Site doesn't look 'Islamic' at all. I wish it was more controlled because the amount of creeps on that site is too damn high. Suspend the account of pervs!
Hardly any men from my area. All i keep getting interest is from those creep ass Algerians and overseas Arabs who are like my grandad's age!
Pros Free
Cons Creep ass thirsty idiots on there.
Site owners need to control what's going on.
Free for ladies but men have got to pay. I don't think there's anyone genuine on there! Time wasters and full on gandus! Married drug dealers & kiddy fiddlers preying on vulnerable women. You report them and the bitch admin doesn't do anything!
Shakti kapoor lookalikes all looking for an untouched virgin who looks like kareena kapoor. They're all like "Islam is important to me... I want someone to take me to Jannah." I don't think they even know their first kalimahs.
BBWDesire is a total scam! There are 2 categories of women. One is labeled "FC" with a yellow star, of which in the lengthy terms and conditions, tells you that they are generated profiles or FANTASY CUTIES. The other is labeled "SM", or standard member with a blue star, these are SUPPOSE to be real women, but the they are also fakes. I was able to back track several photos that were lifted off porn sites, So in total, STAY AWAY FROM BBWDESIRE, ITS TOTALLY FAKE!!!!!
Pros The photos can be back tracked to BBW porn sites, so you can see them there.
They use what you say about yourself and send it out as an Introductory message for 2 weeks after signing up. These Introductory messages get sent to who they call matches. The worst part is is that somehow they got it wrong about me and made recipients angry. They, also, limit message writing to 15 minutes, so, if you're getting involved in writing a message, you make lose everything if you take too long to write a message. That is a double negative. I will be departing after my membership, a monthly, expires after 1 month.
The Veronika group of companies is internet fraud on a massive scale. Owned by corrupt would be politician Danilevskaya Nadezhda Leonidovna. The companies operate illegally within the Ukraine. ALL the women are rewarded for posting their profiles and chatting or letter writing. Veronika provides most of the profiles for the major scam players, Anastasia date and ua dreams.
Pros If a woman is on veronika you know for certain she is a scammer.
Cons FRAUD! This site steals money from gullible men. Every interaction on the site is a case of wire fraud
Met this guy there and hes a sex hunger and keep on sending naked pics . Hes one of those scumbags in military cupid beaware!! Hes not in military hes pretending to be .. So he can scam some naked pics in return . He was amused and get frustrated of me cz i wont even send him my naked pics in return .
Pros Military cupid site is fine but there are pigs around and scumbags
I am a user from this dating site since a few weeks. It gathers to Colombian women mostly, living in Colombia.
Knowing Spanish is a must as most girls have no real English skills.
The profiles are not really filtered, neither the website well controlled. More than once, I ended up with some kind of prostitutes and/or cons artists (asking for money) and even when reporting the case to the website's staff, their answer was worth nothing: block this person.
While they let the bad profile still acting (and preying) on others users.
I believe Colombiancupid is making most of their money from tourists looking for a fling or local prostitute, thus the reason they are not acting against such bad cases (prostitution seems legal in Colombia).
I was looking for something serious, but didn't find it there. I don't recommend this site unless talking to prostitutes or cons artists is your daily bread.
Pros Easily to navigate
Nice and functional chat feature
Lots of profiles
Cons Too many prostitutes and cons-artists
Management doing almost nothing against them
I place a profile on meetbi.com last night and there are so many bisexual women in my area. I have get many winks from other bi women, and will be fing my match.
1. Lunch Actually is the most expensive dating agency in singapore.
Currently they charge $2100 for 3 dates, $2300 for 5 dates and $2600 for 10 dates.
Compare this with 2 other SDN Accredited dating agencies who also provide personalised matchmaking services.
Champagne JSG charge $1200 for 6 dates & $1700 for 12 dates.
Dating Moments charge average $175 a date. Their price is transparent and shown clearly on their website.
2. Lunch Actually refuse to tell you their price when you call them to enquire.
They give you all kinds of rubbish replies like our price package is dependant on the type of partner you are looking for, ask you go for the initial consultation than they will see which platform is more suitable for you.
Anyone with abit of common sense knows this is nonsense.
If you see the price package is dependant on the type of partner you look for, does it mean that if I look for a old & ugly partner it will be very cheap, if I look for a partner that is young & pretty than it will be very expensive?
As for the platforms, basically they only have the expensive personalised matchmaking services or their esynrochology.
Once you go down for their initial consultation they will hard sell you. If you say it is too expensive than they will hard sell you their esynrochology services.
3. Lunch Actually package comes with free image workshop and coaching workshop.
This is actually just part of their attempt to sell you more package and earn more money.
When you go for the free image workshop the consultant will hard sell you the 6 hours personalised shopping trip at $888.
