after spending 3 months on this site and messaging girls and making offers. I learned that 90 % of profiles are fake profiles made by the same people who designed the website in the first place... I would recommend POF at least its free and you meet real people real profile and badoo also has 75 % real profiles .... every website is going to have a number of fake profiles but with this website its almost like 90 % that are fake ... with badoo and POF its like only 20 % that are fake profiles .. so i recommend this site for losers who have money to lose and nothing else to gain ...
Pros There are none what so ever ... 90 % of profiles are fake
There are pros on here, and they usually don't fool around asking for money, and lots of it. There are romantics who visualize a relationship. There are also young, relatively attractive, non-pro women interested in both money and sex.
I don't mess around asking for what I want, inexpensive NSA booty calls. If you are an attractive older man and honest about your intentions you can line up 100 dollar booty calls with nice looking, even sweet young women, and do so regularly. I have repeat action with several women from SA. It is uncomplicated, fun and a win-win situation. If it wasn't win-win for one or both party either can and do walk away. It's that simple.
I have been using this website for a while. If you are a free member you can search and sent intrests but you cannot read any messages unless the person you contact is a gold or platinum meber (but not that many girls pay for shit like dating sites, so as a man you have to pay).
In my country don't live to many black girls but I had at least 10 dates with african girls from this website, they where all very pretty, they were NOT hookers and they were all over me all night. So yes I had fun and so did they. For me this site is ideal because in my town there dont live any black chicks so is easy to look for a date with an african chick without looking too hard in other cities or obscure places where you dont wanna be at night like the amsterdam ghettos.
Pros Real girls, no fakers
Real dates
Site has Chat function/webcam function (if you pay) where you can chat safe without somebody knowing your email/skype/phonenumber etc.... (of course you can give it to them if you want but if you are the cautious type you can chat without giving any personal info).
Cons -Free member ship is very limited, only search (unlimited) and send intrested.
-If you want to read messages or chat / webcam chat you have to pay monthly fee.
- Monthly fee is 30 dollar a month which is a bit expensive.
- An occassional girl from africa might want to ask you to send her money or plaintickes but you cannot blaim afro-introductions for you being a stuid moron if you do that.
I am a woman that definately does not look her age, I get lots of dates. I met, face-to-face several guys in my area through skout. I agree with another reviewer nothing but hood rats. I am very attractive, fit, educated, well traveled with a professional job and all I have met are weirdos, perverts, morons, flakes and one guy who sexually assaulted me. I went to police they are working on the case. I reported the guy that assaulted me to skout through their support email as they direct in their safety info, I got an auto reply to my email the day after I sent it and 2 months later, zip back. Went and checked, guy still on skout. So much for their safety policy.
Because this is a free site and you can set up an account in two seconds it will attract more low lifes than a site with actual paying members.
Yes one can argue that well these flakes etc exists out there in real life, yes they do but with skout they are gathering in one area due to being free and easy to set up.
Pros Easy to locate people in your own area
Cons Attracks low quality people, no support and skout does not respond to information given regarding a dangerous user.
I currently have reported this site to BBB. They are refusing to refund my money after accidently clucked on the wrong button. A YEAR!!!. I received no respond from them after numerous attempts at a number that doesnt have any customer service available...I was directed to a site with an email still no response. Another e- mail address still no response. I really do not believe this is a legitimate site. The people on this site are probably the owners.
Now they are refusing to refund after their contracts states they do....
Cons Not a legitimate site...scam artists and perverts.
Like Vince this was my first experience with dating website. MWM I was looking for affair material....stayed on xxxmatch way to long!!! Just canceled my membership! Nothing but one line messages and invites to video sex. I'm now involved with a women I found on Ashley Madison!
Pros Lots of video sex if thats what you're looking for
I was looking for a relationship outside my marriage and over a year or so used several sites including AshleyMadison, AffairLInk, SweetDicreet, GoHookUp, XXXMatch and Lonely Housewives. I had multiple contacts with real women looking for affairs on AshleyMadison. I am currently involved with one of those women and we are having a great time...I was very frustrated with the other sites. Most appeared to be funnels for paid video chat/sex....particularly xxxmatch, SweetDiscreet. Havent been on AL or GHU as long, but they look like the same. I did meet what appeared to be several real women on Lonely Housewives but both were too far away to meet up with. Fun to talk to though.
Pros Real women looking to hookup.....most missing passion at home. Some dubious contacts, but sort through them.
Cons Does take some $ to get through the process but like the guy said above....if you really want to hook up, its gonna cost ya in hotel bills anyway so be realistic! Ive spent $$$ over the past several months at hotels, meeting once a week and splitting the bills!
So yes, I did get A LOT of emails from nasty, old or rude men; it happens on these kinds of sites. So ladies (and you tasty young men), do not be surprised when you are propositioned for oral sex in the first email, offered a few hundred per date, told (in great detail) about the nasty things he wants do to you, and generally disrespected by sleaze-ball men who are looking to buy sexual favors. SA is littered with these kinds of members.
