This site seemed like it's everything you would but it's not if you sing up you'll get messages from some of the best looking women you've ever seen but after a while you'll stop getting emails from one and just as your get ready to shut down your account a new beauty will being to email you just to keep you hooked
Pros ummmmm
Cons you lose money on a wild goose chase,
nothing is real about the women you talk to
xpress.com is the biggest ripoff I have ever seen on the internet. You see mostly all gorgeous girls mostly nude pictures and in their 20s... their profiles expressing their sexual fantasies but nothing more. On the right column they have data describing themselves and their perfect date. In many of the profiles they answer "tell ya latter." This is for nearly every question. How can anyone not indicate what their interests are and their preferences for a male partner are? Is is possible that so many young women would like to date a 57 year old man. I have never seen this on other websites like Plenty of Fish. They tend to be women about my own age and average looking.
The replies I get are really lame like "I like to have fun". Don't you think if they were for real they would describe what they call having fun is? The words are so few and seem like they are computer generated and after 20 emails you don't feel you are getting to know the girl...very little info.
So I tried to ask one girl who claimed to like documentary if she had seen one of my favorites and expressed my feelings about the art of doc film making.
She replied "so how was the rest of your day." These women don't seem real.
I really don't think they exist and would most women like to put themselves on a site like this? Is it possible that they are all so attractive?
The last thing are the women who claim they are always thinking of me. After a bunch of emails you would think a woman who says she always thinks about you would be willing to exchange phone numbers. Don't you think? Have not met any of them and don't expect to ever see one of them.
Steer away from this site. They are all criminals trying to suck you in to a bad situation.
I can't remember why I joined this site in the first place, but it is a complete scam, for all the reasons listed in the other reviews. I'm guessing that the company that runs BeNaughty, also runs the webcam site that the girls try to get you to join.
I should have known better. Thinking with the wrong head again!
There might be a few real women here and there... but almost every woman/girl that wrote me or responded to me was a cam-girl or wanted to run some other scam on me.
It almost got to be funny, because they would say the same exact things. I would be surprised if there was even a girl at the other end of things. Probably some big fat guy laughing his head off.
Pros NONE
I did chat with a couple of 'real' women... but I really don't know if they were even women.
:@:((:$
Every one this site is bad I would not let any of my friends or family ever put any info on this ever .I will never go back I Was there for 3 mo and that is full of PAK men that like to ask you for visa and say I Love and try to push you off the site right away
After Meeting a Man that i though was a doctor and from India In New York city
Every thing changed from not being a doctor to not being from India Not even being single from not being Hindi to being Muslim and married
to telling strange storys at the End ...All men that write is wanting Visas and green cards and marriage right off
I will never go back there and I will tell my friends to stay off of there and my family for that matter
Pros They tell you abut scams right off and have 2 pages of scam info
Cons They do not clean the site after you report the scammer
and they do not email you abut what took place as they say the will but never do in this fact they do not a thing abut it they do not even take the person off
I was getting mass emails from them. I inquired set up an account. I was surprised at how many 29 yr olds were trying to contact me and viewing my profile. All 29yr olds. I went to the setting of 45 to 55 and viewed several. Interesting that nobody from that age group viewed my profile. Again as many others had stated.... All were viewed past 24 hours. I can't find a profile with out a photo, nor can I find a profile that was past the 24 hours viewed. Also if you go to other cities and read the profiles it repeats. I didn't pay for the service as I was thinking it's a bit over the top to see so many nude profile photos.
Stay away...... SCAM!
Pros Hot Computer generated women(Photo's), but they are not real
After reading a few reviews I completely argue with Alexandra. Even though I'm young in all my years have I never felt so violated and disrespected. Obviously these men want one thing and one thing only....SEX.
It seems whenever you mention an arrangment, they make excuses on why they cant pay or they need to go on a few "dates" = "hotel rooms" to get to know you "better" before any arrangment starts.
There is a difference between an "SB" and an "escort" and they have the wrong website if they believe in such.
Also it seems like ANYONE can fake being a millionaire on this site.
I ran into several fake men just wanting sex and not wanting an relationship at all.
Anyone can fake an income on the site, anyone can talk a good game talking about how much they are willing to spoil you. And anyone can rent a nice car for a month less than $1000. It's THAT easy. Sad but true.
But I don't recommend this site to anyone. Just insecure "so called" rich men who want to take advantage of young females in peril. I truly feel like I wasted so much time on this site. So not worth it.
