I've been a member of many dating sites both for singles and marrieds. Compared to the others, I found Illicit Encounters to be a refreshing experience. The ladies I've spoken to seem real and the 4 I've met in the flesh were undoubtedly genuine!! Like all dating sites, the women want to be wooed with wit and creativity. Unlike most dating sites, the ladies on IE seem to be serious about meeting up and taking things further.
I often think that some men think of dating sites as a quick fix to gaps in their real love lives. The online dating world is exactly the same as the real world when it comes to attracting women. You have to work at it.
The relationships I've had via Illicit Encounters have been different because the ladies I've met were looking for the same thing - i.e. not a full time relationship but an affair to fill in the gaps lacking in their married lives. Having matching expectations is important and the 2-3 times a month that we've met has suited both parties.
I would say to the guys who have posted negative experiences here, try again. I'm an average guy - not especially good looking nor wealthy, and yet I've met someone via IE each time I've paid their (admittedly high) upgrade fee.
Pros Genuine women looking for NSA
A good ratio of women to men compared to other dating sites
They don't bombard you with communications
What a complete waste of time and money! Had my doubt about the authenticity about some of, the few, replies. One told me my local local supermarket shut at 10pm; it's 24 hour,and didn't know where the university was.The ratio of men to women is such that you have to send a huge amount of messages to recieve a reply,but like i said;are they real?:@
SUGAR DADDY IS A VERY BIG WORD AND FRAGILE AT THE SAME TIME COS OF DESPERATION AND LONELYNESS. SUGAR DADDIES.COM HAVE GRANTED A SECOND LIFE 2 THE FACE OF THEIR RELATION THRU DATING ON LINE 2 REALITY. SUGAR DADDY .COM IS ONE OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE ONLINE DATING.
SMILES ON THE FACE DOESN'T REALLY MEAN THAT SOMEONE IS HAPPY, WHAT CREATS THE SMILES AND WHY THE SMILES MATTERS ALOT. MILLIONAIRE MATCH IS A DREAM COME TRUE THAT IS WHY I HAVE THE CONFIDENT OF WRITING AND USING THIS MEDIA 2 SAY KEEP IT UP AND I CAN'T WAIT 2 BE HOOKED.U HAVE PUT A TRUE SMILE ON THE FACES OF LONELY PEOPLE.
Nicely run married site with a personal approach that is very welcome these days. The telephone was actually answered by a human being and it felt less commercial than other sites I have tried. I even had some great dates. Well done!
Pros Personal approach, feeling of community in forum
and like RK said in a previous review; the site attempts to con the memebers into upgrading their membership to Gold or Platinum using fake contacts.
Alyaa from customer service comes out with the BS insisting they are doing all they can to keep it legit.. piss off will ya... muslim or no muslim you pple are using the religion for financial gain. and if you are stuipd enuff to pay for this site then you deserve it.
would someone tell me what is so special about marrying a native muslim anyways...
from my experience, as muslim, and dealing with muslims avoid them at all costs. these ppl have no eithics whatsoever.
if you are in the US or UK just marry someone from there. unless you are one of those control freaks that you want your spouse from the old country to control them here (specially the men). and do not get me started on the Indian/Paki Women... dude!!! come on. so waht you ahve Phd or an MD, you still look like Widow Twankie "Aladdin's mother".
There has to be a better way if doing this. to the muslima site, i hope you guys get what you deserve, bastards!!!. see u in hell. i am finding myself none-muslim ragin cajun
Pros None
Cons the site is full of fakes.
if not fake their a_holes and B###hs
i been on the site for about a month an i met this one guy name wall street party or something like that an this guy tricked me into spending time with him an he would give me money an take care of me an all he did was ruff me up an had his was an just gave me $20
I don't know how legitimate this site is... but I have to agree -- the descriptions are freakin' hilarious! Check it out if only because you wanna laugh. :D
It's quite re-assuring to read some of the males having a similar experience on here.
I have to say the first time I joined I did have a couple of meets and successes (in 08) but subsequently upon re-joining it seems that it's now become a commercial exercise to extract one-off member with the extortionate joining fee. I set up two very different profiles (non Gold member) and each was contacted (in the first instance) by exactly the same women, with similar generic names and very similar profile content. It seems they are just enticing you to join one off, it doesn't matter if you don't come back due to the high fee you paid.
