Reviews about Dating Sites


    Worst Site...Stay Away

    Review about OurTime

    I joined Our Time for one month without researching anything about it, and I regretted it the following day. I joined at 9pm and I had porn emails in my email inbox by 9am the following morning! Somehow, my personal email address had been either sold to, or stolen by, porn spammers. I know this for a fact because I have had the same email address for nearly ten years and have never had any spam of any kind sent to it ever until the day after I joined Our Time. It's been two weeks since I joined now, and I get porn spam every other day, which horrifies me because I have a young son at home, and I would not want him to see one those emails by accident on my screen.

    In addition to the spam, which by the way I reported to Our Time and received no response from them whatsoever, the site in general is loaded with a lot of dirty or ugly looking men of low-class. They send "flirt" messages constantly without writing any personal notes, and when they do write, it's meaningless one-liners. With that said, there are also a small number of average-type men who seem to seriously looking for relationships or dates, but the majority are not worth looking at on the site, so it's mostly a waste of time and energy.

    Save your money and your privacy! Join eHarmony instead, but if you do join Our Time, at least don't use your real email address unless you want to receive nasty porn spam.

    Pros
    none

    Cons
    too many to mention

    people need to stop blaming the website for their own bad luck

    Review about OKCupid

    It's free, the profiles are real, and the service is well run. Every paid site I have tried has been a scam - other members can't reply unless they pay, profiles are fake, they don't show you how long it's been since the person has been active (because they want to create the illusion of more active members than they have)

    This site let's you search by how long it's been since someone was on or how new they are to the site. And you can "hide" profiles from your search so you don't have to keep wading through profiles you're not interested in.

    As for all the negative reviews here, these people are whiners. If women aren't writing you back IT'S BECAUSE THEY AREN'T INTERESTED. If you meet someone who turns out to be a psycho IT'S NOT THE SITE'S FAULT, it's your fault for not being picky. And if the selection of people isn't as good as you think it should be, that's not the site's fault either!

    This site does what it's supposed to do - features real profiles of currently active members you can easily contact. The first time you're on it can be a little time-consuming going through all the profiles of active members. But after that all you have to do is search for new members to stay updated.

    Pros
    - profiles are real
    - totally free
    - shows you how long it's been since they were online so you're only contacting active members
    - large number of members
    - Allows you to hide profiles you're not interested in so you don't have to wade though them every time.

    Cons
    None come to mind.

    Does what it promises - a lot of these reviewers are whiners

    Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)

    It's free, the profiles are real, and the service is well run. One importnat feature is that they show you how long it has been since the person was online (most paid services don't do this because they want to give you the illusion of thousands of members when actually most of them haven't been online in months)

    The only change I'd like to see is being able to "hide" a profile you're not interested in so you don't have to wade through the same ones every time you search.

    As for all the negative reviews here, these people are whiners. If women aren't writing you back IT'S BECAUSE THEY AREN'T INTERESTED. If you meet someone who turns out to be a psycho IT'S NOT THE SITE'S FAULT, it's your fault for not being picky.

    This site does what it's supposed to do - features real profiles of currently active members you can easily contact. The first time you're on it can be a little time-consuming going through all the profiles of active members. But after that all you have to do is search for new members to stay updated.

    Pros
    - profiles are real
    - totally free
    - shows you how long it's been since they were online so you're only contacting active members
    - large number of members

    Cons
    - only con I can think of is that it would be nice if you could hide profiles from your searches so you don't have to wade through the same profile every search.

    Don't GO Here EVER!!!

    Review about SpeedDate.com

    This site is a TOTAL SCAM. All that they want is your money. The first time you sign on they will let you talk to a guy, probably digitally created by their site, after that.. all they want is money. There are lot's of reputable site on the internet.. this is NOT one of them. They are now clogging up my I phone with guys I can never meet or talk to. Beware of this site- they are trying to suck in people for money to put in their pockets, and they don't deliver sh*t. Get away from this site.. run.

    Pros
    Yeah - if you has scruples and dignity you would do this a whole lot better. This site needs an internet guru that understands that a ripoff website is not attractive in any sense of the word.

