Reviews about Dating Sites


    Scam

    Review about Mr and Miss Black

    This site is a spin off of Blackcrush. It has the same format and is identical, check it out and see for yourself. Blackcrush has lots of fake profiles and automated messages and is exspensive to join. There is never that many women online the few there are the same ones. Brothers don't waste your time and hard earned money.

    A scam

    Review about GayDating.com

    Gaydating.com is a scam. I let my membership lapse 2-3 times due to not ever getting much interest from other members, and each time it did, I suddenly began receiving notifications - daily - that members were sending me mail... all I had to do was re-subscribe to read them. When I finally did get hooked in and would pay to subscribe again, none of these members ever wrote back... and strangely enough, I was far and away very different from what they said they were looking for in their profiles. It became more and more obvious these were computer generated, especially when I received three in one day and I logged on to find my profile had been deleted! I wrote to the site and told them my suspicions, but despite their claim they would reply to me within 24 hours, they never wrote back. This is an example of a site that seriously needs to be investigated... they'll do whatever they can to get your money.

    Pros
    Supposedly a lot of members.

    Cons
    Notifications and emails once your subscription lapses are clearly computer generated.

    Site is not "free," despite their claims.

    Yet another example of gay men exploiting each other to make a profit.

    is this high school?

    Review about OurTime

    Optimist to the end, but......not much response on this site.
    I think all the guys are still looking for the cutest, hottest, babe and
    actually think they will find it. I am still cute, but not young anymore.
    This site is not working out for me. As usual, it is for the younger, and cutest.

    Pros
    profiles easy to read

    Cons
    no responses, so I question if these are real people?

    redirect

    Review about CougarPersonalAds

    The site, after you join sends you to horny matches.com

    Pros
    Crickets....

    Cons
    Not a real site

    fake site beware do not spend

    Review about BlackCrush

    this is the worst black dating site alive. messages are automated most times and fake made up people. you will send private messages to ten thousand people and may get one reply all black folks cant be that broke... text by phone is a rip off they will send you automated messages and once you ask for an email or phone number or tell them to link you on it the messages stop. guys BEWARE WATCH OUT SCAM THING!!

    Pros
    NONE

    Cons
    ITS ALL FAKE 90% OF IT IS... ITS JUST PICTURES MEN THATS ALL..

    Not Real

    Review about CharmingDate.com

    I started to suspect this site just by the photos. All the photos look like they are just too professionally done which indicates these may be models from a professional model site.

    I received about two letters from this one woman. The first letter spoke about her kids yet her profile said she had no kids and this was even verified when I asked her about children and she indicated she would like to have a child one day, but then in her second letter, she spoke about her child and how she enjoyed being a mother........okay, something is up so I questioned her on this. Here is the letter I received from her or should I say, her translator although her profile list her English ability as "GOOD!"

    Dear Rick,

    I was so glad.that you also got interest in me.You have sent me a very beautiful letter my dear.Now i'm attrackted by you too.Your photo is nice.yes of course i really got interested in you.your words made me so glad inside my heart.

    I would like to know more about you.about admirere letter.actually i wanted to start talking with you that was why i sent you.in the content about kid i know.becuase i mistakely. but true thing is i would like to start talking with you.i think you will understand me.

    I'm waiting to hear more about you...

    take care
    Anastasia

    Of course, the English is quite bad and she says she was mistaken about her kid. Mistaken?? Okay, whatever and I thought these women are suppose to be using professional translators but I see that is not the case here. Notice she is trying to correct her mistake about her child.....I assume. The letter is bad, the grammar is bad, the spelling is bad and this is suppose to be a professional agency? Smells like a scam to me and what is worse, this letter was sent to me not once, but twice......perhaps from two different people........who knows. This woman looks like Angelina Jolie, very attractive, nice shape........definitely professional model photos with some downplayed photos put in the mix.

    Okay, if anybody is reading this, do yourself a favor and try one of the other sites such as filipinoheart.com if you are into women from parts of Southeast Asia or afrointrocution.com if you are into African women, but it just doesn't stop there. These type of sites have sister sites for all races, cultures, ethnicities, etc. The price for a Gold membership is only $29.99 per month and within that month, you can correspond with as many women as you please. And trust me, these women are real. I have met the nicest women from Filipinoheart.com and we were able to correspond by phone, by SKYPE, by yahoomessenger, by mail, we had video chats. I even met several women from afrointroductions.com and I am corresponding with this woman also by all avenues of communication.

