I met a relationship that ended up lasting a year on this site. He was true to the demographic that the site advertises (a devout Christian) which led to us considering marriage fairly quickly. Unfortunately it ended, which has nothing to do with the site. I live in a big city and had noticed there were very few guys in my area, instead they were all over the world, not at all helpful. I guess I just got lucky, but nonetheless I'd recommend the site to a fried.
Pros I believe they are true Christians
Cons They could build up their numbers. In a major city there should be more selection.
I have written before about this site Charmingdate.com, and have left it as I joined it, but Wiser.
If you think that you have found (The One) whatever that entails, Please watch the TV programme ( A Million to One).
Because the chances of EVER finding the Partner of your dreams on this site are just That. DREAMS.
To check out the so called faithfulness, Loyalty Banter from these so called LOVING Females, whom seem so fixated on you, that they were drawn to their attention as soon as they Logged on to their site, I Posted 5 separate ID's, ranging in ages from 39 - 49, All with pictures of myself through different stages of my life, and with different names, and Amazingly, ALL EMF's received or Qpid notes I received.
Were ALL from the same Female Profiles on each, Save your money, Book a holiday, and if The ONE is out there in some part of the World, atleast you will be able to see her, talk to her and date her, in The REAL World and who knows, You might Even get a tan and find Someone when you least expect it, Other than that, PLEASE Spread the word that Charmingdate.com is an Absolute Waste of your Hard earned Cash and A TOTAL SCAM !!!!!!!!!!!
Pros Nice pics to make a Calendar for the Workshop.
Cons The Creators.
The Technology is a joke, try the Tor Project for fun, if you want to play their game, but not get ripped off.
Joined three years ago. Took a minute to realize the CharmingDate.com was nothing but a scam.
While recently cleaning out my e-mail box, I came across some old CharmingDate.com e-mails. Just out of curiosity I logged in to my old account for laugh. And there they were, the same beautiful girls from three years, using the exact same pictures, where begging me to chat with them. In fact, all those beautiful girls that I put on my hot-love-interest-ect list three years ago, were still looking for the their the-one-mr-right-soulmate.
Hard to believe all those beautiful girls have not been able find a man in three years.
Pros None. If you want to look a pictures of beautiful girls ... that is what porn is for.
Cons Everything. Porn in cheaper. Actually, prostitutes are cheaper. Come to think of it, the only that is more costly is a wife.
I have been on the site now for 6 weeks, much more than I intended. I will not renew my platinum membership again though in 2 weeks time.
It all depends on what you are looking for from this site. If you are interested in young girls, young enough to be your daughter contacting you and flattering you this is the site for you. But these young girls and beauties (models) are not for real.
However, there really are genuine people on the site. I know because I have met 2 of them, and one of them I really want to marry. I know her children, her brothers, her friends etc etc. But I probably had to trawl through 100 women to find 1 genuine one. Those are the odds you are up against. So genuine love can be found their, but my god do you have to work hard to find it. But you will quickly find out who is genuine and who is not. I guess that's something you will learn quickly yourself.
Pros Some genuine ladies on the site.
Cons 98% just want to play, or are getting some kind of remuneration from the site. Why else would 20 year old girls be contacting 56 year old men.
what a load of shit sorry some of you guys got stung but i would just like to say thanks for the heads up i came close to loosing money but will def stay away as u know what they say if its too good to be true well you know the rest i am trying to set up my own site its called fee date 101 ,com ie its totaly 101% free you can send as many emails as u like as well as look at as many profiles also i just want to see if you guys can spread the word as the best way to give these sites major problems is if there is something better my aim is to provide choice ie not just relationships but nsa ie just sex hook ups if anyone gets this mesg and will spread the word
Social Sex. What a load of crap! This site is for SUCKERS, and admittedly I joined, but just for one month. In that month I got a lot of "interested" emails....not one that materialized. I'm a good looking guy, makes good money, and am a professional writer, so I know what sounds good to the girls. Most of the responses were probably from Malaysia with completely bogus pictures.It's a country known to inflitrate and infest sites like this bogus one, sending BS emails in hopes some sucker will divulge information that can be used against him, in blackmail or fraud. WATCH THIS SITE. Want to test it? Look for the BS factors...poor grammar, spelling, all responses are from 20 something y.olds, never older. Repeat emails about nothing at all, to get you hooked into talking more. Look close and you'll spot the BS right away.
I"m sure all "good" reviews are completely made up, and wouldn't doubt if NO guy ever got laid. This is fantasyland for chumps.
