Well for starters please don't take this as me bashing men, this is from my personal experience on this site.
I came across this site when I saw it on the show 20/20. I couldn't believe that this type of thing even exsisted. Let alone out in public. So I thought why not? I just lost my job, it was the beginning of summer (students just took all of work) I recently bought a new phone and I been trying to go back to school along with saving for a car...and you only live once.
So I signed up, uploaded a picture, and wrote a profile. Simple enough.
I won't lie, I was pretty excited about the whole experience. From what you see on tv beautiful young women being spoiled rotten to the core by rich attractive men. *rolls eyes* wel..let's just say this, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
On one of my dates, an Indian man was worth $10 million from owning gas company's. He seemed nice at FIRST. We went to a casino near my area that was just new. We didn't do much except walk around since I never gambled before. We talked laughed and he asked me what I was looking for in this arrangement and what allowance I want. I was taken aback because I was still new to this site...and because of that, he found an advantage. After telling him my financial problems he asked if we can be somewhere more quiet( here I'm thinking he wants to sit somewhere) ummmmm no. Not at all.
So after agreeing, we drive to a hotel area. With a look of confusion I ask him what's going on and I thought he was going to take me home. He takes out a camera, condoms, and handcuffs! All I could do was look at him. I explained to him I'm not that type of girl. He became angry and said he already paid for the room and he believed that with this relationship...and I quote, "it's a give or take relationship, and I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE". Well that went out the door and I ordered him to take me home. For my trouble he gave me $400. Later that week he texted me asking can he spend time with me. I refused and never heard from him again.
Even after that sucky experience, I didn't want to put all men in one pool. So I decided to go on another date.
Another bad experience was with a man who was CEO of ICloud. He was from Nigeria and was well off.
So we went on a late dinner date, talked a little. When I asked him has he ran into any false pretense of women lying about what they look like he agreed. Me being funny I asked did I disappoint him?
And I quote he said, "no...not really." -___-
Now, I'm not saying I'm the baddest bitch on the planet, but I can say I'm a very very attractive black/Filipino girl. And I NEVER edeited my pictures. And from what men told me, I actually look BETTER in person than online. Meanwhile this man looked like donkey from shrek -___-.
So to my surprise I was taken back not knowing what to say. Trying to change the subject I said I wanted to go back to school to be a mortician. When he heard this, he was trully turned off saying things such as, "something was wrong with me" and " I must of had a bad childhood" orrrrrr maybe Im just interested. Anyway I mention to him I couldn't afford school and student loans and such would be suicide. He was constantly cutting me off saying I was,"lazy" and that when he came to America he didn't have a problem with looking for work. By this point I was ready to go home. When we were done eating I asked did he have a good time? He shrugged and said kinda.
This man was a rude asshole, but to top it off, he was trying to grab my ass after JUST insulting me! Long story short I never contacted him again.
ANOTHER, bad experience is when an asian man asked me out to dinner.
At this point I felt like I had nothing to lose. In between looking for work and trying to make ends meet, I thought why not?
I forgot what this man did for a living but his profile said he was worth $3 million. We finally head out to dinner and all seemed fine. He barley spoke English and he was the size of snookie from jersey shore. Couldn't help but feel bad......BUT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!!!
So after talking for a bit we talk about payment and what were looking for in an arrangement. I mention to him what I want allowance wise and respect wise. AND THAT I NEVER SLEEP WITH PEOPLE THE FIRST NIGHT I MEET THEM. PERIOD. he seemed ok with it and offered to take me home. We jump in the car...and without warning, he jumps me trying to take off my dress!!! Thankfully I was a bit stronger than him and was able to push him off. He looked surprised that I pushed him off and was asking why I didn't wanna have sex! Are you serious man?! Did you not just hear what I said?! I swear with no exaggerations after I said no several times, he insisted he came home with me and sneak in my room! At this point I was done and was willing to take a cab home. He felt bad (or so I thought) and said hell drive me home. On the way home he said he was willing to give me $500 that night and tomorrow before all the drama started in the car. When he drops me off he said he had money. When he hands it over...he gave me $40.
That was the last time I been out on a date for the past 2 months. Again I had some good dates but there was no chemistry ORRRRR the men were just horny cheap assholes who wanted sex that night.
Sorry for the long review but I wanted girls to know to PLEASE be careful. A lot of the men are fake or just crude and nasty. About 85% of them are. The rest you'll find should be decent but I'd rather be broke not going shopping or enjoying a new car than feeling like a common prostitute.
I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only young female that has had terrible experiences. Trust me I have several more stories, but I'm surprised that you even came to the end of this. Lol. But really to get to the bottom of this:
This site is bullshit. The men on here are either fake, greedy, nasty, or just down right mean because they think they have money.
And what I mean by fake is: fake pictures, profiles, names ect.
I even had a man ask to give me $100 and a hotel room for 6 hours of sex! Cringe alert!!! He even said if we go out to eat, it can't be to expensive because...and I quote! "I been outta work for the past 2 years so if we eat it's either at McDonald's or taco bell"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.....I'm done. But this site is a waste of time. Endless emails and empty promises.