You also need to understand what a real SB is: classy, intelligent, attractive, polite, interesting and fun. A SD is a GENTLEMAN with financial means who is also generous, sophisticated, educated, chivalrous, and benevolent. These arrangements work best when both parties meet those standards. If you're a trashy bimbo looking for easy income then you're not going to meet quality men; you're going to meet Johns looking to purchase sex (or get away with sex for free). If you're an asshat looking to buy sex (or it appears as though that's what you seek), you're not going to meet classy, DDF women who actually enjoy your company. I'm sure there are a lot of lot of fake people on the site; I'm sure there are users both attractive and generous. Just be careful about who you choose to meet.
~Men, don't give money initially; buy gifts, clothes, and spa treatments. Don't be stupid and give money to begin with, some women will take it an run off to the next victim. And don't expect sex within the first few dates; that's disgusting, rude and makes women feel cheap and used. You don't want to date women like that anyway and are on the wrong site if you're simply looking to buy sex.
~Women, do NOT have sex on the first date! No! Ew! Wait until you know he's a man of means who is perfectly willing to spoil you. Ask for an allowance AFTER you've been on a few dates and know you can envision something long term with the person. I would suggest after you know you're sexually compatible, too (which should occur no sooner than the third date. I waited until the 5th and several expensive gifts and meals).
I feel like my profile was pretty popular because I can use punctuation properly and write using multisyllabic words. I don't think I'm especially attractive (many men would disagree) but I am articulate, educated, interesting and not a financial predator; men can tell, they'll treat you with respect if you command and deserve it.
I also made sure to properly vet any potential SDs. If he brought up sex within the first 5 emails: ignore. Incomplete grasp of grammar by a native english speaker: ignore. Doesn't mention meeting after 15 emails; ignore. Asks for pictures when I already have 5+ up on the site: ignore.
One man mentioned seeing a topless pic of me (he was crude about it); he offered to spoiled the hell out of me, but I wasn't interested in seeing someone who would be so disrespectful. I don't care how much money you make-- you don't get to treat me like a whore or stripper. He was miffed when I ignored him, but I'm glad I did.
Keep your standards up, ladies. Don't stand for the abuse, no matter how desperate you are. If you're that desperate, get a job. Any job you can, that way to you can look yourself in the mirror and not be ashamed of using some nasty old lecher for his money while being used in return.
There are a few nice men on the site from what I've seen; the icky creeps don't understand what it is to be a real SD. The gross, moronic women probably don't understand what a SB is supposed to be (um, hello, he's your rich boyfriend that you have sex with).
I only ever met one man from SA: my amazing, incredible SD. I liked him initially but things were awkward for the first two dates because I didn't have any experience dating men, just immature college boys. The age difference bothered me at first, but the perks of dating someone who is financially stable, confident and knows what he's doing in bed negate that trifling detail. I now won't even consider dating some one less than 8 years older than me (I wouldn't date someone who is more 13 years older than me, though).
I don't understand how so many of you complain that you can't find a SD. I have two other men from WhatsYourPrice (sister site of SA) that are practically chomping at the bit to see and spoil me, and another from the same site that doesn't make much who has gifts waiting for me to pick up (since I'm not a predator, I won't accept them. He's nice, but I'm not attracted and refuse to use anyone). It must be because you aren't proper sugar babies and you aren't adequately vetting your prospects. And to the men that are complaining about meeting predatory women, use you're brain! You didn't make your money by being a halfwit; if she needs money, pay it weekly!
Ideally, both parties should feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. I know that's how I feel.
Pros ~SDs take care of you financially and emotionally
~You get to try to new things and travel
~They can help you with your career by opening doors for you that would otherwise be closed
~(slightly) older men are more experienced in bed ;)
~you get to take care of a man who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated (if not better!). Believe me, it's rewarding
Cons ~creepy lechers
~picture collectors
~rude men
This site sets up a bait for you to pay a membership so you can read their email. They will send you a email saying so and so is interested. If you email the so called person their profile gets switched off. That has happen 4 times. I haven't paid anything. They trick you. Beware!!!!!!!!!!!!
I joined for a year paid $120.00 but few girls send me a interest mail but i don't know if they are even exist. Looks like most girls are fake and not even exist.
I send the E-mail to customer servise for refund my money 3 days later i joined. because i didn't satisfied but i don't heard anything from them at all NO ANSWER. Once you pay thats it !! I lost $120.00 in split second from a bad choice i made.
I hope there are no more victim like me through this website
www.koreancupid.com
I was scammed professionally by a girl called Melanie Sharon Catar, who claimed to be from Canada, reverted Muslim, 26 years old, orphan and acted our the perfect muslima that a man could wish for.