Pros none
Cons Want to be ripped off again and again? You're not into S & M idiot, you're only into M.
Thought I would try it out. Finding mostly 20somethings who ask for ridiculous sums of cash; ie $200, $300, $500???!!! Ladies give your head a shake. Also, I am highly suspicious of some profiles as they appear to be fake. Seems as if these profiles are set up to bait men into blowing credits because these girls disappear or never follow through 80% of the time. Be careful who you wink at or who winks at you. Especially those profiles with glamour photos or claim to be models. If its to good to be true,,,,it probably is. Better to spend your online time and dollars elsewhere. Not recommended.
Pros ??? I'm thinking, I'm thinking
Cons - a overlygenerous amount of fake female profiles found here
- ridiculous $ums are asked for dates (it's just a date - I'm not trying to purchase a small country here)
- majority of accepting females will flake out
- to many 20somethings (which explains the above) and not enough 40+ ladies
- I could go on but do wish to bore you any longer
I'm so glad I decided to just try it for one month instead of upgrading. Everthing that was said before my review is absolutely true. All my flirts and messages sent to me were generic in nature. I would get a friend request from mutliple girls that are online at the time. I sent a message saying thanks for the request. Either no response at all or two days later a generic response saying something stupid like thanks babe. I'm the one that said thank you ffs. Your supposed to say your welcome (NOT REAL).. I know now to research before paying for any site. You have been warned.....
Pros nice pictures of bbw but I can get that for free online...........
Cons Not real girls. I received so many request from so called bbw's from Boca Raton. If you know boca, you know there is no way in HELL that there are that many bbw's looking for sex from that area who happen to be using the same website. B.S.
Iranian personal dating website is not going to work for you, because no one on this site trust anyone at all, so you won't find any decent relationship from this site. I have tried this for over 3 years, and there are only looser here. I won't waste my time here anymore. I don't recoment this to anyone.
Pros don't use internet for dating or finding life partner.
Well i don't mind to pay the money, nothing is free those days, I had an account on militarycupid, but i was very disappointed...i was talking with 5 guys and all of them were asking to send money or package. They promised a lot!! That's a scam, but i am afraid there is some girls who will send the money...I can't get over some stories,,wow
To many fake profiles. Emails don't seem to go through, flirts go unanswered, not sure if the person you sent it to get's it. Big time delay in who is on line and if they get the message. No Instant messaging, for $50.00 for three months, save you money and time and go some place else. I have never written a review, but for this site I hope I save someone.
Pros None
Cons Like I said, there are to many fake profiles, they entice you to spend more money for nothing in return. You buy the rights to send texts 100 for $19.95 so you can text the person that has there number listed, and that never seem to work. It is by far the worst site I have ever had the misfortune to join, I suggest you try another site. Adult Friend Finder in a real good one, at least you get your money's worth, and it is up and running all day and night.
I've seen some blatant ripoff dating and extramarital affair sites but sweetdiscreet takes the cake. My strong sense is that virtually all of the profiles are fake. Many of the profile pics can be found posted on MILF sites elsewhere, and sweetdiscreet uses the most obvious and familiar tactics of barraging prospective buyers with come-ons from alleged women members (who of course never, EVER write again if you reply). Luckily, I only invested $1.95 in a two day trial but that was enough to show me this site's true stripes. Now that I am just a basic member my inbox is filled every day with new bogus messages, likes, and invitations to view private photo galleries, which of course can't be accepted without upgrading my membership. The site is especially sneaky for it's use of a lot of ordinary looking women in it's fake profiles, instead of the blatantly obvious bimbo photos these sorts of scam sites used to post. At any rate, avoid this site at all cost.
I was briefly on charming date.com, believing that maybe, just maybe it would be possible to meet The ONE, or begin a relationship to a future.
How wrong, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME filling in age preferences or profiles, as they do not read them, instead you get bombarded with smutty, pre-scripted chat up lines like a sort of Ground Hog day Scenario, Tempting as it may seem, keep your head on your shoulders, any site that charges you not only send & reply or read an E-mail or EMF as they call it, which I have nicknamed Electronic Money Fraud, because that is all that site is about, Getting UR MONEY so tell as many people as possible & help STOP the SCAMMERS.
Pros The only Pros about that site are the ones working on there as Prostitutes.
How can they be in your town, when you are 10,000 miles away to catch up for a Coffee ?
I have found there are quite a few Adventist dating sites out there, but Adventist Singles Connection seems to have the greatest concentration of current Adventist members. It is also user friendly. A good site over all, and the best Adventist singles site I have found.
was on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.