Isn't it strange how as soon as anypone writes a bad (hence accurate!) review of Illicit Encounters, a good review almost instantly then appears. It is safe to assume that all of the positive reviews of this over-priced and rip off site below have been posted by the company behind Illicit Encounters. They certainly have no qualms about creating fake female profiles and messages to sucker guys into paying their exorbitant fees. Of course all activitiy from these supposedly interested 'women' evaporates as soon as you've paid up. You only start getting attention again from 'women' on the site when your subscription lapses. There surely must be a law against this fakery?
Do not join this site under any circumstances. You'd have more chance of meeting a woman by walking into a bar and burning the ÃÂã149 it costs to join!
Pros None whatsoever
Cons Ridiculously expensive
Faked female profiles and messages
As a single father of a 2 year old I had no time and little hope of a social life that would expose me to eligible women. I found Afroromance online and was pleased with the selection of intelligent, serious lookers.
I fell in love with Crystal's photo of her and her three children. We chatted for a couple weeks and met.
That was 4 years ago.
We got married in August 27th. I never would have found her without this site.
Pros The selection of serious potential mates is just amazing!!!
Illicit Encounters is the best all-round married dating site, I have been on a few others but the only one I have had any success on is Illicit Encounters. It is quite expensive but that cuts down the competition in my opinion. If you can't afford to pay you can't afford to play!
I just fucked my 10th woman from AM. It has taken about 3 years and about 4 credit updates ($280). There are a lot of fake profiles on the site and you just have to blow them off. But there are plenty of women wanting to fuck like bunnies. I was surprised at how many ladies are looking for cock on the side. Of course, the real spending comes when you have to get hotel rooms. And there are a lot of women looking for sugar daddies. Just avoid them, be patient, and don't post naked pics. Women seem to hate that. Be aggressive but nor overly aggressive. I fucked up a chance at a hot number 11 because I thought I needed to get her attention quickly before other guys beat me to it. Just be cool. If one woman doesn't work, there are plenty of others. Also, be wary of profiles with no photos and no feedback.
I've been on AM for almost a year now. I've gotten a few messages, but no actual dates.
Not all the members are out to cheat. There are a few single women, but most of them are looking for sugar daddy's.
The first woman who contacted me trying to cheat on her husband seem pretty bitter after he cheated on her first. If that's you're thing great.
If adultry is your thing, go for it.
Pros Very few fake looking profiles. The messages I do get do not appear robotically generated. The women all seem very real.
Cons For us guys, it takes lots of time and patience before you will meet anyone.
True there are fake profiles on A4A but I usually run into the real ones. Many people on there are very rude. Especially the white guys and Asian guys (and I am referring the to twinks, I'm a masculine that likes twinks)
I met my twinky Dominican BF on there 2 &1/2 yrs ago. I had no idea back then that he would turn out to be the stereo-typical feminine twink SLUT. He "liked" me a lot. Came from NYC to CT to stay with me several times. Wrote me on FB telling me how much fun he had with me and that he'd hate to think he was just someone I was f*cking for the moment. So I got a little heartfelt emotional and caught feelings for him. After a month of seeing each other I asked him to be my BF. He was excited! He was 19 at the time. Well... 2 & 1/2 yrs later, all he brought my life was head-ache and heart-ache. Thru the yrs I discovered he STILL had his profile running on A4A. He claimed it was just to meet "new friends". Bullshit! You don't make friends on A4A, you make hook ups. He didn't just have 1 profile, I discovered 3 profiles of his. All saying something different and all stating he lived in different parts of NYC.
Bottom line: even the people who actually are real and meet up with you are nothing but skanky sluts. These people are addicted to sex and attention. Altho my ex is beautiful (he really is) he is a sociopath with a complex of wanting to make sure that men find him attractive. He's all about his looks. But instead of taking a compliment and moving along, he takes it to the next level and sleeps with all the men who want to screw him. He cheated on me several times and didn't even make the guys use protection. Luckily, I am clean as of 3 weeks ago.
If you're looking for a RELATIONSHIP , A4A is NOT the place. The ONLY good thing about it is that it's 100% free to use. No membership fees to send or receive emails. So that's where all the sluts go - to the FREE sites.
I've been on this site for almost a year now and I've actually had one date out of it. She didn't want to get involved with a married guy unless my wife was cool with it, so the two of them met first. Too bad things never worked out, she would have been fun. (Well, even more fun).
Most of the profiles are real. They're a few fake ones, but they're easy to spot. If they look too good to be true and have only been on there for a day, they're probably fake.