If you continue on the site always do background checks and ask for proof. If they get defensive to even showing a picture...there fake.
Thank you for reading my LONG REVIEW. Be safe ladies.
Pros I don't really have any except atleast I'm not paying to be on the site. *shrug*
Cons -empty promises
-horny old men
-fake millionaires
-waste of time
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So the deal with AFF is you have three choices. You can avoid it entirely, which might save you some frustration but it is free to sign up so why not take the chance. Worst case is you never find someone but at least you tried. Second is to sign up and be PATIENT! The key is patience (and blogging, blogging earns points, points lets you email) without patience a free account will get you nowhere. The third option is to pay to upgrade, and you still have to be PATIENT! Just because now you can email people doesn't mean you should start copy pasting "Fuk me?" emails to every woman in your city. Women don't appreciate being treated like dirt, and they also want someone who wants to give them more attention that just a mindless penis. They already have those if you didn't know guys it's called a dildo.
When you pay to upgrade think very carefully about whether you really want to fork over the extra cash for the gold membership. Besides seeing the newly created profiles 3 days early, and being able to customize your searches better, it gets you nothing else really other than a little gold ball instead of a silver one on your profile name.
Paying for Silver or Gold, you'd be a fool to pay month to month expecting to hook up in the first month. Their guarantee is to meet someone in three months, they don't guarantee how you will meet them or whether that person will have sex with you or not. Meet can be as simply defined as a woman responded to your email. Be prepared to be searching for months before meeting someone for sex. I recommend getting the year package and turning off autorenew immediately so if by the end of your 12 months you aren't satisfied then you don't get roped in to a second year.
I joined for only a month as a silver when I lived in LA the fuck capitol of the world with millions of potential FBs. I was so mad and disappointed when I never got a single response that I decided not to renew. When I moved to Northern Cali, I decided to give it another shot and went for the year subscription plus the porn package (hey free unlimited downloads and I'm bored playing with myself as soon as I get home at least would like to see some DVD quality entertainment rather than flash videos all the time) within a month I met someone, we had a playdate that didn't go so well. A week later I arranged another meet with someone in central cali, we hit it off and screwed for 36 hours before I had to drive back. A week after I got back I met another lady in my city we hit it off and were FWB for a few weeks until things got a little too friendly for the level of benefits and I don't deny women would prefer a friend but this was her end going a little too far over the limit of friends. It was entering slavedom. I've also made many online only friends for emailing and chatting, but I haven't had a partner in 4 months now. So it's not ideal but it is realistic to expect to find someone to have sex with at some point.
I should mention when I joined I was 200 pounds overweight and the girls I was with were not supermodels but the FWB was deffinately cute and I wish we could have stayed together longer. I'm now down another 100 pounds and building a potential relationship with a very good looking woman my age who's slightly overweight but has an amazing figure and I hope we get together.
Keep hope, and realize were wanted for more than our schlongs (because if you think yours is so special get a dose of reality, AFF is a sausage fest at least 10-100 men to every woman in major cities, 100-1000 men / 1 woman in smaller rural areas. If you were a gay guy you would find a ton of action. I have 5-6 gay guys watch me on cam every night.
People who are against AFF usually feel like they got cheated and the reality is they probably weren't patient (both in time and the way they treated the women)
Pros Lots of members, lots of real people, very likely chance of meeting someone if you live in a major city
Cons Lots of fake profiles, annoying restrictions, site is constantly trying to get you to upgrade even from silver to gold, there are plenty of scammers but you will figure out how to spot them really quickly.
Had my CC hijacked and used to sign up for a membership. There was a phone number on the billing line online, called it and they do not accept calls.
Went to the web site and found NO way to contact these people to tell them of the fraud.
Luckily the cc company jumped in and cancelled the card and these charges.
hubby and i joined up on here and stupid us paid for it , was the only one we could find that said we are a couple not male or female and seen a few good reviews on it well obviously the people who have good things to say about this site are from this site , we havent received any replys from any messages or anything , we are both 29 fit and not bad looking either so it wasnt our looks that made them not reply we are having more luck now with the free sites now then the paid ones its because this site is a complete rip off , awesome forums??? we doubt that no one replys to your posts this is the biggest waste of money ever we are just glad we only paid for the one month !!!
Pros lmao there are none ..maybe the pretty pictures?
Cons everything about be naughty is a con dont do it anyone
I was first hesitant about paying for membership having read some of the reviews on this site. But after taking the plunge I have met 4 women for drinks and have ended up sleeping with 2 of them.
I will defiantly be renewing my membership at the end of the month as it's worth the money.
Pros Nice safe environment with lots of friendly women
The site has many stock photos of fake people that will try to IM you to start a chat. I paid the $3 to try it out for three days, and after 10 minutes the 88 people that viewed my profile were all online and not a single one would respond to an IM. All these previous profiles had plenty to say on IM when I was not a subscriber. When I contacted Wealthymatch.com after ten minutes for a refund, they admitted that the site had fake profiles and to read section ten of the legal document that this is for entertainment purposes only. They said I tried it out and that was what I was paying for, and in the legal terms they do not guarantee any responses. Someone also went into my account (management) and rewrote my profile to say "nice guy looking for friends". I am a girl.