I have been on and off AFF with the same profile for almost 9 years and lived in several different places during that time.
I have found that as a guy if you are in your in your early 20s most people just wont bother with you at all.
Location 1 was a small town, on an island. It was so bad that I knew some of the people with face pics. Very few people on. Never met anyone but got some practice chatting and emailing.
Also being a new profile attracts all the spammers and scammers. If you have been on for a few years they will just leave you alone.
A paid membership will do no good here.
Location 2 was a medium size population center, costal area with multiple collages. It was the Hampton, newportnews Norfolk area in Virginia. In my early to mid 20s not much went on. Then about the time I hit 25-26 lets just say I got busy and I didn't even have a paid membership. I would get a silver membership (which I don't think is offered any more) for a few months, email lots of people and establish some contacts. Let my membership expire and keep the contacts till they went their own way.
Over 5 years, on and off with AFF I met a lot of women. I would say around 15 to 20, about half of those were one time hookup other half were reoccurring to some degree.
Had I been willing to drive to Virginia beach more often or had I lived there I would have f-ed my brains out and died every weekend during vacation season. The only way to describe VAbeach is when its busy its an orgy.
I miss the Virginia's 7 cities area.
Location 3 was a small texas city, only being there for a couple months turned out to be pretty good. Better than I expected.
Places like this you will need a paid member ship.
Location 4 was a medium size island, different island than location 1.
Problem there was I didn't have internet for a while. Men just out numbered women by a lot. Still managed to meet 3 people over 5 months, one was just a meeting, second was a hookup and third one was reoccurring fwb.
Swinging couples were really big there, if you went some where like that as a couple you would see a ton of action. Its was the only costal tropical area that didn't have a lot of action, I think because the M to F imbalance.
Paid membership helps a lot.
Location 5 is god forsaken dusty sheit hole, deep red state ultra conservative town. I knew the sex scene looked very bleak before I moved here.
But to my surprise I had a little luck when I first moved here. Had 2 meetings right away one went great and got an awesome fwb.
Then after that there was nothing, had 1 meeting and it produced a more off than on fwb and that's it over the last year or so.
The only person I can get with on a regular basis is a hot MILF that to have to drive 100 miles each way for.
A paid membership and small reliable car that gets lots of MPGs and being prepared to drive ways is your best bet.
Location 6 is my temporary work location. A small to medium size city in Newmexico. Started looking about a month before I started working there and found 1 fwb that is always glad to have me. Have not bothered to look any more after I found her.
Can not recall if I had a paid membership or not.
To recap:
Population centers are good.
Population + collage better.
Costal population centers with collages, absolutely insane.
If you live in a small town with lots of churches, expect to drive 100 miles to get some.
Spring and summer are much more active than winter and fall. That goes for everywhere, Spring fever does exist.
Pros If you can use half way decent English, look okay, have an above average size cock and treat women with respect you will do well.
And above all just don't lie to them. Everyone else does, don't be every one else. If you are married and can only get away once or twice a week be honest. If you lie, they will likely figure it out and guaranteed they will not want anything to do with you.
Cons You will die, from exhaustion from running around and F-ing too much if you live in Virginia beach.
If you live in a small town with a church on almost every street corner you are totally screwed and will only gets lots of offers from guys.
marital affair is a site that is only after your money.most profiles are made up and if you reply to a message you will be told that the person whom you are replying to has filter settings which have blocked you from sending a message to this fake profile...even winks are not acknowledged..
all in all my opion would be stay clear of this site.
Like others I see here reviewing, I agree with almost all the same issues.
Customer assistance is NON EXISTANT regardless of their claim, no phone numbers and only e mail contact which they block if you do complain.
Thankfully I only signed up for one month however the first sign of a problem should have been their denying my VALID credit card (after repeated attempts and no assistance from from the afore mentioned Customer Assistance). I am also concerned now that they have my credit card number.
This required me to get a postal money order to send them (BIG MISTAKE, BE FORWARNED).
THEY CASHED MY MONEY ORDER!
Then my photos (that met with their criteria)were still not posted after over a week of waiting (in spite of their stated maximum wait time of 72 hours).
I had the nerve to complain about it (to the non existant customer service you can only reach by e mail/no phone numbers) they then sent me an e mail simply telling me that they cancelled my profile and when I try to e mail a response back I got the mailer daemon response that their address did not exist!
Of course they had already cashed my check.
Don't waste your money, they stole mine.
After reading ALL the reviews posted I believe only two were positive out of about 50 or more (kicking myself, wish I checked this site first) and I have to wonder who sent the positive ones.
