Reviews about Dating Sites


    No Dates

    Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)

    I have been on there for years and not over 1 actual contact per year. I am a good guy, and always get bad comments form the very few that even respond. It is a waste of time. You get hopes up, then NOTHING. The few that I did actually meet with had no sparks either for me nor her..

    I found the women there are skeptical or not even looking for a date.

    Pros
    free

    Cons
    no results

    Bad Chat and email software

    Review about ThaiCupid.com

    I like the site. The problem is the bad chat and email software there. When in chat it keeps cutting off and you have to left click again to type, when someone else hits enter.

    The email you type 1 letter, then it goes up and down a few times, then you have to left click again to finish typing the subject line. Then it does the same thing in the message box. It fights to get started. After the start of both, it works ok.

    Next, when I.M., comes on it does not tell you who is requesting to chat. Then some times it never connects.

    Some times it opens a chatr window on top of one already open. It needs a BUSY

    Pros
    Great site, No flashy crap, just a good plane site Best look I like. Very good look, very nice Ladies, very good to go to.

    Cons
    BAD Software, on mail and chat. It makes me cuss

    dead pics

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    yyyyyyyyy..nobody answered..they all death

    Better off wasting your time on /b/

    Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)

    Complete waste of time. Women think that all men are only looking for sex, however they don't take the serious guys seriously. Went on a few dates, needless to say the women I met were all unsure of what they wanted. If you're an attractive woman, expect tons of messages from men, if you're an attractive man, expect mesages from fattys and ugoes. Expect about 1 response for every 20 emails sent out, and out of those messages you get back, expect a short uninterested response.

    Pros
    It's free
    Easy to use

    Cons
    Everything else.

    no way to contact

    Review about OurTime

    Site seems to be a nice site. I like that it is geared towards people in our great years. Everyone basically in the same stage of life and searches bring up people in your area not 100 miles away as being local.

    Cons
    Reason I would not recommend the site, nothing stating it is a secured site for visa payment transactions, and no way to call them and do this over the phone.
    They most likely are overseas collecting the mula and dont want anything but the almighty dollar, is why I left.

    SWINDLE

    Review about Meet-An-Inmate.com

    A good place for prisons to make a profit off YOU and the INMATE. And an excellent outlet for a convict to lie to get your money

    Cons
    see above

    Scam

    Review about Marital Affair.co.uk

    Do not fall for this site. I put a profile and after 24 hours I have received over 50 messages. On checking who viewed my profile none had seen it. How come I have received this amount of messages and not a single one of these women checked my profile? :( :( :(

    Pros
    no pros

    Cons
    scam site

    Nobody home

    Review about AfroRomance

    The Potential is there but the humans aren't.

    Pros
    It's really hard to think of any outside of the fact that it exists?

    Cons
    The "idea" behind the site is great. But there is nobody home behind the scenes or on the Facebook site. This site could BLOW UP the internet dating circle and be extremely successful IF the owner took more of a hands on approach to it along with marketing the group.

    Per the site: "All accounts are reviewed by human staff individually, so please do not add your personal contact details or your account will be banned without further notice. This includes any reference to email address, telephone numbers, other websites, instant messengers and internet service providers. Profanity and obscene profiles will also be banned."

    FALSE! I have seen just today TEN profiles that were NOT reviewed by a human. If they were, they would have been able to see grammatical errors which are common with African scammers. One individual talked about his love for his daughter and in the very next sentenced, referenced this child as a "he", along with sentences that sounded like he copied and pasted bits and pieces from other profiles. IF someone read that and not scanned it with a computer program that has specific words in it that are considered unacceptable, they would have never put that profile on the site as live.

    There is so much potential for this site, but sadly as with most interracial ideas, sites, blogs, etc ... they fizzle out and it's nothing more than someone getting rich off of $19.95.

    ive had the odd response

    Review about CheekyLovers

    ive had the odd response but as stated before the mails start as soon as any funded time runs out those i have managed to contact chat for no more than 20 mins before making excuses and many say there in uk but its obvious they are not i got a lady friend to sign up to and we were able to converse so my feeling is the place is rife with spammers

    Pros
    good practice for chatting up real ladies

    Cons
    waste of time wastes of money

    I would not recommend them.

    Review about Pre Dating

    A friend and I tried the pre-dating website. We enjoyed the event itself, but our experience after the event was horrible. Julia was the coordinator of the event in Los Angeles. After a week had passed, we still had not received the results from the event. We contacted the coordinator to see what was happening with the result. It ultimately took us two weeks to get the results from the event. First, the coordinator claimed our email address were wrong. However, we registered online and that information was furnished to the coordinator along with our phone numbers. She then claimed the emails must be in our spam folder. They were not, but I did find an email from her. Even after multiple attempts to work with the coordinator and her inability to get the results to us, we finally called their customer service number. That was how we got the results. Both my friend and I had little faith that the results were accurate. We felt the coordinator was very sloppy with how she handled things and wonder if she handled the results the same way. In an effort to make the situation right they offered my friend and me 2 free events. When we tried to take them up on the offer, they wanted to charge one of us $15. That is not a way to satisfy customers.

