Joined the site a few times over the last decade & always had issues...bad communication on the site, bad communication with customer service, overbilled many times!
The last time I was overbilled & went to site & chatted with CS. Ended up telling them that "stealing" from me was not condoned & this would be my last term. I was only on day 4 of a paid month. At the end of chat they cancelled my subscription & when I tried to email asking them why, they locked me out of there site!
THEFT IS THEFT!
This website is corrupt and full if female scammers who don't want to work.
You say hello, they say hello. The next thing they do is tell you they love you and hold their hands out for money or gift cards. This covers about 80%+.of the women there.
Most of the women are not who they say they are. They all have stuffed iphones that can't be used for phone calls. I've caught two out on the phone as old ladies, not young women.
This makes the website unsafe to honest people and is a bit if a joke.
Such websites shouldn't exist and needs to be shut down. I'm not impressed
I could write about the lack of quality on this site but that would be for another time. My main comment today is about the system. It stinks. They had this antiquated system for years. In an attempt to copy Match and other hipper dating sites, they so-called upgraded the system recently. It's a hodgepodge of equally dysfunctional features. Nothing works on this site not that it ever did. Don't waste your money buying membership. It'd be better to flush it down the toilet.
Too much negative advertisement that I didn't even subscribe too, and they have lots of Negative Reviews. DON'T JOIN EVEN IT"S FREE. NOT WORTH IT! YOU MAY FIND A SERIAL KILLER IN THAT WEB SITE!!!!!
Pros NO GO PROS!!!!
Cons NOTHING GOOD TO SHOW TO MUCH NEGATIVE ADVERTISEMENT!!!
Paid for a month and could not get pass; the about you page, tried to contact customer service but it only brought me back to the same page again. Avoid this site, Chinese people a very intelligent people but these people are using their intelligence the wrong way. STAY AWAY
AdultXXXDate is by far the best hookup site I have ever used. There are so many other scam sites out there using fake profiles, it is nice to finally find one that has real, genuine members looking for sex.
I have had a number of hookups using AdultXXXDate. Some were just one night stands, some are now regular hookup and some are now even close friends.
This site is well worth the $20 membership fee. I cannot recommend it enough.
Pros Real, genuine members
90 million members
Great tools
Member videos
Live webcam streaming chat
I've used the site off and on for years, only with a paid subscription for very shirt periods of time... And during those times, I noticed a few patterns that still seem a bit fishy to me: I would recieve quite a lot of Interest and a fair amount of messages from women, usuall more Chinese than Japanese, but the conversations always seemed to evaporate rather quickly, and on multiple occasions they would stop responding until just shortly after my paid subscription expired, and then suddenly I would recieve a new message and this have to renew my subscription to read it. The longest interaction I had was with a Filipino woman living in Australia, she seemed pretty authentic and very highly intelligent, but always gave rather short replies... On one or two occasions her profile disappeared completely, and she later explained that some guy was getting really creepy and aggressive towards her. She seemed to want me to respond to her, but she set her profile to not allow communications from male members, effectively keeping me blocked until just after my paid subscription ran out, THEN she changed her settings and sent another message, this time wanting to Skype. I didn't bother, since she claimed she already had a biyfriend and was here to meet friends. Seriously, you're going to pay money for conversations with strangers that lead nowhere? Not me. Most of the other members I've contacted myself didn't speak enough English to have a meaningful conversation, so I think I'm pretty much done with it. That's my experience.
Pros Japanese women... That's about the only good thing I can think of, but I actually have no assurance that they're even real.
Cons Too expensive, and some interactions seem like bait set out just to keep you pouring money into a subscription.
Heel simpel; buiten het feit dat er meer fake profielen opstaan dan bikers kun je zelf je account niet verwijderen en wordt je mail inbox overspoeld met berichten van hen, en hun partnersites zonder dat je daar uberhaubt toestemming voor hebt gegeven. Na 5 berichten aan de customer"service" weigeren ze nog steeds mijj gegevens van de site te verwijderen. Aangifte is gedaan
Its simple, besides the fact there are more fake profiles then actual people you will not be able to remove your account. Also your inbox gets overloaded with their spam emails and emails from their partnersites without permission given to use my email address for other purposes then aggreed.
After 5 messages to their customer"service" they still refuse to take my account off the website. Since they refuse to do this they violate my privacy and act illegally. I have reported them to the authorities and file charges.
STAY FAR FAR FAR FAAAAAAAR VERY VERY VERY FAAAAAAAAAAAAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM THIS WEBSITE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE SCAMMED !!!!