    Cons
    The idea of what you are trying to do is fine. You are doing it so wrong. Your interest is money in your pocket. You are not attempting to help anyone in any way. It's obvious that your site is an internet ripoff- go the sqaure one and try again, with some intelligent management. Then you may have a chance.

    sucks!

    Review about OurTime

    What a bunch of losers! Then they ask ya for money(gals) after bragging how "INDEPENDENT" they are. Then get pissed when ya turn them down!

    Pros
    nothing

    Cons
    Sick society and they all landed here!

    Total rip off

    Review about Marital Affair.co.uk

    What a scam and what a mug I felt. I put up my profile and sent some messages before joining. Almost immediately (!!) I had replies. So I paid 40 quid and joined. As it turned out, the replies were automated ones.The ladies I had messaged had 'filters' which sent back these replies saying my message had been filtered out. There are also lots of scam replies by young women saying something like ' send your bank account details ...' . Get the picture? Anyway, save your money and look elsewhere. Wish Ihad read a review like this before joining.

    Pros
    None!

    Cons
    Rip off. Filtered replies. No genuine women on it. Absolutely no chance of meeting a 'bored housewife' !!

    Socialsex just xpress with a different web address and a total scam

    Review about SocialSex

    So looged into Socialsex and it was just eeriely familar thats becuase its the same site as the scam site xpress.com Trust me log into both in 2 browser windows you will see the same profiles.

    So with nothing in my profile and no pic i have tons of hot girls emailing me and asking me to meet. Stay away total scam.

    Pros
    None

    Cons
    Scam
    use to be sexsearch.com

    DON'T DO IT PEOPLE -- THIS SITE SUCKS BIG TIME

    Review about OurTime

    OMG, what was I thinking? Okay, I was thinking that maybe I might meet some decent men in my age group, but there are way too many losers and scam artists on this site.

    I got several outright requests for sex ... no introduction, no conversation ... just requests for sex. If a guy just wants sex, why join a dating site? Can't he find that on his own at the corner bar?

    The rest were downright losers ... living in their beat-up old car, looking/smelling like they haven't taken a shower in weeks, filthy clothes, no teeth, no job, asking for money, sob stories etc. etc.

    Then there are the grossly overweight guys looking for drop dead gorgeous women with beautiful bodies.

    I think I'll stick to friends. I wouldn't continue on this site if they gave it to me for free for the rest of my life. Fortunately, I only signed up for a month and disabled the automatic renewal feature as soon as I signed up.

    Pros
    NOTHING

    Cons
    EVERYTHING

    its a total rip off

    Review about XPress.com

    its a total rip off,this site and its affiliates need to be shut down if they can't provide real results.I coulda got more on a pornsite than this site.I'm definitely getting my money back.

    Pros
    Zero

    Cons
    Everything its a waste of good money

    Ugh

    Review about Skout

    Well to start off, this app is fun to use when your bored and have nothing else to do with your life. Otherwise, this app is junk. I'm really young, I'm 19 years old and not only guys who are in their late twenties tries to talk to me. Most guys who actually approach me are about 25-40+. So many guys that talk to me are at least a good hundred miles away and always ask me for nude pictures. Guys literally will send pictures of their junk to me. Some guys act like little b*tches because I don't want to meet with them or trade with them. I don't want to get raped. Way too many foreign perverted guys, so far either from England, Africa, or India. Too many guys are perverts :/ I do not like this site. Like nearly every guy seems to think that every girl on this site is a slut or a cam girl.

    Pros
    At least you can block those creeps

    Cons
    Too many perverted idiots, and foreign perverts.

    do not waste your time in muslima.com

    Review about Muslima.com

    I am a free member on this site for years. i have wasted my time i did not got anything from this site.

    Pros
    profile of very beautical girls

    Cons
    in reality wether they exist or not nobody knows

    Rating of MatureXMatch

    Review about MatureXMatch

    Site offers women from the west coast or somewhere else other than the local area you live in. when you try to communicate, you get a run around, so you know the pictures they have listed are not for ladies in the local areas of Mississippi, because there are that many women in some of the area they try to say the women are located in. It is just a scam!! would not recommend to anyone, and they are tremendously over priced.

