I just got engaged to a beautiful Korean lady I met on KoreanCupid after I searched many other sites. We contackted once on the site, exchanged emails, facebook profiles and skype, so we were sure both parties are for real. Then I visited her in person. We are both very happy and in love!!
Pros You can easily spot a scammer. Never include personal info, send money. Verify the person on fb and skype. KoreanCupid screen their members.
Cons Like all sites, scammers are everywhere. Avoid anyone asking for money.
This site has been around a long time. At once point it bordered on the obscene, but they cleaned up there act in recent times. It is not really a dating site and if you are a girl you will be besieged by men from many North African countries hoping to get into the EU by playing on flattery.If you are a man you will received fake mail from Asia from women who seek 'money' by some pretence or another. To post your 'genuine' photos on it can almost guarantees someone will lift them for clandestine purposes. The so-called staff, located in Sand Francisco are void of humour, so if you are foolish enough to join, don't make comments that contain dry humour. They will remove you quicker than than a Swat Team driving out a miscreant in a hostage situation.
Pros As a social website, I can't find many redeeming features due to the fact there are far too many fake profiles there. The Staff complicate with endless red tape the removal of those who break 'Their rules' or steal your photos.
Cons There are much better social websites out there. This should be last on your list.
I have communicated with a few potential dates on here. Several have out of state phone numbers but explain it by saying they just moved to town. The others just never give you a number or email even after you ask for it. Why would they accept your offer to only go away. lol So you will buy credits to communicate! Good luck getting a date on this site.
Pros None
Cons The women will not really respond and if they do they have a phone number from miles away. After you use credits to communicate you will not hear back from them.
iv been kicked off 2 times and i know it cause a guy that i dated on here said i did something to him which i havent ,and u guys have access to accounts to see if the person you kick off did anything wrong or have a email sent to me saying what i did and a way to contact you i have followed all the rules have not done any wrong
Pros none if you let just anyone say something bad that isnt true and i will not recommend anyone for your site
Met this guy on the site (James Hayes), yes putting it out there he is a classic jerk and gold digger. these guy surf single site for women to take advantage of
These people don't verify stuff like they claim, its all about the money, because they allowed this guy to get on the site , several Domestic Violence convictions against women he was either married to or dated, felony DWI, gun charges, and he lied about his military career (he said in profile he was in security/ law enforcement, not true), he stated has a graduate degree in drug and alachol counseling , he lied again, never graduated UTA, has Assoc. Degree in drug and Alachol,and he has 3 DWI's and is viiolent.
I won't recommand this site to anyone
Look at the elements who are members
Pros Too many shady Black guys on this site; false profiles
It was only one time in my life when i have been visit such kind of web sites and it's really helps me. So thank you and best regards.
flirt is a nice dating site
Most of these guys are broke & consider that "free meal" its own reward. Most guys want a 19 year old ivy league debutante, who plays polo yet is a lowlife drug addict who is desperate enough to want to have sex with some old gross fat guy for free! What? Doesnt exist! Stop looking guys & get real. There are real deserving women on the site who dont get a fair shake.
I signed up for SA in 2008, met a few "decent" guys.. one bought me a tv &all kinds of kitchen stuff for my then- new apartment.. great, huh? Well, that was the extent of my luck, cause after that it was cheap skates, picture collectors & the same lowlifes that are on there to this day.
When i see the girls on Dr Phil , etc talking about "how great the site is" i realize that they are lying and probably being paid to testify to how the site works. Cause it doesnt. Its a huge waste of time.. much like the guys on there
Pros Free for women
Good time waster
Cons Lots of liars & cheap old men
Same guys on here forever
I personally believe there are people working under bogus profiles to make you upgrade to Gold or Silver memberships. If you are basic, you pretty much can't do anything until you upgrade. Although upgrading, and the cost of a membership really doesn't cost that much. Just be careful.
Joined on free trial, the limited profiles looked genuine, despite recognising Pro-Domme profiles.
Charged for free trial 3 times then very confusing cancellation process and didn't actually cancel till 4th day when realised it hadn't, so billed £0.95, £5.95 and £0.95 for trial plus £19.95, £21.95 and £19.95. So, around £70 for nothing not good value if you ask me!