Being a Seventh-day Adventist is extremely hard. However, I overcome a lot of severe hardships in my life and yes, I did become strong. I feel despite of my challenges, I’m ready for marriage. I’m blessed with the things that is going on with my life, but I would like to share with my better half. I’m fully aware that marriage is not easy. There will be trials, tribulations, life is not filled with sunshine and flowers, we are living in a real and nasty world. Cinderella life was not magical because she was abused by her own family, yet she became a strong woman for her prince. I’m not afraid to admit my mistakes and learn from them. If I have an issue, I immediately sort things out by getting help from my parents, my friends, and including my pastor. I’m fortunate to have awesome parents who instilled me those values that I need to seek out help immediately so I can solve it in a timely manner. I support President Donald J Trump 100.1%. But my parents taught me to respect other people opinions and political views. Unfortunately, this kind of disrespect which is coming from the left who are against Trump supporters has infiltrated our church and poisoned of the minds of our people. As for me, I’m willing to respect her views if her views differ from mine. Those kinds of women who doesn’t respect you or forces you to conform to her ways, they are not quality people. You have the right to be yourself, 100%! However, the thing that upsets me the most about this church (not just website) is that why am I meeting a lot of people with severe emotional issues. They are clinging to their past abusive relationships, they do not seek treatment, but still join these kinds of websites to find a “spouse” This church preaches that we are not supposed to engage in interfaith marriages or relationships. If this denomination strongly emphasizes on godly successful marriages, we should invest more on mental health in addition to our beliefs on diet, exercise, sleep, etc. I’ve been a Seventh-day Adventist since 1984, I’m very well versed that there are a lot of failed marriages.
Here is my advice to men (women can apply this) If you a strong, confident, grounded, successful who wants to love and honor her, don’t pursue her if she is not willing to meet you all the way. IF she doesn’t come up to your level by improving herself. If she leaves you because of her doubts and insecurities, don’t abandon her but do not engage in a relationship. Pray for her but encourage her to seek help and seek an activity that will keep her mind stimulated. Even if she tells you that you are too good for her, give that same advice but red flags should be waving if she does not want to have the courage. Don’t be like Forrest Gump who pursued someone who did not love him in return. There is another movie that is one of my favorites. It’s a film back from 2001, it’s called Crazy/Beautiful. Carlos, was a straight A student, bright kid, who wants to join the military after high school. He gets up early in the morning to take the bus from his east LA home to a prominent high school on the other side of town. He meets this girl who attends his school, Nicole has a lot of behavior issues due to her mother’s suicide. She has been destructive to herself but when she meets him, she turns around 90 degrees and their relationship did succeed despite of an issue that they had due to her father’s bad advice. At the beginning of their relationship, she got him in trouble, but he firmly told her that he doesn’t do those kinds of things but was attentive to her. She also had a hobby as well. Men, be that prize, not her. #BEAKING
Nicole is a real strong woman because she wanted to be free from bondage of suffering., I’m pretty sure God approves that kind of relationships based on a solid foundation.
Those are my thoughts to those who will exercise caution.
My appeal to all the women at this website, men pay close attention. To those who has been victims of past abusive relationships who are bringing baggage into the relationship that you are in. You have 2 choices. Open up to him with BIG open arms, let go of the past, get help, if you are a religious fanatic, trust God or just leave this site and don’t waste our time. Us MEN want to invest in you and seek a godly marriage. However, like I said, the Seventh-day Adventist Church needs reform in helping to those in need because we want to have a successful marriage. I’m not asking for a handout. I admit that I do have problems and want to improve. A lot people do feel the same. We are not your doormats if you decide to continue to seek the same kind of relationships that you have endured. Don’t come back to us and expect a second chance. Most of us we are living across the country, across the North American Division, or across the world. We have jobs, responsibilities, our families, our communities but we are willing to sacrifice our time, our resources so we can be with each other. Some of us guys are willing to leave everything behind so we can be with you. Love is about sacrifice, keep that in mind.
Men even don’t fall if she offers you one of her friends because in reality, she is pushing you away and putting you under a doormat. Remember, you have chosen her, not her friends. With that being said, respect our time and we will treat you like a queen. Otherwise, we would need to find other places where we can seek a wife.
Men, my last advice is that she does not want you because of her insecurities, this will be a time for you to be productive, travel, be involved in the church, keep working in your career, be with your friends, and just continue being you. It’s her loss, not yours.
Cons The Seventh-day Adventist Church needs a lot of reform on mental health and investing more on marriages. Sermons on unequally yoked marriages are a waste of time since its all talk, no action.
The men on this site are not datable! If not down right lists, cheaters or charlatans, they are mostly emotionally too damaged to be of use to any woman. These weirdos can do serious damage!
When I was a free member I received messages from local women who said they wanted contact with me.
I paid a subscription and not one of these front page women replied. Now what a surprise? A ny comments I made on the public wall where rejected. When I did a search for local people not one was more local than 1,000 miles away.
I've tried a few sugar dating sites. This one has by far has delivered the best results with actual successful dates. They also have the best design, support, and don't charge a monthly fee. Don't just take my word for it. It looks like Secret Benefits has excellent reviews across the web. I fully recommend checking this dating site out.
