a few times, or in some cases, they wont even show you a pic, bcuz besides of moral issues, most of them think they're 30x sexier than what they are just because they have money and girls tell them what they want. So, I am yet to find someone that has tried to get to know me or doesn't just want to say what they want from sex...

Pros:
Openness about what each other expects.
Not totally commited relationships.

Cons:
Creepy old arrogent men.
Shady men.
Mostly married men.

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Seeking Arrangement - Why I consider SA a scam

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My comment refers to the UK site.
1) It says in FAQ that standard members can view messages - in fact you can't even view who sent the message;
2) All messages are MANUALLY checked, censored and modified - indicates low traffic through the site;
3) Some faces were familiar from other sites - I found them, contacted, explained the reason, asked their opinion on SA -not a single response;
4) Pictures sent from someone posing at the site had no digital signature - means they either came from the Web or were edited.
Verdict: don't pay any fees and don't waste time.

Pros:
Many nice (albeit not real) profiles

Cons:
You have to pay for everything.
All messages are altered.

Al does NOT recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - Ladies: Do not waste your time

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I'm a very good looking woman in a metropolitan, wealthy area of the US.

Lots of poser SDs on the site. If a guy is even slightly good looking, he wants free or super cheap sex. SA does a horrible job .... all men should be required to have a background check and pay to be on the site. Many are on site for photo collecting, seeking cheap or free sex, or just for attention. Received many "winks" and exchanged a few emails...then nothing, lol. What a joke. The site is inundated with men just looking for an email response from a woman because they cannot get attention any other way in the real world. Maybe it is just American men....which are known for being cheap assholes around the world....especially those born after 1965.

Pros:
none

Cons:
poser Sugar Daddies galore

Jennifer does NOT recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - cheap old guys waste of time

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Full of cheap ugly old guys, collected photos and skype details of girls to boost their ego.

Some guys their are charmless and lonely and want a wife a trophy wife but they dont have the funds or chatm to get it.

A lot of guys want sex chat or to meet for sex in a hotel.

Lot of guys want you to travel to them, with no allowance so thry expect you to take time off work to visit them

I have always dated hardworking guys who have suported me with money and emotionally and they were very charming guy just normal working class guys.

But guys on this site are meant to be millionaires or very rich and they are hunting for a bargain price with sex with a young girl.

Waste of time girls, safe yourself for someone who will give you his best, not crumbs

Pros:
No pros just a unless site was there for a month and wasted time talking to fakes and cheap guys looking for sex

Better off dating a guy your attracted to for love and he will do hus best for you, might not be rich but you will be safe and happy

Cons:
Full of creepy guys oooking for cheap sex but they want a playboy model

A lot if them are uninteresting and charmless

I think they joined because they can not find anyone to be with them unless they paid.

Its a great concept but not run correctly, guys should have to verify their income and less than 1000s a month should not be an allowance option

lily does NOT recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - Full-on Scam

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I reluctantly joined for a month and even bought the background check. This is what they do:

Set up bogus accounts with pictures and descriptions of great women. Send you "winks" from these women - who don't live in your home state.

I didn't get a single response from members who lived near me and I live in an area where most men over 30 are married or have huge beer guts.

Cons:
Ripoff

nofagshere does NOT recommend Seeking Arrangement to friends/family

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Seeking Arrangement - @Flakey Girls Reviewer, SA Burn Ou

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What do you expect from 18 and 20 somethings, maturity??? LOLOLOL. Try dating someone around your own age or a little older. You get seduced by younger women's looks, you get burned. Pretty simple, isn't it??? Grow up already.

Pros:
I don't know

Cons:
I really don't know

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