She played all the right cards with me extremely cleaverly and gained my trust over a period of 6-7 weeks and eventually asked for financial help that she needs to get her fathers last investments from Turkey and surely enough I fell for it and lost around $1700 and the 3rd time she asked for money I understood I was being scammed and gave her a mouthfull.
Being an IT consultant I was sure that it was impossible for me to be scammed by someone online but no I was wrong. There are very cleaver people out there so people dont trust anyone easily even if they sound like the most religious and God fearing individual you have ever met.
First of all, I notice they do not make it easy to review their sight.
What a complete let-down and waste of good money. I too was hopeful in meeting someone after seeing the advertisements on TV that I now know are fictional. I am a professional women and I can count on one hand how many professional men showed up in my search. Like most other reviewers mentioned, I was matched up with people out of my area, the same men over and over, and people who had nothing written but their basic statistics; not even a picture! The ones with pictures were worse...a total freak show to put it mildly. I try not to be a judgemental person but are teeth too much to ask for? I actually used this sight as entertainment with my girlfriends.
My only comfort now is knowing I'm not alone with these complaints. This site should be reviewed by someone to make it STOP! Don't make the same mistake the rest of us did; DO NOT JOIN!!!!!
After using it on a free pass and entering details ... the full membership lasted 10 Min i've yet to see the effect on the bank but it cant be good!!
Don't touch it with a barge pole!!
I've been on this site for about a year. I met a woman and saw her several times. She turned out to be a headcase although crazy in the head usually means fun in bed which it was. I find that one out of 20 emails get answered. Lots of time for very little return. I've seen the same profiles come up as supposed matches. Very little new talent. I've probably been out on a dozen meetings, but unfortunately my third eye isn't blind. I have encountered more than a couple that started right out by describing their financial woes. If you have a lot of time and energy and can tolerate total rejection by all means sign up because it costs nothing but time.
As a word of caution, beware of women that lack full body photos unless you are looking for somebody that outweighs you. T Rex lives at pof...
Pros Free
Cons plenty of problems and head cases. the few decent looking women in my age group are stuck up bitches that truly believe there is no odor to their fecal matter.
Thought what the hay... lets give it a try... I am a white collar professional and really thought that i would be able to at least meet a couple people to have a drink and maybe a dinner with... wow was I dissappointed.... dont waste your time. I was a member for 6 months and had more luck talking to people while shopping.
Pros Nice site and a lot of features
Cons No one of any substance.... seems like everybody is looking for something that does not exist.... saw too many players ----
Based upon what others have stated about XPress, I decided to do a test. Now, I am a pretty darn good looking guy, slim, and in shape. I was receiving dating and meeting requests from some of the females in my area. When I replied to them I simply asked each one if they would provide me with their cell phone number and personal email address as I wanted to prove if XPress is legitimate or not by calling or emailing them to verify. I get one sentence generic replies back with "why don't you think this site is legitimate?", "you don't think I'm real?", "I'm sorry you feel that way", etc,. These replies only come through the site . None have ever given me their cell phone or email address even though I sent photos and explained what I was trying to do. What I would like to know is why the FTC allows these bogus sites to continue to rip everyone off. Probably because they operate out of a third world country.
This site is totally fake. None of the "women" are for real. They are all just people who get paid to put up fake profiles with pictures of models, and stories about how hot and horny they are.
If you want to see how fake it is, for free, just create a profile there. Don't upload any pictures or say anything about yourself. Just create a blank profile. Then watch and see how many emails you get from all kinds of really hot looking women, saying that they want you. Watch how many "meet in person" and "date me" requests you get. They're just trying to get you to pay up so you can read all the emails you're getting from all these phony women.
If you end up making the same mistake I made, spend a few months on this site, thinking you're actually going to meet someone, you will be disappointed. And if you try to collect on their "100 Day Guarantee," you'll find out that even the guarantee is a scam!
Pros It's a great site if you like to pay good money to look at phony profiles and get emails from people who get paid to pretend to be interested in meeting you. If that's what you like to do, you will like this site.
Cons You won't actually meet real women on this site. You will only find phony profiles, and you will only get emails from people who get paid to send messages and pretend to be interested in you. The "100 Day Guarantee" is lie. The whole thing is just a big scam.
This is one head of a 120+ website that not only sells your information but will also double charge your bank account (First Beat Media ) or so they call themsevles
Pros There are none these guys are a scam
Cons They will do there best not to give you any other human, I am pretty sure the number I called on the first charge put me in touch with the same person that I spoke with on the second charge. They say they cannot find a supervisor as is part of the scam.
This site will send you people that some how love your profile despite it being blank. A little trick I learned a while back. Register, but don't fill anything out. All of a sudden I get e-mails, flirts, views and all these women young enough to be my daughter wanting to meet and thinking I'm the greatest thing, all with a blank profile. This site is a scam from the get go. If you register and get a luck, that is just it you were lucky, but I wouldn't put money into this site if some one else paid it.