Pros Excellent support
Great design
No monthly membership
Lots of women
No ads or spam
So, Behappy2day.com has everything that you would hope for from an online dating site. You have the profiles, the chance to send messages, and then chat through text messages. I liked the additional features – the chance to video chat to Kristie – and the chance to send her gifts – these are great extras that I haven’t seen in many other places. She really appreciated this gesture and it made her smile – and it wasn’t really that much effort, thanks to the site. We've been married a long time and that’s thanks to you, guys! A top-notch online dating experience – comes highly recommended.
Pros - thousands of profiles;
- Video Chat;
- gifts delivery.
I've been a member of the site for several years. I come and go. I had several dates, but nothing significant. Each time I log in - there are more scammers and less real women. I've encountered a lot of old profiles of women who had been there for ages (with the same photos). Some of them haven't logged in for a long time and most don't reply to messages.
It seems that there are less and less new members.
Forums, poems and blogs aren't worth mentioning. You can only meet old-term members there - or one of their fake profiles (I think that most have several). They are either married, in a relationship, not looking, fake or simply old lonely people who have nowhere else to go. You won't find a date among them.
When I logged in the last time - apart from (too many!) political discussions, there was nothing much to read - only the same old group of people fighting and gossiping among themselves or writing about their days of retirement (rarely anyone is younger than 60, especially on blogs). Very boring and annoying.
The site has a potential to be better if it stays free, gets modernized and gets rid of everything that isn't a dating site.
Don't waste your time for now. Check again later to see if it got any better.
Pros Free, you don't need an e-mail address for verification, you can open multiple profiles and they won't be sanctioned, you can use other people's photos in your profile... Anything goes and is allowed.
Cons Read the above. There's almost no moderation, so it's pretty much chaotic. Nobody removes scammers' profiles and insults and fights on forums and blogs get unnoticed... People lie, use plenty of fake profiles - you have NO IDEA who is real and who is not and - if those who ARE real are - mentally stable - especially on blogs and forums. Caution is recommended.
What most of us Persian ladies don't think of is the Iranian men as gold-diggers and money opportunists! Well, it seems to be a new and dangerous trend and this lousy site is infested by them! Men in their 40's, 50's or even 60's who advertise themselves as established and secure financially and looking for a long-term relationship but in reality are looking for a sugarmommy and cash-cow. And the high-status ladies on this site who are enjoying their new- found financial and social power fall prey to these men! I met such a man on this site. He drove a Cadillac, had a nice townhouse and pretended to have a good career! It turned out it was all a sham! Soon he wanted me to pay for everything, finance his life and even buy him a house! All under the excuse that we were going to build a life together!
So beware of the money-grabbing wolf in the family-man sheep's clothing!
I can't say with absolute certainty it's a scam site, but I joined the site about a month ago. I completed all the questions & uploaded several pics. Within days I was communicating with a couple women who seemed nice & things were going well. 2 told me that they liked me & were only talking with me & wanted to meet me.
I was curious about how real things were, so I opened a second profile, but didn't include any of my pics. No other criteria but my age and city.
Within minutes, I had multiple chat requests, including both women who claimed they were only talking to me! I also received like 50 emails within the first few days from women wanting to get to know me.
Now mind you that I had no pics or any information on that account. Just my name & age, and all these women wanted to talk? It raises serious red flags to me.
While I'm sure there are legitimate real women looking to make a real world connection on the site, I would suggest great caution in dealing with them. Maybe try the same experiment that I did & see what happens.
I've made a few lasting friendships (male and female) and even life-changing ones, and have no regrets. Must be said, any free website you will get what you pay for and they ALL crawl with scammers, expect your mailbox to explode when you join. The real ones are easy to spot, and you should never give out contact details if in any doubt whatsoever (on any website).
I'd recommend to anyone trying to get back into single life, it's a crash course in being single second time round. You may not meet your Mr Right but you learn the warning signals for Mr Wrong in the comfort of your own home - very handy for real life.
For me the biggest draw is the corner coffee shop feel of the blogs, crammed with all types, world-round. Some are argumentative bores, some are alarming but funny, some are nice. Life in a nutshell, on a website. I've long since cancelled my memberships on other sites but CS is ... different.
Pros Free.
Lively blogs and forums, games, poetry, video sections.
Cons Scammers - they haunt every free website, you can report them, but there are a lot. A lot a lot.
Time-wasters and nutters are also thick on the ground in a free website world. It's never them, they're perfect, everyone else is at fault. Sad.
The only really free site. Many claim such, but use all sorts of tricks to scrape up a few shekels. Lots of features. These are a good way to vet others, apart from the usual writing back and fort. This happens rarely, but as advised, it pays to do so on the site's emails, and only go to more private communication after there seem to be possibilities. Life is short, and this approach eliminates almost all scammers, and poor/uneducated folks, if that is of interest. I've made friends, whom I stay in touch with, even if these might not be matches. Would appreciate knowing of any other such sites.
