Ourtime.com is a dating site that not just comprehends what it is to be in excess of 50, additionally commends this energizing section of our lives. At Ourtime.com, we respect the flexibility, knowledge and gratefulness forever that just come with time. We additionally perceive that what individuals need in their 50s, 60s and past is frequently altogether different from what they needed in their 30s and 40s, without taking into consideration their 20s. This web dating community concentrates on the particular investment and yearnings of individuals like you. Examination demonstrates that these years might be among our happiest and generally satisfying. Free of the nerves of naiveté, we can delight in a period of investigation, fresh starts and more prominent satisfaction. What's more nothing elevates the delight of experience like having the ideal individual by your side! Whether the relationship is focused around companionship or sentiment, everything is more fun when you impart it somebody extraordinary. At this phase of your life, you're glad for your accomplishments and quality the lessons you have adapted along the way. Each of your past connections taught you something important to you and others. At this point, you have a really decent thought what the relationship for you looks like isn't it time you got it?
Perhaps it is a marriage. Possibly it is a companionship. Then again maybe it is something in the middle. With a huge number of individuals joining our site every day, chances are great that you'll discover simply what you're searching for. Consistently, we get notification from joyful parts who are reinvigorating their affection lives, discovering companions or travel companions, and having paramount encounters all with individuals they would not have generally met. Right now is an ideal opportunity to impart your life to somebody exceptional, and you can find that individual here. You control who you converse with and when. Why waste time messaging over and over again when you can immediately talk on boundless 5-moment ourtime.com and evaluate if there's science that much quicker? Let ourtime.com acquaint you with the "new school" approach to date on the web. Ourtime's versatile dating application provides for you the force of constant dating right in the palm of your hand. Moment notices will keep you redesigned on who's looking at your profile whether you're in or out of the application. You might be associated at the cafe, supermarket, or even at the rec center. Your next date with ourtime.com could be with somebody simply a mile away, and that somebody could be your best date ever.
Liers!!
Do not bother with this sight!!! I had two different men talking to me that I caught them in so many lies that I wanted to scream. One giuy kept me going for over 2 1/2 weeks!! Just to have him asking me for money to help him get out of a financial problem in West Africa!! The guy actually lied to me about how his wife died!! Really what jerks!! I am so done with this sight!!
Pros
None
Cons
Too many to mention!
buyer beware/do not join
I joined Ourtime yesterday morning, only to be notified by my bank that my Dedit Card # had either been sold or stolen through them. Now the bank, for my protection, has had to cancel my card and will have to send me another card. just another scam artist trying to prey on the older generation
Pros
no pros if you are going to steal from or help someone else steal from me
Think twice before joining!
It really is true that there is a fee in addition to the bargain $19.99 and they are not honest about it up front. I was so surprised to see that on my credit card and contacted them via email twice and they were defensive and didn't care if I was satisfied or not with their service. There is no phone number available. When I posted a profile, but hadn't joined, it said I had 98 messages, so I joined. It turned out 94 of them were people who had clicked "I like your photo" or hit the flirt button, but hadn't left a message at all. Many were 1 person who had send me 4 "I like your photo" messages. The remaining 4 messages were not what I was hoping for. (The photos on the site advertisement are very misleading. Most of the men who contacted me were well into their 60's. You are better off on POF or Match. At least there people are more likely to send a real message rather than take the easy way out and just hit a button and expect you to contact them.
Pros
None!
Cons
The price is definitely not worth it. It has been a waste of time.
Deliberately Misleading Joiner "Upgrade" Fee
Did you get duped like I did? It isn't $19.99 to join. There is a hidden fee , called an "upgrade fee" of $3.99 on top of the $19.99 that the site charges to join. I feel this is an unfair business practice, deceitful and deliberately misleading to call the $3.99 an upgrade fee when in fact, it is part of the cost of joining. If it costs $23.98 to join Ourtime.com, the website should be clear about that and not slip the customer a so-called, made-up "upgrade" fee. Don't they understand sticker shock of $25 for a $19.99 site is not the way to retain customers. This site gets a bad review.
Pros
None.
Cons
The site is not sophisticated and allows potential matches to send lots of I'd like it if you would send me a message. Well, I would like a real, "uncanned" message from a potential match.
What a Dishonest, Money-making, Disgusting SCAM!!!!!
First of all, I notice they do not make it easy to review their sight.
What a complete let-down and waste of good money. I too was hopeful in meeting someone after seeing the advertisements on TV that I now know are fictional. I am a professional women and I can count on one hand how many professional men showed up in my search. Like most other reviewers mentioned, I was matched up with people out of my area, the same men over and over, and people who had nothing written but their basic statistics; not even a picture! The ones with pictures were worse...a total freak show to put it mildly. I try not to be a judgemental person but are teeth too much to ask for? I actually used this sight as entertainment with my girlfriends.