It surprises me that so many of us, (myself included), have fallen for the allure of the 'iinstant dating' concept...All the sudden attention after you sign up, all the promises of tons of georgeous people just waiting to meet you-- but, there is a
major catch which the earlier poster covered- I also joined this site for the '3-day- trial offer, for something in the neighborhood of 3.95. Sounded like a fair deal, with promises to cancel after the three days, etc., so I took it. (obviously failed to read the fine print.....my bad!!
Decided after 3 days it was competely ridiculous, redundant offers for new registration, constantly popup screens (some of them generated when I would click a radio button to contact the the other party. Most of the time the software platform was less than par, very slow, and tended to freeze in sections. As previously mentioned, customer service was nil--after several attempts to contact the company in an effort to recind the 116.00 or something charge, I finally got a rude operator who informed me that they could not do that and the charge would stick. I proceeded to contact my credit card fraud unit, and they had the matter resolved within 10 days. Credit card merchant called the vendor repeatedly, received no answer, money was returned....finally. My recommendation would be to stay as far away as possible from this money machine!
Several more issues I could address, if interested email me at above address .
Thanks everyone!
Pros Not too many....platform could be much improved in several areas.
Cons Typically platform runs too slowly, also tends to crash during certain operations, etc..f
I should have suspected something when the site wouldn't let me view any messages unless I paid first. After they get your credit card, then you can see that respondees were of these categories: (1) scammers with fake profiles, plus other fake profiles to make it LOOK like they have more members than they really have, (you'll spend all day blocking these... there's that many); (2) married men looking to cheat (easy to catch those); (3) men who use online dating sites in lieu of soliciting a prostitute (less money... maybe dinner or free?); (4) certain races with secret fantasies of having sex with certain other ethnicities and would like to connect undercover only because their inner circles would NOT approve (a lot of these... who knew?; (5) sleezy stalkers from all states just lurking, showing how nasty and degenerate they are all day long (who has this kinda time?).
Men should complain about this site because it makes them look like primal predators.... really bad. Ladies... if you have dignity and self-respect, don't put yourself on the same level as the men who frequent this site. You're worth much more than a piece of slab in a filthy meat warehouse, which is called "OurTime."
Pros Can easily hide your site and cancel membership quickly thank God.
Cons Not for respectable women. The men who spoke with some kind of decency had pictures of them from 10-20 years ago and lied about almost everything else, but at least were pleasant. The men who looked for women who "work out" but clearly hadn't seen the inside of a gym themselves, not even the slightest bit of muscle tone, was hilarious. Once you sift out all the fakes and liars, you can count the prospects on one hand. Close this site down along with "Senior Meet." Ratio of good men to bad, about 1:300. Ugh.
I did not pay, as i knew the moment i LIKED someine that i got a reply in the middle of the fucking night lol no one exists and I am going to report them...do not be conned they are fake and stolen...and i am sending this to watchdog...i have nothing to loose and do not care about being on tele....these bastards need exposed......plese do the same....and on your profile ENTER ir is a scam
The women on here are obviously pro's applying there trade , how else could you interpret "looking for beneficiary " or " I want to be spoiled " .
The only thing missing is a price list for services .
It dosnt take a genius to figure out that if your on this site your either a whore or a John .
The banner Ad's say it all .
It seems so dead these days. The ones who do message me are cheap or just horny old men. There are a lot of people who aren't serious about a sugar arrangement. It's actually really annoying. There's maybe 2/10 people on there who are truly serious.
Now, I was looking for a sugar daddy which you can find plenty of them on here. You don't have to pay (as a woman, not sure about men) to contact other people which is great. Hard to find someone to actually date though.
Pros Free, Easy to contact people, Not hard to find your way around the site.