Pros As above.
Cons As above. One would think that being really free, the members of CS would rank below some paying sights on sociodemographic grounds. But I haven't noticed much of a difference. Perhaps CS might have a greater percentage of scammers, but these are easily dealt with, as above, and using other tricks.
Before I came across this site, I never tried any online dating service like this. It was my pleasure to talk to multiple Ukrainian women and I even got lucky with one charming lady. We are a married couple now and expecting our second child in a couple of months. You may doubt whether it is worth signing up for the site but the facts speak for themselves! I found my fiance on BeHappy2Day and I can say the site met all my expectations. Try it!
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
Pros
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
Cons
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
A friend recommended this site to me. I have had problems with relationships in the past because of my above average penis size. Women complained I was too big and sex was painful. The design of the site is a bit dated and could use some updating, but that is not why I joined. I was looking to date women who were comfortable with me physically. I was impressed with the classy environment of the site. The last thing I wanted was a sex hookup site. I wanted to meet someone I could actually date and that's what this site is about. I dated a few women from the site and now I am in a serious relationship with one of them. The site delivered!
Pros Not a sex hookup site. Clean and classy and the women I spoke with were real and serious about meeting someone.
women with their heads in the ether seldom deign to fly down to check out the crop of men. Most of the women's profile's appear to be permanent.
Pros Here is what I said when i joined:
seek long term monogamy with a stable partner. I am attracted to your kindness, easy temperament, generosity of heart, tolerance, kookiness, and love for animals.
The other part of my brain seeks a svelte, smart, confident, artsy-type, who loves to explore the outdoors, museums, cinema - wherever I can best show you off - actually, so many things become fun again not having to go alone.
It's important to both of us we have our own interests and pursuits, and independence, but also that we enjoy doing some of the same things, or interested in new ones.
Cons Here's what I say now: I have been on and off the dating sites (purgatorio) for far too long, but I have in that time been able to make comparisons. I had high hopes joining this site after suffering on Match and OKC. I thought I'd connect with more down to earth women. In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. MeetMindful has far and away the lowest ROI of any dating site - even POF.
I send lovely, sweet messages infrequently on MM. On an average site, about 10% of these will be returned. it doesn't matter how sweet, sincere, clever, insightful - MM women respond less than 5% of the time, if that. That's right: women deign to return less than 1 in 20 messages. Not sure if that qualifies as down to earth, it's more head in the clouds. It also means that well intended gentlemen who are treated similarly will never perpetuate this site.
I know this because I have probably seen every single women's profile on this site (bad pennies all) - and guess what? They join, but they rarely take their profile down because they are simply not meeting men. I'm beginning to think that that may have never been their intention. If they were serious, they would quit and join sites with larger constituencies of credible men and women who actually want to meet someone.
MeetMindful is to me, a wasteland of esoteric, stuck up, uncongenial women who in all likelihood, are ultimately undateable, despite the airs of more Goddesses than all of Ancient Greece - methinks not. MeetMindful is no more than a charade of a dating site, with the lowest prospects of any other site in existence.
It's similar to the CoExist bumper stickers; those people usually turn out to be the most intolerant and wacky people you will ever meet. It's an ironic shame that a dating site that preaches loving kindness happens to be the most alienating and lonely place of all - a paramount of hypocrisy. That's why I quit. As of next Friday.
Oh, and you godesses - good luck with that.
I went on a few dates from IP but nothing clicked. I had more or less given up on the site until some nice Persian lady emailed me. We chatted a bit and decided to meet up at Irvine Spectrum for coffee and wow, we really hit it off. We're now engaged (8 months after meeting) and I couldn't be happier. We are both grateful for Iranian Personals!!!
Pros I met my match.
Cons It's fate, a numbers game. You never know when you will meet the ONE.
Customer Non Existant!
Review about Biker PlanetJoined the site a few times over the last decade & always had issues...bad communication on the site, bad communication with customer service, overbilled many times!
The last time I was overbilled & went to site & chatted with CS. Ended up telling them that "stealing" from me was not condoned & this would be my last term. I was only on day 4 of a paid month. At the end of chat they cancelled my subscription & when I tried to email asking them why, they locked me out of there site!
THEFT IS THEFT!
This is a scammers site
Review about MetroDate.comThis website is corrupt and full if female scammers who don't want to work.
You say hello, they say hello. The next thing they do is tell you they love you and hold their hands out for money or gift cards. This covers about 80%+.of the women there.
Most of the women are not who they say they are. They all have stuffed iphones that can't be used for phone calls. I've caught two out on the phone as old ladies, not young women.
This makes the website unsafe to honest people and is a bit if a joke.
Such websites shouldn't exist and needs to be shut down. I'm not impressed
This site really stinks.
