Think twice before joining!
Review about OurTimeIt really is true that there is a fee in addition to the bargain $19.99 and they are not honest about it up front. I was so surprised to see that on my credit card and contacted them via email twice and they were defensive and didn't care if I was satisfied or not with their service. There is no phone number available. When I posted a profile, but hadn't joined, it said I had 98 messages, so I joined. It turned out 94 of them were people who had clicked "I like your photo" or hit the flirt button, but hadn't left a message at all. Many were 1 person who had send me 4 "I like your photo" messages. The remaining 4 messages were not what I was hoping for. (The photos on the site advertisement are very misleading. Most of the men who contacted me were well into their 60's. You are better off on POF or Match. At least there people are more likely to send a real message rather than take the easy way out and just hit a button and expect you to contact them.
Pros
None!
Cons
The price is definitely not worth it. It has been a waste of time.