If you say its too expensive she will hardsell you the $488 for 3 hours personalised shopping trip.
When you go for the free coaching workshop, she will try to hardsell you the coaching package at the most expensive of $3900.
If you say its too expensive than she will slowly go down to the $2900, $1900 and than finally the $900 coaching package.
If you sign up the $900 package, it just comes with a free online video for you to watch, than a 1 hour coaching session, a courage warmup session & a meaningful dinner.
During the 1 hour coaching session, you will not have the opportunity to ask any questions because she will be busy trying to hardsell and pester you to upgrade your package to the most expensive of $3900 so she can hit her quota and earn more commission.
The courage warmup session is basically useless & nonsense.
The coach bring you to plaza singapore to approach the opposite gender on the streets to talk to them.
Anyone with abit of common sense knows this is useless and a total waste of time.
Meaningful dinner is not a speedating dinner. There is no rotation of seats.
They say is for you to practise your communication skills by talking to the participants which is basically nonsense and a waste of time.
The most expensive $3900 coaching package they basically just increase the number of useless meaingful dinner and courage warmup sesssions.
They also say you are entitled to 1 year of unlimited coaching.
Sounds like a very good deal, but in reality it is not.
Lunch Actually opening hours is Monday to Saturday 10am to 7pm.
Obviously on weekdays you need to work and you cant book a appointment to go down.
Their saturdays are always fully booked and you need to book in advance.
You can roughly only get to book 1 saturday a month for a 1 hour session which basically means in 1 year, you book 12 sessions which total to 12 hours of coaching sessions for $3900.
Now does this sound like a good deal?
Lunch Actually Consultants are trained to give alot of excuses.
If you say you have to wait very long for matches, they say it is because they are trying to find good matches for you.
After the 1st date, you have up to 7 days which you can terminate your membership and get a refund.
But it is definetly not a 100% refund!
There will be a deduction of $550 for admin fees. If you have gone for the image workshop and/or coaching workshop there will be further deduction.
I am not sure of the exact amount of deduction but it is pretty expensive.
eg. You paidd $2600 for 10 dates package. You decide to terminate after the 1st date.
You get refund of $2600 $550 admin fees - image workshop - coaching workshop, You get just around 1k plus in refunds.
You are basically paying $550 for a 1 date with Lunch Actually!
Now, a typical speedating event that comes with lunch or dinner cost around $50.
You are better off spending your $550 to attend 10 speedating events that comes with free lunch or dinner, than to spend it on a 1 date with Lunch Actually!
All the positive reviews here are fake. Just look up me on the net, David Brunner, the Stupid American. I can provide you will all the fake pics, profiles, women who have boyfriends, who are married, etc. at this fake crap site.
They create fake reviews here because this site does not check identity. If you want to check yourself come to me, I will give you instructions on how to find out about the fake profiles at Veronikalove. ALL PAY BY LETTER SITES SCAM!!!!
Pros none
Cons There isn't a worse dating site on the net. It isn't even a dating site. It is a ripoff sex cam site.
Usually I don't write positive reviews, but this time I decided to let you guys know this website is the best of what I've tried and there were plenty.
sign up is fast and easy, gives you an access to all pictures and information right away. I received few letters and even got a chance to reply without paying a penny! I am happy with veronikalove and sure to find here what I've been looking for.
This site is full of bogus profiles. First of all it's not very mobile friendly. With constant popups trying to steal your money if you do not pay attention. Like others state you get cryptic one line replies that's designed to keep you hanging on. They even tried to rip me off by charging me got one of their fake sister sites, yet the kept telling me they had ve no record of the charges.So I had the charge reversed. I have never been in a worse dating site period. You have been warned, stay away.
Pros Some nice pictures
Cons Poor navigation, popups and general shitty design.
Not bad. This is not a dating site but is a modern dating agency who meets up with all their clients and find matches manually. Had a good time with this service and met many new friends via the service though no romantic sparks have flown yet. The best is to approach it with the right mindset, be open with your matches and let nature take its course.
Pros - Personalised Consultation and friendly service
- Someone doing the work and booking for you
- Decent "dates" with new and interesting people you otherwise may not have met. Its important to keep an open mind when you do such things.
Cons - On the pricey side. Not an easy investment to make initially and I hesitated after they showed me the price the first time.
Not for everyone but certainly a fun experience so far (:
I joined this website, was swamped with messages, flirts, gifts etc but was unable to respond until l signed up to a package. I chose the 3 day VIP package and found access very restricted. When l complained, I was offered a better deal but was unable to take it up as they said my card mysteriously wouldn't go through even though l checked online at time and there was more than sufficient funds to cover the charge. They cancelled my account and told me call a number or visit chat to take up the offer at a later date. When l tried to take up the better offer l was told I'd have to take put another trial package to qualify.