    Pros
    event itself was fun

    Cons
    Experience afterwards was horrible. I don't trust the coordinator is capable of furnishing honest and accurate results

    Frustrating, is "Big Brother" watching?

    Review about SpeedDate.com

    Speed date, like the majority of dating websites these days( in my opinion) will do almost anything to get the "dollar". Probably my imagination, but recent experiences lead me to strongly suspect conversations on this site are closely monitored. My advice, based on what I have experienced, is to be VERY careful. My own decision is that this site is too risky for me. Best wishes in what you seek, but be forewarned.

    Pros
    Supposedly is free?

    Cons
    I suspect, not really free and that what one says is closely monitored until payment is received, if then?

    Do NOT waste ur time!

    Review about Qiran.com

    :(((6)
    DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! All of the men are fake and just want green cards, or a second wife. It's bull$hit.

    Pros
    Free. Easy to sign up.

    Cons
    It is easy for people to lie about themselves. When you meet them in person, they are nothing as they described. The men want to meet you alone and just use you for physical pleasure.

    Disappointed

    Review about FirstMet

    None

    Cons
    I agree, once I signed up I couldn't talk to anyone. Plus I had more people "interested" in me before I became a member. I can't be the only one that is having this same problem. Wish I didn't join.....very disappointed.

    this is a legit site

    Review about Discreet Adventures

    yes this is a good site and is legit,Thay dont try to up sell you anything and dont send you fake women that want to meet you just to get you to sine up. more men that women but i chated with some good women and some snots . and the price is good .

    Pros
    it is real and legit but slow but real women dont jump on anything that comes there way anyway.if you give respect you some times get it back

    Cons
    none not at all

    bogus

    Review about Positive Singles.com

    its terrible.you dont know how active the profiles are.i found othr sites that are free.now i wanna delete but cant find that option.thats wrong so i deleted my photo and will delete my email address.i wouldnt recommend to anyone.

    Pros
    none really

    Cons
    everything

    angry

    Review about CitySex.com

    i gave them my credit card number but a false credit card verification number (ccv#).......culd they be able to con me?

    Huge time waster!

    Review about FirstMet

    AYI is fun, entertaining and addictive for some as an upside.
    Members are Global as is Face Book.
    The downside that is huge IS the majority of women, perhaps 90% are non paying members that can view male profiles BUT cannot respond to messages other than YES and maybe send a gift and prescripts that are computer generated !
    Coding email address' does not work unless you are some kind of geek!
    BTW, email address' are removed by AYI !
    I have met "tons" of women at the site but again it is a major push; 100 match ups versus thousands of hits and I mean thousands!!
    one star on a good day!

    "Just Don't bother"

    Review about BeNaughty

    I have used the site a few years ago and it was Ok to begin with, but as time went by the number of cam girls and prostitutes openly advertising their services went up, even if you complained to admin and reported the profiles nothing was happening, eventually i cancelled my subscription as i was spending so much time weeding out the nigerian scammers asking for money, cam girls and advertising bots.

    I recently rejoined and its a lot worse than it ever has been, if you look carefully over half the initial messages sent tying to get me to upgrade were system generated from their own ice breaker system!! lazy and dumb its beyond a scam and just plain misrepresentation.

    i get the feeling that there are lot better sites for this sort of thing, they may boast 4 million members but only about 1:10th of that are real. have a look round at all the reviews for this site, i have only found positive reviews from sites financially connected, all the review site like this have the same story. Benaughty!! more like you'd benutty if you join

    Pros
    there are real people on the site looking for sex

    Cons
    weeding out the 99% that are after money or just bots

    Flirt

    Review about Flirt.com

    This site is the worst one I have ever been on. Before you pay their exhorbitant membership fee girls on the site send you many emails. Mostly they are from cam girls . The other contacts seem very vague about what they want .Its waste of time and total scam in my opinion. Make sure you ring the phone number on the initial joining confirmation email, the one on the site would not work for me !! and I got caught with a months subscription. If you want site go to Date .com at least they are real !!

