Seeking Arrangement is the largest dating website for those seeking mutually beneficial arrangements ? i.e., a relationship between a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mommy, and a Sugar Baby. Seeking Arrangement is designed to meet the needs of those seeking mutually rewarding arrangements. Seeking Arrangement understands that their members need privacy as well as a secure dating environment. As such, their website maintains and upholds a strict privacy policy. To further protect their members, all profiles and photographs submitted to Seeking Arrangement are screened for relevancy.

Costs

A Seeking Arrangement free membership offers you lots of possibilities. To get full acces to several features on the website, you will need a Seeking Arrangement account upgrade. The Seeking Arrangement price for an upgrade via Seeking Arrangement is $30 for 30 days. For 90 days, you can pay Seeking Arrangement the amount of $84.95 via Multicards.


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Seeking Arrangement Reviews

    Scam & spam that's it.

    I was on there for almost two years, in the beginning it was good until everyone got on there. Now they only feature the same men and women all year long and everyone they leave hidden so only a select few can really be seen. I noticed this after doing searches and realizing I would have to go through 500 pages to see new faces. They put the best looking people upfront but I have a feeling they are fake profiles because I know a lot of people on there personally and not one of them is featured and because if you try to complain about the site on the blog, they will delete your post. If you complain that they deleted your post, they will delete that one too. That to me is a shady site that has too much control. No one I know even gets emails anymore and if they do the guys are all flakes anyways when it comes to actually supporting you in any way.

    A lot of people are very upset with that site and have given up. No one I knew on there was doing well after this year started. They have moderators in the blog who urge young women to work harder and harder to please men and keep reminding them that it takes a lot of time, energy and effort to see the fruits of their labor. The point is to find someone to spoil you not a discount whore house. The problem for men is they get a lot of spam, and scams. I feel bad for the young women on there who can't see the complaints.

    Pros
    I don't know if their is any good side to the site anymore. It's crooked.

    Cons
    All of the above.

    BEWARE

    I had a guy who sounded better than the rest. He said all the right things; made promises he did not keep; tried to get me to believe outlandish tales; took everything I said and twisted it until I got scared thinking he was crazy. All I got for my trouble was my computer hacked!

    SA

    This site is horrible if you are female. You are not expected to pay, the SD pays...but the fake profile emails sent to you make you feel like you need to pay to see REAL men and the emails just tempt you to pay to see more.

    Most of the single men on the site have no picture but expect YOU to have one.

    Profiles are from the polite to the absurd. Guys who want women to wear nice clothes, speak well and behave appropriately according to their terms and have manicured nails and feet. If a woman had enough money to have expensive clothes and nails done on a reg basis they would not be on the site. HELLOOO

    Yet these same men think they can defile or abuse women on the site because the woman has less money than he does,

    Fake profiles are obvious because what they describe as their WANTS can be completely opposite of the SB's profile description. If a man states he wants a dominant woman, and the woman's profile states she is passive - you know it is BULL when he says he is willing to work with it. SCREW THAT.

    There are a bunch of broke, misogynistic men on there and it is sad for the one or two that are nice men.

    Pros
    You get to take a trip into the mind of a seriously sexually screwed up man who wants you to do weird stuff to his junk and accept him for it. Then he goes home and bangs his wife and hugs his kids. Suddenly, you have this "growth" on your coochie.

    Cons
    See above

    hold on a minute..

    Ok so I am a guy on one of the sugar daddy websites.. I have a good job, drive a good car, motorcycle and rent my own apt.. I am not a millionaire but make enough to treat a girl out for dinners, movies, bars etc.. What I want in exchange? - that she hangs out with me and we have some good time together! A serious relationship, sex or anything else would not cross my mind the very first time I meet her! .. I am 25 .. tall and good looking .. However, if you expect me to pay her bills, tuition, rent, shopping etc that's not going to happen ... some "millionaires" could afford to do that but it's unlikely that you find a REAL millionaire on these sites coz i guess they have their own network to get real girls to hang out with them.. I agree that if men are just using women for a one night stand in exchange of dinner, that's not right but the girl has to be smart enough to figure whose right and whose wrong ... the main reason I am on the SD website is coz my work place does not have too many women and since I am a professional working in a male dominant industry, it's hard for me to get access to nice girls ... Guys like me really look forward to meeting genuine girls but also girls who're nice and not just gold diggers!