Review about Iranian PersonalsI could write about the lack of quality on this site but that would be for another time. My main comment today is about the system. It stinks. They had this antiquated system for years. In an attempt to copy Match and other hipper dating sites, they so-called upgraded the system recently. It's a hodgepodge of equally dysfunctional features. Nothing works on this site not that it ever did. Don't waste your money buying membership. It'd be better to flush it down the toilet.
Pros
Nothing really
Cons
Everything.
sencere person
Review about FindMyMatchesunto thee oh lord,i give all that i have in my life
Worst Site Ever
Review about Biker PlanetToo much negative advertisement that I didn't even subscribe too, and they have lots of Negative Reviews. DON'T JOIN EVEN IT"S FREE. NOT WORTH IT! YOU MAY FIND A SERIAL KILLER IN THAT WEB SITE!!!!!
Pros
NO GO PROS!!!!
Cons
NOTHING GOOD TO SHOW TO MUCH NEGATIVE ADVERTISEMENT!!!
Scammmers
Review about 2 Red BeansPaid for a month and could not get pass; the about you page, tried to contact customer service but it only brought me back to the same page again. Avoid this site, Chinese people a very intelligent people but these people are using their intelligence the wrong way. STAY AWAY
Pros
None
Cons
All cons
AdultXXXDate - 5 Stars
Review about Adult XXX DateAdultXXXDate is by far the best hookup site I have ever used. There are so many other scam sites out there using fake profiles, it is nice to finally find one that has real, genuine members looking for sex.
I have had a number of hookups using AdultXXXDate. Some were just one night stands, some are now regular hookup and some are now even close friends.
This site is well worth the $20 membership fee. I cannot recommend it enough.
Pros
Real, genuine members
90 million members
Great tools
Member videos
Live webcam streaming chat
Help
Review about Gays Go DatingHelp for my password
Fake member suspicions...
Review about JapanCupid.comI've used the site off and on for years, only with a paid subscription for very shirt periods of time... And during those times, I noticed a few patterns that still seem a bit fishy to me: I would recieve quite a lot of Interest and a fair amount of messages from women, usuall more Chinese than Japanese, but the conversations always seemed to evaporate rather quickly, and on multiple occasions they would stop responding until just shortly after my paid subscription expired, and then suddenly I would recieve a new message and this have to renew my subscription to read it. The longest interaction I had was with a Filipino woman living in Australia, she seemed pretty authentic and very highly intelligent, but always gave rather short replies... On one or two occasions her profile disappeared completely, and she later explained that some guy was getting really creepy and aggressive towards her. She seemed to want me to respond to her, but she set her profile to not allow communications from male members, effectively keeping me blocked until just after my paid subscription ran out, THEN she changed her settings and sent another message, this time wanting to Skype. I didn't bother, since she claimed she already had a biyfriend and was here to meet friends. Seriously, you're going to pay money for conversations with strangers that lead nowhere? Not me. Most of the other members I've contacted myself didn't speak enough English to have a meaningful conversation, so I think I'm pretty much done with it. That's my experience.
Pros
Japanese women... That's about the only good thing I can think of, but I actually have no assurance that they're even real.
Cons
Too expensive, and some interactions seem like bait set out just to keep you pouring money into a subscription.
Fraude, violation of privacy
Review about Biker PlanetHeel simpel; buiten het feit dat er meer fake profielen opstaan dan bikers kun je zelf je account niet verwijderen en wordt je mail inbox overspoeld met berichten van hen, en hun partnersites zonder dat je daar uberhaubt toestemming voor hebt gegeven. Na 5 berichten aan de customer"service" weigeren ze nog steeds mijj gegevens van de site te verwijderen. Aangifte is gedaan
Its simple, besides the fact there are more fake profiles then actual people you will not be able to remove your account. Also your inbox gets overloaded with their spam emails and emails from their partnersites without permission given to use my email address for other purposes then aggreed.
After 5 messages to their customer"service" they still refuse to take my account off the website. Since they refuse to do this they violate my privacy and act illegally. I have reported them to the authorities and file charges.
STAY FAR FAR FAR FAAAAAAAR VERY VERY VERY FAAAAAAAAAAAAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM THIS WEBSITE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE SCAMMED !!!!
Pros
None
Cons
ALL!!!!