This is a shame as there are a few genuine women on there but it does seem quite an effort to find those. Another issue is that because the females don't have to pay it seems that a few just use it an ego massaging exercise rather than seriously for who it is trying to match up (you can tell as they are still there after a few years!). So you have a huge mismatch of guys thinking they will message everything and anything just because of the outlay. In this case I think there should be a nominal fee for women to weed out time wasters ... but I guess it's all about supply and demand then? eh?!
Pros
Not a huge amount of men (probably due to price!)
Cons Illicit Encounters using fake profiles and messaging to entice men to upgrade membership.
A fair few non-serious women using it as a validation tool (but then which dating site doesn't?!) and a number of escorts looking to hook up a guy who will spend on something like this.
I'm an American who has used various sites over the past 6 months to talk to and meet Chinese women who are willing to develop relationship with western men. This site is probably the best for doing that as it has yielded my only sincere relationship so far. Admittedly, I haven't tried very hard on other sites, but at Chnlove at least you don't have to wonder about the background of the other person is there or what they are looking for. The ladies are truly ready for a sincere and long term relationship. I am currently in a wonderful marriage as a result of this site. I credit Chnlove for supplying it to me. But it ?s true that you need to watch out for scammers and dishonest marriage brokers who are simply there to get you spend credits?
Pros The site has rich experience in cultural dating and has been doing business with western standard. Besides, you are presented with some of the best educated and most beautiful women in China. Judged from what the profile descriptions and the site introduction, many women posted on the site are sincerely looking for a long term relationship. New profiles are updated very frequently. You can initiate contact with the ladies for FREE. Customer Service is excellent and responsive. Chnlove has also created a tips article database dedicated solely to dating and relationship advice, with a strong emphasis on self-awareness and cultural dating. This advice section includes a wealth of thoughtful and informative content as well as forums where you can discuss dating and relationships with other Chnlove members. The site call the profile section as their ?Photo Gallery? and it?s pretty entertaining. They?ve got some very beautiful photos of various Chinese women. Some also got video footage of the ladies self introduction. Profiles and searching are about as thorough as you want them to be.
Cons It is comparatively expensive to communicate with the women posted on the site. The service is partnered with the marriage brokers in China. So, the quality of those services offered by the marriage brokers may be shockingly poor. Dishonest business practice was observed in the last couple of years. But recently the site has been active in combating dishonest business practice of the marriage brokers.The large membership database makes finding mutual matches difficult.
I would never recommend this site to anyone. I had a horrible experience from a man who claimed he was from Redwood City who told me he was in Australia on business. He appeared to say all the right things and I was led down a path of deception. He said he was due back in the states in 2 weeks but had to make a quick stop to China to check on some project he was involved in. I then got an email from him indicating that he had been in a terrible car crash and was in the hospital. He asked for my phone number because he had been "thinking of me" and just wanted to hear my voice. I wondered how he was sending me an email since he said his laptop was destroyed in the crash. This all occurred when the swine flu epidemic hit and I was very concerned for his health as the hospital was quarantined. Long story short, he did call me, the phone call was brief, interrupted by the "nurse" needing to attend to him. A couple of weeks later he was out of the hospital but could not return to the US because his wallet and passport had been "lost or stolen" in the car crash. He told me he was using calling cards to call me and had borrowed money from business associates. I decided to save him money I would call him. However, I noticed a discrepancy in the time difference, he was telling me a completely different time then I was aware of. He then asked me if I could send him money so he could get back to the states, I said I could not, couldn't understand why his company couldn't get him back or why he had no credit card. Later when I got my phone bill I found out I had been calling Nigeria! I was pissed at him but also mad at myself, I have friends in Europe and other countries and didn't think to check the country code I was using. There is a site you can check to view hundreds of photos of these con artists, they use real people photos that they get from model sites and also from places like facebook and myspace. I don't trust this site and quite frankly for the most part, almost all the dating sites have jerks on them. I did contact the site and his ad was removed but he has shown up on many other sites.