Like all casual dating sites, there are a lot more men on there than women. But most of the men just have penis pictures and want to fuck, so that weeds most of them out. Regardless, it takes patience.
Pros I'm only recommending this because it simply doesn't suck as bad as the others.
Cons If you really want just NSA sex, hire an escort.
I get quite a few messages on here from very hot and very horny women, but let's face it guys, unless we slipped into an alternate reality where porn is real, women aren't really like that.
The replies I get seem kind of odd. It's like they don't quite read what I say before responding. They seem pretty much computer generated.
The sad think is. Even if I did get a real message, it would be buried in all the fake crap.
Half a year ago I discover behappy2day dating site and thought it was just like many others. I am a member of a few dating sites and all of them are really similar. But what surprised me about behappy is the customer support they provide. The number of ladies in the catalogue is great. I was a bit surprised to get so many responses from so many ladies. I have never felt so popular. It was hard to make a choice. But mmy heart helped me to do it. Now I am corresponding with my Natalia. I have met her twice already in Russia and we are in a process of making a fiance visa. I do not know if i am one of those few guys who succeed in online dating. But I am happy I found this site.
Pros good customer care
big range of services
Cons too big catalogue which complicates the choice
Please don't waste your time or money on this dodgy site, they make you feel there is some interest in you and once you paid the interest like totally evaporates. They depend on fake messages written by spambots probably to keep you engaged. No doubt some people have found fun and an affair but for my money all the women are not what they say they are and by all account some of the men are badly suspect.
AVOID this costly scammy site - it's for losers (not including me obviously!)
for all wondering to join or not, just create an account wait for some girl to email you (always the first are from your region). create a second account with a different region and search those girls. you will see that the same girls are living now in another region.
Pros They arrange actual in-person dates with people who will actually show up, and as everyone is somewhat screened, the people you meet will likely be nice folks and not major creeps. Given the limitations we all face with schedules/time, etc. this is actually a very much appreciated feature. If they would simply admit that this is the extent of their services, I would have felt a lot better about the experience.
Cons There is a lack of personal "match making"--how could they really know you when they have 1500 people in the database and the screening consists of a 1 hour interview? Foolish me for believing them.
The matches they made for me, while pleasant enough gentlemen, were in no way, shape, or form people with whom I had any romantic spark. And, rather than try to address the mis-matches occurring, the staff acted as if I was the problem. Perhaps I am, but if they are going to oversell their service and then underperform, don't be shocked if a customer is disappointed.
For me, this was an unpleasant (and quite expensive) learning experience.
Endless emails and assholes. I'd do a better job out looking for a sugar daddy at the mall then on this site.
1. They favorite you BUT when you email them to say hi they never email back let alone acknowledge you. Does that make sense???
2. The profiles with no pictures always ask for several pictures of you BUT when you ask for at least one in return you either get a defensive remark OR never hear from them again.
3. SOOOOOOOO many fake millionaires it's just SAD. One mans profile was $500000 BUT when wanting to meet me was willing to pay $80 then sex!
4. Endless...AND I MEAN ENDLESS emails of replying to men BUT never hearing from them back.
5. Horny men wanting to collect your pictures. Along with them just wanting sex and NO discussion of arrangement.
One man was kissing my ass saying how pretty I was and he wanted me to come down to NYC for the weekend, when trying to get to know him, his attitude changed and his replys to my emails were short and rude. All he wanted to talk about was sex. When trying to get off the topic I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN.
6. These men try to whisper sweet nothing's into your ear saying they'll give you money, shopping, car ect. So far I'll believe it when I see it. And I don't see a PENNY.
7. Some men just try to get off by JUST taking you out to eat. Ok nice and all but DINNER will not help me pay for my phone bill. No discussion of an allowance...NOTHING. Oh! But when it comes to SEX the men are very quick to comment.
My list goes on but seeing this site on tv and glamorizing it, it's BS. Obviously the women representing this site were payed good money to advertise. And a lot of the women that were on tv talking about they never had sex with the men...IS BULLLLLSHIT. No way in hell a man is gonna pay for a beautiful apartment a new car, traveling, shopping and you guys aren't having sex.
Point is this site is NO sugar daddy site. It's a common escort site and the man who invented the site is a first class PIMP.
I rest my case. This is a waste of time and energy.
Again...better finding a SD at a rich charity event or such.
Pros Are you serious???