My Thoughts
Review about Adventist Singles ConnectionBeing a Seventh-day Adventist is extremely hard. However, I overcome a lot of severe hardships in my life and yes, I did become strong. I feel despite of my challenges, I’m ready for marriage. I’m blessed with the things that is going on with my life, but I would like to share with my better half. I’m fully aware that marriage is not easy. There will be trials, tribulations, life is not filled with sunshine and flowers, we are living in a real and nasty world. Cinderella life was not magical because she was abused by her own family, yet she became a strong woman for her prince. I’m not afraid to admit my mistakes and learn from them. If I have an issue, I immediately sort things out by getting help from my parents, my friends, and including my pastor. I’m fortunate to have awesome parents who instilled me those values that I need to seek out help immediately so I can solve it in a timely manner. I support President Donald J Trump 100.1%. But my parents taught me to respect other people opinions and political views. Unfortunately, this kind of disrespect which is coming from the left who are against Trump supporters has infiltrated our church and poisoned of the minds of our people. As for me, I’m willing to respect her views if her views differ from mine. Those kinds of women who doesn’t respect you or forces you to conform to her ways, they are not quality people. You have the right to be yourself, 100%! However, the thing that upsets me the most about this church (not just website) is that why am I meeting a lot of people with severe emotional issues. They are clinging to their past abusive relationships, they do not seek treatment, but still join these kinds of websites to find a “spouse” This church preaches that we are not supposed to engage in interfaith marriages or relationships. If this denomination strongly emphasizes on godly successful marriages, we should invest more on mental health in addition to our beliefs on diet, exercise, sleep, etc. I’ve been a Seventh-day Adventist since 1984, I’m very well versed that there are a lot of failed marriages.
Here is my advice to men (women can apply this) If you a strong, confident, grounded, successful who wants to love and honor her, don’t pursue her if she is not willing to meet you all the way. IF she doesn’t come up to your level by improving herself. If she leaves you because of her doubts and insecurities, don’t abandon her but do not engage in a relationship. Pray for her but encourage her to seek help and seek an activity that will keep her mind stimulated. Even if she tells you that you are too good for her, give that same advice but red flags should be waving if she does not want to have the courage. Don’t be like Forrest Gump who pursued someone who did not love him in return. There is another movie that is one of my favorites. It’s a film back from 2001, it’s called Crazy/Beautiful. Carlos, was a straight A student, bright kid, who wants to join the military after high school. He gets up early in the morning to take the bus from his east LA home to a prominent high school on the other side of town. He meets this girl who attends his school, Nicole has a lot of behavior issues due to her mother’s suicide. She has been destructive to herself but when she meets him, she turns around 90 degrees and their relationship did succeed despite of an issue that they had due to her father’s bad advice. At the beginning of their relationship, she got him in trouble, but he firmly told her that he doesn’t do those kinds of things but was attentive to her. She also had a hobby as well. Men, be that prize, not her. #BEAKING
Nicole is a real strong woman because she wanted to be free from bondage of suffering., I’m pretty sure God approves that kind of relationships based on a solid foundation.
Those are my thoughts to those who will exercise caution.
My appeal to all the women at this website, men pay close attention. To those who has been victims of past abusive relationships who are bringing baggage into the relationship that you are in. You have 2 choices. Open up to him with BIG open arms, let go of the past, get help, if you are a religious fanatic, trust God or just leave this site and don’t waste our time. Us MEN want to invest in you and seek a godly marriage. However, like I said, the Seventh-day Adventist Church needs reform in helping to those in need because we want to have a successful marriage. I’m not asking for a handout. I admit that I do have problems and want to improve. A lot people do feel the same. We are not your doormats if you decide to continue to seek the same kind of relationships that you have endured. Don’t come back to us and expect a second chance. Most of us we are living across the country, across the North American Division, or across the world. We have jobs, responsibilities, our families, our communities but we are willing to sacrifice our time, our resources so we can be with each other. Some of us guys are willing to leave everything behind so we can be with you. Love is about sacrifice, keep that in mind.
Men even don’t fall if she offers you one of her friends because in reality, she is pushing you away and putting you under a doormat. Remember, you have chosen her, not her friends. With that being said, respect our time and we will treat you like a queen. Otherwise, we would need to find other places where we can seek a wife.
Men, my last advice is that she does not want you because of her insecurities, this will be a time for you to be productive, travel, be involved in the church, keep working in your career, be with your friends, and just continue being you. It’s her loss, not yours.
Cons
The Seventh-day Adventist Church needs a lot of reform on mental health and investing more on marriages. Sermons on unequally yoked marriages are a waste of time since its all talk, no action.
Waste of time and energy!
Review about Iranian PersonalsThe men on this site are not datable! If not down right lists, cheaters or charlatans, they are mostly emotionally too damaged to be of use to any woman. These weirdos can do serious damage!
Pros
Absolutely Nada! Steer clear of this sewage.
Cons
This site is populated by losers!
Is it one big con?
Review about D8U.comWhen I was a free member I received messages from local women who said they wanted contact with me.
I paid a subscription and not one of these front page women replied. Now what a surprise? A ny comments I made on the public wall where rejected. When I did a search for local people not one was more local than 1,000 miles away.
Pros
None
Cons
See above
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Review about SecretBenefitsI've tried a few sugar dating sites. This one has by far has delivered the best results with actual successful dates. They also have the best design, support, and don't charge a monthly fee. Don't just take my word for it. It looks like Secret Benefits has excellent reviews across the web. I fully recommend checking this dating site out.