Thought I would spill the beans as to the female side of things with this site - clearly the two things are very different. I joined this site (free for women), posted my profile and non-pornographic pics and within 24 hours I had received over 1,000 emails. I then filtered them but I was still receiving an unmanageable amount of mail. I can see there was logic in making membership free to women to even out the numbers but there must still be a huge disparity as I don't flatter myself it is because I am that attractive! Possibly not a scam (although clearly the owners are making their money) but certainly not well thought out as regards happy and satisfied customers.
Also, and again because of the ratio of men to women, I received a stack of emails all saying the same thing.
Pros Huge choice if you are a girly - you can even be particular!
Cons Overwhelming number of emails including the abusive ones when you don't reply because you can't possibly read them all!
I was on there for almost two years, in the beginning it was good until everyone got on there. Now they only feature the same men and women all year long and everyone they leave hidden so only a select few can really be seen. I noticed this after doing searches and realizing I would have to go through 500 pages to see new faces. They put the best looking people upfront but I have a feeling they are fake profiles because I know a lot of people on there personally and not one of them is featured and because if you try to complain about the site on the blog, they will delete your post. If you complain that they deleted your post, they will delete that one too. That to me is a shady site that has too much control. No one I know even gets emails anymore and if they do the guys are all flakes anyways when it comes to actually supporting you in any way.
A lot of people are very upset with that site and have given up. No one I knew on there was doing well after this year started. They have moderators in the blog who urge young women to work harder and harder to please men and keep reminding them that it takes a lot of time, energy and effort to see the fruits of their labor. The point is to find someone to spoil you not a discount whore house. The problem for men is they get a lot of spam, and scams. I feel bad for the young women on there who can't see the complaints.
Pros I don't know if their is any good side to the site anymore. It's crooked.
Why JapanCupid put their logo mark on all of member's photos? Then why can't I remove my photos from this site? Quit weird, and I heard many men and women on this site are married and then just looking for members to join their sex parties.
If so, they should have named it "Sexcupid" although I found that name's site is already on the Internet.
When I see some one complaining about dating site, such as any dating site, it makes me laugh. Why do we think that we are here to buy a female or a male, because we bought the membership we own every member, we get a negative comment from an opposite Gender and we start screaming at the site. I found my wife on Qiran.com and I can't be thankful enough, before I met her I got snub from various females but that does not mean that I blame the site. Before I join any site I read policy and the terms and If I like I join, otherwise I walk away. Keep it simple guys, blaming the tools is not always a good Idea, we recommended Qiran.com to 20+ friends and most of them seems to like it. When you join any online site you are joining a community so get ready for some negative comments from other Gender. After I got married I was charged Automatically by Qiran.com but then when I found they offer full refund it took me less then 6 hours get full refund, they didn't know I got married and I forgot to remove my Auto renew settings. So what is a big deal, chill out guys and gals and have fun.
Pros Best and fast tech support,
Easy to use fast browsing, no complication.
Easy to register, no difficult questions.
Cons Require every picture to be very clear, I had to upload 6 times before my picture was approved.
I feel that some people create their own dating and review websites at the same time to post positive comments and cheat and bluff people while encouraging them to subscribe and waste money.
I feel that dating websites possessors post positive comments for their own websites to cheat and bluff people and encourage them to subscribe and waste money.
Asst.resource manager
Review about Muslims 4 Marriage1st come 1st serve- protocols are followed
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Review about Muslims 4 Marriage1st come 1st serve- protocols are followed
ceo
Review about Hongkong CupidWarning!! Do not use Hong Kong cupid. They stole my money...
Illicit Encounters works for me!
Review about Illicit EncountersI've been a member of many dating sites both for singles and marrieds. Compared to the others, I found Illicit Encounters to be a refreshing experience. The ladies I've spoken to seem real and the 4 I've met in the flesh were undoubtedly genuine!! Like all dating sites, the women want to be wooed with wit and creativity. Unlike most dating sites, the ladies on IE seem to be serious about meeting up and taking things further.
I often think that some men think of dating sites as a quick fix to gaps in their real love lives. The online dating world is exactly the same as the real world when it comes to attracting women. You have to work at it.
The relationships I've had via Illicit Encounters have been different because the ladies I've met were looking for the same thing - i.e. not a full time relationship but an affair to fill in the gaps lacking in their married lives. Having matching expectations is important and the 2-3 times a month that we've met has suited both parties.