Ok so I did as the guy above and paid $1.95 ..I did get \"normal\" girl mail,from 8 ladies within 1 day . \r\n*) No mention of the service level for trials. How can it be a trial if your not able to connect back to anyone?\r\n*) cancelled trial to discover I was also banged $1.50 for a second Trial????\r\n*) then CCBill discovered I had been \"Preselected for a $149.95 full Gold annual membership.)\"...what the heck ?\r\nAll the money was returned, and I did get some follow up mail from the same ladies. \r\n*) all mail was short with no mention of contact outside the site. and most responses were like...\"Hey I haven't made up my mind yet cause your not spending enough money on this site yet\"....Duh !\r\n* ) I did contact CS and they responded with a bogus excuse that..\"Oh were not allowing you to reply at any level,cause your a security risk to our profits.....hahahahah !!!!\r\nThey load your page clicks with upgrade to Gold for $5.00/month and we'll see to it you can chat to porn babes...but as for finding a real person.....Nodda-Chance Mister cause we learned from The Russian @ Anastasia.com how to keep men separated from there affections and charge them for the privilege of receiving no value at all. \r\n\r\nNot matter what you do...stay away from this site !\r\n\r\nIf you want to meet real chicks...try blossoms com.. save your money.\r\n\r\nJack
I was a sugar baby that tried the 3day membership. I cancelled the first 24hrs because the moment I did the trial, I encountered all type of technical issues and told them to can several times and place me back at the free level. I was charged 54 bucks anyway and they NEVER replied I told them to close my account since you have to go through them and I'm still a member against my will and considerating legal action this is a headache I regret going to that site.
Pros Non
Cons You can cancel and yet they still charge you its many other reports of the samething, certainly wish I would have done my homework
probably the worst site to join. pics and members are fake, tou get many of messages from their own members. wouldn't recommend any sitea from "cupid" they all have the same fake format.
I've been on it for a while- but I've only really started being active in the past 2 months. I've met a couple of great guys, a few losers, and some really pushy horn dogs...but with online dating it's the same everywhere.
I like the fact that I can see members of connected sites that fit what I'm looking for. And the fact that I can list different profiles on different connected sites.
I think that it's a really great tool for larger women because it's so hard to find guys that won't turn up their noses at you if you try to meet them in person, at say a bar. There are a lot of different shapes and sizes as well. I really expected a lot of big men to be looking for big women- but there are a lot of skinny/ average/ fit men as well, so it fits a lot of tastes. And it just doesn't have the same feel as a 'regular' dating site...I was active on a regular dating site for a VERY long time with no real response, but on Largepassions I have lot of responses everyday. It really does help your self-esteem, when guys are actually into you.
Pros It's got a large base to choose from- there are probably about 50 different connected sites to choose from so there's a lot of over lap. You may publish your ad on any number of associated sites (according to your choosing- cougars, your state, hobbies- such as Californiapassions, Cougarpassions)
You can see who's viewed you in the last month and they have something called 'Stalkervision' that allows you to see what other members are doing (such as IM, posting, and such).
It's FREE
For women looking for men it's not bad. Although a lot of men from you area might not be as active as you'd like, you should have no problem finding someone. But try to stay on the site to communicate, a lot of men will give out their personal email hoping to get photos (naughty) from lonely women who will never hear back from them once they get them.
They police themselves pretty well. In the forums no one is allowed to bad mouth other members...if you have complaints you complain to the site. This saves you the time of having a lot of drama. But the forums aren't very active compared to other outside sites.
The search feature lets you search for 2 different variables while also conducting the search within your area range. (such as weight/ build- within 5/ 10/ 50/100 miles from your zip code)
Cons A lot of the guys are looking for one night stands.
Depending on your area there might not be a lot of active members.
You can only post public pictures- it's actually good but if you're wanting to get more pictures from a member it can't be done privately.