    Other side of the coin

    As previous poster said:

    "Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart."

    As one financially well off, I think that marriage and abuse of divorce laws produce the biggest gold diggers in the world. There is no bigger gold digger than a married woman. Better for the rich to avoid monogamy or marriage at all costs. I would rather go for a sugar babe with known costs than give a lien on my wealth to a wife with unknown costs and potentially wealth damaging divorce actions.

    Also marriage these days don't last long anyway with huge penalties for the man to leave it, so better to go in for arrangements.

    Meet The Real Sugar Daddies and Mommies

    I had a friend who joined SA and she cancelled her membership after the first three months. She met a guy who was a drug lord, who had connections in her country and threatened here to visit him or else. Now with kind of blackmail going on how can you be safe after allowing yourself to trust some of these men letting them in to know you and then they intern use the information to blackmail you. Well she had inspired me and i started a millionaires club with a different twist, both sugar daddies/mommies and babies get to meet each other in person at a private party every month so they can get to know each other all millionaires are verified as well as their networth. So if you need to find the real deal visit www dot meetelites dot com

    lovely lady

    I have actually been on this site a total of two years. I have had some great experiences. Once I found I guy that paid me well to be happy I stuck with him. I made an arrangement with one guy on the site. He was 30 years older then myself however, he was really goos in the bed and he paid for everything and I mean everything including my tuition. I received money from him everytime I went to see him and a generous amount of funds also went into my account every week. I was pulling in over $5,ooo.00 from him every 3 weeks. He also took me with him into his jet where I became apart of the mile high club. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO exciting. I ended up moving and we lost touch with each other and I have not been able to find him since then.

    Pros
    some guys are who they say they are
    the guys that are real actually don't mind helping out
    the site is easy to navigate

    Cons
    None just yet

    A breeding ground for loosers

    This site is a scam, and I can't believe they haven't been closed down.
    The site at one time may have been the real thing, but now the site is
    crawling with con artist.

    You will not find a real SD on this site. The guys are there for only one reason
    to get laid by women stupid enough to believe what they say.

    Pros
    Not a darn thing

    Cons
    Fake profiles

    Loaded with broke men

    Site used as a virtual club to get laid FREE

    Miss Craig

    As with anything else in life where variables are involved, in other words, good vs bad, this site is no exception. I have been on it for a year. Apparently, I had experienced "beginner's luck," as the first man I met within two weeks of signing up was actually what he porported to be; wealthy and truly interested in forging a SB/SD relationship. This involved no more than every other weekend to various locals involving wonderful resorts across the globe. Everything was first class; the transportation, accomodations, wining-dining, etc. He was an older man, not bad looking (Clint Eastwood type) didn't have any weird predelections, was a decent height- had hair, wasn't fat, had a pleasant personality, was intelligent and polite-all good. He alloted me generous sums of cash upon my arrival at the various locations in addition to the monthly stipend he wired to my account. (We're talking annually over 6 figures, btw.) Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart. Anyhow, I resumed my membership on SA and proceeded to meet a series of less than stunning individuals. All were frauds, fakes and pretenders. Some were the worst; obnoxious on every level pretending they really had something to offer when they were doing little more than creating the opportunity to have access to beautiful women which would never happen in real life beyond their computer access. Others, were interested in immediate cash "meet-ups"-the sort of exchange that can be otherwise derived from the yellow pages. Then there are those who must have had an abundance of time on their hands, who wish to feed/entertain their particular brand of narcissism. These are the ones who demand volumnous, endless email and photo exchanges-a sort of free supply of attention coming their way, that you eventually recognize is not going to result in any actual meeting, (much less SB/SD exchange.) But, the absolutely worst reprehensible ones are those (again) who waste your time in actually arranging a date. Within minutes of arriving, (Gals, be suspicious of "coffee dates"-not too impressive at the onset, you know?) it's abundantly clear, the guy is so gross he couldn't date his way out of a paper bag and so "not of means" he wouldn't pay a dime to witness Christ ride a bicycle! He certainlyisn't really going to shed cash on a woman and he, in so many words, will indicate this soon enough. While sipping your coffee, you will soon actually perceive his latent anger that he really cannot have you as nothing else has worked out in his life and he may become slightly obnoxious. Again, an example of this site creating another opportunity for "looky-loos" and posers to have their moment in the sun, being graced by a value beyond their reach. Therefore, I caution the women on SA to be judicious in utilizing such a forum and understand that just as with anything else in life where the strata of humanity is involved, there is a possibililty (admittedly, odds are not favorable) to find the "real deal" on SA.