I would say to the guys who have posted negative experiences here, try again. I'm an average guy - not especially good looking nor wealthy, and yet I've met someone via IE each time I've paid their (admittedly high) upgrade fee.
Pros
Genuine women looking for NSA
A good ratio of women to men compared to other dating sites
They don't bombard you with communications
Cons
Pricey
mr
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukWhat a complete waste of time and money! Had my doubt about the authenticity about some of, the few, replies. One told me my local local supermarket shut at 10pm; it's 24 hour,and didn't know where the university was.The ratio of men to women is such that you have to send a huge amount of messages to recieve a reply,but like i said;are they real?:@
Pros
None!
Cons
It doesn't say anything on the tin!
SECOND CHANCE
Review about SugarDaddie.comSUGAR DADDY IS A VERY BIG WORD AND FRAGILE AT THE SAME TIME COS OF DESPERATION AND LONELYNESS. SUGAR DADDIES.COM HAVE GRANTED A SECOND LIFE 2 THE FACE OF THEIR RELATION THRU DATING ON LINE 2 REALITY. SUGAR DADDY .COM IS ONE OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE ONLINE DATING.
THE GOOD SMILE
Review about Millionaire MatchSMILES ON THE FACE DOESN'T REALLY MEAN THAT SOMEONE IS HAPPY, WHAT CREATS THE SMILES AND WHY THE SMILES MATTERS ALOT. MILLIONAIRE MATCH IS A DREAM COME TRUE THAT IS WHY I HAVE THE CONFIDENT OF WRITING AND USING THIS MEDIA 2 SAY KEEP IT UP AND I CAN'T WAIT 2 BE HOOKED.U HAVE PUT A TRUE SMILE ON THE FACES OF LONELY PEOPLE.
get burnt
Review about GayCupid.comactually they portray a stupid and cupid manners, i suggest they get burnt if one among the two caught.
Scam
Review about Discreet AdventuresI think it is a scam
Vietnam Cupid
Review about VietnamCupid.comGood experience. Have had some very nice results and dated very nice women.
Pros
Many pictures of genuine women. WOmen that respond to letters send to them. Have had dates with some very nice girls.
Really positive, genuine experience
Review about Loving LinksNicely run married site with a personal approach that is very welcome these days. The telephone was actually answered by a human being and it felt less commercial than other sites I have tried. I even had some great dates. Well done!
Pros
Personal approach, feeling of community in forum
Cons
Nothing really, I would certainly use again
It is riddled with Fakes
Review about Muslima.comand like RK said in a previous review; the site attempts to con the memebers into upgrading their membership to Gold or Platinum using fake contacts.
Alyaa from customer service comes out with the BS insisting they are doing all they can to keep it legit.. piss off will ya... muslim or no muslim you pple are using the religion for financial gain. and if you are stuipd enuff to pay for this site then you deserve it.
would someone tell me what is so special about marrying a native muslim anyways...
from my experience, as muslim, and dealing with muslims avoid them at all costs. these ppl have no eithics whatsoever.
if you are in the US or UK just marry someone from there. unless you are one of those control freaks that you want your spouse from the old country to control them here (specially the men). and do not get me started on the Indian/Paki Women... dude!!! come on. so waht you ahve Phd or an MD, you still look like Widow Twankie "Aladdin's mother".
There has to be a better way if doing this. to the muslima site, i hope you guys get what you deserve, bastards!!!. see u in hell. i am finding myself none-muslim ragin cajun
Pros
None
Cons
the site is full of fakes.
if not fake their a_holes and B###hs
i hate this site
Review about Seeking Arrangementi been on the site for about a month an i met this one guy name wall street party or something like that an this guy tricked me into spending time with him an he would give me money an take care of me an all he did was ruff me up an had his was an just gave me $20
Hilarious
Review about InternationalLovescoutI don't know how legitimate this site is... but I have to agree -- the descriptions are freakin' hilarious! Check it out if only because you wanna laugh. :D
Pros
Hilarious
Too many fake female profiles/escorts plying trade
Review about Illicit EncountersIt's quite re-assuring to read some of the males having a similar experience on here.
