True there are fake profiles on A4A but I usually run into the real ones. Many people on there are very rude. Especially the white guys and Asian guys (and I am referring the to twinks, I'm a masculine that likes twinks)
I met my twinky Dominican BF on there 2 &1/2 yrs ago. I had no idea back then that he would turn out to be the stereo-typical feminine twink SLUT. He "liked" me a lot. Came from NYC to CT to stay with me several times. Wrote me on FB telling me how much fun he had with me and that he'd hate to think he was just someone I was f*cking for the moment. So I got a little heartfelt emotional and caught feelings for him. After a month of seeing each other I asked him to be my BF. He was excited! He was 19 at the time. Well... 2 & 1/2 yrs later, all he brought my life was head-ache and heart-ache. Thru the yrs I discovered he STILL had his profile running on A4A. He claimed it was just to meet "new friends". Bullshit! You don't make friends on A4A, you make hook ups. He didn't just have 1 profile, I discovered 3 profiles of his. All saying something different and all stating he lived in different parts of NYC.
Bottom line: even the people who actually are real and meet up with you are nothing but skanky sluts. These people are addicted to sex and attention. Altho my ex is beautiful (he really is) he is a sociopath with a complex of wanting to make sure that men find him attractive. He's all about his looks. But instead of taking a compliment and moving along, he takes it to the next level and sleeps with all the men who want to screw him. He cheated on me several times and didn't even make the guys use protection. Luckily, I am clean as of 3 weeks ago.
If you're looking for a RELATIONSHIP , A4A is NOT the place. The ONLY good thing about it is that it's 100% free to use. No membership fees to send or receive emails. So that's where all the sluts go - to the FREE sites.
Ozzyfan does NOT recommend Adam4Adam to friends/family