I'll keep this brief:
1. most of the profiles are fake
2. after exchanging a few emails with a person I sent my contact information (email), by request, and two seconds after i sent it my account was closed without explanation and I was locked out of the site. I complained through their online chat and the person on the other end said the fraud dept. had closed it and didn't give them an explanation. they were a tech support service paid as a contractor by the site and do not have any actual contact with the site's admins. i hadn't done anything wrong and have not had any problems on any other site i've ever used. the lack of response was really rude and suggests they know they don't have much competition and don't care about their customers. they did refund my payment. overall it was bizarre.
huge silent wall between admins and users.
willing to treat people poorly who are already treated poorly.
do not use it.
samantha does NOT recommend Date a Crossdresser to friends/family