Cons Waste of time
Sore fingers from writing ENDLESS emails
Agitation
Short tolerance for BS
fake profiles
Flakes and fakes
Cheap con artist
Ect ect ect
There are numerous sites that are illegitimate, but this site has to be among the top of the list. Me, being a complete fool, decided to stick with it for the long haul! Granted it was my first experience with a dating site. I wasted well over a year for my membership. As these previous reviews mentioned prior, there are site administrators posing as female, and possibly male, members. Their purpose is to bombard you with emails from the opposite sex to rope you into paying for their site, but once you do, you become significantly less popular. Big surprise! They eventually offer half-off monthly discounts when you attempt to cancel your membership. There are also profiles set up by con artists from other countries, for ex, the Philippines, that offer their email, and ask you for money when you decide to contact them. Majorly, they reside on Yahoo messenger. That's an obvious red flag, if the request for money wasn't enough. There are several sites with the exact same set up as XXX Match, they're all the same, and all connected. Save yourself a lot of time and money, and look elsewhere.
Pros None, unless you wanna pay your hard earned money to get mind-f**ked!
Cons Ha! The key word being "CON"! Keep away from this site at all costs, please protect your wallets from these scam artists!
i am currenltly on blackfling i was checking it out at first this means i wasnt a paid member but i notice getting all these hot messages i ignored alot of them, then there was this one girl i seen really caught my eye and the site told me she wanted to see my picture and know more about me so i ran to get my debit card and paid the gold member price then i checked my messages she wasn't there as a matter of fact the last time she was on the website was 2 months before then i noticed they have lots of memebers are suppose to be new members that had been members 5 months before i got on and what happened to all those steamy messages ever since i gave them my money i recieved nothing. I been scamed !!!
Pros plenty of black wemen on there and very attractive too.
Cons most of the wemen well the most sexier ones havn't even been active on the site for months you wont knw this unless you are a paid member. Seems like mostly everyone on there is looking for love according to the profiles i read, its called blackfling but people are acting like its e-hormony. they will try to fool you with pictures of sexy females and say they are interested until they get ya money then you will find out they were not.
I used this site for 1 year and payed for Gold membership. And met several girls through the site. It works like this; if you pay you can contact anyone, and any member can read your messages and write you, because standard members can contact paying members. That is good unlike other dating sites where you pay, but if the ones you are interested in they can't read your mail or write you back unless they pay first. With Japan Cupid this problem doesn't occur.
I met my wife through this site and before that several other girls that I met and dated. Two in Europe and 4 during one of my trips to Japan. Some of them are still friends. As most girls live in Japan at this site, it is almost necessary to vist Japan to meet most of them. There are some fake profiles, but that is perhaps 1 percent. Remember that Japanese need a delicate approach in order to get a reply!
Pros - When you pay, your messages can be read and replied by none paying members. For a year it costs 10, - a month for, not to expensive for a good site and you can unlimited contact other members.
When I noticed a few odd things about this site, like how none of the girls smoke cigs, or how "last activity" was 24 hours in all my search results before paying, but now none of the same girls have been online for 6+ months, or the biggest red flag of all - 90% of the women are gorgeous.... I finally decided to do some research.
Prior to joining this site, I've had some success on PlentyOfFish, which is truly free. Met 4 women so far in person, even had sex with one of those. But the truth about that site is that since it's real, most of the women aren't all that attractive. You have to wade through tons of profiles to find ones that you like. So you know it's real.
I'm kinda kicking myself for letting this site suck me in and get my money, now that I've read the other reviews here.
Keep your money
Review about XPress.comThis site seemed like it's everything you would but it's not if you sing up you'll get messages from some of the best looking women you've ever seen but after a while you'll stop getting emails from one and just as your get ready to shut down your account a new beauty will being to email you just to keep you hooked
Pros
ummmmm
Cons
you lose money on a wild goose chase,
nothing is real about the women you talk to
A Hoax
Review about XPress.comxpress.com is the biggest ripoff I have ever seen on the internet. You see mostly all gorgeous girls mostly nude pictures and in their 20s... their profiles expressing their sexual fantasies but nothing more. On the right column they have data describing themselves and their perfect date. In many of the profiles they answer "tell ya latter." This is for nearly every question. How can anyone not indicate what their interests are and their preferences for a male partner are? Is is possible that so many young women would like to date a 57 year old man. I have never seen this on other websites like Plenty of Fish. They tend to be women about my own age and average looking.
The replies I get are really lame like "I like to have fun". Don't you think if they were for real they would describe what they call having fun is? The words are so few and seem like they are computer generated and after 20 emails you don't feel you are getting to know the girl...very little info.
So I tried to ask one girl who claimed to like documentary if she had seen one of my favorites and expressed my feelings about the art of doc film making.
