Site seems to be a nice site. I like that it is geared towards people in our great years. Everyone basically in the same stage of life and searches bring up people in your area not 100 miles away as being local.
Cons Reason I would not recommend the site, nothing stating it is a secured site for visa payment transactions, and no way to call them and do this over the phone.
They most likely are overseas collecting the mula and dont want anything but the almighty dollar, is why I left.
Do not fall for this site. I put a profile and after 24 hours I have received over 50 messages. On checking who viewed my profile none had seen it. How come I have received this amount of messages and not a single one of these women checked my profile? :( :( :(
Pros It's really hard to think of any outside of the fact that it exists?
Cons The "idea" behind the site is great. But there is nobody home behind the scenes or on the Facebook site. This site could BLOW UP the internet dating circle and be extremely successful IF the owner took more of a hands on approach to it along with marketing the group.
Per the site: "All accounts are reviewed by human staff individually, so please do not add your personal contact details or your account will be banned without further notice. This includes any reference to email address, telephone numbers, other websites, instant messengers and internet service providers. Profanity and obscene profiles will also be banned."
FALSE! I have seen just today TEN profiles that were NOT reviewed by a human. If they were, they would have been able to see grammatical errors which are common with African scammers. One individual talked about his love for his daughter and in the very next sentenced, referenced this child as a "he", along with sentences that sounded like he copied and pasted bits and pieces from other profiles. IF someone read that and not scanned it with a computer program that has specific words in it that are considered unacceptable, they would have never put that profile on the site as live.
There is so much potential for this site, but sadly as with most interracial ideas, sites, blogs, etc ... they fizzle out and it's nothing more than someone getting rich off of $19.95.
ive had the odd response but as stated before the mails start as soon as any funded time runs out those i have managed to contact chat for no more than 20 mins before making excuses and many say there in uk but its obvious they are not i got a lady friend to sign up to and we were able to converse so my feeling is the place is rife with spammers
A friend and I tried the pre-dating website. We enjoyed the event itself, but our experience after the event was horrible. Julia was the coordinator of the event in Los Angeles. After a week had passed, we still had not received the results from the event. We contacted the coordinator to see what was happening with the result. It ultimately took us two weeks to get the results from the event. First, the coordinator claimed our email address were wrong. However, we registered online and that information was furnished to the coordinator along with our phone numbers. She then claimed the emails must be in our spam folder. They were not, but I did find an email from her. Even after multiple attempts to work with the coordinator and her inability to get the results to us, we finally called their customer service number. That was how we got the results. Both my friend and I had little faith that the results were accurate. We felt the coordinator was very sloppy with how she handled things and wonder if she handled the results the same way. In an effort to make the situation right they offered my friend and me 2 free events. When we tried to take them up on the offer, they wanted to charge one of us $15. That is not a way to satisfy customers.
Pros event itself was fun
Cons Experience afterwards was horrible. I don't trust the coordinator is capable of furnishing honest and accurate results
Speed date, like the majority of dating websites these days( in my opinion) will do almost anything to get the "dollar". Probably my imagination, but recent experiences lead me to strongly suspect conversations on this site are closely monitored. My advice, based on what I have experienced, is to be VERY careful. My own decision is that this site is too risky for me. Best wishes in what you seek, but be forewarned.
Pros Supposedly is free?
Cons I suspect, not really free and that what one says is closely monitored until payment is received, if then?
:(((6)
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! All of the men are fake and just want green cards, or a second wife. It's bull$hit.
Pros Free. Easy to sign up.
Cons It is easy for people to lie about themselves. When you meet them in person, they are nothing as they described. The men want to meet you alone and just use you for physical pleasure.
Cons I agree, once I signed up I couldn't talk to anyone. Plus I had more people "interested" in me before I became a member. I can't be the only one that is having this same problem. Wish I didn't join.....very disappointed.
yes this is a good site and is legit,Thay dont try to up sell you anything and dont send you fake women that want to meet you just to get you to sine up. more men that women but i chated with some good women and some snots . and the price is good .
Pros it is real and legit but slow but real women dont jump on anything that comes there way anyway.if you give respect you some times get it back
its terrible.you dont know how active the profiles are.i found othr sites that are free.now i wanna delete but cant find that option.thats wrong so i deleted my photo and will delete my email address.i wouldnt recommend to anyone.
AYI is fun, entertaining and addictive for some as an upside.
Members are Global as is Face Book.
The downside that is huge IS the majority of women, perhaps 90% are non paying members that can view male profiles BUT cannot respond to messages other than YES and maybe send a gift and prescripts that are computer generated !
Coding email address' does not work unless you are some kind of geek!
BTW, email address' are removed by AYI !
I have met "tons" of women at the site but again it is a major push; 100 match ups versus thousands of hits and I mean thousands!!
one star on a good day!
