I've been on AM for almost a year now. I've gotten a few messages, but no actual dates.
Not all the members are out to cheat. There are a few single women, but most of them are looking for sugar daddy's.
The first woman who contacted me trying to cheat on her husband seem pretty bitter after he cheated on her first. If that's you're thing great.
If adultry is your thing, go for it.
Very few fake looking profiles. The messages I do get do not appear robotically generated. The women all seem very real.
For us guys, it takes lots of time and patience before you will meet anyone.
hispwr does recommend Ashley Madison to friends/family