Pros Some nice pics, and they know how to flatter you
Cons None of it's real, and the odds of connecting are little to none.
I meet a few decent and fun Sugar babies on here.
Highly recommended. Just take time and weed out the flakes.
My first Sugar Baby was 22yrs old (I am 55yrs) and we had a blast.
The chats, dates and sex was fantastic.
Dating another 22yr old College Babe that is highly money motivated BUT she does deliver. This will be most likely short term but its fun so far.
Remember you may have to screen some flakes to get to decent ones.
Pros Nice Pool of young ladies.
Easy Search engine
Cuts out a lot of time and BS since both parties understand what its all about
Cons Despite some unrealistic expectations from some young ladies, Its a good site that gets results. Just keep your guard up with these young whipper snappers
Well, I have seen a few ladies on this site. A few of them showed up stoned or drunk and had unrealistic expectation. A few of the gals are hustlers. They asked that I would pay them for having a conversation on the phone or meet them for the first time. When I would tell them that I would meet them for a meet and greet to see if there is chemistry. They started making threats and try manipulation and try to belittle me to make me feel inferior. It almost resembled going to the used car lot. Out of every 5 dates about 3 of them would flake out after I agreed to an arrangement and they wouldn't show up. The other two after a few meetings wanted to change the arrangement again using all sorts of manipulation techniques to become a up the allowance.
Pros An old rich man could meet a college gal who wouldn't look at him in regular restaurant or bar.
Cons You have to deal with the bitchy attitude and hustlers and lots of liars on this site to find someone that might work out. Gals are normally too hungry for financial side of things that they make the whole thing sound like a client lawyer relationship. You will feel like getting treated like a man going to a used car lot.
Immediatly after joining this site I started getting messages from much younger girls. About 95% were all from only 2 city's which is not even close to me....in fact 2-3 states / 100's of miles away. Messages are most always time stamped after midnight and especially 2:00am -3:00am when most people are asleep. You will never get a responce in the daytime or early evening. NOTICE: Your credit card is billed with an overseas transaction sur-charge. I've NEVER seen a profile as "online now" except once and never got a responce back until the weeee hours of the morning, again asleep. Messages are always one line "teasers" and when it gets near the end of your paid membership...watch out because they really start pouring in on then. Tell one your membership is about to expire and suggest communicating from pvt. email and you will everytime get a "No"...whats wrong with talking here they say. XPRESS is a proven SCAM and the FTC and credit card companies should shut then down because they are a FRAUD.
Pros Nice Photos
Cons Profiles are made up and the contacts messaging you are likely compensated to keep you going to induce ongoing paid membership.
I have been a member on and off this site for a few years now. I have mixed feelings about it. It has got genuine females on it looking for something extra , but that can be more than you want, and I have met a few over the years. Some have their own agenda but that`s fine. On the negative side I agree with the courting period prior to your sub running out. Also if you haven`t been on, by that I mean paid, you will get emails from women who appear to have an interest in you. They aren`t interested they are fakes because if the site was smart they`d send you mail from women in your requested age bracket and in your own country! I`m in Scotland looking for 45 plus . I`ve had 29 year old s from deepest England mailing me! As if. Get real there is no need for that nonsense. There are enough genuine people on without resorting to this.
Pros Good site well presented
Genuine people in the main.
Easy to use site
I`ve met genuine ladies in need!
Cons It`s got an annoying habit of trying to fish you in useing false profiles
It`s far too expensive.
If it was much better and no fakes we might pay the money.
Paid them 37 dollars for a month, have never been able to even log in to my acc. Contacted customer serv. they don't care, they already have the money. Just another site preying on th e lonley don't waste you time or money
Pros None
Cons Lots, I Like that they want you to type those numbers ( to prevent spam ) they are the SPAMMERS
My experience on this site
Review about WhatsYourPrice.comafter spending 3 months on this site and messaging girls and making offers. I learned that 90 % of profiles are fake profiles made by the same people who designed the website in the first place... I would recommend POF at least its free and you meet real people real profile and badoo also has 75 % real profiles .... every website is going to have a number of fake profiles but with this website its almost like 90 % that are fake ... with badoo and POF its like only 20 % that are fake profiles .. so i recommend this site for losers who have money to lose and nothing else to gain ...
Pros
There are none what so ever ... 90 % of profiles are fake
Cons
90 % of profiles are totally fake ...
Does work for booty calls
Review about Seeking ArrangementThere are pros on here, and they usually don't fool around asking for money, and lots of it. There are romantics who visualize a relationship. There are also young, relatively attractive, non-pro women interested in both money and sex.