I have used the site a few years ago and it was Ok to begin with, but as time went by the number of cam girls and prostitutes openly advertising their services went up, even if you complained to admin and reported the profiles nothing was happening, eventually i cancelled my subscription as i was spending so much time weeding out the nigerian scammers asking for money, cam girls and advertising bots.
I recently rejoined and its a lot worse than it ever has been, if you look carefully over half the initial messages sent tying to get me to upgrade were system generated from their own ice breaker system!! lazy and dumb its beyond a scam and just plain misrepresentation.
i get the feeling that there are lot better sites for this sort of thing, they may boast 4 million members but only about 1:10th of that are real. have a look round at all the reviews for this site, i have only found positive reviews from sites financially connected, all the review site like this have the same story. Benaughty!! more like you'd benutty if you join
Pros there are real people on the site looking for sex
Cons weeding out the 99% that are after money or just bots
I found few SD on this site that I was talking to and was about to meet until my profile was blocked for suspicious activity. I didn't do anything suspicious, I'm a busy and a real person. I wrote to the customer service, they didn't answer why it was blocked, just replied with a stupid automatic reply. I created another account and the same thing happened again except before the account was even activated. I wrote to the customer service explaining my experience and received the same stupid reply. I was wondering if it had anything to do with my IP address, customer service didn't comment on it at all. I spent my time filling out my profile, why cant i get a decent answer?
The real fact of the situation is unless you are ready to travel to JAPAN, CHINA OR ANY OTHER countries in or around ASIA to meet these BEAUTIFUL ladies, joining these kinds of sites is a waste of YOUR money.
THINK ABOUT IT.
Pros 100% Affective
ONLY IF YOU LIVE IN OR PLANNING TO SPEND MONTHS VISITING IN JAPAN.
Cons 0% Affective
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SEX PARTNER AND ARE BROKE AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO LIVE IN OR VISIT JAPAN.
I tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Ohhh and paid for membership does not work most of the time. Log in is a bitch!
I was with this sight since about a week after it has started many years ago. Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away.
I kept my profile with this site for many years (not paying) and they grandfathered me in for a free membership for a couple years. So many profiles and no responses.
About 2 years ago they upgraded their site to FULL SCAM. They removed my membership completely and then claimed how great they were and how you will get laid .... I find getting women is far easier at the local supermarket :)
Many profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... Some women had 10+ profiles .. same pic different screen name.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros none
Cons take the money you want to pay them with and wipe your ass with it. Far better use of your hard earned money.
I tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros none
Cons They are a con and some people will contact you to go to another site and talk with them there ... what a joke!
I tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
I tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros None
Cons They will con you into paying and then good luck having contact with anybody. Many false profiles or multiple profiles of the same person.
I joined this site,to find all of the so called girls live in Ghana, this must be scammers paradise over there,I've received many messages that not one of them lives here in the U.S., im hoping to get my subscription cancelled.im disappointed that there cannot be a better control over these types of sites who make dating look so easy. They use other women's pics to deceive the guy who is seriously wanting a true relationship, this is extortion maybe I should start a site and scam people out of their money, but to me its not American to do that to other people, these scammers have no moral values, sitting behind they're pcs and generating money from unsuspecting singles who want real love,I think we should go back to the old ways of dating in the 80s when you really had to be in person and really work to get a date,as long as we have the net its not going to get any better,[email protected] for reading this.
Hi, i was referred to this site by a friend who is now happily married. I have tried it and it worked for me too, i hope to get married too soon. Thanks.
Note:
Not all African girls here are scamers or opportunist, we just want something new and out of our cultures. Hey men out there, take your time, there are real nice women in Africa.
Pros You get to know so many people from all over the world. Choice is variety.
C-Date is such an obvious put-up for a scam, it's a disgrace that any so-called review sites give it any credit at all.
I received a variety of solicited and unsolicited responses from the 'girls', all of which I deemed to be not-genuine. The text was impersonal standardised gibberish, and those that were responses made no reference to the email that they were allegedly a response to. The average attractiveness of the women was also suspiciously high.
The real gotcha comes when it comes to cancel. You need to fax them a signed letter detailing your cancellation. This is obviously unnecessarily difficult and smacks of a scam.
Avoid at all costs.
Pros None.
Cons No genuine female users;
Bots or cheap labour create emails and responses;
Unnecessarily difficult cancellation procedure.
no way to contact
Review about OurTimeSite seems to be a nice site. I like that it is geared towards people in our great years. Everyone basically in the same stage of life and searches bring up people in your area not 100 miles away as being local.
Cons
Reason I would not recommend the site, nothing stating it is a secured site for visa payment transactions, and no way to call them and do this over the phone.
They most likely are overseas collecting the mula and dont want anything but the almighty dollar, is why I left.