Rip off city! I have now left the site with over 20 unanswered emails, countless unanswered flirts and unopened gifts. Don't waste your time or your money, no real dating site would've allowed me to leave if l was really that popular.
Scam app. Profiles are not real. Yet to receive any messages or teases from anyone. Claims to show profiles in your zipcode but shows random profiles from apparently anywhere else. No response from their tech support.
I was definately the "Poor decision making Rob Lowe" on this one.
It was my first time i tried such a service and i think it was not mistake. Those people who think that everything is not real come to Ukraine or Russia and you will see their ladies are really as beautiful as they are posted on this site. I have found my funny and kind sweetheart bunny. I love her so so so so much. Thank you Veronika for everything you did for me.
Fake profiles , great for pinpals but meeting up is not likely ... Most likely that cute pic she has posted is not her , fat hogs eating cake and playing internet games ...
Although I can empathise with some of the woes some people might have had I only remember a positive experience. Only one out of about 20 women I had email exchanges with turned out to be a scammer - the bad old Nigerian style inheritance scam. Most women were pleasant, intelligent and sincere (as much as detectable online).
Anyway I eventually found my dream lady offline but I must say in all fairness that this site is worth a chance if you stay level-headed and street/net smart all the time.
If I look for a grain of salt it would be that some of the (apparently immature) female members send SMS style emails, containing 4-5 encrypted words. A major turnoff ladies! I also found it strange that quite a few girls in their twenties contacted me although I requested 40 in my profile.
In essence though it's not a bad site. Also the chat rooms are friendly even though populated mostly by the same crowd.
Side note, a friend of mine found her husband on there and they are still going strong.
Seeking Arrangement is a sugardaddy dating site. That means that girls are looking to make money for hanging out with guys who have some money. If you understand and accept that, the site is not that bad. I found that, as a reasonably attractive male, I could go on there, set the allowance amounts to something reasonable, and find a huge array of women.
The trick of being successful as a guy on this site is to have rules and be upfront about them. There are a lot of women who get on the site and want to be paid hundreds of dollars just so you can buy them dinner. If you are like me, you do not need to pay for friends. You may, on the other hand, be willing to use money as a social lubricant to make dating faster and weed out competition, right? So, my rule, which I had to explain far less often than you might expect, was that I would be happy to meet and buy dinner and what not, but if she wanted cash and stuff, then we had to be on an intimate/sexual level.
Now, some girls will immediately start calling you cheap and act insulted like you called them a prostitute. In reality, these girls would have milked you for every penny they could squeeze out of you and offered nothing in return. My response to all that is to ask her if she thinks I am anything more than an ATM. If she is not willing to invest something of herself in you, why would you do the same for her? So, even if she's the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, do not cave in and agree to pay her just to hang out with you. There are lots of other women who will understand how it works and will be much more worth your time.
Of course, this brings up the opposite problem you will encounter: the actual prostitutes. They may not even realize that they are doing it, but you will find girls who are willing to trade sex for money with little or no getting to know each other before it happens. If that does not make you feel weird, then the minute they start talking about all of the other guys they are doing that with probably will. You cannot always tell who is going to be this way, and a few obviously snuck by me, but I recommend as soon as you find out you should cut ties. She could easily end up getting arrested and you could get dragged down with her (yes, police have been known to run stings on SA), and you also should probably be worried about things like diseases and raising other guys' babies, etc.
With all of these caveats out of the way, I will say that I have had marvelous success on that site. I've used it off and on for over 10 years now. If I am getting out of a long relationship, I find it is a great way to kickstart the process of getting back out in the dating world. I sign up for a month, easily meet 3 to 6 different girls, and can probably count on getting intimate with about 8 out of 10 of them. It might just start out as a fun fling, but a few have actually turned into longer term relationships, and many required no payment or allowance of any kind. Of course, most of the people willing to put themselves out there to date guys for money probably have a few scars and they invariably pop up at some point and can kill a budding relationship.
For example, met a girl, hit it off, things were great and we were using the scary "L" word with each other. Then it all went wrong because of issues with her parents that made it difficult for her to trust love. So she told me that although she loved me she was going to go back on SA to find a guy to hook up with for money for a new apartment. When I offered to give it to her myself, her logic was that owing people you love messes things up, so it was better to have sex with a stranger. Needless to say, I disagreed and that was the end of it.
Now, ladies, having met quite a few women from the site, I can say that you will likely encounter emails from a few creeps. Just as anywhere else in the world, there are people who will want to hide behind the Internet to indulge all of their fantasies and feelings of inadequacy. There will be picture collectors, there will be guys with strange desires, there will be guys the age of your father or grandfather, there will be married guys, and there will be the guys who look nothing like their photos. It is just like any dating site, though perhaps a bit grittier because of the connotation of the site. But, if you do not let that bug you, the site can be rewarding for you, as well. You can meet someone (like me) who just wants to spark up a little romance without the headaches of regular dating sites and doesn't mind helping you in the process. Really, sugar daddy dating is (at least to my mind) what regular dating should be: two people who like and care for each other and provide for one another's needs. Nice, right?