You're probably going to get a lot of responses who haven't actually read your profile or what you're looking for. (but this is the same with all sites I guess)
You'll see basically the same people online all the time- (well the same men) so if after a month you're not getting any hits then you'll probably have to expand your range.
i was bumped of this sight for a few weeks ago and took a few days to get me back on i went back off and this time 6 days without service repeated calls and the same shit over and over well they give you 7 free days big deal 7 free days of nothing thanks alot the site is the same people over and over again nothing changes the service is absolutely horrible told me its not costing me cause its free right now so whats the big deal what the hell kind of answer is that to give a customer i guess you live and learn if you go on a dating site go on 1 that has a good standing this one sucks you would think they would honor what they sell after all we are what keeps the doors open
Pros can talk to people but you can do that anywhere big deal so it has no pros
I got on Skout because a legitimate friend recommended it and stated she has already met up with many women. I signed up just to see what it was about and haven't been able to get off of it. My phone has been blowing up with messages and chats from a lot of gorgeous, average, and ugly women. Addressing the bad reviews above, I have already exchanged numbers and had meetings with women and nothing bad has happened. Not a scam. Every site will have creepers or scammers just like FB, Twitter, Instagram, etc. But its easy to pick them out. There are real man and women on this. As far as the people "checking you out" that is a way to get people to spend money to find out whos viewing your profile. A website has to have $$ to run but this doesnt require you to to take advantage of the benefits.
Pros Real people, easy to chat, easy to navigate
Cons Being a male interested in women is hard because many women have their guard up, u got no game u get no play
KoreanCupid works!!
Review about KoreanCupid.comI just got engaged to a beautiful Korean lady I met on KoreanCupid after I searched many other sites. We contackted once on the site, exchanged emails, facebook profiles and skype, so we were sure both parties are for real. Then I visited her in person. We are both very happy and in love!!
Pros
You can easily spot a scammer. Never include personal info, send money. Verify the person on fb and skype. KoreanCupid screen their members.
Cons
Like all sites, scammers are everywhere. Avoid anyone asking for money.
Tagged is the pits.
Review about Tagged.comThis site has been around a long time. At once point it bordered on the obscene, but they cleaned up there act in recent times. It is not really a dating site and if you are a girl you will be besieged by men from many North African countries hoping to get into the EU by playing on flattery.If you are a man you will received fake mail from Asia from women who seek 'money' by some pretence or another. To post your 'genuine' photos on it can almost guarantees someone will lift them for clandestine purposes. The so-called staff, located in Sand Francisco are void of humour, so if you are foolish enough to join, don't make comments that contain dry humour. They will remove you quicker than than a Swat Team driving out a miscreant in a hostage situation.
Pros
As a social website, I can't find many redeeming features due to the fact there are far too many fake profiles there. The Staff complicate with endless red tape the removal of those who break 'Their rules' or steal your photos.
Cons
There are much better social websites out there. This should be last on your list.
Fake Profiles just to get you to buy Credits
Review about WhatsYourPrice.comI have communicated with a few potential dates on here. Several have out of state phone numbers but explain it by saying they just moved to town. The others just never give you a number or email even after you ask for it. Why would they accept your offer to only go away. lol So you will buy credits to communicate! Good luck getting a date on this site.
Pros
None
Cons
The women will not really respond and if they do they have a phone number from miles away. After you use credits to communicate you will not hear back from them.
i think before u kick someone off the site u need to see if they done anything wrong
Review about Book of Matchesiv been kicked off 2 times and i know it cause a guy that i dated on here said i did something to him which i havent ,and u guys have access to accounts to see if the person you kick off did anything wrong or have a email sent to me saying what i did and a way to contact you i have followed all the rules have not done any wrong
Pros
none if you let just anyone say something bad that isnt true and i will not recommend anyone for your site
Cons
the same
Beware of this man James Raymond Hayes (JRHAYES/JRHAZES) on OurTime
Review about OurTimeMet this guy on the site (James Hayes), yes putting it out there he is a classic jerk and gold digger. these guy surf single site for women to take advantage of
These people don't verify stuff like they claim, its all about the money, because they allowed this guy to get on the site , several Domestic Violence convictions against women he was either married to or dated, felony DWI, gun charges, and he lied about his military career (he said in profile he was in security/ law enforcement, not true), he stated has a graduate degree in drug and alachol counseling , he lied again, never graduated UTA, has Assoc. Degree in drug and Alachol,and he has 3 DWI's and is viiolent.