I also wanted to follow up on another common complaint from most of the reviews (I believe mostly from women) and I really can't believe I'm almost defending these SCUMBAG THIEVES.
I AM in my mid 50s, I am in shape, I do have all my hair and teeth, have a college education and am retired from a career in law enforcement. While I do shop at Walmart, when it's convienent, I don't look like the stereotypical "Wmart shopper".
No I am not married, I am divorced (years ago) and I lost my girlfriend to cancer over a year ago. I'm not Brad Pitt but I am certainly not Quasimoto!
The reason I joined this group was to find available women in my age range (not younger) not an easy thing to do, so it seemed like a good idea.
I could just as easily pick apart the women on the site, calling themselves average body types when they were obese (hey. I prefer a FEW extra pounds, but seriously...), missing teeth, interested in camping/fishing, etc.
It's a dating site, it's to be expected and not everyone lives in a metro area.
Out of the hundreds of profiles I looked at I was only interested in 5 or 10. Of course I never got to contact any of them...
Lastly, let's not get tunnel vision.
OURTIME.COM is just a subsidiary of PEOPLE MEDIA.
They have MANY other sites such as ITALIANPEOPLEMEET.COM and they are all connected.
THEY ARE THIEVES, THEY STOLE MY MONEY AND THEY ARE A SCAM
Make sure you check who owns the site before you commit any money!
Perhaps the Attorney Generals Office could investigate PEOPLEMEDIA (in Nevada), that's where I would start if my credit card was being repeatedly billed against my wishes?
I can't say for sure who owns it, but, when I used Match over a decade ago, I did not have any of these issues, also POF and Craig list are free (just use common sense and caution).
Pros IT WILL TEACH YOU A VALUABLE LESSON, DON'T GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THIEVES
When you are subscribed, you are automatically set for automatic renewal and you will be charged again (double the amount of your 1st subscription lol). When you realize that you got charged on your credit card for that, it's too late, there's nothing you can do. Sent 2 emails to Customer care, only got generic answers so I had to call. Even spoke with a supervisor, I wanted a partial refund (at least) but I got the same shitty answer "we have a no-refund policy"
wow, thieves.
BAD BUSINESS, AWFUL, particularly since it is supposed to be "latter-day-Saints"... I Wonder if Jesus Christ would approve that way of doing business... lol
I really disliked this site. Most of the guys on here were looky loos! They've never dated outside of their race and were just horny and curious. A TRUE waste of my time and especially, my money!
Pros A large group to chooe from
Cons Most sites have Dating, marriage, or imtimate encounters. I don't agree with intimate encounters but I would not stand in the way of someone wanting this. I just don;t want them confusing ME with one of these people
Worked for me!
Review about Christian CafeI met a relationship that ended up lasting a year on this site. He was true to the demographic that the site advertises (a devout Christian) which led to us considering marriage fairly quickly. Unfortunately it ended, which has nothing to do with the site. I live in a big city and had noticed there were very few guys in my area, instead they were all over the world, not at all helpful. I guess I just got lucky, but nonetheless I'd recommend the site to a fried.
Pros
I believe they are true Christians
Cons
They could build up their numbers. In a major city there should be more selection.
The ONE !!!! =NONE
Review about CharmingDate.comI have written before about this site Charmingdate.com, and have left it as I joined it, but Wiser.
If you think that you have found (The One) whatever that entails, Please watch the TV programme ( A Million to One).
Because the chances of EVER finding the Partner of your dreams on this site are just That. DREAMS.
To check out the so called faithfulness, Loyalty Banter from these so called LOVING Females, whom seem so fixated on you, that they were drawn to their attention as soon as they Logged on to their site, I Posted 5 separate ID's, ranging in ages from 39 - 49, All with pictures of myself through different stages of my life, and with different names, and Amazingly, ALL EMF's received or Qpid notes I received.
Were ALL from the same Female Profiles on each, Save your money, Book a holiday, and if The ONE is out there in some part of the World, atleast you will be able to see her, talk to her and date her, in The REAL World and who knows, You might Even get a tan and find Someone when you least expect it, Other than that, PLEASE Spread the word that Charmingdate.com is an Absolute Waste of your Hard earned Cash and A TOTAL SCAM !!!!!!!!!!!
Pros
Nice pics to make a Calendar for the Workshop.
Cons
The Creators.
The Technology is a joke, try the Tor Project for fun, if you want to play their game, but not get ripped off.
Three after joining ...
Review about CharmingDate.comJoined three years ago. Took a minute to realize the CharmingDate.com was nothing but a scam.