    Harrasment tech

    Review about OurTime

    I signed up for this site,then changed my mind. Now,they call me ten times a day,even after they have been told to stop calling. One stated tonight,"so if you do not want me to keep calling, just block my number" Now is that harrasement? You decide.

    Good place to meet other people

    Review about AdultSpace

    Been here since 2009. There are alot of profiles where you dont know if the person is real or not, but they have this Verify feature that verifies members and it shows the other members that they have been verified. I like to meet other females and couples and this has helped me find real people. Just takes a lot of weeding to go through. I've met a few people and had fun. Im still friends with this one girl I hooked up with and hang out with her all the time. If you dont hook up you can always make a lasting friendship. lol I like to look at all the drama going on in the forums and chat room. I also like to waste time looking at all the videos the members upload of themselves having sex and masturbating. I waste alot of time here but its fun.

    Pros
    They verify real members (feature is optional too)
    You can make your profile private and photos private
    There's ALOT of members
    User friendly
    It's free to message people
    There's alot of features like forums, games, etc that are free to use
    The chat room is fun
    Site is assessable from your phone
    You can view alot of videos uploaded by members

    Cons
    You have to weed through men pretending to be women
    The men can be really desperate which is a real turn off
    The average IQ of most of the members is pretty low lol
    They dont have a mobile app

    definitely a scam

    Review about XPress.com

    after I read these reviews and finally figured it out, I told one of the women I was communicating with that I had not been completely honest with her, that I was really employed with the California Attorney General's Office. Haven't heard a peep from anyone on the site since.

    Pros
    foxy women. like going to a strip club. you can spend lots of money but no touching

    Cons
    a complete scam

    Met my girl on our times

    Review about OurTime

    I was on our times for a couple weeks having fun looking at the different profiles. I would get looks but not much communication.Then I met Dee
    we went back and forth on the site then met for dinner. I feel so lucky to have
    met her. We have a lot of fun together.Its been 6 months and i am so happy I joined it was worth it to me.I had never tried internet dating before so I was skeptical but not now. Why not meet people your age that want to have fun again?

    Pros
    easy to use fun to keep up with new members

    Cons
    none really. only i couldnt figure why women would keep looking at my profile but never leave a message. had nothing to do with the site

    Wasted $50

    Review about OurTime

    I joined yesterday and deleted my account today. I had a lot of the same experiences as many of the reviewers had here. It's a waste of time and $$. Don't join. I wish I read some these reviews before throwing my money away. I am going call my CC company perhaps there is something they can do.
    You live you learn.

    Pros
    I left after one day

    Cons
    I had to be pay to be there for one day

    Superficial Men Only

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    That's right...from the other side of the coin I can say that I could only find superficial men in this website, who truly believes that the woman are there to be a kind of luxury's hooker.

    This is a beneficial relationship website, for real people who wants to have someone to share their lives with, but without all the drama and helping each other, not for old guys in shape, and many times not in shape, auction a playmate coming directly from your favorite porn channel.

    Come on man, at the age of 45-60 yrs old, thats really what you want? To have someone with a perfect body, but nothing inside, and that it will literally let you die by yourself?

    The truth is that there are hookers everywhere, not only at seekingarrangement.com, but there are also girls, like me, sick of having abusive relationships with regular guys and thinks that someone with money will treat us better, all bullshit, fucked ilusion!!

    Pros
    - A chance to meet someone, who will like you and help you to get a path in life [ Bullshit].

    Cons
    - Only old-old guys looking for commitment.
    - Young guys and couples looking for orgy.
    - Men thinking that is a website of luxury's hookers.
    - Superficial men looking for playboy girls.
    - Lots of hookers selling a night.
    - Lots of Porn-Stars looking for a bargain.

    Stella Knows Best

    Review about StellaSingles

    I'll be brief. Stella Singles isn't a "dating" website. It's a "community" website, that happens to be focused around the topic of dating, relationships, and love. What I personally love about the site so much is that it ISN'T all about dating and trying to find your "one true love." That is all well and good, and very important I should say, but there is soooo much more that you can get from Stella Singles. Seriously, I love that site. I highly recommend that you check it out today. Even if you're in a strong relationship right now, the site is still for you. You can provide your expertise to others - that's where the "community" concept comes into play. People helping people. It is really a great site.