I won't recommand this site to anyone
Look at the elements who are members
Pros
Too many shady Black guys on this site; false profiles
Cons
forget about it
Flirt.com dating can help
Review about Flirt.comIt was only one time in my life when i have been visit such kind of web sites and it's really helps me. So thank you and best regards.
flirt is a nice dating site
Quick and nice
Review about Cupid.comIt's realy nice site where I found a girl in two weeks!
I can recomended it for you!
best wishes)
free meal
Review about Seeking ArrangementMost of these guys are broke & consider that "free meal" its own reward. Most guys want a 19 year old ivy league debutante, who plays polo yet is a lowlife drug addict who is desperate enough to want to have sex with some old gross fat guy for free! What? Doesnt exist! Stop looking guys & get real. There are real deserving women on the site who dont get a fair shake.
Pros
None
Cons
Ton of cons on the site
same ol cheap liars
Review about Seeking ArrangementI signed up for SA in 2008, met a few "decent" guys.. one bought me a tv &all kinds of kitchen stuff for my then- new apartment.. great, huh? Well, that was the extent of my luck, cause after that it was cheap skates, picture collectors & the same lowlifes that are on there to this day.
When i see the girls on Dr Phil , etc talking about "how great the site is" i realize that they are lying and probably being paid to testify to how the site works. Cause it doesnt. Its a huge waste of time.. much like the guys on there
Pros
Free for women
Good time waster
Cons
Lots of liars & cheap old men
Same guys on here forever
save your money
Review about XPress.comI personally believe there are people working under bogus profiles to make you upgrade to Gold or Silver memberships. If you are basic, you pretty much can't do anything until you upgrade. Although upgrading, and the cost of a membership really doesn't cost that much. Just be careful.
Pros
none
Cons
too much to list
Rip off
Review about Meet DominatrixJoined on free trial, the limited profiles looked genuine, despite recognising Pro-Domme profiles.
Charged for free trial 3 times then very confusing cancellation process and didn't actually cancel till 4th day when realised it hadn't, so billed £0.95, £5.95 and £0.95 for trial plus £19.95, £21.95 and £19.95. So, around £70 for nothing not good value if you ask me!
Pros
None
Cons
Very few profile
Speeddates...wave of the future, or major decline in personal communication?
Review about SpeedDate.comIt surprises me that so many of us, (myself included), have fallen for the allure of the 'iinstant dating' concept...All the sudden attention after you sign up, all the promises of tons of georgeous people just waiting to meet you-- but, there is a
major catch which the earlier poster covered- I also joined this site for the '3-day- trial offer, for something in the neighborhood of 3.95. Sounded like a fair deal, with promises to cancel after the three days, etc., so I took it. (obviously failed to read the fine print.....my bad!!
Decided after 3 days it was competely ridiculous, redundant offers for new registration, constantly popup screens (some of them generated when I would click a radio button to contact the the other party. Most of the time the software platform was less than par, very slow, and tended to freeze in sections. As previously mentioned, customer service was nil--after several attempts to contact the company in an effort to recind the 116.00 or something charge, I finally got a rude operator who informed me that they could not do that and the charge would stick. I proceeded to contact my credit card fraud unit, and they had the matter resolved within 10 days. Credit card merchant called the vendor repeatedly, received no answer, money was returned....finally. My recommendation would be to stay as far away as possible from this money machine!
Several more issues I could address, if interested email me at above address .
Thanks everyone!
Pros
Not too many....platform could be much improved in several areas.
Cons
Typically platform runs too slowly, also tends to crash during certain operations, etc..f
PLEASE>>> Don't waste your time or money!
Review about OurTimeI should have suspected something when the site wouldn't let me view any messages unless I paid first. After they get your credit card, then you can see that respondees were of these categories: (1) scammers with fake profiles, plus other fake profiles to make it LOOK like they have more members than they really have, (you'll spend all day blocking these... there's that many); (2) married men looking to cheat (easy to catch those); (3) men who use online dating sites in lieu of soliciting a prostitute (less money... maybe dinner or free?); (4) certain races with secret fantasies of having sex with certain other ethnicities and would like to connect undercover only because their inner circles would NOT approve (a lot of these... who knew?; (5) sleezy stalkers from all states just lurking, showing how nasty and degenerate they are all day long (who has this kinda time?).