So, to sum up: have realistic expectations, and the site can be amazing. But, it requires that you be smart about your interactions and ready to move on to the next person if things are wrong.
Pros -Easy to meet large numbers of women
-Helps you avoid the headaches of normal dating
-Money acts as a "social lubricant" to facilitate intimacy
Cons -Have to be smart to avoid being scammed
-Most people will be a little damaged, making true relationships harder (though not impossible)
Before I say anything else about the NLL site, I should stress that the following is merely the experience of one man, outside America. For all I know to the contrary, the experiences of persons (of either sex) within the States could have been much happier as far as the NLL site goes. But I must speak as I find.
On the home page of the site, we read the words: "The webmaster checks the IP address of every incoming profile and uses advanced techniques to prevent scammers from getting on the site." Unfortunately scammers have not been prevented at all, although I dare say the webmaster does what he can.
I have been repeatedly approached on the site by women who demand money from me. And these women's messages to me are in a type of fractured English very different from the perfectly grammatical English of their profiles.
In at least one case I believe - on the strength of a Google search - that a "Michigan"-based woman was actually operating out of Liberia. So I have reason to suppose that wholesale identity theft is involved.
Whilst NLL does not cost a huge amount of money, I do not plan to renew my membership when my original term expires. Thus far, I have written twice in the last week to the webmaster (once via the site itself, once via a personal email) expressing my concern at the above.
Maybe the lesson here is, don't consider this kind of site unless you are in the U.S.A.
Pros Not expensive compared with many others. What's more, the idea behind NLL is a good, and necessary, one.
Cons Whatever checking of members' bona-fides actually takes place isn't adequate. (See above.) Of course, perhaps the technology means it simply can't be adequate. I wouldn't know.
<I>Update as of February 18, 2015:</I> since writing the above, I have in fact heard from the webmaster, which I had not done before. The webmaster told me that the individuals concerned were indeed scammers and had been blocked by him from the site. This is good news. Yet why is the existing anti-scam mechanism clearly not functioning as it should?
It's an okay site. It's not as bad as the blantantly scamming sites where the women are employees who are paid to show interest in the men. HOwever, they are not filtering well and there are TONS of scammers getting through. Try Luckylovers instead. The profiles are realistic there and if I see a scam like message in my mailbox, I find by the next day or two, that profile is gone or blocked.
Pros At least it isn't one of those pay per communication scamming sites where the women are paid to show interest.
Terrible, terrible dating site. Not only are there very few subscribers, but their customer service is abominable. During my time on the site, there were no matches for me within 1000 miles of my home. Many of the men were in fact in Europe. I did not meet or even see one potential match the entire time I was on the site.
After I deactivated and cancelled my account, they charged me for the next month. They were less than helpful when I disputed the charge.
This site is a TOTAL waste of money and time!!!
Like one of the other reviews I received a lot a fake pictures and no one is there to take dating seriously just guys with penis issues living an online fantasy. The website it self seems it was built in the 90s and never received an upgrade. Stick with the mainstream dating sites this one is a waste of time
Very, very shady, unscrupulous, gum chewing in your ear, not speaking english....no resolution to the problem. Got no emails after a while, they wouldn't help, RUDE and totally shady. Should be shut down. DON'T SUBSCRIBE !!!!
Pros DO NOT USE THIS SERVICE!!!
Cons EVERYTHING. VERY SHADY. CALL COOPER CITY FLA. POLICE To have them investigated !!!
Still checking it out...
Review about Muslima.comSite doesn't look 'Islamic' at all. I wish it was more controlled because the amount of creeps on that site is too damn high. Suspend the account of pervs!
Hardly any men from my area. All i keep getting interest is from those creep ass Algerians and overseas Arabs who are like my grandad's age!
Pros
Free
Cons
Creep ass thirsty idiots on there.
Site owners need to control what's going on.
Err don't bother!
Review about Single MuslimFree for ladies but men have got to pay. I don't think there's anyone genuine on there! Time wasters and full on gandus! Married drug dealers & kiddy fiddlers preying on vulnerable women. You report them and the bitch admin doesn't do anything!
Shakti kapoor lookalikes all looking for an untouched virgin who looks like kareena kapoor. They're all like "Islam is important to me... I want someone to take me to Jannah." I don't think they even know their first kalimahs.
Pros
Nothing
Cons
Everything
Timewaste
Full of perverts
Pick Your Choice of Fake Site, Scam, Bullshit, Fraud, Waste of Money, Etc...