Pros
Excellent support
Great design
No monthly membership
Lots of women
No ads or spam
Cons
No mobile app yet
Thank you for my wife!
Review about BeHappy2DaySo, Behappy2day.com has everything that you would hope for from an online dating site. You have the profiles, the chance to send messages, and then chat through text messages. I liked the additional features – the chance to video chat to Kristie – and the chance to send her gifts – these are great extras that I haven’t seen in many other places. She really appreciated this gesture and it made her smile – and it wasn’t really that much effort, thanks to the site. We've been married a long time and that’s thanks to you, guys! A top-notch online dating experience – comes highly recommended.
Pros
- thousands of profiles;
- Video Chat;
- gifts delivery.
Getting worse and worse
Review about ConnectingSinglesI've been a member of the site for several years. I come and go. I had several dates, but nothing significant. Each time I log in - there are more scammers and less real women. I've encountered a lot of old profiles of women who had been there for ages (with the same photos). Some of them haven't logged in for a long time and most don't reply to messages.
It seems that there are less and less new members.
Forums, poems and blogs aren't worth mentioning. You can only meet old-term members there - or one of their fake profiles (I think that most have several). They are either married, in a relationship, not looking, fake or simply old lonely people who have nowhere else to go. You won't find a date among them.
When I logged in the last time - apart from (too many!) political discussions, there was nothing much to read - only the same old group of people fighting and gossiping among themselves or writing about their days of retirement (rarely anyone is younger than 60, especially on blogs). Very boring and annoying.
The site has a potential to be better if it stays free, gets modernized and gets rid of everything that isn't a dating site.
Don't waste your time for now. Check again later to see if it got any better.
Pros
Free, you don't need an e-mail address for verification, you can open multiple profiles and they won't be sanctioned, you can use other people's photos in your profile... Anything goes and is allowed.
Cons
Read the above. There's almost no moderation, so it's pretty much chaotic. Nobody removes scammers' profiles and insults and fights on forums and blogs get unnoticed... People lie, use plenty of fake profiles - you have NO IDEA who is real and who is not and - if those who ARE real are - mentally stable - especially on blogs and forums. Caution is recommended.
Beware of the male gold-diggers on this site!
Review about Iranian PersonalsWhat most of us Persian ladies don't think of is the Iranian men as gold-diggers and money opportunists! Well, it seems to be a new and dangerous trend and this lousy site is infested by them! Men in their 40's, 50's or even 60's who advertise themselves as established and secure financially and looking for a long-term relationship but in reality are looking for a sugarmommy and cash-cow. And the high-status ladies on this site who are enjoying their new- found financial and social power fall prey to these men! I met such a man on this site. He drove a Cadillac, had a nice townhouse and pretended to have a good career! It turned out it was all a sham! Soon he wanted me to pay for everything, finance his life and even buy him a house! All under the excuse that we were going to build a life together!
So beware of the money-grabbing wolf in the family-man sheep's clothing!
Pros
Nada
Cons
This site is the epitome of con!
Possible scam site
Review about BeHappy2DayI can't say with absolute certainty it's a scam site, but I joined the site about a month ago. I completed all the questions & uploaded several pics. Within days I was communicating with a couple women who seemed nice & things were going well. 2 told me that they liked me & were only talking with me & wanted to meet me.
I was curious about how real things were, so I opened a second profile, but didn't include any of my pics. No other criteria but my age and city.
Within minutes, I had multiple chat requests, including both women who claimed they were only talking to me! I also received like 50 emails within the first few days from women wanting to get to know me.
Now mind you that I had no pics or any information on that account. Just my name & age, and all these women wanted to talk? It raises serious red flags to me.
While I'm sure there are legitimate real women looking to make a real world connection on the site, I would suggest great caution in dealing with them. Maybe try the same experiment that I did & see what happens.
Free websites aren't perfect, this has extra perks
Review about ConnectingSinglesI've made a few lasting friendships (male and female) and even life-changing ones, and have no regrets. Must be said, any free website you will get what you pay for and they ALL crawl with scammers, expect your mailbox to explode when you join. The real ones are easy to spot, and you should never give out contact details if in any doubt whatsoever (on any website).
I'd recommend to anyone trying to get back into single life, it's a crash course in being single second time round. You may not meet your Mr Right but you learn the warning signals for Mr Wrong in the comfort of your own home - very handy for real life.
For me the biggest draw is the corner coffee shop feel of the blogs, crammed with all types, world-round. Some are argumentative bores, some are alarming but funny, some are nice. Life in a nutshell, on a website. I've long since cancelled my memberships on other sites but CS is ... different.
Pros
Free.
Lively blogs and forums, games, poetry, video sections.
Cons
Scammers - they haunt every free website, you can report them, but there are a lot. A lot a lot.