My only comfort now is knowing I'm not alone with these complaints. This site should be reviewed by someone to make it STOP! Don't make the same mistake the rest of us did; DO NOT JOIN!!!!!
Pros
NONE!
Cons
See above comments!
Our Time Disappointing -- borderline Absurd
The home page and advertisements for Our Time in NO WAY depict what's really going on here. They definitely use models for ads because the men who contacted me were, as someone else put it in their review, Walmart, truck driving, beer drinking, no sleeves material. Barely a professional in the bunch; which seems very very odd. Also, they seem to "switch cities" on you. One hopeful's profile said he was from New Jersey then, as soon as I said Los Angeles, I noticed his switched to LA. Is there a bait & switch going on here? This is a sad, sad site which, once again, plays on people's vulnerability and hope of finding someone in their own age group. Really too bad. Actually, just awful.
Pros
Not Much
Cons
Too Many
Sad that Our Time is a poor site.
I believe Our Time is truly a bait and switch sort of site. I joined after viewing what I thought was decent looking over 50 men.
I was (am) basically looking for a site where men were looking for women their own age. Go figure. When the $$ were taken and the real men appeared, I thought, oh no, this looks like a Walmart shoppers gallery selection... is this truly serious men looking for a serious relationship?? Because the main photo of you in your wife beater undershirt may be a turn on in cell block B, but it's doing nothing for me here. Nor is the close up picture of you with teeth missing. The pictures that men post of their friends, family, pets and toys...oh and fish from their fishing adventures, well I'm like, uh, who is it you are actually trying to impress here? I'm really starting to think I'd have better luck in a bar at happy hour than I would have on this dating site. It's almost as bad as POF (plenty of fish) and that site is really a freak show.
I'm going to play out my month and see how it goes. I'm only a week into this so far. They are spending a lot of advertising $$ via TV and Radio, so I can just hope that some normal, that is non-walmart types join for at least a month like I did.
Big problem with their search though, and I can't seem to find an area where I can communicate to them it's not working. Their advance search doesn't work. I plub in the requirements I'm looking for which are divorced or widowed men, and when I do a search, seperated men show up in the search. That's just wrong. Sorry guys, but if you are "just" "seperated" you need to wait it out to you are divorced before you start dating... but that's just me... anyway, the advanced searching doesn't seem to work. I do NOT like that. Big bad!!! Get it right!!!
So with the walmart men, unworkable searching parameters... Out Time is presently not a good option.
Pros
Cheaper than Match and e-Harmony
Cons
Read my review. so many....
I do not recommend OurTime
When I joined OurTime I requested to receive matches with men in my area. Some of the same matches were sent to me multiple times. Although OurTime's matches were local men, I received flirts and messages from men all over the U.S. and wa surprised by how many profiles didn't contain photos or any information about the profiler. After I received a blatant request for sex--as opposed to the more subtle ones I'd received before-- I asked OurTime to cancel my subscription and refund me the balance remaining which they refused to do. I do not recommend OurTime to anyone.
Pros
Easy to navigate.
Cons
OurTime does not know the meaning of Customer Service. It does not police its site to keep out the riff-raff nor does it pay much attention to the matches it sends to its customers. The Terms and Conditions release OurTime from responsibility for its online content and offer no recourse for dissatisfied customers.
OurTime is a joke
I paid for many months. Unfortunately. Like others have said here, the matches are NOTHING like a match. I ride a motorcycle. Not one time have they matched me with a motorcycle guy. Also, no way of knowing if the person you are interested in is a paid member. Last but not least, there is no screening for stupid or men that wonder if you can handle their large appendages. I thought by PAYING 75.00 that it would help get rid of the dirtbags. Sorry, it isn't the fault of OurTime for stupid men. You can't hide your profile without consequences. I'm close to being done, with lots of money wasted. No refunds for pre-pay.
Pros
None
Cons
see my review
Remorse and regrets
I heard of ourtime.com on a cable channel. I was looking for the 40-ish age group, and thought this had potential. I created a profile, complete with pics and some background info. On day one, I had 9 messages. On day two, I had 10 more messages. I was so excited, but I couldn't retrieve my messages without a paid membership. My card info was surrendered, and all "terms/conditions" were blindly accepted. BIG MISTAKE! I go to my "messages," and 99% of them were from different time zones! Very few of them had pictures! One hundred percent of my messages were auto-bot remarks--all very similar to each other! I was through after the first hour of my membership. I asked for an immediate refund, but was denied due to the infamous terms and conditions.