She replied "so how was the rest of your day." These women don't seem real.
I really don't think they exist and would most women like to put themselves on a site like this? Is it possible that they are all so attractive?
The last thing are the women who claim they are always thinking of me. After a bunch of emails you would think a woman who says she always thinks about you would be willing to exchange phone numbers. Don't you think? Have not met any of them and don't expect to ever see one of them.
Steer away from this site. They are all criminals trying to suck you in to a bad situation.
Pros
You get to jerk off to nude photos
Cons
You've been jerked off by a bunch of crooks.
All the bad reviews are right
Review about BeNaughtyI can't remember why I joined this site in the first place, but it is a complete scam, for all the reasons listed in the other reviews. I'm guessing that the company that runs BeNaughty, also runs the webcam site that the girls try to get you to join.
I should have known better. Thinking with the wrong head again!
There might be a few real women here and there... but almost every woman/girl that wrote me or responded to me was a cam-girl or wanted to run some other scam on me.
It almost got to be funny, because they would say the same exact things. I would be surprised if there was even a girl at the other end of things. Probably some big fat guy laughing his head off.
Pros
NONE
I did chat with a couple of 'real' women... but I really don't know if they were even women.
Cons
The whole thing is one big scam
Will never ever go back ConnectingSingles
Review about ConnectingSingles:@:((:$
Every one this site is bad I would not let any of my friends or family ever put any info on this ever .I will never go back I Was there for 3 mo and that is full of PAK men that like to ask you for visa and say I Love and try to push you off the site right away
After Meeting a Man that i though was a doctor and from India In New York city
Every thing changed from not being a doctor to not being from India Not even being single from not being Hindi to being Muslim and married
to telling strange storys at the End ...All men that write is wanting Visas and green cards and marriage right off
I will never go back there and I will tell my friends to stay off of there and my family for that matter
Pros
They tell you abut scams right off and have 2 pages of scam info
Cons
They do not clean the site after you report the scammer
and they do not email you abut what took place as they say the will but never do in this fact they do not a thing abut it they do not even take the person off
FAKE
Review about XPress.comI was getting mass emails from them. I inquired set up an account. I was surprised at how many 29 yr olds were trying to contact me and viewing my profile. All 29yr olds. I went to the setting of 45 to 55 and viewed several. Interesting that nobody from that age group viewed my profile. Again as many others had stated.... All were viewed past 24 hours. I can't find a profile with out a photo, nor can I find a profile that was past the 24 hours viewed. Also if you go to other cities and read the profiles it repeats. I didn't pay for the service as I was thinking it's a bit over the top to see so many nude profile photos.
Stay away...... SCAM!
Pros
Hot Computer generated women(Photo's), but they are not real
Cons
Profiles are FAKE nearly all of them!
Never Again
Review about Seeking ArrangementAfter reading a few reviews I completely argue with Alexandra. Even though I'm young in all my years have I never felt so violated and disrespected. Obviously these men want one thing and one thing only....SEX.
It seems whenever you mention an arrangment, they make excuses on why they cant pay or they need to go on a few "dates" = "hotel rooms" to get to know you "better" before any arrangment starts.
There is a difference between an "SB" and an "escort" and they have the wrong website if they believe in such.
Also it seems like ANYONE can fake being a millionaire on this site.
I ran into several fake men just wanting sex and not wanting an relationship at all.
Anyone can fake an income on the site, anyone can talk a good game talking about how much they are willing to spoil you. And anyone can rent a nice car for a month less than $1000. It's THAT easy. Sad but true.
But I don't recommend this site to anyone. Just insecure "so called" rich men who want to take advantage of young females in peril. I truly feel like I wasted so much time on this site. So not worth it.
Hope this helped.
Pros
Exciting at first but that it
Cons
WASTE OF TIME
Isn't it strange....
Review about Illicit EncountersIsn't it strange how as soon as anypone writes a bad (hence accurate!) review of Illicit Encounters, a good review almost instantly then appears. It is safe to assume that all of the positive reviews of this over-priced and rip off site below have been posted by the company behind Illicit Encounters. They certainly have no qualms about creating fake female profiles and messages to sucker guys into paying their exorbitant fees. Of course all activitiy from these supposedly interested 'women' evaporates as soon as you've paid up. You only start getting attention again from 'women' on the site when your subscription lapses. There surely must be a law against this fakery?
Do not join this site under any circumstances. You'd have more chance of meeting a woman by walking into a bar and burning the ÃÂã149 it costs to join!