While recently cleaning out my e-mail box, I came across some old CharmingDate.com e-mails. Just out of curiosity I logged in to my old account for laugh. And there they were, the same beautiful girls from three years, using the exact same pictures, where begging me to chat with them. In fact, all those beautiful girls that I put on my hot-love-interest-ect list three years ago, were still looking for the their the-one-mr-right-soulmate.
Hard to believe all those beautiful girls have not been able find a man in three years.
Pros
None. If you want to look a pictures of beautiful girls ... that is what porn is for.
Cons
Everything. Porn in cheaper. Actually, prostitutes are cheaper. Come to think of it, the only that is more costly is a wife.
My view of FC - Horses for Courses
Review about FilipinoCupidI have been on the site now for 6 weeks, much more than I intended. I will not renew my platinum membership again though in 2 weeks time.
It all depends on what you are looking for from this site. If you are interested in young girls, young enough to be your daughter contacting you and flattering you this is the site for you. But these young girls and beauties (models) are not for real.
However, there really are genuine people on the site. I know because I have met 2 of them, and one of them I really want to marry. I know her children, her brothers, her friends etc etc. But I probably had to trawl through 100 women to find 1 genuine one. Those are the odds you are up against. So genuine love can be found their, but my god do you have to work hard to find it. But you will quickly find out who is genuine and who is not. I guess that's something you will learn quickly yourself.
Pros
Some genuine ladies on the site.
Cons
98% just want to play, or are getting some kind of remuneration from the site. Why else would 20 year old girls be contacting 56 year old men.
scam
Review about BBW Desirewhat a load of shit sorry some of you guys got stung but i would just like to say thanks for the heads up i came close to loosing money but will def stay away as u know what they say if its too good to be true well you know the rest i am trying to set up my own site its called fee date 101 ,com ie its totaly 101% free you can send as many emails as u like as well as look at as many profiles also i just want to see if you guys can spread the word as the best way to give these sites major problems is if there is something better my aim is to provide choice ie not just relationships but nsa ie just sex hook ups if anyone gets this mesg and will spread the word
Pros
scam not worth a penny
Cons
totaly fake
socialsexwescamyu.com
Review about SocialSexSocial Sex. What a load of crap! This site is for SUCKERS, and admittedly I joined, but just for one month. In that month I got a lot of "interested" emails....not one that materialized. I'm a good looking guy, makes good money, and am a professional writer, so I know what sounds good to the girls. Most of the responses were probably from Malaysia with completely bogus pictures.It's a country known to inflitrate and infest sites like this bogus one, sending BS emails in hopes some sucker will divulge information that can be used against him, in blackmail or fraud. WATCH THIS SITE. Want to test it? Look for the BS factors...poor grammar, spelling, all responses are from 20 something y.olds, never older. Repeat emails about nothing at all, to get you hooked into talking more. Look close and you'll spot the BS right away.
I"m sure all "good" reviews are completely made up, and wouldn't doubt if NO guy ever got laid. This is fantasyland for chumps.
Pros
none
Cons
Want to be ripped off again and again? You're not into S & M idiot, you're only into M.
Don't waste your time/money
Review about Iranian PersonalsMany old/fake profiles..People are generally 10 years older and 40 pounds heavier than what they claim.
Pros
no pros
Cons
lots of cons...
photo upload problem
Review about XPress.comYou can't upload photos to your profile the same you do with all other online dating services.
Cons
Can't upload JPG photos from computer. Every other online dating service this is no problem.
SCAM
Review about BlackCrushTotally fake!! You never gat a response to any emails and when you do if you ask for details the emails stop
Cons
Totally fake!!
Gizmo
Review about Naughty And CheatingLooking for something with a lot of fun attached
EGADS! A fool and his money....
Review about WhatsYourPrice.comNeat concept but .only in a perfect world.
Thought I would try it out. Finding mostly 20somethings who ask for ridiculous sums of cash; ie $200, $300, $500???!!! Ladies give your head a shake. Also, I am highly suspicious of some profiles as they appear to be fake. Seems as if these profiles are set up to bait men into blowing credits because these girls disappear or never follow through 80% of the time. Be careful who you wink at or who winks at you. Especially those profiles with glamour photos or claim to be models. If its to good to be true,,,,it probably is. Better to spend your online time and dollars elsewhere. Not recommended.