Cons These are fake profiles set up to lure you in and pay $20/30 per month.
This site is full of fake profiles and you can meet plenty of scammers or cam girls.
If you check some profiles, you will see many of them identical..
It is not worth spending your money.
Automatic renewal policy is a big trap. You are supposed to read 10 page long subscription terms even they advertise membe rship for one month . Good sites will never have customer unfriendly policy
Pros No outcome
Fake members
Automatic membership
No customer care in uk
U have to leave message on voicemail nd wait for ages for them to come back
There is no appropriate body or agency whom u can write for further resolution of complaints
Obvious bots responding instantly to your accessing a profile is always a big red flag, as are random *winks* from people halfway round the world sent for no apparent reason (e.g your profile is empty).
Seemingly all of the users are incapable of capitalizing their names, using punctuation or abstaining from TXT speak (even those who have Tertiary qualifications), which leaves the whole thing screaming "lazy scammers ahoy!"
Just avoid this mess.
Pros None
Cons Any site forcing you to pay up front for basic functions (such as responding to text chat) clearly exists to separate as many people from their money as quickly as possible.
Pros There are few nice people falling in the same trap, so you may end up finding another nice person there, worth the risk? NOOOOOOOOOOO
Cons They say they are expensive because they are genuine, RUBBISH !!
After you register for free you may get messages, which are not messages! After I asked my profile to be deleted I still emails saying people saw my profile! what!? It was deleted, but I guess they forgot and sent me fake "Messages".
I quote one of the emails Illicit Encounters sent me when I asked why I had emails that were the same + line from someone's profile: (I was told I has Messages, not VK !!! )
" To clarify, you received 4 Virtual Kisses. Virtual Kisses are not messages ... The reason these messages look the same is because they are VKs, not full messages.
I believe Our Time is truly a bait and switch sort of site. I joined after viewing what I thought was decent looking over 50 men.
I was (am) basically looking for a site where men were looking for women their own age. Go figure. When the $$ were taken and the real men appeared, I thought, oh no, this looks like a Walmart shoppers gallery selection... is this truly serious men looking for a serious relationship?? Because the main photo of you in your wife beater undershirt may be a turn on in cell block B, but it's doing nothing for me here. Nor is the close up picture of you with teeth missing. The pictures that men post of their friends, family, pets and toys...oh and fish from their fishing adventures, well I'm like, uh, who is it you are actually trying to impress here? I'm really starting to think I'd have better luck in a bar at happy hour than I would have on this dating site. It's almost as bad as POF (plenty of fish) and that site is really a freak show.
I'm going to play out my month and see how it goes. I'm only a week into this so far. They are spending a lot of advertising $$ via TV and Radio, so I can just hope that some normal, that is non-walmart types join for at least a month like I did.
Big problem with their search though, and I can't seem to find an area where I can communicate to them it's not working. Their advance search doesn't work. I plub in the requirements I'm looking for which are divorced or widowed men, and when I do a search, seperated men show up in the search. That's just wrong. Sorry guys, but if you are "just" "seperated" you need to wait it out to you are divorced before you start dating... but that's just me... anyway, the advanced searching doesn't seem to work. I do NOT like that. Big bad!!! Get it right!!!
So with the walmart men, unworkable searching parameters... Out Time is presently not a good option.
I am a female who joined the site for a bit of fun. I didn't think it was too bad as i got free membership. my problem it's very prohibitive as it is quick cancel to access to services without informing of any violations. i apparantly broke some rules when uploading pictures and then was no longer able to post pics or vids. when i closed the account i could not remove pics and my account is still active on the site even though i cancelled my membership. AVOID this website!!!
Pros there are some nice on it.
Cons if you are a female they will keep your profile active even if you cancel it. be careful of images you post as you may not be able to remove them.
I would've gotten tons of play on this site, im an above average looking young women in peak physical condition..except the messages I tried to send to pot SD's NEVER EVER EVErRR SENT! Resending didn't work either! Using a different computer didn't work either! Contacting costumer support NEVER fot back to me, this site has some serious technical issues it needs to work out not sure if this is happening to other pple. But it's kind of frustrating especially after you've paid your money. It's been nothing but a waste of time unfortunately, I'm not saying its a scam but they need to work out the bugs in the site. Im happy for the pple it is working out for.
i've been a member of this website for over 6 months, and i am overall satistfied with the level of service i received from the site.
as with all these type of sites, there are scammers, but the great thing is that reporting these scammers is very easy, and their profiles are removed asap. i had to report a few scammers, and the response from management was very quick (typing)
this site is run by real, local people (at least local to me). whenever i contacted them i got real response, not an automated one (A)
the website needs a facelift, as it looks outdated, and needs better marketing, as most of the ladies appear to be from one country :(
Pros high level of management
personal attention to customers
very quick dealings with scammers
they give free upgrade to memberships from time to time
Cons website looks old
needs marketing in a broader range of countries
expensive membership fees
How much is fling paying you to suck guys in to buying a member ship? You dum (bimbo)
Pros What/dream on you (Morons)
Cons Nothing but a Scram. Do not fall for there (Bull) Shit. 95% of the woman on the dating sites ,Where you have to pay for a member ship.Are geting Paid from them ,For each new guy they suck in to buy a (Member)Ship.Do not get suck in to there (Bull)Shit (Guys) Don,t waste your (money) on any of those (Sites) They are mostly all tied in together in some way, I have been finding out .After doing investigations on complaints About thease (Dating) Sites, Before you (Join) any of them.Check out the reviews on them on (Google) its worth your time end (Effort) Before you get suck in buy any of them.