    And they even call me by phone. Of course, with these type of sites, there will be your occasional scammer, but not many. Most of these women are serious about getting to know you and will give you their e-mail contact, their mobile number and if they do not have a PC, they will happily schedule a time with you and go to the internet café and do a CAM to CAM with you.

    Do not worry about these women wanting money. Many of them do work and are very independent. I have been associated with this one woman from the Philippines for about a year now and she mentioned their electricity was about to be turned off and when I offered to help, she said "No, please don't." She indicated to me her bill just happened to come at a time when she did not get paid and her mother failed to tell her it was due; but I spoke with her recently and she said the electricity is back on. She paid the bill. She went on to say she appreciated my offer but that is why she works.......to pay her own way. She is just looking for someone to accept her as she is and who will be faithful and honest.

    In fact, I had been speaking to another one who is from China and she had asked if she could have my home address which I gave her since we had been speaking for about four months now. Well, one day in the mail, I received a delivery and the box had some Chinese writing on the outside and I recognized it was from this woman. I opened up the box and inside I found a small personalized photo album of her, her child and her family enjoy some events such as a birthday party and what filled the box was a 2 foot soft and plush teddy bear with a card attached wishing me a Happy Belated Valentines Day. I was quite surprised.

    These type of sites are your best bet. Stay away from CharmingDate.com, but I have to admit, their sister companies iDateAsia.com and Chn.Love.com seems to be a bit better and more trustworthy, but still, the payment scale is the same since all the sites operate in the same manner, but I was able to meet what seemed to be sincere members..........

    If you want to be sure, do the other sites for that small monthly fee which will give you endless opportunities to meet as many women as possible. Believe me, one month is probably all you need. Some may just send you a notification that they are "interested", but the Gold membership offers the woman a chance to write to you so I tend to look at the women who correspond by writing. I don't think you will be disappointed if you go this route.

    Thank you.

    Pros
    If you are into looking at photos of pretty woman and fantasizing this may be the woman talking to you, this is your site.

    Cons
    You are never sure of who you are speaking to.
    You are not in control of the situation when trying to secure personal contact.
    Cost too much for every single thing you do such as reading a letter and sending a letter, making a call, etc.
    Some photos, just don't seem like your everyday run of the mill woman.
    The money you spend will add up quickly with no results.
    Results are not guaranteed.
    You may walk away disappointed once you see just how much you spent.

    Fading Fast

    Review about MeetMe.com

    When I first went on MeetMe a few months ago, I'd liked that it was free, had a lot of interesting down to earth women and some fun features. The biggest drawback is the arrogance of management. There is no place for two-way conversation. They tell you what their doing and that's the end of that. You can send messages but hear nothing in return. Lately they have cut back on interesting facets of the site without asking for respecting members input.

    Pros
    Interesting, entertaining members.

    Cons
    Management arrogance, non-customer friendly, bringing down the site.

    misnommer

    Review about Catholic Mates

    you keep sending me messages from girls wherea I am a girl looking for a male companion. My name is Moira. Please adjust your records

    Pros
    you are catholic

    Cons
    you confuse girls with boys

    complete scam and rubbish

    Review about Marital Affair.co.uk

    fake profiles,abuse not as the title suggests full of singles swinging couples blank profiles if you report abuse its ignored I had a fake profile made up by the site which I had to have removed if they say they removed you they don't they place your profile on all there sites with out your permission

    Pros
    there are none

    Cons
    none

    Complete hoax

    Review about Lonely Wife Hookup

    Biggest ripoff ever. I contacted 30 friends and asked each of them as a friend to just message me back a hello so I could see if this site was legit or a hoax. Not even one response and all of them were online when I sent the message. All of the comments are staged and fake. The flirts etc are also fake. Not even I returned message in over 3 weeks on site. Don't even believe any of the pics are real people. Think all of them are fake and all comments are ake as well. Just made up by site to make poor lonely people spend more money. Terrible ripoff in every respect!!