Review about BBW DesireBBWDesire is a total scam! There are 2 categories of women. One is labeled "FC" with a yellow star, of which in the lengthy terms and conditions, tells you that they are generated profiles or FANTASY CUTIES. The other is labeled "SM", or standard member with a blue star, these are SUPPOSE to be real women, but the they are also fakes. I was able to back track several photos that were lifted off porn sites, So in total, STAY AWAY FROM BBWDESIRE, ITS TOTALLY FAKE!!!!!
Pros
The photos can be back tracked to BBW porn sites, so you can see them there.
Cons
As listed in the title, this site is POISON!
Disingenuous
Review about Just Senior SinglesThey use what you say about yourself and send it out as an Introductory message for 2 weeks after signing up. These Introductory messages get sent to who they call matches. The worst part is is that somehow they got it wrong about me and made recipients angry. They, also, limit message writing to 15 minutes, so, if you're getting involved in writing a message, you make lose everything if you take too long to write a message. That is a double negative. I will be departing after my membership, a monthly, expires after 1 month.
xpress. com = scam
Review about XPress.comthey send me hundred of spam and they have an anti-spam policy wow this site is not serious
Pros
nothing
Cons
everything
Highly organised fraud
Review about VeronikaLoveThe Veronika group of companies is internet fraud on a massive scale. Owned by corrupt would be politician Danilevskaya Nadezhda Leonidovna. The companies operate illegally within the Ukraine. ALL the women are rewarded for posting their profiles and chatting or letter writing. Veronika provides most of the profiles for the major scam players, Anastasia date and ua dreams.
Pros
If a woman is on veronika you know for certain she is a scammer.
Cons
FRAUD! This site steals money from gullible men. Every interaction on the site is a case of wire fraud
Scamebug Jason Mims
Review about Military CupidMet this guy there and hes a sex hunger and keep on sending naked pics . Hes one of those scumbags in military cupid beaware!! Hes not in military hes pretending to be .. So he can scam some naked pics in return . He was amused and get frustrated of me cz i wont even send him my naked pics in return .
Pros
Military cupid site is fine but there are pigs around and scumbags
Cons
Research carefuly
Not a good dating place
Review about ColombianCupid.comI am a user from this dating site since a few weeks. It gathers to Colombian women mostly, living in Colombia.
Knowing Spanish is a must as most girls have no real English skills.
The profiles are not really filtered, neither the website well controlled. More than once, I ended up with some kind of prostitutes and/or cons artists (asking for money) and even when reporting the case to the website's staff, their answer was worth nothing: block this person.
While they let the bad profile still acting (and preying) on others users.
I believe Colombiancupid is making most of their money from tourists looking for a fling or local prostitute, thus the reason they are not acting against such bad cases (prostitution seems legal in Colombia).
I was looking for something serious, but didn't find it there. I don't recommend this site unless talking to prostitutes or cons artists is your daily bread.
Pros
Easily to navigate
Nice and functional chat feature
Lots of profiles
Cons
Too many prostitutes and cons-artists
Management doing almost nothing against them
Great bisexual dating site to meet bisexual women
Review about MeetBiI place a profile on meetbi.com last night and there are so many bisexual women in my area. I have get many winks from other bi women, and will be fing my match.
The truth about Lunch Actually
Review about Lunch Actually1. Lunch Actually is the most expensive dating agency in singapore.
Currently they charge $2100 for 3 dates, $2300 for 5 dates and $2600 for 10 dates.
Compare this with 2 other SDN Accredited dating agencies who also provide personalised matchmaking services.
Champagne JSG charge $1200 for 6 dates & $1700 for 12 dates.
Dating Moments charge average $175 a date. Their price is transparent and shown clearly on their website.
2. Lunch Actually refuse to tell you their price when you call them to enquire.
They give you all kinds of rubbish replies like our price package is dependant on the type of partner you are looking for, ask you go for the initial consultation than they will see which platform is more suitable for you.
Anyone with abit of common sense knows this is nonsense.
If you see the price package is dependant on the type of partner you look for, does it mean that if I look for a old & ugly partner it will be very cheap, if I look for a partner that is young & pretty than it will be very expensive?
As for the platforms, basically they only have the expensive personalised matchmaking services or their esynrochology.
Once you go down for their initial consultation they will hard sell you. If you say it is too expensive than they will hard sell you their esynrochology services.
3. Lunch Actually package comes with free image workshop and coaching workshop.
This is actually just part of their attempt to sell you more package and earn more money.
When you go for the free image workshop the consultant will hard sell you the 6 hours personalised shopping trip at $888.
If you say its too expensive she will hardsell you the $488 for 3 hours personalised shopping trip.
When you go for the free coaching workshop, she will try to hardsell you the coaching package at the most expensive of $3900.