I have been on this site for 3 years and I have met 4 men. Two of them I get together with at times and we have an amazing intimate relationship. This can happen but you have to be patient..
Pros Easy to navigate and women receive many messages. 4tonight2 is my handle
Cons Very few attractive men that will take you out and spoil you. Although it does happen.
I signed up for a 3 month membership at a discount and there are tons of women in my area, but most don't have a profile pic and those who do never seem to be online. Idk. I have two more months left, but I might cut it short if I don't start getting replies sometime soon.
Pros Plenty of local profiles, signed up at a discounted rate.
Cons Most ladies dont have a profile pic, almost zero responses from "winks" and messages.
The worst dating site EVER!!!!! Don't waste your time or money on this sorry excuse for a site. Half the bitches on this site are fake strippers who want you to pay to watch them finger themselves. The other half are computer generated sluts that "drink coffee all day and all night." I haven't found a single date on this crappy site. The mobile app is horrible and causes your phone to crash. Absolutely terrible...TERRIBLE!!!!!!
Cheeky lovers, click and flirt, etc.. cupidplc dot com As everyone says plenty of contact until you sign up then virtually zero. If you search their other sites for the same member name you will get same profile but in a totally different town.. Do a "bulk flirt and you will see how few "real woman" there actually are on site - seems they dont send flirts to their own profiles ;)
Pros if you are really bored you can tie up scammers for hours LOL
Cons Whole cupid.plc raft of sites = save your money dont sign up
Be careful who you get mixed up with. I met a real nut case. He bombarded
me with phone calls and text messages, morning noon and night.
He even hacked into my email account and accused me of seeing other people
The fact that he was married never entered his head. He was a reformed
alcoholic, be careful, be very careful. Some men you just can't get rid of.
They want sex straight away, a cheap hotel, not even a meal.
The site is not worth the stress.
When I joined OurTime I requested to receive matches with men in my area. Some of the same matches were sent to me multiple times. Although OurTime's matches were local men, I received flirts and messages from men all over the U.S. and wa surprised by how many profiles didn't contain photos or any information about the profiler. After I received a blatant request for sex--as opposed to the more subtle ones I'd received before-- I asked OurTime to cancel my subscription and refund me the balance remaining which they refused to do. I do not recommend OurTime to anyone.
Pros Easy to navigate.
Cons OurTime does not know the meaning of Customer Service. It does not police its site to keep out the riff-raff nor does it pay much attention to the matches it sends to its customers. The Terms and Conditions release OurTime from responsibility for its online content and offer no recourse for dissatisfied customers.
Speed date is pretty chancie! I got to chat with one guy for quite a while who seemed nice, we used the camera utility to see each other until he exposed himself to me! Holy crap! I did not bargin for that! So ladies watch out, the peverts have gone cyber.
I will say I did chat with one guy who seemed decent, but no cameras were involved! I was not going there again!
I would not recommend Speed Date, a lot of the men seem pretty sleazy.
(And I take exception to the previous posters comment about only obese women from Ghana on this site.)
Not all blondes are beautiful, but that's what these men desire. I browsed the SBs and the SDs. Most of the SDs (though broke) were more attractive than many of the SBs. Obnoxiously large breasts and a fake nose do not make women attractive.
Maybe those traits suggest that they are going to give it up.
Oh! To any SB trying out the site, make sure that you don't show you're private pics until all of your GOOD PICS are approved. Guys like variety.
Pros connects women to generous men
Cons generous men only want blondes with big boobs or herpes
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Review about Seeking ArrangementWell for starters please don't take this as me bashing men, this is from my personal experience on this site.
I came across this site when I saw it on the show 20/20. I couldn't believe that this type of thing even exsisted. Let alone out in public. So I thought why not? I just lost my job, it was the beginning of summer (students just took all of work) I recently bought a new phone and I been trying to go back to school along with saving for a car...and you only live once.
So I signed up, uploaded a picture, and wrote a profile. Simple enough.
I won't lie, I was pretty excited about the whole experience. From what you see on tv beautiful young women being spoiled rotten to the core by rich attractive men. *rolls eyes* wel..let's just say this, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
On one of my dates, an Indian man was worth $10 million from owning gas company's. He seemed nice at FIRST. We went to a casino near my area that was just new. We didn't do much except walk around since I never gambled before. We talked laughed and he asked me what I was looking for in this arrangement and what allowance I want. I was taken aback because I was still new to this site...and because of that, he found an advantage. After telling him my financial problems he asked if we can be somewhere more quiet( here I'm thinking he wants to sit somewhere) ummmmm no. Not at all.