    Pros
    None

    Cons
    Every thing about it is a con!

    I love Military Cupid!

    Review about Military Cupid

    I love Military Cupid because it brings people who are in the military or are civilians like me that are looking for men in the military to date and evidently marry!

    Pros
    Easy to navigate, and there is also alot of civilians looking for people in the military to date and evidently marry!

    Cons
    If you use the mobile of Military Cupid, it crashes when you want to look at someone's profile other than your own.

    Hopeless

    Review about ConnectingSingles

    Concerned about seeing certain profiles on some members friends lists even though those members know these profilers are scammers.

    One in particular, platino previously entusiasmo in spain using the photos of galina verhot**** in the ukraine. galina works for the wwf so we sent a message to galina, spoke to the wwf offices in london and the usa hq to raise concerns that their employee's photos were being used and because she phoned a swedish friend claiming she was in london and knew us (she doesn't). platino appears to be hiding her profile on cs but the fake photos still show on cs. I don't know why her details have not been removed.

    Other members know and reported her profile and a member chris27*****has her on his friend list. The pair of them were involved in a forum thread called the secret lounge started by a member called bluefish.. who has also had various profiles who used this thread along with maxmate*, butterfly*** to accuse other members using their real names and information about them. The odd thing is the troublemakers were allowed to remain on the site while the others were banned for standing up for themselves which raises the question who is running that site exactly?

    It seems that there are quite a few problematic people on this site with serious issues and they tend to enjoy stirring and attacking new members or anyone who has an opinion different to them. One of the worse members on there is jac*** who thinks she is superior because of some outdated psychology degree and tolerated at best because she claims she has dyslexia and autism but you cannot believe everything these people say on there. One minute they are friends, then enemies. It's sometimes a ploy for attention and boring.

    Some of these members even revive old threads from years back or make threads about members who left. The ones who left are the lucky ones preserving their sanity.

    It's disheartening really to see adults behave the way they do. Some of them claim on the public forums they have been victims of incest and/or rape. Who knows but odd to write things like that on public forums? Alot of very sad, lonely attention seeking people on there.

    What makes me laugh is that it does not take long to find out who is who as they are all pals on another networking site. Some of them have nothing better to do than plot behind the scenes there next veiled attacks on members. Maybe that's why things got out of hand with the secret lounge thread. They are all as bad as each other really.

    Pros
    A few nice people but not a very welcoming place in spite of appearances.

    Cons
    Scams

    M/F members looking for newbies like it's varsity freshers week.

    FilipinoCupid Is Mostly A Fraud

    Review about FilipinoCupid

    I joined this site on a one month membership to meet a woman in the Phillipines. The first day I got well over 100 emails & "Interested" notes. The girls don't read your profile so if you are like me and don't want to inherit a family or don't want kids, it does not make a difference. Every girl on this site emails everyone regardless of what YOU want. I even got emails from senior citizens. Every Instant Message request I got the person was in Ghana because of a sick family member or death. When I realized it was pretty much a hassle/scam I contacted the site for a partial refund and they said no since I had already used the site and they have no way of veriyfing who /where their members actually are.

    Pros
    A nice photo gallery of girls in swimsuits and lingerie that is nice to look at.

    Cons
    Most of the girls on the site are fakes & liars.

    old crew

    Review about ConnectingSingles

    Big problems with a member called catsy who wants to befriend me and find out a curious bit of information because she was on cs before and her profile was deleted along with another member for scamming.

    Is she who she says she is now? One of her friends ali.... has had many profiles archived as legend3 etc.

    Pros
    Not sure what the problem is but not seeking a mate anymore

    Cons
    A disaster area for scams waiting to happen

    cs has a lot of old crew members are all holier than thou and contradict themselves! The place needs a clean sweep of all the old crew members and encourage newer younger members

    Disappointing not a whole lot of action there

    May require using a translator

    Charming (not) date

    Review about CharmingDate.com

    This site is run by a bunch of cheats based in Hong Kong. Read their terms - they are not responsible for anything. The place all the responsibility on nameless local agencies.
    First it's quite expensive to buy credits. You get to read the first "admirer" letter for free to get you hooked. Then the fun really starts - they deduct credits when you receive mail. You have ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL how you spend your money. I was getting 2 letters a day from some girls - telling me what they bought in the market or what the weather was like or even worse I received very hot sexually explicit letters from girls I had only corresponded one time! I got the feeling that there was some fat unshaven teckie having fun writing those letters.
    This is a trur scam - they over-charge you for credits then they take them away as fast as they can.
    YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED

    Pros
    beautiful young girls interested in men over 60!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Cons
    Professional scammers

    FUN!