I don't mess around asking for what I want, inexpensive NSA booty calls. If you are an attractive older man and honest about your intentions you can line up 100 dollar booty calls with nice looking, even sweet young women, and do so regularly. I have repeat action with several women from SA. It is uncomplicated, fun and a win-win situation. If it wasn't win-win for one or both party either can and do walk away. It's that simple.
Good website if you are a gold or platinum member
Review about AfroIntroductions.comI have been using this website for a while. If you are a free member you can search and sent intrests but you cannot read any messages unless the person you contact is a gold or platinum meber (but not that many girls pay for shit like dating sites, so as a man you have to pay).
In my country don't live to many black girls but I had at least 10 dates with african girls from this website, they where all very pretty, they were NOT hookers and they were all over me all night. So yes I had fun and so did they. For me this site is ideal because in my town there dont live any black chicks so is easy to look for a date with an african chick without looking too hard in other cities or obscure places where you dont wanna be at night like the amsterdam ghettos.
Pros
Real girls, no fakers
Real dates
Site has Chat function/webcam function (if you pay) where you can chat safe without somebody knowing your email/skype/phonenumber etc.... (of course you can give it to them if you want but if you are the cautious type you can chat without giving any personal info).
Cons
-Free member ship is very limited, only search (unlimited) and send intrested.
-If you want to read messages or chat / webcam chat you have to pay monthly fee.
- Monthly fee is 30 dollar a month which is a bit expensive.
- An occassional girl from africa might want to ask you to send her money or plaintickes but you cannot blaim afro-introductions for you being a stuid moron if you do that.
Agree - hood rats
Review about SkoutI am a woman that definately does not look her age, I get lots of dates. I met, face-to-face several guys in my area through skout. I agree with another reviewer nothing but hood rats. I am very attractive, fit, educated, well traveled with a professional job and all I have met are weirdos, perverts, morons, flakes and one guy who sexually assaulted me. I went to police they are working on the case. I reported the guy that assaulted me to skout through their support email as they direct in their safety info, I got an auto reply to my email the day after I sent it and 2 months later, zip back. Went and checked, guy still on skout. So much for their safety policy.
Because this is a free site and you can set up an account in two seconds it will attract more low lifes than a site with actual paying members.
Yes one can argue that well these flakes etc exists out there in real life, yes they do but with skout they are gathering in one area due to being free and easy to set up.
Pros
Easy to locate people in your own area
Cons
Attracks low quality people, no support and skout does not respond to information given regarding a dangerous user.
Scam artists
Review about SpeedDate.comI currently have reported this site to BBB. They are refusing to refund my money after accidently clucked on the wrong button. A YEAR!!!. I received no respond from them after numerous attempts at a number that doesnt have any customer service available...I was directed to a site with an email still no response. Another e- mail address still no response. I really do not believe this is a legitimate site. The people on this site are probably the owners.
Now they are refusing to refund after their contracts states they do....
Cons
Not a legitimate site...scam artists and perverts.
Agree with Vince....SCAM
Review about XXX MatchLike Vince this was my first experience with dating website. MWM I was looking for affair material....stayed on xxxmatch way to long!!! Just canceled my membership! Nothing but one line messages and invites to video sex. I'm now involved with a women I found on Ashley Madison!
Pros
Lots of video sex if thats what you're looking for
Cons
No women looking for real contact.....
Best site I found
Review about Ashley MadisonI was looking for a relationship outside my marriage and over a year or so used several sites including AshleyMadison, AffairLInk, SweetDicreet, GoHookUp, XXXMatch and Lonely Housewives. I had multiple contacts with real women looking for affairs on AshleyMadison. I am currently involved with one of those women and we are having a great time...I was very frustrated with the other sites. Most appeared to be funnels for paid video chat/sex....particularly xxxmatch, SweetDiscreet. Havent been on AL or GHU as long, but they look like the same. I did meet what appeared to be several real women on Lonely Housewives but both were too far away to meet up with. Fun to talk to though.
Pros
Real women looking to hookup.....most missing passion at home. Some dubious contacts, but sort through them.
Cons
Does take some $ to get through the process but like the guy said above....if you really want to hook up, its gonna cost ya in hotel bills anyway so be realistic! Ive spent $$$ over the past several months at hotels, meeting once a week and splitting the bills!
Good experience; lots of pervs
Review about Seeking ArrangementSo yes, I did get A LOT of emails from nasty, old or rude men; it happens on these kinds of sites. So ladies (and you tasty young men), do not be surprised when you are propositioned for oral sex in the first email, offered a few hundred per date, told (in great detail) about the nasty things he wants do to you, and generally disrespected by sleaze-ball men who are looking to buy sexual favors. SA is littered with these kinds of members.
