Most of the profiles will tell you the "woman" is in your state but not disclose the city. When you ask for that info, you spend one of your credits. As often as not, it turns out the "woman" really does not live in your state. If you stop chatting they will try to provoke you into an answer. More credits gone. My second wife used to write answers to letters and emails to porn sites, pretending to be some well-known porn actress. It's a job.