Waste of money with poor results

Waste of money with poor results

Great idea, poor poor execution. If this was an idea they added onto an already existing dating site, it would have purpose but alone it's just a failed attempt at online dating. The fact they don't offer a decent smart phone app for BOTH droid and iPhone is yet another failure.

$60 for three months of service BUT there aren't as many verified, paying users for you to write to. Take a look at your outgoing messages box and see how many messages written have been read. You like I would notice that 94% of the messages have not been read. Even messages I sent three months ago. Why? Mainly because many of their users are not paid users and cannot see, respond or delete messages. Meanwhile Howaboutwe.com continues to contact that unpaid user, using your message as bait to get them to pay and join. Nowadays they allow all users to add a personal email address to their profile, so you can contact them offsite. What's the point in paying then????? Wish I knew that earlier, I could have tried it free.

Another thing, everyone thinks of this site differently. Most like myself look at it as a way to find a single to do different things with. Two individuals hanging out, not necessarily for dating. I think a lot of people think of it as dating and expect the guy to pay every time. Also beware of gold diggers, there are plenty on both sides of the sex.

Pros
A larger than usual selection of interesting people. All kinds, shapes, sizes, intelligence, beauty, etc Even those that have never tried a dating site. All kinds of dates posted, free events, food or spirits tasting, find new fantastic ideas about your town or city.

Cons
Hardly any paid members to contact. Low response rate due to low census of paid users. A user cannot respond unless they have a paid account. A large percentage of female users have free accounts. A large number of the accounts you view on site as "recent" have never logged in again after creating a free account. False advertising in a sense. Too expensive.

This site is a total scam!!!!! Do not waste your money.