    Review about Cougared

    This site is what you make of it. Have met great guys, had a lot of fun. Filtering and making smart choices is part of the process...be patient, scan photos through Google images to make sure you're chatting w/a real person, and you're good to go.

    Pros
    Endless selection

    Cons
    really dreadful texting system, could use an upgrade. Switching to email/phone as quickly as possible takes some of the frustration out of the situation

    Good Site

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    Signed up for a month subscription 2 months ago. Sent a message to a lady she's Filipina and with in 4 days got a response. We have been communicating off the site for 2 months now e-mails, phone calls, text message, hand written letters. She hasn't asked me for any money or gave me a sob story about how hard her life is or she needs money for a sick relative or what ever kind of story that most scammers come up with. I invited her to come and visit me next year and she said that she would save some money to come.

    Maybe I just got lucky I don't know or the ones with the negative comments just don't know how to make a profile and send a considerate message. I will tell you this I was on Match.com for a year and sent I don't know how many messages to ladies and did not get one response. I also notice that this varies from site to site so I only join these sites for 1 month and go to another.

    Yes there are plenty of scammers out there my advice is read and learn about the about the scams there are plenty of sites about scams, be skeptical don't send any money to any one. Don't give any contact info until you are comfortable with the lady. If the lady likes you she will continue to communicate with you off the site. You will know if the lady is genuine or not. Yes I have been scammed and it was from a woman in my own state where I live imagine that. So just because they are in another country doesn't make them a scammer. There are just as many in the US and are just as hard to track.

    So do your homework and if the messages seems like they are hinting towards money just delete them from your list pronto

    Pros
    Easy to navigate and plenty of available women. If you are in the US only contact the ones that have, Willing to relocate to another country on there profile

    Cons
    Long distance relationships

    OurTime.com TERRIBLE!

    Review about OurTime

    Completely AGREE!
    I sign in because cant see the mailbox until pay - and I glad I pay for one month only because on site mostly guys who looks like gang members - with dark hoodies with hood on, "golden" chains, tattoos, sunglasses on... Looks very dangerous! Also there some gigolo who looking for rich senior lady who need young companion... Yuck!
    No refund - so even if you just join, they will NOT return the money....
    "Matches" not really match anything, they have empty profiles and some of them even doesnt have photos - so how they match?! And nicknames sounds like they directly from ghetto.... Search only age and area, no criteria like druncard\not, drugs\no, gambling\no, educated\no, etc.....worst site ever!

    Pros
    Nothing good.

    Cons
    Cant see the mail unless you pay... Almost no search criteria, gang members ad gogolo on the site.... No refund policy.

    Glad I did'nt join!

    Review about OurTime

    Was looking at the site and before I could even sign up I could see some of the profiles of available men. Their site names were mufflicker, tamemysnake, just to name a few. Seriously! No thanks!

    Pros
    Never had a chance.

    Cons
    Glad I didn't give it a chance to find out anymore cons.

    Do not purchase

    Review about BBW Desire

    I recently joined this site believing all the hype but was soon disappointed. It seemed like all the girls on here were made up and they were I was getting a message from someone that was in my area only later to discover that there location had changed and when I would message them back they would never respond. Also there seem to be a lot of scammers on the site it even says so when they message you at the bottom of the page so be careful and approach with caution.