Men should complain about this site because it makes them look like primal predators.... really bad. Ladies... if you have dignity and self-respect, don't put yourself on the same level as the men who frequent this site. You're worth much more than a piece of slab in a filthy meat warehouse, which is called "OurTime."
Pros
Can easily hide your site and cancel membership quickly thank God.
Cons
Not for respectable women. The men who spoke with some kind of decency had pictures of them from 10-20 years ago and lied about almost everything else, but at least were pleasant. The men who looked for women who "work out" but clearly hadn't seen the inside of a gym themselves, not even the slightest bit of muscle tone, was hilarious. Once you sift out all the fakes and liars, you can count the prospects on one hand. Close this site down along with "Senior Meet." Ratio of good men to bad, about 1:300. Ugh.
total scam
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukI did not pay, as i knew the moment i LIKED someine that i got a reply in the middle of the fucking night lol no one exists and I am going to report them...do not be conned they are fake and stolen...and i am sending this to watchdog...i have nothing to loose and do not care about being on tele....these bastards need exposed......plese do the same....and on your profile ENTER ir is a scam
Pros
terrable
Cons
con
MarryMeSugarDaddy Scam ~
Review about MarryMeSugardaddySMH, thank you for the review - - I wondered about the profiles & pics...
prostitution
Review about CitySex.comThe women on here are obviously pro's applying there trade , how else could you interpret "looking for beneficiary " or " I want to be spoiled " .
The only thing missing is a price list for services .
It dosnt take a genius to figure out that if your on this site your either a whore or a John .
The banner Ad's say it all .
Pros
Hooker's galore !!
Cons
your going to pay one way or another
Dead
Review about Seeking ArrangementIt seems so dead these days. The ones who do message me are cheap or just horny old men. There are a lot of people who aren't serious about a sugar arrangement. It's actually really annoying. There's maybe 2/10 people on there who are truly serious.
Pros
Easy site to understand
Cons
Lost of fakes and time wasters.
Not too bad
Review about Ashley MadisonNow, I was looking for a sugar daddy which you can find plenty of them on here. You don't have to pay (as a woman, not sure about men) to contact other people which is great. Hard to find someone to actually date though.
Pros
Free, Easy to contact people, Not hard to find your way around the site.
Cons
Some time wasters
Beware of Xpress
Review about XPress.comOk so I did as the guy above and paid $1.95 ..I did get \"normal\" girl mail,from 8 ladies within 1 day . \r\n*) No mention of the service level for trials. How can it be a trial if your not able to connect back to anyone?\r\n*) cancelled trial to discover I was also banged $1.50 for a second Trial????\r\n*) then CCBill discovered I had been \"Preselected for a $149.95 full Gold annual membership.)\"...what the heck ?\r\nAll the money was returned, and I did get some follow up mail from the same ladies. \r\n*) all mail was short with no mention of contact outside the site. and most responses were like...\"Hey I haven't made up my mind yet cause your not spending enough money on this site yet\"....Duh !\r\n* ) I did contact CS and they responded with a bogus excuse that..\"Oh were not allowing you to reply at any level,cause your a security risk to our profits.....hahahahah !!!!\r\nThey load your page clicks with upgrade to Gold for $5.00/month and we'll see to it you can chat to porn babes...but as for finding a real person.....Nodda-Chance Mister cause we learned from The Russian @ Anastasia.com how to keep men separated from there affections and charge them for the privilege of receiving no value at all. \r\n\r\nNot matter what you do...stay away from this site !\r\n\r\nIf you want to meet real chicks...try blossoms com.. save your money.\r\n\r\nJack
Pros
Total fantasy !
Cons
Total rip-off !
sugardaddy for me staff are thieves
Review about Sugar Daddy For MeI was a sugar baby that tried the 3day membership. I cancelled the first 24hrs because the moment I did the trial, I encountered all type of technical issues and told them to can several times and place me back at the free level. I was charged 54 bucks anyway and they NEVER replied I told them to close my account since you have to go through them and I'm still a member against my will and considerating legal action this is a headache I regret going to that site.