...guess how many more messages I got since I paid for my 1 month subscription? ZILCH-ZERO-ZONK!
This site IS A JOKE!! I feel like I was scammed under false pretenses. Please, just don't do it!
Pros
Easy to set up profile...
Cons
Exactly, this site IS a CON!
Disappointed but glad I tried it
I paid for one month. Met one man at a restaurant who was nice. Tons of men contacted me the first week. I attribute that to them searching for "new" members and my profile came up. Interest has gradually and greatly declined over these 4 weeks even though there are at least 1000 men whose profiles come up within an hour drive from me as I live in a very large metro area. I have found that most members are only lurking (not paid members), which means most are probably not really interested in meeting people and are just browsing profiles. There is NO WAY to know who is a paid member and who is not. Plus many have not logged in for months (only found that out when I put them in my favorite file and only then did the "last log in date" come up when I realized they had not been on the site for quite a while) but still have their profile up which is really misleading as to how many active members are on there. One month price was supposed to be $20 but they charged an extra $4 for other fees, which to me is false advertising. I never had problems with any type of scammers like others reported I just now deleted my profile and glad I only paid for one month. There are sincere people on there but they are few and far between.
Pros
There are sincere people on the site, but they are few and far between. Timing is everything on these sites, so it is possible you could meet a potential good match on this site.
Cons
No way to identify who is a paid member.
Run from OurTime.com
OurTime.com is full of men who are desparate, and less than educated. I received 103 messages within a month or so, so I joined to see who emailed me. Many, many were repeats from the same men; one sent the same message 10+ times. Okay, a mistake, but do you want to date someone who does that? Many were also from men way too old for me so they didn't stay within my requested age parameters, and then there were those "out of staters!" And not one took the time to write an email of any substance, unless you're into "You're hot." Stick with match.com. You still have to be discerning, but you can find men who are sincere, and can string a few quality sentences together in an email.
Pros
None, except CA Buyer's Remorse Law lets you get your money back if you write a request letter within 3 days. I wrote mine within 3 hours!!
Cons
Everything about it.
Pissed Off
i've been on there a little over a week and it has been nothing but a nightmare... i can't communicate with anyone at all. Nothing, Zippo.
Ourtime.com -not worth it
Ourtime.com is not worth it. The chat feature did not work for me. The daily matches were not what I would consider matched at all. I did not post a picture always using option of e-mail to send if one were interested. After the request and picture was sent no other further contact was made. I didn't think I looked that bad.
Pros
This website is good for acquainting one with potential matches and building self image.
Cons
The men on this site that look decent and have a good profile will not respond I think they are staged.
Not as bad as most here seem to think!
I'll admit that I probably wouldn't recommend OurTime to my friends, but not for any of the reasons given here. I haven't had any problems with Nigerians or members asking for my contact information, and I had WAY more obviously fake profiles contact me on Match. The "free membership" that requires payment if you want to actually participate is identical to any other paying site, and I believe that making people pay weeds out some of the undesireables.
What I don't like about OurTime is that there are so few options to narrow your search results. I can search for astological sign, but I can't search for members with college degrees? What's that about? Only being able to search by age and location leads to contacts by way too many members that I'm just not interested in. If you want to screen for your personal preferences, you have to include it in your profile introduction -- and hope they read it!
Pros
Eliminates the old guys trolling for much younger women.
Cons
Not enough options for narrowing search results.
Stay away!
Perhaps online dating is not for me but after a couple of days of my inbox crammed with really creepy inquiries, I left the site. I received disjointed messages from guys with everything from really poor grammar to painfully
unrealistic photos stolen from, what appeared to be, celebrity style websites. It's worth noting that I am a good looking female and never sent messages to anyone, I only received them. It's not free as they would have you believe either. Searching is free but if you want to see any messages you have to pay up. I'm told this is typical of dating sites. The fee for a month is 20.00 but they tack on an additional "one time" fee of 5.00. Also, read the fine print. If you don't cancel your membership within a "reasonable amount of time" you pay for another month, and on and on. The only positive is that it's easy to get off the site.
Pros
It's easy to get off the site.
Cons
I just found nothing redeeming about the messages on this site.
Scamming Web Site
HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE!! THE DAY I JOINED IT WAS NOTHING BUT SCAMMING. EVERY CONTACT ASKED FOR MY PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS. BIG RED FLAG. WITHIN A WEEK I DELETED MY PROFILE AND ACCOUNT.