    Pros
    Possible to find the real deal.

    Cons
    You can potentially meet;
    -Men who do not really have means.
    -Men who are not attractive on any level.
    -Men who will waste your time.

    Seeking arrangement is a hoax

    It does seem odd that these men who self reportedly are worth 10-15 million dollars will squabble over a couple of thousand dollars to have sex with you. Seriously, I had one guy offer to fuck me in my ass in a starbucks bathroom. These guys are vile, disgusting, and will advantage of the naive, so beware. If someone really wants an arrangement with you and make $1 mil a year, they can afford to pay you more than 250 dollars for sex. Or even 500 dollars. I am disappointed by them and how manipulative and horny and ungenuine they are. Someone should work on shutting this site down. It is just a way for men to access beautiful young girls through lies and deceit. I am glad to say that I have not let any dirty mother fucker off the site even kiss me. Make these guys show you the money even before letting them touch you.

    Cons
    total time waster
    guys will lie over and over to you
    no one seems really serious about an arrangment

    The Other side of the story

    This site is laid out very well and is ridiculously easy to navigate. The absurd number of people who mislabel themselves with the baby, daddy, mommy thing is somewhat disturbing and shows the intelligence level of the users. ... I mostly noticed the mislabeled sugar babies in the sugar mommies or daddies section so I suppose a low IQ of the sugar babies is to be somewhat expected but really. ... They explain very clearly what each is before you sign up.
    Other than that... lot's of guys not really looking for a real SD/SB relationship. More like casual fuck friends or "personal secretaries". Not so much what I was there for.

    I did however have dinner with a guy with a very nice vehicle which may have been a rental but I'm pretty sure was his. He was a gentleman and very intelligent and I didn't detect a hint of aggressive or pushy behavior.

    Pros
    Easy to use
    Lot's of profiles
    Active users

    Cons
    Dumb users
    lots of profiles that are inactive
    not a lot of nice guys on the site
    not enough local to my location

    Really Really Appalled

    I have been on this site for a while now and I must say most of the guys on this site dont seem to know what an arrangement is or supposed to be. They seem to think that endless emails, and dinner pretty much sums it up.

    Take note men, your on this site for a reason, live up to it or get off the site. I am a beautiful, intelligent, kind and interesting women. I live up to my end of the deal, now live up to yours.

    I do not wish to meet for dinner and have you paw at me. I do not wish for you to invite me out for the night and I clear my scedule for you to be a creep. Pay for dinner, my time and my cab home. Thats why I am on this site. Why are you?

    Pros
    Im sure there are some if you find a legit guy ...but I at this point am very doubtful.

    Cons
    The men are misleading,

    Their intentions are misleading.

    and it never really developes into a reall SD type relationship.

