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It\\\\\\\\\\\'s not terrible but it\\\\\\\\\\\'s also not great.

I've always loved older men. The confidence, the look, the experience. I've always loved it all. In real life it can be tricky to meet older men. They're either married or are with friends/colleagues and feel a certain way about approaching a younger woman because they don't want to be THAT guy. One day I happened to see SA featured on a show and I decided to sign up. I was surprised by how many attractive men the site featured, very smart, personable, interesting characters(but of course mixed in with the lot that can't form a coherent sentence). I was excited and ready for an adventure; wow it's been difficult.
I will say I'm beautiful, smart, personable, funny, driven and BLACK. That seems to the the problem(the black part). About 8/10 profiles I come across either say something like "I only date White, Asian, and maybe Hispanic women" or they just come out and say "I absolutely do not date Black/African-American women". I can't say that I'm shocked but it is disappointing.

It's a strange but not terrible place but I would be cautious, a lot of the men are truly sleazy and some are nice. We are on the internet after all.

I've yet to meet someone because of the being black bit(lol), or distance is an issue, but mostly because I'm selective and I'm not in a rush. I'd much rather take my time and wait for someone that will change my life in a positive way rather than giving me $1,000/month. It is what you make it so my only advise would be for both the men and women to be safe and SMART.

Pros
Good selection of men who understand what SA is about
Members can now be verified
Easy navigation
Well made website

Cons
Some men equate SA with the woman on the corner
Girls with no values(they cheapen all of us)
A weird anti-black women scene

Oh hon, the entire internet is a weird anti black woman scene unfortunately.