If you say its too expensive than she will slowly go down to the $2900, $1900 and than finally the $900 coaching package.
If you sign up the $900 package, it just comes with a free online video for you to watch, than a 1 hour coaching session, a courage warmup session & a meaningful dinner.
During the 1 hour coaching session, you will not have the opportunity to ask any questions because she will be busy trying to hardsell and pester you to upgrade your package to the most expensive of $3900 so she can hit her quota and earn more commission.
The courage warmup session is basically useless & nonsense.
The coach bring you to plaza singapore to approach the opposite gender on the streets to talk to them.
Anyone with abit of common sense knows this is useless and a total waste of time.
Meaningful dinner is not a speedating dinner. There is no rotation of seats.
They say is for you to practise your communication skills by talking to the participants which is basically nonsense and a waste of time.
The most expensive $3900 coaching package they basically just increase the number of useless meaingful dinner and courage warmup sesssions.
They also say you are entitled to 1 year of unlimited coaching.
Sounds like a very good deal, but in reality it is not.
Lunch Actually opening hours is Monday to Saturday 10am to 7pm.
Obviously on weekdays you need to work and you cant book a appointment to go down.
Their saturdays are always fully booked and you need to book in advance.
You can roughly only get to book 1 saturday a month for a 1 hour session which basically means in 1 year, you book 12 sessions which total to 12 hours of coaching sessions for $3900.
Now does this sound like a good deal?
Lunch Actually Consultants are trained to give alot of excuses.
If you say you have to wait very long for matches, they say it is because they are trying to find good matches for you.
After the 1st date, you have up to 7 days which you can terminate your membership and get a refund.
But it is definetly not a 100% refund!
There will be a deduction of $550 for admin fees. If you have gone for the image workshop and/or coaching workshop there will be further deduction.
I am not sure of the exact amount of deduction but it is pretty expensive.
eg. You paidd $2600 for 10 dates package. You decide to terminate after the 1st date.
You get refund of $2600 $550 admin fees - image workshop - coaching workshop, You get just around 1k plus in refunds.
You are basically paying $550 for a 1 date with Lunch Actually!
Now, a typical speedating event that comes with lunch or dinner cost around $50.
You are better off spending your $550 to attend 10 speedating events that comes with free lunch or dinner, than to spend it on a 1 date with Lunch Actually!
Pros
Nil
Cons
All the mentioned above
Fake site, fake positive reviews
Review about VeronikaLoveAll the positive reviews here are fake. Just look up me on the net, David Brunner, the Stupid American. I can provide you will all the fake pics, profiles, women who have boyfriends, who are married, etc. at this fake crap site.
They create fake reviews here because this site does not check identity. If you want to check yourself come to me, I will give you instructions on how to find out about the fake profiles at Veronikalove. ALL PAY BY LETTER SITES SCAM!!!!
Pros
none
Cons
There isn't a worse dating site on the net. It isn't even a dating site. It is a ripoff sex cam site.
Great service. Recommended.
Review about VeronikaLoveUsually I don't write positive reviews, but this time I decided to let you guys know this website is the best of what I've tried and there were plenty.
sign up is fast and easy, gives you an access to all pictures and information right away. I received few letters and even got a chance to reply without paying a penny! I am happy with veronikalove and sure to find here what I've been looking for.
Sucked in
Review about XPress.comThis site is full of bogus profiles. First of all it's not very mobile friendly. With constant popups trying to steal your money if you do not pay attention. Like others state you get cryptic one line replies that's designed to keep you hanging on. They even tried to rip me off by charging me got one of their fake sister sites, yet the kept telling me they had ve no record of the charges.So I had the charge reversed. I have never been in a worse dating site period. You have been warned, stay away.
Pros
Some nice pictures
Cons
Poor navigation, popups and general shitty design.
Not bad
Review about Lunch ActuallyNot bad. This is not a dating site but is a modern dating agency who meets up with all their clients and find matches manually. Had a good time with this service and met many new friends via the service though no romantic sparks have flown yet. The best is to approach it with the right mindset, be open with your matches and let nature take its course.
Pros
- Personalised Consultation and friendly service
- Someone doing the work and booking for you
- Decent "dates" with new and interesting people you otherwise may not have met. Its important to keep an open mind when you do such things.
Cons
- On the pricey side. Not an easy investment to make initially and I hesitated after they showed me the price the first time.
Not for everyone but certainly a fun experience so far (:
Poor Customer Service, Expensive and potential fake profiles
Review about Mr and Miss BlackI joined this website, was swamped with messages, flirts, gifts etc but was unable to respond until l signed up to a package. I chose the 3 day VIP package and found access very restricted. When l complained, I was offered a better deal but was unable to take it up as they said my card mysteriously wouldn't go through even though l checked online at time and there was more than sufficient funds to cover the charge. They cancelled my account and told me call a number or visit chat to take up the offer at a later date. When l tried to take up the better offer l was told I'd have to take put another trial package to qualify.