I have to say the first time I joined I did have a couple of meets and successes (in 08) but subsequently upon re-joining it seems that it's now become a commercial exercise to extract one-off member with the extortionate joining fee. I set up two very different profiles (non Gold member) and each was contacted (in the first instance) by exactly the same women, with similar generic names and very similar profile content. It seems they are just enticing you to join one off, it doesn't matter if you don't come back due to the high fee you paid.
This is a shame as there are a few genuine women on there but it does seem quite an effort to find those. Another issue is that because the females don't have to pay it seems that a few just use it an ego massaging exercise rather than seriously for who it is trying to match up (you can tell as they are still there after a few years!). So you have a huge mismatch of guys thinking they will message everything and anything just because of the outlay. In this case I think there should be a nominal fee for women to weed out time wasters ... but I guess it's all about supply and demand then? eh?!
Pros
Not a huge amount of men (probably due to price!)
Cons
Illicit Encounters using fake profiles and messaging to entice men to upgrade membership.
A fair few non-serious women using it as a validation tool (but then which dating site doesn't?!) and a number of escorts looking to hook up a guy who will spend on something like this.
Meet Chinese women who are ready for a relationship
Review about CHN LoveI'm an American who has used various sites over the past 6 months to talk to and meet Chinese women who are willing to develop relationship with western men. This site is probably the best for doing that as it has yielded my only sincere relationship so far. Admittedly, I haven't tried very hard on other sites, but at Chnlove at least you don't have to wonder about the background of the other person is there or what they are looking for. The ladies are truly ready for a sincere and long term relationship. I am currently in a wonderful marriage as a result of this site. I credit Chnlove for supplying it to me. But it ?s true that you need to watch out for scammers and dishonest marriage brokers who are simply there to get you spend credits?
Pros
The site has rich experience in cultural dating and has been doing business with western standard. Besides, you are presented with some of the best educated and most beautiful women in China. Judged from what the profile descriptions and the site introduction, many women posted on the site are sincerely looking for a long term relationship. New profiles are updated very frequently. You can initiate contact with the ladies for FREE. Customer Service is excellent and responsive. Chnlove has also created a tips article database dedicated solely to dating and relationship advice, with a strong emphasis on self-awareness and cultural dating. This advice section includes a wealth of thoughtful and informative content as well as forums where you can discuss dating and relationships with other Chnlove members. The site call the profile section as their ?Photo Gallery? and it?s pretty entertaining. They?ve got some very beautiful photos of various Chinese women. Some also got video footage of the ladies self introduction. Profiles and searching are about as thorough as you want them to be.
Cons
It is comparatively expensive to communicate with the women posted on the site. The service is partnered with the marriage brokers in China. So, the quality of those services offered by the marriage brokers may be shockingly poor. Dishonest business practice was observed in the last couple of years. But recently the site has been active in combating dishonest business practice of the marriage brokers.The large membership database makes finding mutual matches difficult.
Smiling Faces Tell Lies
Review about ZooskI would never recommend this site to anyone. I had a horrible experience from a man who claimed he was from Redwood City who told me he was in Australia on business. He appeared to say all the right things and I was led down a path of deception. He said he was due back in the states in 2 weeks but had to make a quick stop to China to check on some project he was involved in. I then got an email from him indicating that he had been in a terrible car crash and was in the hospital. He asked for my phone number because he had been "thinking of me" and just wanted to hear my voice. I wondered how he was sending me an email since he said his laptop was destroyed in the crash. This all occurred when the swine flu epidemic hit and I was very concerned for his health as the hospital was quarantined. Long story short, he did call me, the phone call was brief, interrupted by the "nurse" needing to attend to him. A couple of weeks later he was out of the hospital but could not return to the US because his wallet and passport had been "lost or stolen" in the car crash. He told me he was using calling cards to call me and had borrowed money from business associates. I decided to save him money I would call him. However, I noticed a discrepancy in the time difference, he was telling me a completely different time then I was aware of. He then asked me if I could send him money so he could get back to the states, I said I could not, couldn't understand why his company couldn't get him back or why he had no credit card. Later when I got my phone bill I found out I had been calling Nigeria! I was pissed at him but also mad at myself, I have friends in Europe and other countries and didn't think to check the country code I was using. There is a site you can check to view hundreds of photos of these con artists, they use real people photos that they get from model sites and also from places like facebook and myspace. I don't trust this site and quite frankly for the most part, almost all the dating sites have jerks on them. I did contact the site and his ad was removed but he has shown up on many other sites.
