I've been using AshleyMadison for three or four months and I have met several married women. I agree that it is not really easy and you can tell that there are at least ten times as many men as women. Having an affair can be quiet challenging. But I have used several other affair websites and even those with a better male-female ratio (for example Saphrina or other hook up sites like AFF) have more men than women.
I am not really sure if AshleyMadison is still the number one affair website. I prefer Saphrina but during the time I've used AshleyMadison I was able to have an affair with two women!! Obviously it is not a scam and works pretty damn well!
Bad maleto female ratio
VincentS does recommend Ashley Madison to friends/family