Time-wasters and nutters are also thick on the ground in a free website world. It's never them, they're perfect, everyone else is at fault. Sad.
CS rocks, with few exceptions.
Review about ConnectingSinglesThe only really free site. Many claim such, but use all sorts of tricks to scrape up a few shekels. Lots of features. These are a good way to vet others, apart from the usual writing back and fort. This happens rarely, but as advised, it pays to do so on the site's emails, and only go to more private communication after there seem to be possibilities. Life is short, and this approach eliminates almost all scammers, and poor/uneducated folks, if that is of interest. I've made friends, whom I stay in touch with, even if these might not be matches. Would appreciate knowing of any other such sites.
Pros
As above.
Cons
As above. One would think that being really free, the members of CS would rank below some paying sights on sociodemographic grounds. But I haven't noticed much of a difference. Perhaps CS might have a greater percentage of scammers, but these are easily dealt with, as above, and using other tricks.
It's worth a try
Review about BeHappy2DayBefore I came across this site, I never tried any online dating service like this. It was my pleasure to talk to multiple Ukrainian women and I even got lucky with one charming lady. We are a married couple now and expecting our second child in a couple of months. You may doubt whether it is worth signing up for the site but the facts speak for themselves! I found my fiance on BeHappy2Day and I can say the site met all my expectations. Try it!
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music
Review about Seeking MilfI'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
Pros
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
Cons
I'm easy going and I like to laugh a lot. I prefer to believe the best about people and see the good in all things. I love children and being outdoors enjoying nature. I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies.I am honest and good hearted lady,with so much love that fill my heart
Great site
Review about 7OrBetterA friend recommended this site to me. I have had problems with relationships in the past because of my above average penis size. Women complained I was too big and sex was painful. The design of the site is a bit dated and could use some updating, but that is not why I joined. I was looking to date women who were comfortable with me physically. I was impressed with the classy environment of the site. The last thing I wanted was a sex hookup site. I wanted to meet someone I could actually date and that's what this site is about. I dated a few women from the site and now I am in a serious relationship with one of them. The site delivered!
Pros
Not a sex hookup site. Clean and classy and the women I spoke with were real and serious about meeting someone.
Cons
design is a bit dated.
waste of money. Tiny roster of talent
Review about MeetMindful.comwomen with their heads in the ether seldom deign to fly down to check out the crop of men. Most of the women's profile's appear to be permanent.
Pros
Here is what I said when i joined:
seek long term monogamy with a stable partner. I am attracted to your kindness, easy temperament, generosity of heart, tolerance, kookiness, and love for animals.
The other part of my brain seeks a svelte, smart, confident, artsy-type, who loves to explore the outdoors, museums, cinema - wherever I can best show you off - actually, so many things become fun again not having to go alone.
It's important to both of us we have our own interests and pursuits, and independence, but also that we enjoy doing some of the same things, or interested in new ones.
Cons
Here's what I say now: I have been on and off the dating sites (purgatorio) for far too long, but I have in that time been able to make comparisons. I had high hopes joining this site after suffering on Match and OKC. I thought I'd connect with more down to earth women. In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. MeetMindful has far and away the lowest ROI of any dating site - even POF.
I send lovely, sweet messages infrequently on MM. On an average site, about 10% of these will be returned. it doesn't matter how sweet, sincere, clever, insightful - MM women respond less than 5% of the time, if that. That's right: women deign to return less than 1 in 20 messages. Not sure if that qualifies as down to earth, it's more head in the clouds. It also means that well intended gentlemen who are treated similarly will never perpetuate this site.
I know this because I have probably seen every single women's profile on this site (bad pennies all) - and guess what? They join, but they rarely take their profile down because they are simply not meeting men. I'm beginning to think that that may have never been their intention. If they were serious, they would quit and join sites with larger constituencies of credible men and women who actually want to meet someone.
MeetMindful is to me, a wasteland of esoteric, stuck up, uncongenial women who in all likelihood, are ultimately undateable, despite the airs of more Goddesses than all of Ancient Greece - methinks not. MeetMindful is no more than a charade of a dating site, with the lowest prospects of any other site in existence.
It's similar to the CoExist bumper stickers; those people usually turn out to be the most intolerant and wacky people you will ever meet. It's an ironic shame that a dating site that preaches loving kindness happens to be the most alienating and lonely place of all - a paramount of hypocrisy. That's why I quit. As of next Friday.
Oh, and you godesses - good luck with that.
I Met My Wife On Iranian Personals
Review about Iranian PersonalsI went on a few dates from IP but nothing clicked. I had more or less given up on the site until some nice Persian lady emailed me. We chatted a bit and decided to meet up at Irvine Spectrum for coffee and wow, we really hit it off. We're now engaged (8 months after meeting) and I couldn't be happier. We are both grateful for Iranian Personals!!!
Pros
I met my match.
Cons
It's fate, a numbers game. You never know when you will meet the ONE.