Rip off city! I have now left the site with over 20 unanswered emails, countless unanswered flirts and unopened gifts. Don't waste your time or your money, no real dating site would've allowed me to leave if l was really that popular.
Cons
Expensive, poor customer service. Fake profiles.
Scam app
Review about Mixxxer.comScam app. Profiles are not real. Yet to receive any messages or teases from anyone. Claims to show profiles in your zipcode but shows random profiles from apparently anywhere else. No response from their tech support.
I was definately the "Poor decision making Rob Lowe" on this one.
Save your money.
Pros
None
Cons
Scam
The best site ever
Review about VeronikaLoveIt was my first time i tried such a service and i think it was not mistake. Those people who think that everything is not real come to Ukraine or Russia and you will see their ladies are really as beautiful as they are posted on this site. I have found my funny and kind sweetheart bunny. I love her so so so so much. Thank you Veronika for everything you did for me.
sucks
Review about Biker LoungeFake profiles , great for pinpals but meeting up is not likely ... Most likely that cute pic she has posted is not her , fat hogs eating cake and playing internet games ...
A balanced view on it
Review about AfroRomanceAlthough I can empathise with some of the woes some people might have had I only remember a positive experience. Only one out of about 20 women I had email exchanges with turned out to be a scammer - the bad old Nigerian style inheritance scam. Most women were pleasant, intelligent and sincere (as much as detectable online).
Anyway I eventually found my dream lady offline but I must say in all fairness that this site is worth a chance if you stay level-headed and street/net smart all the time.
If I look for a grain of salt it would be that some of the (apparently immature) female members send SMS style emails, containing 4-5 encrypted words. A major turnoff ladies! I also found it strange that quite a few girls in their twenties contacted me although I requested 40 in my profile.
In essence though it's not a bad site. Also the chat rooms are friendly even though populated mostly by the same crowd.
Side note, a friend of mine found her husband on there and they are still going strong.
Good luck.
Pros
Very international
Cons
Can be a bit immature
Good for What It Is
Review about Seeking ArrangementSeeking Arrangement is a sugardaddy dating site. That means that girls are looking to make money for hanging out with guys who have some money. If you understand and accept that, the site is not that bad. I found that, as a reasonably attractive male, I could go on there, set the allowance amounts to something reasonable, and find a huge array of women.
The trick of being successful as a guy on this site is to have rules and be upfront about them. There are a lot of women who get on the site and want to be paid hundreds of dollars just so you can buy them dinner. If you are like me, you do not need to pay for friends. You may, on the other hand, be willing to use money as a social lubricant to make dating faster and weed out competition, right? So, my rule, which I had to explain far less often than you might expect, was that I would be happy to meet and buy dinner and what not, but if she wanted cash and stuff, then we had to be on an intimate/sexual level.
Now, some girls will immediately start calling you cheap and act insulted like you called them a prostitute. In reality, these girls would have milked you for every penny they could squeeze out of you and offered nothing in return. My response to all that is to ask her if she thinks I am anything more than an ATM. If she is not willing to invest something of herself in you, why would you do the same for her? So, even if she's the most beautiful woman you have ever seen, do not cave in and agree to pay her just to hang out with you. There are lots of other women who will understand how it works and will be much more worth your time.
Of course, this brings up the opposite problem you will encounter: the actual prostitutes. They may not even realize that they are doing it, but you will find girls who are willing to trade sex for money with little or no getting to know each other before it happens. If that does not make you feel weird, then the minute they start talking about all of the other guys they are doing that with probably will. You cannot always tell who is going to be this way, and a few obviously snuck by me, but I recommend as soon as you find out you should cut ties. She could easily end up getting arrested and you could get dragged down with her (yes, police have been known to run stings on SA), and you also should probably be worried about things like diseases and raising other guys' babies, etc.
With all of these caveats out of the way, I will say that I have had marvelous success on that site. I've used it off and on for over 10 years now. If I am getting out of a long relationship, I find it is a great way to kickstart the process of getting back out in the dating world. I sign up for a month, easily meet 3 to 6 different girls, and can probably count on getting intimate with about 8 out of 10 of them. It might just start out as a fun fling, but a few have actually turned into longer term relationships, and many required no payment or allowance of any kind. Of course, most of the people willing to put themselves out there to date guys for money probably have a few scars and they invariably pop up at some point and can kill a budding relationship.
For example, met a girl, hit it off, things were great and we were using the scary "L" word with each other. Then it all went wrong because of issues with her parents that made it difficult for her to trust love. So she told me that although she loved me she was going to go back on SA to find a guy to hook up with for money for a new apartment. When I offered to give it to her myself, her logic was that owing people you love messes things up, so it was better to have sex with a stranger. Needless to say, I disagreed and that was the end of it.