Pros
??? I'm thinking, I'm thinking
Cons
- a overlygenerous amount of fake female profiles found here
- ridiculous $ums are asked for dates (it's just a date - I'm not trying to purchase a small country here)
- majority of accepting females will flake out
- to many 20somethings (which explains the above) and not enough 40+ ladies
- I could go on but do wish to bore you any longer
Do not throw your money away on this one
Review about BBW DesireI'm so glad I decided to just try it for one month instead of upgrading. Everthing that was said before my review is absolutely true. All my flirts and messages sent to me were generic in nature. I would get a friend request from mutliple girls that are online at the time. I sent a message saying thanks for the request. Either no response at all or two days later a generic response saying something stupid like thanks babe. I'm the one that said thank you ffs. Your supposed to say your welcome (NOT REAL).. I know now to research before paying for any site. You have been warned.....
Pros
nice pictures of bbw but I can get that for free online...........
Cons
Not real girls. I received so many request from so called bbw's from Boca Raton. If you know boca, you know there is no way in HELL that there are that many bbw's looking for sex from that area who happen to be using the same website. B.S.
internet dating is illusion, not real
Review about Iranian PersonalsIranian personal dating website is not going to work for you, because no one on this site trust anyone at all, so you won't find any decent relationship from this site. I have tried this for over 3 years, and there are only looser here. I won't waste my time here anymore. I don't recoment this to anyone.
Pros
don't use internet for dating or finding life partner.
Cons
wasting your valuable time and energy.
Fake profiles
Review about Military CupidWell i don't mind to pay the money, nothing is free those days, I had an account on militarycupid, but i was very disappointed...i was talking with 5 guys and all of them were asking to send money or package. They promised a lot!! That's a scam, but i am afraid there is some girls who will send the money...I can't get over some stories,,wow
Pros
FAKE PROFILES...
Cons
I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS SITE,,
Shit
Review about BBW DesireNot real girls on this site. A google search of most pics leads to cam girls or porstars. STAY AWAY!
Cons
Waste of money
Forget it
Review about AffairAlertTo many fake profiles. Emails don't seem to go through, flirts go unanswered, not sure if the person you sent it to get's it. Big time delay in who is on line and if they get the message. No Instant messaging, for $50.00 for three months, save you money and time and go some place else. I have never written a review, but for this site I hope I save someone.
Pros
None
Cons
Like I said, there are to many fake profiles, they entice you to spend more money for nothing in return. You buy the rights to send texts 100 for $19.95 so you can text the person that has there number listed, and that never seem to work. It is by far the worst site I have ever had the misfortune to join, I suggest you try another site. Adult Friend Finder in a real good one, at least you get your money's worth, and it is up and running all day and night.
Avoid sweetdiscreet
Review about SweetDiscreet.comI've seen some blatant ripoff dating and extramarital affair sites but sweetdiscreet takes the cake. My strong sense is that virtually all of the profiles are fake. Many of the profile pics can be found posted on MILF sites elsewhere, and sweetdiscreet uses the most obvious and familiar tactics of barraging prospective buyers with come-ons from alleged women members (who of course never, EVER write again if you reply). Luckily, I only invested $1.95 in a two day trial but that was enough to show me this site's true stripes. Now that I am just a basic member my inbox is filled every day with new bogus messages, likes, and invitations to view private photo galleries, which of course can't be accepted without upgrading my membership. The site is especially sneaky for it's use of a lot of ordinary looking women in it's fake profiles, instead of the blatantly obvious bimbo photos these sorts of scam sites used to post. At any rate, avoid this site at all cost.
Pros
None
Cons
Completely fraudulent
Stay Away from this site
Review about CharmingDate.comI was briefly on charming date.com, believing that maybe, just maybe it would be possible to meet The ONE, or begin a relationship to a future.
How wrong, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME filling in age preferences or profiles, as they do not read them, instead you get bombarded with smutty, pre-scripted chat up lines like a sort of Ground Hog day Scenario, Tempting as it may seem, keep your head on your shoulders, any site that charges you not only send & reply or read an E-mail or EMF as they call it, which I have nicknamed Electronic Money Fraud, because that is all that site is about, Getting UR MONEY so tell as many people as possible & help STOP the SCAMMERS.
Pros
The only Pros about that site are the ones working on there as Prostitutes.
How can they be in your town, when you are 10,000 miles away to catch up for a Coffee ?
Cons
The CREATORS.
Good site
Review about Adventist Singles ConnectionI have found there are quite a few Adventist dating sites out there, but Adventist Singles Connection seems to have the greatest concentration of current Adventist members. It is also user friendly. A good site over all, and the best Adventist singles site I have found.