You also need to understand what a real SB is: classy, intelligent, attractive, polite, interesting and fun. A SD is a GENTLEMAN with financial means who is also generous, sophisticated, educated, chivalrous, and benevolent. These arrangements work best when both parties meet those standards. If you're a trashy bimbo looking for easy income then you're not going to meet quality men; you're going to meet Johns looking to purchase sex (or get away with sex for free). If you're an asshat looking to buy sex (or it appears as though that's what you seek), you're not going to meet classy, DDF women who actually enjoy your company. I'm sure there are a lot of lot of fake people on the site; I'm sure there are users both attractive and generous. Just be careful about who you choose to meet.
~Men, don't give money initially; buy gifts, clothes, and spa treatments. Don't be stupid and give money to begin with, some women will take it an run off to the next victim. And don't expect sex within the first few dates; that's disgusting, rude and makes women feel cheap and used. You don't want to date women like that anyway and are on the wrong site if you're simply looking to buy sex.
~Women, do NOT have sex on the first date! No! Ew! Wait until you know he's a man of means who is perfectly willing to spoil you. Ask for an allowance AFTER you've been on a few dates and know you can envision something long term with the person. I would suggest after you know you're sexually compatible, too (which should occur no sooner than the third date. I waited until the 5th and several expensive gifts and meals).
I feel like my profile was pretty popular because I can use punctuation properly and write using multisyllabic words. I don't think I'm especially attractive (many men would disagree) but I am articulate, educated, interesting and not a financial predator; men can tell, they'll treat you with respect if you command and deserve it.
I also made sure to properly vet any potential SDs. If he brought up sex within the first 5 emails: ignore. Incomplete grasp of grammar by a native english speaker: ignore. Doesn't mention meeting after 15 emails; ignore. Asks for pictures when I already have 5+ up on the site: ignore.
One man mentioned seeing a topless pic of me (he was crude about it); he offered to spoiled the hell out of me, but I wasn't interested in seeing someone who would be so disrespectful. I don't care how much money you make-- you don't get to treat me like a whore or stripper. He was miffed when I ignored him, but I'm glad I did.
Keep your standards up, ladies. Don't stand for the abuse, no matter how desperate you are. If you're that desperate, get a job. Any job you can, that way to you can look yourself in the mirror and not be ashamed of using some nasty old lecher for his money while being used in return.
There are a few nice men on the site from what I've seen; the icky creeps don't understand what it is to be a real SD. The gross, moronic women probably don't understand what a SB is supposed to be (um, hello, he's your rich boyfriend that you have sex with).
I only ever met one man from SA: my amazing, incredible SD. I liked him initially but things were awkward for the first two dates because I didn't have any experience dating men, just immature college boys. The age difference bothered me at first, but the perks of dating someone who is financially stable, confident and knows what he's doing in bed negate that trifling detail. I now won't even consider dating some one less than 8 years older than me (I wouldn't date someone who is more 13 years older than me, though).
I don't understand how so many of you complain that you can't find a SD. I have two other men from WhatsYourPrice (sister site of SA) that are practically chomping at the bit to see and spoil me, and another from the same site that doesn't make much who has gifts waiting for me to pick up (since I'm not a predator, I won't accept them. He's nice, but I'm not attracted and refuse to use anyone). It must be because you aren't proper sugar babies and you aren't adequately vetting your prospects. And to the men that are complaining about meeting predatory women, use you're brain! You didn't make your money by being a halfwit; if she needs money, pay it weekly!
Ideally, both parties should feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. I know that's how I feel.
Pros
~SDs take care of you financially and emotionally
~You get to try to new things and travel
~They can help you with your career by opening doors for you that would otherwise be closed
~(slightly) older men are more experienced in bed ;)
~you get to take care of a man who will respect you and treat you like you deserve to be treated (if not better!). Believe me, it's rewarding
Cons
~creepy lechers
~picture collectors
~rude men
Scam
Review about Military CupidThis site sets up a bait for you to pay a membership so you can read their email. They will send you a email saying so and so is interested. If you email the so called person their profile gets switched off. That has happen 4 times. I haven't paid anything. They trick you. Beware!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pros
Fake profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cons
Fake profiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No good
Review about KoreanCupid.comI joined for a year paid $120.00 but few girls send me a interest mail but i don't know if they are even exist. Looks like most girls are fake and not even exist.
I send the E-mail to customer servise for refund my money 3 days later i joined. because i didn't satisfied but i don't heard anything from them at all NO ANSWER. Once you pay thats it !! I lost $120.00 in split second from a bad choice i made.
I hope there are no more victim like me through this website
www.koreancupid.com
Pros
none
Cons
everything
Scammed on Muslima.com
Review about Muslima.comI was scammed professionally by a girl called Melanie Sharon Catar, who claimed to be from Canada, reverted Muslim, 26 years old, orphan and acted our the perfect muslima that a man could wish for.
She played all the right cards with me extremely cleaverly and gained my trust over a period of 6-7 weeks and eventually asked for financial help that she needs to get her fathers last investments from Turkey and surely enough I fell for it and lost around $1700 and the 3rd time she asked for money I understood I was being scammed and gave her a mouthfull.