So after agreeing, we drive to a hotel area. With a look of confusion I ask him what's going on and I thought he was going to take me home. He takes out a camera, condoms, and handcuffs! All I could do was look at him. I explained to him I'm not that type of girl. He became angry and said he already paid for the room and he believed that with this relationship...and I quote, "it's a give or take relationship, and I HAVE THE RIGHT TO TAKE". Well that went out the door and I ordered him to take me home. For my trouble he gave me $400. Later that week he texted me asking can he spend time with me. I refused and never heard from him again.
Even after that sucky experience, I didn't want to put all men in one pool. So I decided to go on another date.
Another bad experience was with a man who was CEO of ICloud. He was from Nigeria and was well off.
So we went on a late dinner date, talked a little. When I asked him has he ran into any false pretense of women lying about what they look like he agreed. Me being funny I asked did I disappoint him?
And I quote he said, "no...not really." -___-
Now, I'm not saying I'm the baddest bitch on the planet, but I can say I'm a very very attractive black/Filipino girl. And I NEVER edeited my pictures. And from what men told me, I actually look BETTER in person than online. Meanwhile this man looked like donkey from shrek -___-.
So to my surprise I was taken back not knowing what to say. Trying to change the subject I said I wanted to go back to school to be a mortician. When he heard this, he was trully turned off saying things such as, "something was wrong with me" and " I must of had a bad childhood" orrrrrr maybe Im just interested. Anyway I mention to him I couldn't afford school and student loans and such would be suicide. He was constantly cutting me off saying I was,"lazy" and that when he came to America he didn't have a problem with looking for work. By this point I was ready to go home. When we were done eating I asked did he have a good time? He shrugged and said kinda.
This man was a rude asshole, but to top it off, he was trying to grab my ass after JUST insulting me! Long story short I never contacted him again.
ANOTHER, bad experience is when an asian man asked me out to dinner.
At this point I felt like I had nothing to lose. In between looking for work and trying to make ends meet, I thought why not?
I forgot what this man did for a living but his profile said he was worth $3 million. We finally head out to dinner and all seemed fine. He barley spoke English and he was the size of snookie from jersey shore. Couldn't help but feel bad......BUT LOOKS CAN BE DECIEVING!!!
So after talking for a bit we talk about payment and what were looking for in an arrangement. I mention to him what I want allowance wise and respect wise. AND THAT I NEVER SLEEP WITH PEOPLE THE FIRST NIGHT I MEET THEM. PERIOD. he seemed ok with it and offered to take me home. We jump in the car...and without warning, he jumps me trying to take off my dress!!! Thankfully I was a bit stronger than him and was able to push him off. He looked surprised that I pushed him off and was asking why I didn't wanna have sex! Are you serious man?! Did you not just hear what I said?! I swear with no exaggerations after I said no several times, he insisted he came home with me and sneak in my room! At this point I was done and was willing to take a cab home. He felt bad (or so I thought) and said hell drive me home. On the way home he said he was willing to give me $500 that night and tomorrow before all the drama started in the car. When he drops me off he said he had money. When he hands it over...he gave me $40.
That was the last time I been out on a date for the past 2 months. Again I had some good dates but there was no chemistry ORRRRR the men were just horny cheap assholes who wanted sex that night.
Sorry for the long review but I wanted girls to know to PLEASE be careful. A lot of the men are fake or just crude and nasty. About 85% of them are. The rest you'll find should be decent but I'd rather be broke not going shopping or enjoying a new car than feeling like a common prostitute.
I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only young female that has had terrible experiences. Trust me I have several more stories, but I'm surprised that you even came to the end of this. Lol. But really to get to the bottom of this:
This site is bullshit. The men on here are either fake, greedy, nasty, or just down right mean because they think they have money.
And what I mean by fake is: fake pictures, profiles, names ect.
I even had a man ask to give me $100 and a hotel room for 6 hours of sex! Cringe alert!!! He even said if we go out to eat, it can't be to expensive because...and I quote! "I been outta work for the past 2 years so if we eat it's either at McDonald's or taco bell"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.....I'm done. But this site is a waste of time. Endless emails and empty promises.
If you continue on the site always do background checks and ask for proof. If they get defensive to even showing a picture...there fake.
Thank you for reading my LONG REVIEW. Be safe ladies.
Pros
I don't really have any except atleast I'm not paying to be on the site. *shrug*
Cons
-empty promises
-horny old men
-fake millionaires
-waste of time
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Adult Friend Finder - Frustrating but there are real people on it
Review about Adult FriendfinderSo the deal with AFF is you have three choices. You can avoid it entirely, which might save you some frustration but it is free to sign up so why not take the chance. Worst case is you never find someone but at least you tried. Second is to sign up and be PATIENT! The key is patience (and blogging, blogging earns points, points lets you email) without patience a free account will get you nowhere. The third option is to pay to upgrade, and you still have to be PATIENT! Just because now you can email people doesn't mean you should start copy pasting "Fuk me?" emails to every woman in your city. Women don't appreciate being treated like dirt, and they also want someone who wants to give them more attention that just a mindless penis. They already have those if you didn't know guys it's called a dildo.
