In my opinion:
This place sucks, and I would not even waste three seconds on the site.
It's a cash grab for sure and it hardly has any members at all.
They try and control every aspect of what you write and what you do, all so you can pay 21 dollars a month for nothing.
They do not tell you up front they are going to charge you. They approve your profile(make sure you do not put any contact information to bypass them getting paid), and then you get messages in your email saying you have been approved and you have "new messages"
Then when you click on the message it prompts to pay if you want to see it.
You can be guaranteed they will respond with some BS excuse.
What a scam
Lisa does NOT recommend 7OrBetter to friends/family