Pros
NO PRO COMMENTS AT ALL
Cons
SCAM! DO NOT JOIN
Leary
Joined for one month to figure if this is for me. I got matches of people that tell me they work out but obviously eat during their workout time. Only a handful seem okay. I am engaged in conversation with a few people, but you never know what is on the other end of the email thread. After placing pictures online and telling about yourself, it is then up to common sense and being cautious. Then if you want to meet someone, then there is another level of security to figure out. Sort of like peeling back the onion each step of the way. Not sure if this is worth it as I have not been tricked or scammed out of resources, but the game playing and preying upon human emotion is not worth it. There may be other legitimate venues for this type of dating. Only a few days left as you can unsubscribe but you cannot get your money back. The expense of one month was worth the trial effort to tell this is a boon!
OurTime is a joke!
Was told that OurTime is free, and for those over 50. Well, it's NOT free, you can search the database, and send messages, but if you want to see what they wrote to you, it'll cost you big-time. What's the point of having a free site when you cannot converse with those you picked, unless you lay out some moolah?
Pros
Can scan the database, and pick the people with whom you want to chat.
Cons
They want a lot of money for fully-working website. It's just not worth it.
NIGERIAN SCAMMERS GONE WILD
This site originally intended for old farts and old fartetts has been flooded by Nigerian scammers.You can find stolen pictures of every porn star in the business.This site is a rats nest of scammers not only from Nigeria,but also from our friends in Russia.You can sign up for free and use there search engine but about 99% of the people you find there are scammers.If you want to use the site for anything else you'll have to pay.All you would be paying for is the opportunity to talk to the lowest life form on earth.Don't wast your money and don't wast your time.Your more likely to meet your soul mate in your own toilet than on this site.
Pros
Join free and educate yourself on the photos that scammers use.You get to read scammer profiles so you can learn just how stupid scammers are.Then go to a site called scammerslist.com and compare their photos to the ones you find on our time and you'll see just how right i really am.
Cons
They match you with scammers.They even match you with scammer profiles of the same sex which is the scammers putting a picture of a man on a wimans profile.
Bogus, dont become a member
Im certain this is a bogus website, I have not heard from anyone and they charge you if you want to know if anyone read your message. DON"T JOIN!!!!
not a good experience
I closed down my profile after a few days of being bombarded by in appropriate and unattractive men.
Beware of this man James Raymond Hayes (JRHAYES/JRHAZES) on OurTime
Met this guy on the site (James Hayes), yes putting it out there he is a classic jerk and gold digger. these guy surf single site for women to take advantage of
These people don't verify stuff like they claim, its all about the money, because they allowed this guy to get on the site , several Domestic Violence convictions against women he was either married to or dated, felony DWI, gun charges, and he lied about his military career (he said in profile he was in security/ law enforcement, not true), he stated has a graduate degree in drug and alachol counseling , he lied again, never graduated UTA, has Assoc. Degree in drug and Alachol,and he has 3 DWI's and is viiolent.
I won't recommand this site to anyone
Look at the elements who are members
Pros
Too many shady Black guys on this site; false profiles
Cons
forget about it
PLEASE>>> Don't waste your time or money!
I should have suspected something when the site wouldn't let me view any messages unless I paid first. After they get your credit card, then you can see that respondees were of these categories: (1) scammers with fake profiles, plus other fake profiles to make it LOOK like they have more members than they really have, (you'll spend all day blocking these... there's that many); (2) married men looking to cheat (easy to catch those); (3) men who use online dating sites in lieu of soliciting a prostitute (less money... maybe dinner or free?); (4) certain races with secret fantasies of having sex with certain other ethnicities and would like to connect undercover only because their inner circles would NOT approve (a lot of these... who knew?; (5) sleezy stalkers from all states just lurking, showing how nasty and degenerate they are all day long (who has this kinda time?).
Men should complain about this site because it makes them look like primal predators.... really bad. Ladies... if you have dignity and self-respect, don't put yourself on the same level as the men who frequent this site. You're worth much more than a piece of slab in a filthy meat warehouse, which is called "OurTime."
Pros
Can easily hide your site and cancel membership quickly thank God.
Cons
Not for respectable women. The men who spoke with some kind of decency had pictures of them from 10-20 years ago and lied about almost everything else, but at least were pleasant. The men who looked for women who "work out" but clearly hadn't seen the inside of a gym themselves, not even the slightest bit of muscle tone, was hilarious. Once you sift out all the fakes and liars, you can count the prospects on one hand. Close this site down along with "Senior Meet." Ratio of good men to bad, about 1:300. Ugh.
Scam site, crazy stuff.!!!!!
oh i cant begin to tell you what a dirty site this is. found out credit card charges was for escort services. geez people this is crazy. oh id stay away from here.
Pros
didnt find any nice things to say...!!!
Cons
after getting credit card nos, found out the real charges was for escort services. rip off. wtf, you crazy people.....