Being an IT consultant I was sure that it was impossible for me to be scammed by someone online but no I was wrong. There are very cleaver people out there so people dont trust anyone easily even if they sound like the most religious and God fearing individual you have ever met.
Pros
A lot of people on the website...
Cons
A lot of scammers on the website.
What a Dishonest, Money-making, Disgusting SCAM!!!!!
Review about OurTimeFirst of all, I notice they do not make it easy to review their sight.
What a complete let-down and waste of good money. I too was hopeful in meeting someone after seeing the advertisements on TV that I now know are fictional. I am a professional women and I can count on one hand how many professional men showed up in my search. Like most other reviewers mentioned, I was matched up with people out of my area, the same men over and over, and people who had nothing written but their basic statistics; not even a picture! The ones with pictures were worse...a total freak show to put it mildly. I try not to be a judgemental person but are teeth too much to ask for? I actually used this sight as entertainment with my girlfriends.
My only comfort now is knowing I'm not alone with these complaints. This site should be reviewed by someone to make it STOP! Don't make the same mistake the rest of us did; DO NOT JOIN!!!!!
Pros
NONE!
Cons
See above comments!
Dont Do It!!
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukAfter using it on a free pass and entering details ... the full membership lasted 10 Min i've yet to see the effect on the bank but it cant be good!!
Don't touch it with a barge pole!!
Cons
Full on Con!!
Plenty of fatties
Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)I've been on this site for about a year. I met a woman and saw her several times. She turned out to be a headcase although crazy in the head usually means fun in bed which it was. I find that one out of 20 emails get answered. Lots of time for very little return. I've seen the same profiles come up as supposed matches. Very little new talent. I've probably been out on a dozen meetings, but unfortunately my third eye isn't blind. I have encountered more than a couple that started right out by describing their financial woes. If you have a lot of time and energy and can tolerate total rejection by all means sign up because it costs nothing but time.
As a word of caution, beware of women that lack full body photos unless you are looking for somebody that outweighs you. T Rex lives at pof...
Pros
Free
Cons
plenty of problems and head cases. the few decent looking women in my age group are stuck up bitches that truly believe there is no odor to their fecal matter.
Yup its a scam
Review about BlackCrushThere are too many of these sites out there....but I have a weakness for black women...sigh
The whole site is FAKE no real people that I could find, but they have "characters" send you short messages....to kind of give you hope....LOL
Cons
Don't go there....period
Not so impressed
Review about Match.comThought what the hay... lets give it a try... I am a white collar professional and really thought that i would be able to at least meet a couple people to have a drink and maybe a dinner with... wow was I dissappointed.... dont waste your time. I was a member for 6 months and had more luck talking to people while shopping.
Pros
Nice site and a lot of features
Cons
No one of any substance.... seems like everybody is looking for something that does not exist.... saw too many players ----
Believe that most dating sites are bogus
Review about XPress.comBased upon what others have stated about XPress, I decided to do a test. Now, I am a pretty darn good looking guy, slim, and in shape. I was receiving dating and meeting requests from some of the females in my area. When I replied to them I simply asked each one if they would provide me with their cell phone number and personal email address as I wanted to prove if XPress is legitimate or not by calling or emailing them to verify. I get one sentence generic replies back with "why don't you think this site is legitimate?", "you don't think I'm real?", "I'm sorry you feel that way", etc,. These replies only come through the site . None have ever given me their cell phone or email address even though I sent photos and explained what I was trying to do. What I would like to know is why the FTC allows these bogus sites to continue to rip everyone off. Probably because they operate out of a third world country.
Pros
Absolutely none.
Cons
The word says it all. CON.
Total fraud. Don't waste your time or money.
Review about XPress.comThis site is totally fake. None of the "women" are for real. They are all just people who get paid to put up fake profiles with pictures of models, and stories about how hot and horny they are.
If you want to see how fake it is, for free, just create a profile there. Don't upload any pictures or say anything about yourself. Just create a blank profile. Then watch and see how many emails you get from all kinds of really hot looking women, saying that they want you. Watch how many "meet in person" and "date me" requests you get. They're just trying to get you to pay up so you can read all the emails you're getting from all these phony women.
If you end up making the same mistake I made, spend a few months on this site, thinking you're actually going to meet someone, you will be disappointed. And if you try to collect on their "100 Day Guarantee," you'll find out that even the guarantee is a scam!
Pros
It's a great site if you like to pay good money to look at phony profiles and get emails from people who get paid to pretend to be interested in meeting you. If that's what you like to do, you will like this site.
Cons
You won't actually meet real women on this site. You will only find phony profiles, and you will only get emails from people who get paid to send messages and pretend to be interested in you. The "100 Day Guarantee" is lie. The whole thing is just a big scam.