Pros
Plenty of active members
Cons
None that I can think of.
seeking arrangements sucks
Review about Seeking Arrangementwas on the site for 2 mths. lots of riffraff, fake photos fake names huge expectations of payment. after chatting with 185 very nice guys for upto 2 wks they finally said what the wanted; minimum 750 PER HOUR for avg joes to maximum 5000 dollars PER HOUR for internet perfect guys just to spend time with them. i even email relayed with 2 riffraff that said because i sent even one response email i was locked into a meeting within 7 days or theyd contact SA and FBI saying i was a pic collector who was invading their privacy as american citizens and would be banned and charged and "at least we'd meet in court"??? NEVER chat NON-GOLD VERIFIED MEMEBERS which make up 99.9% of the site. they are a waste of time.
NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE VIA WESTERN UNION WHICH IS WHAT YOU WILL BE BEGGED FOR CONSTANTLY BY NON-GOLD MEMBERS.
protect your identity as best you can or you can be threatened into doing what you shouldnt do - sending money to riffraff strangers who make threats. and why should the threats stop if they got money out of you one time? protect your self by using prepaid credit card/giftcard which you pay cash for and use fastfood wifi only and a vpn for emailing. SA blocks vpn's for accessing the site. use a new email address and never give out your real email address or phone number, and skype sugerbabies one way till your sure you found the right person to meetup with. after alot of disappointment i cancelled my account however, 6mths later im still getting winks and "you have a new message" email notifications from sugerbabies on my alternative email address. beware the sugerbabies.
Pros
lots of beautiful people
Cons
99.9% are fake scammers
Results vary by location
Review about Adult FriendfinderI have been on and off AFF with the same profile for almost 9 years and lived in several different places during that time.
I have found that as a guy if you are in your in your early 20s most people just wont bother with you at all.
Location 1 was a small town, on an island. It was so bad that I knew some of the people with face pics. Very few people on. Never met anyone but got some practice chatting and emailing.
Also being a new profile attracts all the spammers and scammers. If you have been on for a few years they will just leave you alone.
A paid membership will do no good here.
Location 2 was a medium size population center, costal area with multiple collages. It was the Hampton, newportnews Norfolk area in Virginia. In my early to mid 20s not much went on. Then about the time I hit 25-26 lets just say I got busy and I didn't even have a paid membership. I would get a silver membership (which I don't think is offered any more) for a few months, email lots of people and establish some contacts. Let my membership expire and keep the contacts till they went their own way.
Over 5 years, on and off with AFF I met a lot of women. I would say around 15 to 20, about half of those were one time hookup other half were reoccurring to some degree.
Had I been willing to drive to Virginia beach more often or had I lived there I would have f-ed my brains out and died every weekend during vacation season. The only way to describe VAbeach is when its busy its an orgy.
I miss the Virginia's 7 cities area.
Location 3 was a small texas city, only being there for a couple months turned out to be pretty good. Better than I expected.
Places like this you will need a paid member ship.
Location 4 was a medium size island, different island than location 1.
Problem there was I didn't have internet for a while. Men just out numbered women by a lot. Still managed to meet 3 people over 5 months, one was just a meeting, second was a hookup and third one was reoccurring fwb.
Swinging couples were really big there, if you went some where like that as a couple you would see a ton of action. Its was the only costal tropical area that didn't have a lot of action, I think because the M to F imbalance.
Paid membership helps a lot.
Location 5 is god forsaken dusty sheit hole, deep red state ultra conservative town. I knew the sex scene looked very bleak before I moved here.
But to my surprise I had a little luck when I first moved here. Had 2 meetings right away one went great and got an awesome fwb.
Then after that there was nothing, had 1 meeting and it produced a more off than on fwb and that's it over the last year or so.
The only person I can get with on a regular basis is a hot MILF that to have to drive 100 miles each way for.
A paid membership and small reliable car that gets lots of MPGs and being prepared to drive ways is your best bet.
Location 6 is my temporary work location. A small to medium size city in Newmexico. Started looking about a month before I started working there and found 1 fwb that is always glad to have me. Have not bothered to look any more after I found her.
Can not recall if I had a paid membership or not.
To recap:
Population centers are good.
Population + collage better.
Costal population centers with collages, absolutely insane.
If you live in a small town with lots of churches, expect to drive 100 miles to get some.
Spring and summer are much more active than winter and fall. That goes for everywhere, Spring fever does exist.
Pros
If you can use half way decent English, look okay, have an above average size cock and treat women with respect you will do well.
And above all just don't lie to them. Everyone else does, don't be every one else. If you are married and can only get away once or twice a week be honest. If you lie, they will likely figure it out and guaranteed they will not want anything to do with you.