When you pay to upgrade think very carefully about whether you really want to fork over the extra cash for the gold membership. Besides seeing the newly created profiles 3 days early, and being able to customize your searches better, it gets you nothing else really other than a little gold ball instead of a silver one on your profile name.
Paying for Silver or Gold, you'd be a fool to pay month to month expecting to hook up in the first month. Their guarantee is to meet someone in three months, they don't guarantee how you will meet them or whether that person will have sex with you or not. Meet can be as simply defined as a woman responded to your email. Be prepared to be searching for months before meeting someone for sex. I recommend getting the year package and turning off autorenew immediately so if by the end of your 12 months you aren't satisfied then you don't get roped in to a second year.
I joined for only a month as a silver when I lived in LA the fuck capitol of the world with millions of potential FBs. I was so mad and disappointed when I never got a single response that I decided not to renew. When I moved to Northern Cali, I decided to give it another shot and went for the year subscription plus the porn package (hey free unlimited downloads and I'm bored playing with myself as soon as I get home at least would like to see some DVD quality entertainment rather than flash videos all the time) within a month I met someone, we had a playdate that didn't go so well. A week later I arranged another meet with someone in central cali, we hit it off and screwed for 36 hours before I had to drive back. A week after I got back I met another lady in my city we hit it off and were FWB for a few weeks until things got a little too friendly for the level of benefits and I don't deny women would prefer a friend but this was her end going a little too far over the limit of friends. It was entering slavedom. I've also made many online only friends for emailing and chatting, but I haven't had a partner in 4 months now. So it's not ideal but it is realistic to expect to find someone to have sex with at some point.
I should mention when I joined I was 200 pounds overweight and the girls I was with were not supermodels but the FWB was deffinately cute and I wish we could have stayed together longer. I'm now down another 100 pounds and building a potential relationship with a very good looking woman my age who's slightly overweight but has an amazing figure and I hope we get together.
Keep hope, and realize were wanted for more than our schlongs (because if you think yours is so special get a dose of reality, AFF is a sausage fest at least 10-100 men to every woman in major cities, 100-1000 men / 1 woman in smaller rural areas. If you were a gay guy you would find a ton of action. I have 5-6 gay guys watch me on cam every night.
People who are against AFF usually feel like they got cheated and the reality is they probably weren't patient (both in time and the way they treated the women)
Pros
Lots of members, lots of real people, very likely chance of meeting someone if you live in a major city
Cons
Lots of fake profiles, annoying restrictions, site is constantly trying to get you to upgrade even from silver to gold, there are plenty of scammers but you will figure out how to spot them really quickly.
beware scams and looters
Review about SpeedDate.comHad my CC hijacked and used to sign up for a membership. There was a phone number on the billing line online, called it and they do not accept calls.
Went to the web site and found NO way to contact these people to tell them of the fraud.
Luckily the cc company jumped in and cancelled the card and these charges.
Cons
no way to contact these people.
bunch of scammers!!
Review about BeNaughtyhubby and i joined up on here and stupid us paid for it , was the only one we could find that said we are a couple not male or female and seen a few good reviews on it well obviously the people who have good things to say about this site are from this site , we havent received any replys from any messages or anything , we are both 29 fit and not bad looking either so it wasnt our looks that made them not reply we are having more luck now with the free sites now then the paid ones its because this site is a complete rip off , awesome forums??? we doubt that no one replys to your posts this is the biggest waste of money ever we are just glad we only paid for the one month !!!
Pros
lmao there are none ..maybe the pretty pictures?
Cons
everything about be naughty is a con dont do it anyone
Good place to meet like minded people!
Review about Illicit Encounters:-)
I was first hesitant about paying for membership having read some of the reviews on this site. But after taking the plunge I have met 4 women for drinks and have ended up sleeping with 2 of them.
I will defiantly be renewing my membership at the end of the month as it's worth the money.
Pros
Nice safe environment with lots of friendly women
Cons
Expensive
Fake Profiles Using Stock Photos - Non Refundable
Review about WealthyMatchThe site has many stock photos of fake people that will try to IM you to start a chat. I paid the $3 to try it out for three days, and after 10 minutes the 88 people that viewed my profile were all online and not a single one would respond to an IM. All these previous profiles had plenty to say on IM when I was not a subscriber. When I contacted Wealthymatch.com after ten minutes for a refund, they admitted that the site had fake profiles and to read section ten of the legal document that this is for entertainment purposes only. They said I tried it out and that was what I was paying for, and in the legal terms they do not guarantee any responses. Someone also went into my account (management) and rewrote my profile to say "nice guy looking for friends". I am a girl.
Cons
These are fake profiles set up to lure you in and pay $20/30 per month.
Avoid this site
Review about BeNaughtyThis site is full of fake profiles and you can meet plenty of scammers or cam girls.
If you check some profiles, you will see many of them identical..
It is not worth spending your money.
Pros
It keeps your Internet scanning abilities.