Pros
Non
Cons
You can cancel and yet they still charge you its many other reports of the samething, certainly wish I would have done my homework
don't waste your money
Review about Amateur Matchprobably the worst site to join. pics and members are fake, tou get many of messages from their own members. wouldn't recommend any sitea from "cupid" they all have the same fake format.
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Not the best but pretty good
Review about Large PassionsI've been on it for a while- but I've only really started being active in the past 2 months. I've met a couple of great guys, a few losers, and some really pushy horn dogs...but with online dating it's the same everywhere.
I like the fact that I can see members of connected sites that fit what I'm looking for. And the fact that I can list different profiles on different connected sites.
I think that it's a really great tool for larger women because it's so hard to find guys that won't turn up their noses at you if you try to meet them in person, at say a bar. There are a lot of different shapes and sizes as well. I really expected a lot of big men to be looking for big women- but there are a lot of skinny/ average/ fit men as well, so it fits a lot of tastes. And it just doesn't have the same feel as a 'regular' dating site...I was active on a regular dating site for a VERY long time with no real response, but on Largepassions I have lot of responses everyday. It really does help your self-esteem, when guys are actually into you.
Pros
It's got a large base to choose from- there are probably about 50 different connected sites to choose from so there's a lot of over lap. You may publish your ad on any number of associated sites (according to your choosing- cougars, your state, hobbies- such as Californiapassions, Cougarpassions)
You can see who's viewed you in the last month and they have something called 'Stalkervision' that allows you to see what other members are doing (such as IM, posting, and such).
It's FREE
For women looking for men it's not bad. Although a lot of men from you area might not be as active as you'd like, you should have no problem finding someone. But try to stay on the site to communicate, a lot of men will give out their personal email hoping to get photos (naughty) from lonely women who will never hear back from them once they get them.
They police themselves pretty well. In the forums no one is allowed to bad mouth other members...if you have complaints you complain to the site. This saves you the time of having a lot of drama. But the forums aren't very active compared to other outside sites.
The search feature lets you search for 2 different variables while also conducting the search within your area range. (such as weight/ build- within 5/ 10/ 50/100 miles from your zip code)
Cons
A lot of the guys are looking for one night stands.
Depending on your area there might not be a lot of active members.
You can only post public pictures- it's actually good but if you're wanting to get more pictures from a member it can't be done privately.
You're probably going to get a lot of responses who haven't actually read your profile or what you're looking for. (but this is the same with all sites I guess)
You'll see basically the same people online all the time- (well the same men) so if after a month you're not getting any hits then you'll probably have to expand your range.
poor service
Review about SpeedDate.comi was bumped of this sight for a few weeks ago and took a few days to get me back on i went back off and this time 6 days without service repeated calls and the same shit over and over well they give you 7 free days big deal 7 free days of nothing thanks alot the site is the same people over and over again nothing changes the service is absolutely horrible told me its not costing me cause its free right now so whats the big deal what the hell kind of answer is that to give a customer i guess you live and learn if you go on a dating site go on 1 that has a good standing this one sucks you would think they would honor what they sell after all we are what keeps the doors open
Pros
can talk to people but you can do that anywhere big deal so it has no pros
Cons
none
Great App
Review about SkoutI got on Skout because a legitimate friend recommended it and stated she has already met up with many women. I signed up just to see what it was about and haven't been able to get off of it. My phone has been blowing up with messages and chats from a lot of gorgeous, average, and ugly women. Addressing the bad reviews above, I have already exchanged numbers and had meetings with women and nothing bad has happened. Not a scam. Every site will have creepers or scammers just like FB, Twitter, Instagram, etc. But its easy to pick them out. There are real man and women on this. As far as the people "checking you out" that is a way to get people to spend money to find out whos viewing your profile. A website has to have $$ to run but this doesnt require you to to take advantage of the benefits.
Pros
Real people, easy to chat, easy to navigate
Cons
Being a male interested in women is hard because many women have their guard up, u got no game u get no play