    Pros
    Multi-dimensional, insightful, creative, funny - at times, great community feel.

    Cons
    They can never churn out articles fast enough :). I'm always interested to see what they'll write on next.

    scam

    Review about XMeeting

    i agree i cant even get on site i was just looking for friends want let me sign in

    Pros
    crap[

    Cons
    scrap scam

    Passion/AFF

    Review about Passion.com

    I am an older female have had great success with meeting people. The quality of people could be better but it is an adult dating sites so one needs to weed through the chaff.

    If you're just looking for something casual/sexual like FwB's or FB's or are into swinging this is the group for it. It is very active.

    Please use common sense when meeting with people. Stay safe!

    Pros
    very active

    Cons
    the free area is not all that.

    Not.At.All.

    Review about 7OrBetter

    I've been 7orbetter for about six months so far pleased to be a member. I interact regular with other members. The site works hard to keep it classy so you never see any nudes on profiles. What the members do they have no control over. After the title of the site is what it is. If you don't want nudes or explicit photos it is on you to tell those you interact with. It is absurd to hold a site responsible for what its members do privately.

    I highly recommend 7orbetter.com

    Pros
    classy, easy to navigate, interactive

    Cons
    chat could work a bit better

    Works For Me

    Review about XXX Match

    XXXMatch works fine for me. I can find a different guy everynight for a date if I wanted to. But then I am a woman so I knew before I joined there wouldn't be any shortage of men wanting to date me.

    What you guys who call the site a scam have to understand is there will always be a certain amount of fake profiles on every dating site but tons more on adult sites. There are also plenty of genuine women on this site looking for good looking guys to meet up with, you just have to find us.

    If your a woman who wants to join xxxmatch you will find plenty of guys, if your a guy you will have to do a bit more searching on the site before you find a date, but we are here waiting for you. I've joined several adult dating sites over the past couple of years and I've found this one to be the best.

    Pros
    New Date Everyday

    Cons
    Lots of fake profiles, but once you recognize them you can ignore them.

    7orbetter.com

    Review about 7OrBetter

    I was reading the review of 7orbetter.com by CJ and from what she was describing I remember her from the site as Charlie something. Her description of the site couldn't be more from the truth. The moderators and people that run the site do an excellent job to keep nigerian and other scammers off the site. They regularly post in the public forums when they removed someone and as a warning to the rest of us to not trust that person and fall for a scam. I remember she was on some kind of witch hunt regularly posting the names of people she felt were fake. A few of these guys I actually met in person and know for a fact were real! The site politely asked her to stop posting false accusations and I'm guessing removed her eventually for not listening. That is probably why she posted a bad review. I have nothing but high praise for this site that presented an opportunity for me to find a specific type of guy, but in an environment that was family friendly without any nudity. I also found the other members of this site to be extremely friendly and bright whom Charlie somehoe manged to pick a fight with most of them by condemning them as fake or belittling them as not being worth her time. To the creators of 7orbetter.com, thank you for providing a unique site and looking out for us!

    Pros
    Moderators take great care to keep online scammers off the site and the people were very friendly. The public forum was especially fun and friendly.

    It is what it is...

    Review about FilipinoCupid

    I have been on there for about a month. I have not upgraded as of yet because I dp not totally trust the site. Why? Well, 98% of the women on there do not pay for an upgrade so they can read and receive IMs. There is something wrong with that I thing, or at the very least suspect. I am always leary of any dating sites. I have met and almost married a woman from one. You have to be careful no matter if it is a site from overseas or not. I make sure I set up a seperate id account for dating sites from my regular e-mail accounts for security purposes. As tje guy said before; if she is too good to be true, she probably is just that. Do not let your ego get you in trouble. Remember there are men over there trying to get at them as well.

    Pros
    Good way to spend some down time. Some of the pictures on there are pretty hot! Most that contact me are my age.

    Cons
    Most of the scammers are amatuers. You can tell most of them because they do not spell very well and the profile says 'bachelor degree'. Personal pics do not match profile pics. 99% of the female profiles are standard and cannot correspond unless YOU upgrade, but they claim that they are 'interested' in you, funny.