Big trap!,,,renewal policy
Review about ZooskAutomatic renewal policy is a big trap. You are supposed to read 10 page long subscription terms even they advertise membe rship for one month . Good sites will never have customer unfriendly policy
Pros
No outcome
Fake members
Automatic membership
No customer care in uk
U have to leave message on voicemail nd wait for ages for them to come back
There is no appropriate body or agency whom u can write for further resolution of complaints
Not worth your time
Review about BeNaughtyObvious bots responding instantly to your accessing a profile is always a big red flag, as are random *winks* from people halfway round the world sent for no apparent reason (e.g your profile is empty).
Seemingly all of the users are incapable of capitalizing their names, using punctuation or abstaining from TXT speak (even those who have Tertiary qualifications), which leaves the whole thing screaming "lazy scammers ahoy!"
Just avoid this mess.
Pros
None
Cons
Any site forcing you to pay up front for basic functions (such as responding to text chat) clearly exists to separate as many people from their money as quickly as possible.
They are the worst people I dealt with
Review about Illicit Encounters:(
Pros
There are few nice people falling in the same trap, so you may end up finding another nice person there, worth the risk? NOOOOOOOOOOO
Cons
They say they are expensive because they are genuine, RUBBISH !!
After you register for free you may get messages, which are not messages! After I asked my profile to be deleted I still emails saying people saw my profile! what!? It was deleted, but I guess they forgot and sent me fake "Messages".
I quote one of the emails Illicit Encounters sent me when I asked why I had emails that were the same + line from someone's profile: (I was told I has Messages, not VK !!! )
" To clarify, you received 4 Virtual Kisses. Virtual Kisses are not messages ... The reason these messages look the same is because they are VKs, not full messages.
Sad that Our Time is a poor site.
Review about OurTimeI believe Our Time is truly a bait and switch sort of site. I joined after viewing what I thought was decent looking over 50 men.
I was (am) basically looking for a site where men were looking for women their own age. Go figure. When the $$ were taken and the real men appeared, I thought, oh no, this looks like a Walmart shoppers gallery selection... is this truly serious men looking for a serious relationship?? Because the main photo of you in your wife beater undershirt may be a turn on in cell block B, but it's doing nothing for me here. Nor is the close up picture of you with teeth missing. The pictures that men post of their friends, family, pets and toys...oh and fish from their fishing adventures, well I'm like, uh, who is it you are actually trying to impress here? I'm really starting to think I'd have better luck in a bar at happy hour than I would have on this dating site. It's almost as bad as POF (plenty of fish) and that site is really a freak show.
I'm going to play out my month and see how it goes. I'm only a week into this so far. They are spending a lot of advertising $$ via TV and Radio, so I can just hope that some normal, that is non-walmart types join for at least a month like I did.
Big problem with their search though, and I can't seem to find an area where I can communicate to them it's not working. Their advance search doesn't work. I plub in the requirements I'm looking for which are divorced or widowed men, and when I do a search, seperated men show up in the search. That's just wrong. Sorry guys, but if you are "just" "seperated" you need to wait it out to you are divorced before you start dating... but that's just me... anyway, the advanced searching doesn't seem to work. I do NOT like that. Big bad!!! Get it right!!!
So with the walmart men, unworkable searching parameters... Out Time is presently not a good option.
Pros
Cheaper than Match and e-Harmony
Cons
Read my review. so many....
Well dodgy site!
Review about BeNaughtyI am a female who joined the site for a bit of fun. I didn't think it was too bad as i got free membership. my problem it's very prohibitive as it is quick cancel to access to services without informing of any violations. i apparantly broke some rules when uploading pictures and then was no longer able to post pics or vids. when i closed the account i could not remove pics and my account is still active on the site even though i cancelled my membership. AVOID this website!!!
Pros
there are some nice on it.
Cons
if you are a female they will keep your profile active even if you cancel it. be careful of images you post as you may not be able to remove them.
not what I was expecting
Review about Seeking Arrangement:/ agree with jennifer 100%.im young and beautiful and this website is a complete waste of time.
Pros
cute guys,profile layout is fun
Cons
no legit sugar daddies and time consuming w no results.better luck finding a SD at the mall!
My msgs NEVER sent! Horrible tech problems
Review about Seeking ArrangementI would've gotten tons of play on this site, im an above average looking young women in peak physical condition..except the messages I tried to send to pot SD's NEVER EVER EVErRR SENT! Resending didn't work either! Using a different computer didn't work either! Contacting costumer support NEVER fot back to me, this site has some serious technical issues it needs to work out not sure if this is happening to other pple. But it's kind of frustrating especially after you've paid your money. It's been nothing but a waste of time unfortunately, I'm not saying its a scam but they need to work out the bugs in the site. Im happy for the pple it is working out for.