    MY ACCOUNT DISABLED AFTER REGISTERING FOR 24 HOURS

    Review about AfroRomance

    CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN TO MY WHY AFROROMANCE AND AFROINTRODUCTIONS AND MATCH.COM DISABLES YOUR ACCOUNT AFTER 24 HOURS OF REGISTERING AS A FREE MEMEBER. WHEN I TRIED LOGGING IN AFTER CREATING MY PROFILE AND UPLOADING MY PHOTOS ETC WHEN I TRY LOGGING IN IT SAYS EITHER UR USERNAME OR PASSWORD IS NOT RECOGNISED OR SIMPLY YOUR ACCOUNT IS DISABLED BY SITE ADMINISTRATOR

    one of the best Social site in the world

    Review about BlackSexFinder

    blacksex is the site u can get your true love, please do n't give up hope, somewhere you will find someone who appreciates you and cares for you. True love is more than the romantic words and compliments it is finding the right person who will be by your side through the good and the bad times. Take care of yourself and I hope it is not too long before you find your own special person.

    Pros
    I think you can help someone to be confident and more trusting by reassuring them that you care. However, I do think that for some people it difficult to trust someone. It may be that they lack confidence or because the way they have been treated in the past. You can only try to be straight forward and honest,then it is up to her. Talk to each other and ask her why she feels this way. I hope all goes well for me hahahahaha.

    Cons
    To be in love... Such a magical spell that flows through our bodies and enter our very soul...To feel alive and glow from within because now life makes sense... Romance is in love... Giving your heart to someone else to hold softly that is romance!

    thousands of blistering........

    Review about Muslima.com

    (this review is over a decade old and can not be relevant anymore)


    site muslima... cupid media. what else cupid holds.

    business ! and running good.

    maximize profit someway anyway, ResMngmnt and RevnueGen, fair enough !

    my boss always gets headache running a gud-damn busy-ness.

    opportunities for for many to earn some. kinda employment !

    member count exponential. ids random, not serial ..........million members, very sad.


    except the few fools, and fewer lucky ones, all like me are just moving in circles, confused, sad, impatient... ? something what, we might have forgotten .....hundreds of hours of time, energy, ... might

    true, the choice is ours, always.

    thanks bother. may.............

    and i must say aranoyas.

    Pros
    7%

    Cons
    93%

    RIPOFF!

    Review about CHN Love

    Honey, let us exchange letters here first, see if we are really match first, ok? I am really interested in you. You know, when I lose your news, that really drive me crazy. But you see, you are so hesitate, I wait for so long time, then you take the first step. Life is such a long road,if you step so slow, when can we reach our happy destination?
    Hope you are really sincere here.
    I will wait for you.
    Take care.

    Cons
    They all come up with excuses not to communicate away from the site!

    Some freaky shit: transcript of chat on facebook.

    Review about CitySex.com

    hey whats up.. im Hollie sorry for disturbing and invading your message area im sorry for being random i know u dont know me but i like meeting new ppl here on facebook.. feel free to add me if you dont mind.. but if not, its okay no biggie

    how are you?


    Very good and how are you?

    im fine btw where you from

    From New Mexico and you?

    im from Brooklyn Ny How about you??

    Albuquerque, NM

    How old are you??

    31, how old are you?

    im 20 are you married? have girlfriend or kids?

    I am single with no kids.
    U have a boyfriend, girlfriend or kids?


    me too im single, i was cheated by my boyfriend, thats why i just broke up with him recently..

    oh
    Find another boyfriend yet?

    huh?

    Well before you said you had just broken up with your boyfriend.

    hmm what do you do for fun

    I like to play guitar and piano, it fun and is my profession.
    it's fun
    And I do yoga.
    What do you do for fun?

    U live in New York?

    yeahh

    Do u like ti there?

    ofcourse

    I live in Albuquerque, used to live in los Angeles and Boulder
    So what are you going to do tonight?

    ohh pretty chill well me im just on facebook chillin, anyway can i ask you something?

    sure

    it is just i joined a online competition for the search for best bikini models and there's a big cash prize and travel incentive for the winner and i need votes to win wud u help me? But its okay if you dont want to no biggie.


    Yeah, I guess so. That is a hot picture. What do you get for winning?

    well a big amount of $ and a travel incentives

    I really enjoy your pictures and videos, very sexy.

    could you help me now?

    I think so, what do you want me to do?

    Just Click the LINK and FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTION ON HOW TO GET A VOTING ID

    Pros
    I still don't know if I was speaking to artificial intelligence or a person on the other end. I'm pretty sure it is a chat bot, what do you guys think?

    Cons
    After I confronted her, she starts saying fuck you bitch, FUCKYOURSELF.