I've been a member for about 10 years -- that alone, should tell you something. I bought a lifetime membership when they first were established. It was very inexpensive so I went for it. Over the years, I have received so many messages from men young enough to be my son that I am totally disgusted. Also, lots of scammers -- people who only want to IM or email, because they know you will be able to tell from their accents that they are definitely not who they say they are. I recommend you read a good book instead.
Ruined by scammers
Rowan does NOT recommend Large and Lovely to friends/family