    Pros
    none

    Cons
    not real people

    80% SCAM

    Review about Flirt.com

    After doing the usual, checking it out, making a profile, getting excited about recieving emails, and finding out you got to pay to read them, I sorta blew it off for a few months, but then after I had about 30 emails in my inbox, I figured I'd give it a shot.
    The first thing I must point out is this site is not honest right off the bat. The 'women' on Fling.com are mostly imported from other sites where women are looking for relationships, not hookups. When I finally signed up, I eagerly went to my inbox to read the messages that have been collecting. Sure, I knew at least some would be fake, the typical fake profile " thanks for joining, you should upgrade" type stuff. To my disbelieve almost every message in my inbox was the same generic line. Either "you should add more photos" or " You should check me out sometime" not a single real email out of the close to 30 recieved.
    To be fair to them, they *do* have an option to send a prewritten, generic email message, but most of the ones I got weren't on that list. And of all the ladies I emailed me, not a single one replied. They were interested before I upgraded my account, but not anymore it seemed. But I wasn't to be discouraged.
    I made a message I could mass send, something a little personal. It was kind of a generic hello message, but told a little about me. Along the lines of, "kinda new to this thing, wanted to say hi. I'm so-n-so, I like to do blah blah. My interests are, i'm looking for, would love to chat" you get the idea. I figured the key to any *hookup* site is pure numbers. I'd have better luck emailed 500 people a nice hello, then emailing 10 people with a long, individual message. To my surprise, a few replies did come in!
    It was nice at first, nothing gets you harder then when you see new messages in the inbox. But that quickly faded as the more people I talked to, the more I began to realize that not alot of people on there were serious about meeting up. They would write back every now n then, but most didn't go anywhere. I can sorta tell if there's a possibility of something there or not. Alot of the replies started out as "hey, what's up"
    Right away that says if i wrote them a somewhat long message saying alot about me, and all they can muster is a "what's up", they're really not interested. I've been on that site for about a month now and just cancelled my membership. Here would be my findings
    emails recieved before upgrading: ~30 ( 100% fake )
    emails revieved after upgrading: 0
    emails sent: ~ 300
    emails replied to: 8
    out of the 8, people meet up with: 2 ( with hookup results )
    I'm a very honest guy. I'm not going to kid myself and say I'm a 10, or 9, or even an 8. But I'm not that bad on the eyes. I'm in decent shape, good complextion, no obvious blemishes or eye-sores. To test this out, I emailed everyone from a daytime 4 to a nighttime 10, and everything in between. I honestly expected much better then what I got from this site.
    To Flings credit, I did manage to get laid twice. Neither I would brag about to friends by any means, but hey, somethings better then nothing.
    To sum this up. Fling *can* work, and does have ALOT of profiles for women, but go in realizing that about
    ** 80% of those profiles are either fake ( only there to spam email new members into upgrading ) or imported from another dating site
    ** the male / female ratio is probably very high, as expected.
    ** a good portion of the women who are nice enough to reply, have no interest in anything other then just chatting online
    ** set your standards a tad lower and try try try, you're bound to score a friend or two, but after quite of bit of patience and frustration.

    Pros
    I managed to get laid

    Cons
    They lied to me right off the bat with ALOT of fake profiles emailing me before I was able to read the messages.

    can't can access on page

    Review about Flirt.com

    Can't access own page touch screen don't work on flint

    Horrible customer service

    Review about Seeking Arrangement

    I found few SD on this site that I was talking to and was about to meet until my profile was blocked for suspicious activity. I didn't do anything suspicious, I'm a busy and a real person. I wrote to the customer service, they didn't answer why it was blocked, just replied with a stupid automatic reply. I created another account and the same thing happened again except before the account was even activated. I wrote to the customer service explaining my experience and received the same stupid reply. I was wondering if it had anything to do with my IP address, customer service didn't comment on it at all. I spent my time filling out my profile, why cant i get a decent answer?

    Pros
    Good Idea

    Cons
    Ignorant customer service

    Think about it.

    Review about JapanCupid.com

    The real fact of the situation is unless you are ready to travel to JAPAN, CHINA OR ANY OTHER countries in or around ASIA to meet these BEAUTIFUL ladies, joining these kinds of sites is a waste of YOUR money.



    THINK ABOUT IT.

    Pros
    100% Affective

    ONLY IF YOU LIVE IN OR PLANNING TO SPEND MONTHS VISITING IN JAPAN.

    Cons
    0% Affective

    IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SEX PARTNER AND ARE BROKE AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO LIVE IN OR VISIT JAPAN.

    SCAM

    Review about XXX Match

    I tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.

    Don't waste your money or time!

    Ohhh and paid for membership does not work most of the time. Log in is a bitch!

    Pros
    none

    Cons
    its a con

    SCAM!

    Review about Fling.com

    I was with this sight since about a week after it has started many years ago. Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away.

    I kept my profile with this site for many years (not paying) and they grandfathered me in for a free membership for a couple years. So many profiles and no responses.

    About 2 years ago they upgraded their site to FULL SCAM. They removed my membership completely and then claimed how great they were and how you will get laid .... I find getting women is far easier at the local supermarket :)

    Many profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... Some women had 10+ profiles .. same pic different screen name.

    Don't waste your money or time!

    Pros
    none

    Cons
    take the money you want to pay them with and wipe your ass with it. Far better use of your hard earned money.