Pros
none
Cons
Lots of photos of fake people
Female perspective!
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukThought I would spill the beans as to the female side of things with this site - clearly the two things are very different. I joined this site (free for women), posted my profile and non-pornographic pics and within 24 hours I had received over 1,000 emails. I then filtered them but I was still receiving an unmanageable amount of mail. I can see there was logic in making membership free to women to even out the numbers but there must still be a huge disparity as I don't flatter myself it is because I am that attractive! Possibly not a scam (although clearly the owners are making their money) but certainly not well thought out as regards happy and satisfied customers.
Also, and again because of the ratio of men to women, I received a stack of emails all saying the same thing.
Pros
Huge choice if you are a girly - you can even be particular!
Cons
Overwhelming number of emails including the abusive ones when you don't reply because you can't possibly read them all!
Scam & spam that's it.
Review about Seeking ArrangementI was on there for almost two years, in the beginning it was good until everyone got on there. Now they only feature the same men and women all year long and everyone they leave hidden so only a select few can really be seen. I noticed this after doing searches and realizing I would have to go through 500 pages to see new faces. They put the best looking people upfront but I have a feeling they are fake profiles because I know a lot of people on there personally and not one of them is featured and because if you try to complain about the site on the blog, they will delete your post. If you complain that they deleted your post, they will delete that one too. That to me is a shady site that has too much control. No one I know even gets emails anymore and if they do the guys are all flakes anyways when it comes to actually supporting you in any way.
A lot of people are very upset with that site and have given up. No one I knew on there was doing well after this year started. They have moderators in the blog who urge young women to work harder and harder to please men and keep reminding them that it takes a lot of time, energy and effort to see the fruits of their labor. The point is to find someone to spoil you not a discount whore house. The problem for men is they get a lot of spam, and scams. I feel bad for the young women on there who can't see the complaints.
Pros
I don't know if their is any good side to the site anymore. It's crooked.
Cons
All of the above.
I like dating site www.sitesfordate.com
Review about Sites For DateIt is very good directory dating sites. I like it!
Defintely JapanCupid is a scam
Review about JapanCupid.comWhy JapanCupid put their logo mark on all of member's photos? Then why can't I remove my photos from this site? Quit weird, and I heard many men and women on this site are married and then just looking for members to join their sex parties.
If so, they should have named it "Sexcupid" although I found that name's site is already on the Internet.
Cons
Do not waste your time and money!!!
Mr
Review about Qiran.comWhen I see some one complaining about dating site, such as any dating site, it makes me laugh. Why do we think that we are here to buy a female or a male, because we bought the membership we own every member, we get a negative comment from an opposite Gender and we start screaming at the site. I found my wife on Qiran.com and I can't be thankful enough, before I met her I got snub from various females but that does not mean that I blame the site. Before I join any site I read policy and the terms and If I like I join, otherwise I walk away. Keep it simple guys, blaming the tools is not always a good Idea, we recommended Qiran.com to 20+ friends and most of them seems to like it. When you join any online site you are joining a community so get ready for some negative comments from other Gender. After I got married I was charged Automatically by Qiran.com but then when I found they offer full refund it took me less then 6 hours get full refund, they didn't know I got married and I forgot to remove my Auto renew settings. So what is a big deal, chill out guys and gals and have fun.
Pros
Best and fast tech support,
Easy to use fast browsing, no complication.
Easy to register, no difficult questions.
Cons
Require every picture to be very clear, I had to upload 6 times before my picture was approved.
Dting websites are the best way to lose money!
Review about Muslima.comI feel that some people create their own dating and review websites at the same time to post positive comments and cheat and bluff people while encouraging them to subscribe and waste money.
Shame on you!
Dting websites are the best way to lose money!
Review about Muslima.comI feel that dating websites possessors post positive comments for their own websites to cheat and bluff people and encourage them to subscribe and waste money.
Shame on you!
It's alright
Review about Military Cupidits a good website to meet military personel and everyone is really nice so far
Pros
cute guys in uniform
Cons
u have to pay to talk to them, unless they are already paying, hopefully they have a facebook :)