Pros
It's free and guys are attractive
Cons
My msgs NEVeR ever sent to pot SD's
one of the better muslim marriage websites
Review about Muslima.comi've been a member of this website for over 6 months, and i am overall satistfied with the level of service i received from the site.
as with all these type of sites, there are scammers, but the great thing is that reporting these scammers is very easy, and their profiles are removed asap. i had to report a few scammers, and the response from management was very quick (typing)
this site is run by real, local people (at least local to me). whenever i contacted them i got real response, not an automated one (A)
the website needs a facelift, as it looks outdated, and needs better marketing, as most of the ladies appear to be from one country :(
Pros
high level of management
personal attention to customers
very quick dealings with scammers
they give free upgrade to memberships from time to time
Cons
website looks old
needs marketing in a broader range of countries
expensive membership fees
Heidi
Review about Fling.comHow much is fling paying you to suck guys in to buying a member ship? You dum (bimbo)
Pros
What/dream on you (Morons)
Cons
Nothing but a Scram. Do not fall for there (Bull) Shit. 95% of the woman on the dating sites ,Where you have to pay for a member ship.Are geting Paid from them ,For each new guy they suck in to buy a (Member)Ship.Do not get suck in to there (Bull)Shit (Guys) Don,t waste your (money) on any of those (Sites) They are mostly all tied in together in some way, I have been finding out .After doing investigations on complaints About thease (Dating) Sites, Before you (Join) any of them.Check out the reviews on them on (Google) its worth your time end (Effort) Before you get suck in buy any of them.
patience
Review about Fling.comI have been on this site for 3 years and I have met 4 men. Two of them I get together with at times and we have an amazing intimate relationship. This can happen but you have to be patient..
Pros
Easy to navigate and women receive many messages. 4tonight2 is my handle
Cons
Very few attractive men that will take you out and spoil you. Although it does happen.
So far not good
Review about Date a CougarI signed up for a 3 month membership at a discount and there are tons of women in my area, but most don't have a profile pic and those who do never seem to be online. Idk. I have two more months left, but I might cut it short if I don't start getting replies sometime soon.
Pros
Plenty of local profiles, signed up at a discounted rate.
Cons
Most ladies dont have a profile pic, almost zero responses from "winks" and messages.
Absolutely terrible site
Review about BeNaughtyThe worst dating site EVER!!!!! Don't waste your time or money on this sorry excuse for a site. Half the bitches on this site are fake strippers who want you to pay to watch them finger themselves. The other half are computer generated sluts that "drink coffee all day and all night." I haven't found a single date on this crappy site. The mobile app is horrible and causes your phone to crash. Absolutely terrible...TERRIBLE!!!!!!
Pros
None
Cons
Everything
Cheeky lovers - Cupid.com stable
Review about CheekyLoversCheeky lovers, click and flirt, etc.. cupidplc dot com As everyone says plenty of contact until you sign up then virtually zero. If you search their other sites for the same member name you will get same profile but in a totally different town.. Do a "bulk flirt and you will see how few "real woman" there actually are on site - seems they dont send flirts to their own profiles ;)
Pros
if you are really bored you can tie up scammers for hours LOL
Cons
Whole cupid.plc raft of sites = save your money dont sign up
Girls, be very careful
Review about Illicit EncountersBe careful who you get mixed up with. I met a real nut case. He bombarded
me with phone calls and text messages, morning noon and night.
He even hacked into my email account and accused me of seeing other people
The fact that he was married never entered his head. He was a reformed
alcoholic, be careful, be very careful. Some men you just can't get rid of.
They want sex straight away, a cheap hotel, not even a meal.
The site is not worth the stress.
I do not recommend OurTime
Review about OurTimeWhen I joined OurTime I requested to receive matches with men in my area. Some of the same matches were sent to me multiple times. Although OurTime's matches were local men, I received flirts and messages from men all over the U.S. and wa surprised by how many profiles didn't contain photos or any information about the profiler. After I received a blatant request for sex--as opposed to the more subtle ones I'd received before-- I asked OurTime to cancel my subscription and refund me the balance remaining which they refused to do. I do not recommend OurTime to anyone.
Pros
Easy to navigate.
Cons
OurTime does not know the meaning of Customer Service. It does not police its site to keep out the riff-raff nor does it pay much attention to the matches it sends to its customers. The Terms and Conditions release OurTime from responsibility for its online content and offer no recourse for dissatisfied customers.
How To Have Better Sex in Five Easy Steps
Review about CitySex.comI'm aware the smilies are down. Sorry I didn't make a post earlier. I've been in contact with some people trying to get it back up,
If you like perverts and red necks
Review about SpeedDate.comSpeed date is pretty chancie! I got to chat with one guy for quite a while who seemed nice, we used the camera utility to see each other until he exposed himself to me! Holy crap! I did not bargin for that! So ladies watch out, the peverts have gone cyber.
I will say I did chat with one guy who seemed decent, but no cameras were involved! I was not going there again!
I would not recommend Speed Date, a lot of the men seem pretty sleazy.
(And I take exception to the previous posters comment about only obese women from Ghana on this site.)
why do they pick the ugly ducklings?
Review about Seeking ArrangementNot all blondes are beautiful, but that's what these men desire. I browsed the SBs and the SDs. Most of the SDs (though broke) were more attractive than many of the SBs. Obnoxiously large breasts and a fake nose do not make women attractive.
Maybe those traits suggest that they are going to give it up.
Oh! To any SB trying out the site, make sure that you don't show you're private pics until all of your GOOD PICS are approved. Guys like variety.
Pros
connects women to generous men
Cons
generous men only want blondes with big boobs or herpes