Now, ladies, having met quite a few women from the site, I can say that you will likely encounter emails from a few creeps. Just as anywhere else in the world, there are people who will want to hide behind the Internet to indulge all of their fantasies and feelings of inadequacy. There will be picture collectors, there will be guys with strange desires, there will be guys the age of your father or grandfather, there will be married guys, and there will be the guys who look nothing like their photos. It is just like any dating site, though perhaps a bit grittier because of the connotation of the site. But, if you do not let that bug you, the site can be rewarding for you, as well. You can meet someone (like me) who just wants to spark up a little romance without the headaches of regular dating sites and doesn't mind helping you in the process. Really, sugar daddy dating is (at least to my mind) what regular dating should be: two people who like and care for each other and provide for one another's needs. Nice, right?
So, to sum up: have realistic expectations, and the site can be amazing. But, it requires that you be smart about your interactions and ready to move on to the next person if things are wrong.
Pros
-Easy to meet large numbers of women
-Helps you avoid the headaches of normal dating
-Money acts as a "social lubricant" to facilitate intimacy
Cons
-Have to be smart to avoid being scammed
-Most people will be a little damaged, making true relationships harder (though not impossible)
Rather disappointing, if you're outside the U.S.A.
Review about No Longer LonelyBefore I say anything else about the NLL site, I should stress that the following is merely the experience of one man, outside America. For all I know to the contrary, the experiences of persons (of either sex) within the States could have been much happier as far as the NLL site goes. But I must speak as I find.
On the home page of the site, we read the words: "The webmaster checks the IP address of every incoming profile and uses advanced techniques to prevent scammers from getting on the site." Unfortunately scammers have not been prevented at all, although I dare say the webmaster does what he can.
I have been repeatedly approached on the site by women who demand money from me. And these women's messages to me are in a type of fractured English very different from the perfectly grammatical English of their profiles.
In at least one case I believe - on the strength of a Google search - that a "Michigan"-based woman was actually operating out of Liberia. So I have reason to suppose that wholesale identity theft is involved.
Whilst NLL does not cost a huge amount of money, I do not plan to renew my membership when my original term expires. Thus far, I have written twice in the last week to the webmaster (once via the site itself, once via a personal email) expressing my concern at the above.
Maybe the lesson here is, don't consider this kind of site unless you are in the U.S.A.
Pros
Not expensive compared with many others. What's more, the idea behind NLL is a good, and necessary, one.
Cons
Whatever checking of members' bona-fides actually takes place isn't adequate. (See above.) Of course, perhaps the technology means it simply can't be adequate. I wouldn't know.
<I>Update as of February 18, 2015:</I> since writing the above, I have in fact heard from the webmaster, which I had not done before. The webmaster told me that the individuals concerned were indeed scammers and had been blocked by him from the site. This is good news. Yet why is the existing anti-scam mechanism clearly not functioning as it should?
Full of Scammers
Review about RussianCupid.comIt's an okay site. It's not as bad as the blantantly scamming sites where the women are employees who are paid to show interest in the men. HOwever, they are not filtering well and there are TONS of scammers getting through. Try Luckylovers instead. The profiles are realistic there and if I see a scam like message in my mailbox, I find by the next day or two, that profile is gone or blocked.
Pros
At least it isn't one of those pay per communication scamming sites where the women are paid to show interest.
Cons
Not much scam protection
Afroromance is awful
Review about AfroRomanceTerrible, terrible dating site. Not only are there very few subscribers, but their customer service is abominable. During my time on the site, there were no matches for me within 1000 miles of my home. Many of the men were in fact in Europe. I did not meet or even see one potential match the entire time I was on the site.
After I deactivated and cancelled my account, they charged me for the next month. They were less than helpful when I disputed the charge.
This site is a TOTAL waste of money and time!!!
Pros
None
Cons
Everything
Fake
Review about 7OrBetterLike one of the other reviews I received a lot a fake pictures and no one is there to take dating seriously just guys with penis issues living an online fantasy. The website it self seems it was built in the 90s and never received an upgrade. Stick with the mainstream dating sites this one is a waste of time
Pros
Non
Cons
Fake profiles
HORRIBLE and FRAUDDDDDD !!!!
Review about Biker PlanetVery, very shady, unscrupulous, gum chewing in your ear, not speaking english....no resolution to the problem. Got no emails after a while, they wouldn't help, RUDE and totally shady. Should be shut down. DON'T SUBSCRIBE !!!!
Pros
DO NOT USE THIS SERVICE!!!
Cons
EVERYTHING. VERY SHADY. CALL COOPER CITY FLA. POLICE To have them investigated !!!