Cons
You will die, from exhaustion from running around and F-ing too much if you live in Virginia beach.
If you live in a small town with a church on almost every street corner you are totally screwed and will only gets lots of offers from guys.
scam all the way
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukmarital affair is a site that is only after your money.most profiles are made up and if you reply to a message you will be told that the person whom you are replying to has filter settings which have blocked you from sending a message to this fake profile...even winks are not acknowledged..
all in all my opion would be stay clear of this site.
Pros
nothing at all
Cons
too many to count
A SCAM THEY ARE THIEVES
Review about OurTimeLike others I see here reviewing, I agree with almost all the same issues.
Customer assistance is NON EXISTANT regardless of their claim, no phone numbers and only e mail contact which they block if you do complain.
Thankfully I only signed up for one month however the first sign of a problem should have been their denying my VALID credit card (after repeated attempts and no assistance from from the afore mentioned Customer Assistance). I am also concerned now that they have my credit card number.
This required me to get a postal money order to send them (BIG MISTAKE, BE FORWARNED).
THEY CASHED MY MONEY ORDER!
Then my photos (that met with their criteria)were still not posted after over a week of waiting (in spite of their stated maximum wait time of 72 hours).
I had the nerve to complain about it (to the non existant customer service you can only reach by e mail/no phone numbers) they then sent me an e mail simply telling me that they cancelled my profile and when I try to e mail a response back I got the mailer daemon response that their address did not exist!
Of course they had already cashed my check.
Don't waste your money, they stole mine.
After reading ALL the reviews posted I believe only two were positive out of about 50 or more (kicking myself, wish I checked this site first) and I have to wonder who sent the positive ones.
I also wanted to follow up on another common complaint from most of the reviews (I believe mostly from women) and I really can't believe I'm almost defending these SCUMBAG THIEVES.
I AM in my mid 50s, I am in shape, I do have all my hair and teeth, have a college education and am retired from a career in law enforcement. While I do shop at Walmart, when it's convienent, I don't look like the stereotypical "Wmart shopper".
No I am not married, I am divorced (years ago) and I lost my girlfriend to cancer over a year ago. I'm not Brad Pitt but I am certainly not Quasimoto!
The reason I joined this group was to find available women in my age range (not younger) not an easy thing to do, so it seemed like a good idea.
I could just as easily pick apart the women on the site, calling themselves average body types when they were obese (hey. I prefer a FEW extra pounds, but seriously...), missing teeth, interested in camping/fishing, etc.
It's a dating site, it's to be expected and not everyone lives in a metro area.
Out of the hundreds of profiles I looked at I was only interested in 5 or 10. Of course I never got to contact any of them...
Lastly, let's not get tunnel vision.
OURTIME.COM is just a subsidiary of PEOPLE MEDIA.
They have MANY other sites such as ITALIANPEOPLEMEET.COM and they are all connected.
THEY ARE THIEVES, THEY STOLE MY MONEY AND THEY ARE A SCAM
Make sure you check who owns the site before you commit any money!
Perhaps the Attorney Generals Office could investigate PEOPLEMEDIA (in Nevada), that's where I would start if my credit card was being repeatedly billed against my wishes?
I can't say for sure who owns it, but, when I used Match over a decade ago, I did not have any of these issues, also POF and Craig list are free (just use common sense and caution).
Pros
IT WILL TEACH YOU A VALUABLE LESSON, DON'T GIVE YOUR MONEY TO THIEVES
Cons
YOU WILL LOSE YOUR MONEY, THEY ARE THIEVES
ANOTHER SCAM
Review about LDSPlanetANOTHER SCAM
When you are subscribed, you are automatically set for automatic renewal and you will be charged again (double the amount of your 1st subscription lol). When you realize that you got charged on your credit card for that, it's too late, there's nothing you can do. Sent 2 emails to Customer care, only got generic answers so I had to call. Even spoke with a supervisor, I wanted a partial refund (at least) but I got the same shitty answer "we have a no-refund policy"
wow, thieves.
BAD BUSINESS, AWFUL, particularly since it is supposed to be "latter-day-Saints"... I Wonder if Jesus Christ would approve that way of doing business... lol
Not worth the time or money
Review about Dating InterracialI really disliked this site. Most of the guys on here were looky loos! They've never dated outside of their race and were just horny and curious. A TRUE waste of my time and especially, my money!
Pros
A large group to chooe from
Cons
Most sites have Dating, marriage, or imtimate encounters. I don't agree with intimate encounters but I would not stand in the way of someone wanting this. I just don;t want them confusing ME with one of these people