    BEAUTIFUL GIRLS! SAVE YOUR SELF AGRIVATION DON'T DO IT

    BEAUTIFUL GIRLS BEWARE OF THIS SITE & ONES LIKE IT!!!!!!! If you are a nice, pretty, educated and young woman and want a wealthy older man - take a yachting course or wine tasting class, or work at a bar where rich people frequent, or ANNNNNNYTHING ELSE. PLEASE READ BELOW:

    SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE AS MUCH CHANCE MEETING A RICH MAN WILLING TO TAKE CARE OF YOU ON THIS SITE - OR IT'S COMPETITORS - AS YOU WOULD WORKING AT MACDONALDS AND WAITING FOR SOME RICH GUY WHO FANCIES A BURGER TO COME IN BY CHANCE AND NOTICE YOU (actually I would wager at MacD's you have more due to laws of supply and demand)

    Young women are completely exploited on these sites. I spent several months and a lot of time and energy on this site and 2 of the other reported best ones. The men (mostly grotesque and and not actually wealthy at all in fact) are all inundated with hundreds of offers from beautiful desperate girls every week. They do not have to prove their wealth. The ones I met were clearly just using it as a cheep way to get easy, endless attention from young ladies they would never be able to even talk to under normal circumstances. Even the ones who are wealthy have no intention of actually forming a true sugardaddy relationship. They are just hoping to get free NSA sex in exchange for dinner.

    Why spend your time making such an effort with a man who you will most likely be embarrassed to be seen with who does not care about what you think or say and has no interest apart from parading you around for a night and trying to get sex off of you - in exchange for dinner (as in one of my dates you might not even get cab fare and spend most of the night guarding your mouth with your fork for for fear he puts his tongue in it every time you speak GROSS!!!). You can get dinner from a hot guy on a normal dating site or social network.

    I spent loads of time writing endless e-mails (a lot of older guys just join for titillation of writing back and forth)with guys that promised help that never materialised. I also spent time away from work and money travelling on dates, got stood up and I even got jipped £20 cab fair from one who wouldn't let me take public transportation home - he gallantly put me in a cab - but then didn't have any cash to pay and didn't give it back to me the next day. I got pawed up by a disgusting guy who was supposedly a pillar of society and told by this hideously unattractive and badly dressed man (think grand dad golfing) that he liked me better than the "exceptionally beautiful" girl he dated from the site earlier that morning - at least my "wonderful personality" made up for the fact that I was "only just pretty and not beautiful" like the other girl. - He actually said that - he who was disgusting. For 1 the beautiful girl was probably not as polite as I was. And 2nd I've dated stunningly gorgeous guys and none of them have ever told me I was "just pretty"; and they have been more appreciative and a million times more polite interesting generous and intelligent - oh and some of them have actually been rich not pretending like this guy who I found out did not actually have any money ( he reported on his profile $50 million).. etc. etc. etc. Their forums are full of girls complaining about the same thing and much worse. PLEASE PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T waste your time and let these vile con artists take you for a ride.

    ***If on the other hand if you are aged, over-unattractive, overweight, over-sexed, balding and with not much conversational skills, but you want many gorgeous lovely young women to go out with every night (whom you can lie to about your supposed nonexistent wealth) these are the sites for you.

    Pros
    NONE
    (SERIOUSLY, YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!)

    Cons
    TIME WASTER! LOTS OF EFFORT & STILL LEFT WITH BILLS & ZERO FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.

    IN RETURN FOR YOUR BEAUTY, POISE & KINDNESS YOU GET: AGGRAVATION, EMBARRASSMENT, SEXUAL HARASSMENT (AND YES, DINNER) FROM GROSS, UNATTRACTIVE, MEAT-HEAD WANNABES WHO HAVE NO IDEA OF WHAT THIS SORT OF AN ARRANGEMENT IS AND/OR NO INTENTION, OR ABILITY OF ACTUALLY BEING IN SUCH AN ARRANGEMENT.


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