Pros
None whatsoever
Cons
Ridiculously expensive
Faked female profiles and messages
We got married!!!
Review about AfroRomanceAs a single father of a 2 year old I had no time and little hope of a social life that would expose me to eligible women. I found Afroromance online and was pleased with the selection of intelligent, serious lookers.
I fell in love with Crystal's photo of her and her three children. We chatted for a couple weeks and met.
That was 4 years ago.
We got married in August 27th. I never would have found her without this site.
Pros
The selection of serious potential mates is just amazing!!!
Illicit Encounters are everywhere?
Review about Illicit EncountersIllicit Encounters is the best all-round married dating site, I have been on a few others but the only one I have had any success on is Illicit Encounters. It is quite expensive but that cuts down the competition in my opinion. If you can't afford to pay you can't afford to play!
Pros
Lots of women and men are priced out.
Cons
Expensive
WealthyMen.com is a Scam
Review about WealthyMen.comI set up the profile, paid and went throught the verifications yesterday. Today they say my account is disable and will not let me sighn in
Pros
None, never got to use the site
Cons
Paid to use the site and yet my account was somehow disabled
AM Sucks
Review about Ashley MadisonThe same profiles always there for months.
Very few replies
they seem to be looking for basketball players or sugar daddies
Pros
Sounds like a nice idea
Cons
Just another way to extract money
Guess I'm lucky
Review about Ashley MadisonI just fucked my 10th woman from AM. It has taken about 3 years and about 4 credit updates ($280). There are a lot of fake profiles on the site and you just have to blow them off. But there are plenty of women wanting to fuck like bunnies. I was surprised at how many ladies are looking for cock on the side. Of course, the real spending comes when you have to get hotel rooms. And there are a lot of women looking for sugar daddies. Just avoid them, be patient, and don't post naked pics. Women seem to hate that. Be aggressive but nor overly aggressive. I fucked up a chance at a hot number 11 because I thought I needed to get her attention quickly before other guys beat me to it. Just be cool. If one woman doesn't work, there are plenty of others. Also, be wary of profiles with no photos and no feedback.
Pros
Some women really want to get laid!
Cons
Lots of fake profiles.
Definitely Maybe
Review about Ashley MadisonI've been on AM for almost a year now. I've gotten a few messages, but no actual dates.
Not all the members are out to cheat. There are a few single women, but most of them are looking for sugar daddy's.
The first woman who contacted me trying to cheat on her husband seem pretty bitter after he cheated on her first. If that's you're thing great.
If adultry is your thing, go for it.
Pros
Very few fake looking profiles. The messages I do get do not appear robotically generated. The women all seem very real.
Cons
For us guys, it takes lots of time and patience before you will meet anyone.
Met my BF on A4A but not a happy ending
Review about Adam4AdamTrue there are fake profiles on A4A but I usually run into the real ones. Many people on there are very rude. Especially the white guys and Asian guys (and I am referring the to twinks, I'm a masculine that likes twinks)
I met my twinky Dominican BF on there 2 &1/2 yrs ago. I had no idea back then that he would turn out to be the stereo-typical feminine twink SLUT. He "liked" me a lot. Came from NYC to CT to stay with me several times. Wrote me on FB telling me how much fun he had with me and that he'd hate to think he was just someone I was f*cking for the moment. So I got a little heartfelt emotional and caught feelings for him. After a month of seeing each other I asked him to be my BF. He was excited! He was 19 at the time. Well... 2 & 1/2 yrs later, all he brought my life was head-ache and heart-ache. Thru the yrs I discovered he STILL had his profile running on A4A. He claimed it was just to meet "new friends". Bullshit! You don't make friends on A4A, you make hook ups. He didn't just have 1 profile, I discovered 3 profiles of his. All saying something different and all stating he lived in different parts of NYC.
Bottom line: even the people who actually are real and meet up with you are nothing but skanky sluts. These people are addicted to sex and attention. Altho my ex is beautiful (he really is) he is a sociopath with a complex of wanting to make sure that men find him attractive. He's all about his looks. But instead of taking a compliment and moving along, he takes it to the next level and sleeps with all the men who want to screw him. He cheated on me several times and didn't even make the guys use protection. Luckily, I am clean as of 3 weeks ago.
If you're looking for a RELATIONSHIP , A4A is NOT the place. The ONLY good thing about it is that it's 100% free to use. No membership fees to send or receive emails. So that's where all the sluts go - to the FREE sites.
Pros
FREE
Cons
SLUTS
Maybe...
