People aren't who they say they are

People aren't who they say they are

The man I loved, and stupidly still love, was on here as well as other sites claiming to be single and looking for a "good Muslim wife" and saying he had career, money, and things he didn't have at the time as he had to get career on track after immigration to here. He spoke to me about marriage but I would not just marry him Islamically. I wanted it to be legal too but he was married before and was separated but still not divorced legally. I always took care of his children in addition to my own and worked full time and cooked and cleaned while he went on this site and women called my house to talk to him! He lied to women and met one with my car saying he was single and had no kids and said the car was his and the house was his while I was home changing his babies diapers (their mother won't take care of them). He is looking for a Muslim wife who won't care if he gets a proper divorce first unlike me who wants to marry properly and love him and his kids but was raised Christian..but was exploring Islam and lived life respecting him cooking Halal food and things but he would not respect me or marry me because I was not raised Muslim. Ahmed. Was a doctor but has to upgrade here in my country but still tells women all the lies to make them want him. Beware of men here and on any site. The women want love and marriage but men want to say whatever they have to in order to get women to have sex with him, and do things for them, and give them money they never pay back and just cheat on women and hurt us. I'm not Muslim at the moment but have been exploring it (he wouldn't help because then he would have one less thing to criticize me about). What I learned about Allah-God is that lying, stealing, hurting others isn't what God would want. Although I'm not a Muslim sister, us women who are good women need to protect each other. A man just calling himself a good Muslim isn't enough. Actions speak louder then words. Be careful ladies. Don't let him or any other man take your heart, money, and dignity and then throw you in garbage like he did to me. Now he says he will call police if I contact him to either get my money back or to just ask how his children are. Not fair

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Everyone on here is same religion... for ones telling truth.

it takes two to tango... why do not you just dump him?