Scammers
Review about Biker PlanetThis is one head of a 120+ website that not only sells your information but will also double charge your bank account (First Beat Media ) or so they call themsevles
Pros
There are none these guys are a scam
Cons
They will do there best not to give you any other human, I am pretty sure the number I called on the first charge put me in touch with the same person that I spoke with on the second charge. They say they cannot find a supervisor as is part of the scam.
A total waste of time
Review about XPress.comThis site will send you people that some how love your profile despite it being blank. A little trick I learned a while back. Register, but don't fill anything out. All of a sudden I get e-mails, flirts, views and all these women young enough to be my daughter wanting to meet and thinking I'm the greatest thing, all with a blank profile. This site is a scam from the get go. If you register and get a luck, that is just it you were lucky, but I wouldn't put money into this site if some one else paid it.
Pros
Some nice pics, and they know how to flatter you
Cons
None of it's real, and the odds of connecting are little to none.
This Site absolutely works
Review about Seeking ArrangementI meet a few decent and fun Sugar babies on here.
Highly recommended. Just take time and weed out the flakes.
My first Sugar Baby was 22yrs old (I am 55yrs) and we had a blast.
The chats, dates and sex was fantastic.
Dating another 22yr old College Babe that is highly money motivated BUT she does deliver. This will be most likely short term but its fun so far.
Remember you may have to screen some flakes to get to decent ones.
Pros
Nice Pool of young ladies.
Easy Search engine
Cuts out a lot of time and BS since both parties understand what its all about
Cons
Despite some unrealistic expectations from some young ladies, Its a good site that gets results. Just keep your guard up with these young whipper snappers
seekingarrangement review
Review about Seeking ArrangementWell, I have seen a few ladies on this site. A few of them showed up stoned or drunk and had unrealistic expectation. A few of the gals are hustlers. They asked that I would pay them for having a conversation on the phone or meet them for the first time. When I would tell them that I would meet them for a meet and greet to see if there is chemistry. They started making threats and try manipulation and try to belittle me to make me feel inferior. It almost resembled going to the used car lot. Out of every 5 dates about 3 of them would flake out after I agreed to an arrangement and they wouldn't show up. The other two after a few meetings wanted to change the arrangement again using all sorts of manipulation techniques to become a up the allowance.
Pros
An old rich man could meet a college gal who wouldn't look at him in regular restaurant or bar.
Cons
You have to deal with the bitchy attitude and hustlers and lots of liars on this site to find someone that might work out. Gals are normally too hungry for financial side of things that they make the whole thing sound like a client lawyer relationship. You will feel like getting treated like a man going to a used car lot.
A Scam as bad as it gets - STAY AWAY
Review about XPress.comImmediatly after joining this site I started getting messages from much younger girls. About 95% were all from only 2 city's which is not even close to me....in fact 2-3 states / 100's of miles away. Messages are most always time stamped after midnight and especially 2:00am -3:00am when most people are asleep. You will never get a responce in the daytime or early evening. NOTICE: Your credit card is billed with an overseas transaction sur-charge. I've NEVER seen a profile as "online now" except once and never got a responce back until the weeee hours of the morning, again asleep. Messages are always one line "teasers" and when it gets near the end of your paid membership...watch out because they really start pouring in on then. Tell one your membership is about to expire and suggest communicating from pvt. email and you will everytime get a "No"...whats wrong with talking here they say. XPRESS is a proven SCAM and the FTC and credit card companies should shut then down because they are a FRAUD.
Pros
Nice Photos
Cons
Profiles are made up and the contacts messaging you are likely compensated to keep you going to induce ongoing paid membership.
Illicit
Review about Illicit EncountersI have been a member on and off this site for a few years now. I have mixed feelings about it. It has got genuine females on it looking for something extra , but that can be more than you want, and I have met a few over the years. Some have their own agenda but that`s fine. On the negative side I agree with the courting period prior to your sub running out. Also if you haven`t been on, by that I mean paid, you will get emails from women who appear to have an interest in you. They aren`t interested they are fakes because if the site was smart they`d send you mail from women in your requested age bracket and in your own country! I`m in Scotland looking for 45 plus . I`ve had 29 year old s from deepest England mailing me! As if. Get real there is no need for that nonsense. There are enough genuine people on without resorting to this.
Pros
Good site well presented
Genuine people in the main.
Easy to use site
I`ve met genuine ladies in need!
Cons
It`s got an annoying habit of trying to fish you in useing false profiles
It`s far too expensive.
If it was much better and no fakes we might pay the money.
I won`t be back on it
Ripoff
Review about Married But LonelyPaid them 37 dollars for a month, have never been able to even log in to my acc. Contacted customer serv. they don't care, they already have the money. Just another site preying on th e lonley don't waste you time or money
Pros
None
Cons
Lots, I Like that they want you to type those numbers ( to prevent spam ) they are the SPAMMERS