Review about Adult FriendfinderI've been on this site for almost a year now and I've actually had one date out of it. She didn't want to get involved with a married guy unless my wife was cool with it, so the two of them met first. Too bad things never worked out, she would have been fun. (Well, even more fun).
Most of the profiles are real. They're a few fake ones, but they're easy to spot. If they look too good to be true and have only been on there for a day, they're probably fake.
Like all casual dating sites, there are a lot more men on there than women. But most of the men just have penis pictures and want to fuck, so that weeds most of them out. Regardless, it takes patience.
Pros
I'm only recommending this because it simply doesn't suck as bad as the others.
Cons
If you really want just NSA sex, hire an escort.
Mostly fake (99%)
Review about XPress.comI get quite a few messages on here from very hot and very horny women, but let's face it guys, unless we slipped into an alternate reality where porn is real, women aren't really like that.
The replies I get seem kind of odd. It's like they don't quite read what I say before responding. They seem pretty much computer generated.
The sad think is. Even if I did get a real message, it would be buried in all the fake crap.
Pros
None.
Cons
Fake, fake, fake
BeHappy2Day service
Review about BeHappy2DayHalf a year ago I discover behappy2day dating site and thought it was just like many others. I am a member of a few dating sites and all of them are really similar. But what surprised me about behappy is the customer support they provide. The number of ladies in the catalogue is great. I was a bit surprised to get so many responses from so many ladies. I have never felt so popular. It was hard to make a choice. But mmy heart helped me to do it. Now I am corresponding with my Natalia. I have met her twice already in Russia and we are in a process of making a fiance visa. I do not know if i am one of those few guys who succeed in online dating. But I am happy I found this site.
Pros
good customer care
big range of services
Cons
too big catalogue which complicates the choice
IE having a laugh at your expense
Review about Illicit EncountersPlease don't waste your time or money on this dodgy site, they make you feel there is some interest in you and once you paid the interest like totally evaporates. They depend on fake messages written by spambots probably to keep you engaged. No doubt some people have found fun and an affair but for my money all the women are not what they say they are and by all account some of the men are badly suspect.
AVOID this costly scammy site - it's for losers (not including me obviously!)
Pros
some real people looking for 'love'
Cons
Manipulative and expensive
scam
Review about BeNaughtyfor all wondering to join or not, just create an account wait for some girl to email you (always the first are from your region). create a second account with a different region and search those girls. you will see that the same girls are living now in another region.
Less than I had hoped
Review about MixologyPerhaps I had too high expectations.
Pros
They arrange actual in-person dates with people who will actually show up, and as everyone is somewhat screened, the people you meet will likely be nice folks and not major creeps. Given the limitations we all face with schedules/time, etc. this is actually a very much appreciated feature. If they would simply admit that this is the extent of their services, I would have felt a lot better about the experience.
Cons
There is a lack of personal "match making"--how could they really know you when they have 1500 people in the database and the screening consists of a 1 hour interview? Foolish me for believing them.
The matches they made for me, while pleasant enough gentlemen, were in no way, shape, or form people with whom I had any romantic spark. And, rather than try to address the mis-matches occurring, the staff acted as if I was the problem. Perhaps I am, but if they are going to oversell their service and then underperform, don't be shocked if a customer is disappointed.
For me, this was an unpleasant (and quite expensive) learning experience.
Waste of time
Review about Seeking ArrangementEndless emails and assholes. I'd do a better job out looking for a sugar daddy at the mall then on this site.
1. They favorite you BUT when you email them to say hi they never email back let alone acknowledge you. Does that make sense???
2. The profiles with no pictures always ask for several pictures of you BUT when you ask for at least one in return you either get a defensive remark OR never hear from them again.
3. SOOOOOOOO many fake millionaires it's just SAD. One mans profile was $500000 BUT when wanting to meet me was willing to pay $80 then sex!
4. Endless...AND I MEAN ENDLESS emails of replying to men BUT never hearing from them back.
5. Horny men wanting to collect your pictures. Along with them just wanting sex and NO discussion of arrangement.
One man was kissing my ass saying how pretty I was and he wanted me to come down to NYC for the weekend, when trying to get to know him, his attitude changed and his replys to my emails were short and rude. All he wanted to talk about was sex. When trying to get off the topic I NEVER HEARD FROM HIM AGAIN.
6. These men try to whisper sweet nothing's into your ear saying they'll give you money, shopping, car ect. So far I'll believe it when I see it. And I don't see a PENNY.
7. Some men just try to get off by JUST taking you out to eat. Ok nice and all but DINNER will not help me pay for my phone bill. No discussion of an allowance...NOTHING. Oh! But when it comes to SEX the men are very quick to comment.
My list goes on but seeing this site on tv and glamorizing it, it's BS. Obviously the women representing this site were payed good money to advertise. And a lot of the women that were on tv talking about they never had sex with the men...IS BULLLLLSHIT. No way in hell a man is gonna pay for a beautiful apartment a new car, traveling, shopping and you guys aren't having sex.
Point is this site is NO sugar daddy site. It's a common escort site and the man who invented the site is a first class PIMP.
I rest my case. This is a waste of time and energy.
Again...better finding a SD at a rich charity event or such.
Pros
Are you serious???
Cons
Waste of time
Sore fingers from writing ENDLESS emails
Agitation
Short tolerance for BS
fake profiles
Flakes and fakes
Cheap con artist
Ect ect ect
Obvious scam
Review about XXX MatchThere are numerous sites that are illegitimate, but this site has to be among the top of the list. Me, being a complete fool, decided to stick with it for the long haul! Granted it was my first experience with a dating site. I wasted well over a year for my membership. As these previous reviews mentioned prior, there are site administrators posing as female, and possibly male, members. Their purpose is to bombard you with emails from the opposite sex to rope you into paying for their site, but once you do, you become significantly less popular. Big surprise! They eventually offer half-off monthly discounts when you attempt to cancel your membership. There are also profiles set up by con artists from other countries, for ex, the Philippines, that offer their email, and ask you for money when you decide to contact them. Majorly, they reside on Yahoo messenger. That's an obvious red flag, if the request for money wasn't enough. There are several sites with the exact same set up as XXX Match, they're all the same, and all connected. Save yourself a lot of time and money, and look elsewhere.
Pros
None, unless you wanna pay your hard earned money to get mind-f**ked!
Cons
Ha! The key word being "CON"! Keep away from this site at all costs, please protect your wallets from these scam artists!
blackfling scam
Review about BlackFling.comi am currenltly on blackfling i was checking it out at first this means i wasnt a paid member but i notice getting all these hot messages i ignored alot of them, then there was this one girl i seen really caught my eye and the site told me she wanted to see my picture and know more about me so i ran to get my debit card and paid the gold member price then i checked my messages she wasn't there as a matter of fact the last time she was on the website was 2 months before then i noticed they have lots of memebers are suppose to be new members that had been members 5 months before i got on and what happened to all those steamy messages ever since i gave them my money i recieved nothing. I been scamed !!!
Pros
plenty of black wemen on there and very attractive too.
Cons
most of the wemen well the most sexier ones havn't even been active on the site for months you wont knw this unless you are a paid member. Seems like mostly everyone on there is looking for love according to the profiles i read, its called blackfling but people are acting like its e-hormony. they will try to fool you with pictures of sexy females and say they are interested until they get ya money then you will find out they were not.
Very good site!
Review about JapanCupid.comI used this site for 1 year and payed for Gold membership. And met several girls through the site. It works like this; if you pay you can contact anyone, and any member can read your messages and write you, because standard members can contact paying members. That is good unlike other dating sites where you pay, but if the ones you are interested in they can't read your mail or write you back unless they pay first. With Japan Cupid this problem doesn't occur.
I met my wife through this site and before that several other girls that I met and dated. Two in Europe and 4 during one of my trips to Japan. Some of them are still friends. As most girls live in Japan at this site, it is almost necessary to vist Japan to meet most of them. There are some fake profiles, but that is perhaps 1 percent. Remember that Japanese need a delicate approach in order to get a reply!
Pros
- When you pay, your messages can be read and replied by none paying members. For a year it costs 10, - a month for, not to expensive for a good site and you can unlimited contact other members.
- Many members.
- Easy search at the site.
Cons
Didn't experience any.
Wish I'd come here first
Review about XPress.comWhen I noticed a few odd things about this site, like how none of the girls smoke cigs, or how "last activity" was 24 hours in all my search results before paying, but now none of the same girls have been online for 6+ months, or the biggest red flag of all - 90% of the women are gorgeous.... I finally decided to do some research.
Prior to joining this site, I've had some success on PlentyOfFish, which is truly free. Met 4 women so far in person, even had sex with one of those. But the truth about that site is that since it's real, most of the women aren't all that attractive. You have to wade through tons of profiles to find ones that you like. So you know it's real.
I'm kinda kicking myself for letting this site suck me in and get my money, now that I've read the other reviews here.
Pros
nice pics of beautiful women
Cons
None of them are real, so it seems.