SWINDLE
Review about Meet-An-Inmate.comA good place for prisons to make a profit off YOU and the INMATE. And an excellent outlet for a convict to lie to get your money
Cons
see above
Scam
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukDo not fall for this site. I put a profile and after 24 hours I have received over 50 messages. On checking who viewed my profile none had seen it. How come I have received this amount of messages and not a single one of these women checked my profile? :( :( :(
Pros
no pros
Cons
scam site
Nobody home
Review about AfroRomanceThe Potential is there but the humans aren't.
Pros
It's really hard to think of any outside of the fact that it exists?
Cons
The "idea" behind the site is great. But there is nobody home behind the scenes or on the Facebook site. This site could BLOW UP the internet dating circle and be extremely successful IF the owner took more of a hands on approach to it along with marketing the group.
Per the site: "All accounts are reviewed by human staff individually, so please do not add your personal contact details or your account will be banned without further notice. This includes any reference to email address, telephone numbers, other websites, instant messengers and internet service providers. Profanity and obscene profiles will also be banned."
FALSE! I have seen just today TEN profiles that were NOT reviewed by a human. If they were, they would have been able to see grammatical errors which are common with African scammers. One individual talked about his love for his daughter and in the very next sentenced, referenced this child as a "he", along with sentences that sounded like he copied and pasted bits and pieces from other profiles. IF someone read that and not scanned it with a computer program that has specific words in it that are considered unacceptable, they would have never put that profile on the site as live.
There is so much potential for this site, but sadly as with most interracial ideas, sites, blogs, etc ... they fizzle out and it's nothing more than someone getting rich off of $19.95.
ive had the odd response
Review about CheekyLoversive had the odd response but as stated before the mails start as soon as any funded time runs out those i have managed to contact chat for no more than 20 mins before making excuses and many say there in uk but its obvious they are not i got a lady friend to sign up to and we were able to converse so my feeling is the place is rife with spammers
Pros
good practice for chatting up real ladies
Cons
waste of time wastes of money
I would not recommend them.
Review about Pre DatingA friend and I tried the pre-dating website. We enjoyed the event itself, but our experience after the event was horrible. Julia was the coordinator of the event in Los Angeles. After a week had passed, we still had not received the results from the event. We contacted the coordinator to see what was happening with the result. It ultimately took us two weeks to get the results from the event. First, the coordinator claimed our email address were wrong. However, we registered online and that information was furnished to the coordinator along with our phone numbers. She then claimed the emails must be in our spam folder. They were not, but I did find an email from her. Even after multiple attempts to work with the coordinator and her inability to get the results to us, we finally called their customer service number. That was how we got the results. Both my friend and I had little faith that the results were accurate. We felt the coordinator was very sloppy with how she handled things and wonder if she handled the results the same way. In an effort to make the situation right they offered my friend and me 2 free events. When we tried to take them up on the offer, they wanted to charge one of us $15. That is not a way to satisfy customers.
Pros
event itself was fun
Cons
Experience afterwards was horrible. I don't trust the coordinator is capable of furnishing honest and accurate results
Frustrating, is "Big Brother" watching?
Review about SpeedDate.comSpeed date, like the majority of dating websites these days( in my opinion) will do almost anything to get the "dollar". Probably my imagination, but recent experiences lead me to strongly suspect conversations on this site are closely monitored. My advice, based on what I have experienced, is to be VERY careful. My own decision is that this site is too risky for me. Best wishes in what you seek, but be forewarned.
Pros
Supposedly is free?
Cons
I suspect, not really free and that what one says is closely monitored until payment is received, if then?
Do NOT waste ur time!
Review about Qiran.com:(((6)
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!! All of the men are fake and just want green cards, or a second wife. It's bull$hit.
Pros
Free. Easy to sign up.
Cons
It is easy for people to lie about themselves. When you meet them in person, they are nothing as they described. The men want to meet you alone and just use you for physical pleasure.
Disappointed
Review about FirstMetNone
Cons
I agree, once I signed up I couldn't talk to anyone. Plus I had more people "interested" in me before I became a member. I can't be the only one that is having this same problem. Wish I didn't join.....very disappointed.
this is a legit site
Review about Discreet Adventuresyes this is a good site and is legit,Thay dont try to up sell you anything and dont send you fake women that want to meet you just to get you to sine up. more men that women but i chated with some good women and some snots . and the price is good .
Pros
it is real and legit but slow but real women dont jump on anything that comes there way anyway.if you give respect you some times get it back
Cons
none not at all
bogus
Review about Positive Singles.comits terrible.you dont know how active the profiles are.i found othr sites that are free.now i wanna delete but cant find that option.thats wrong so i deleted my photo and will delete my email address.i wouldnt recommend to anyone.
Pros
none really
Cons
everything
angry
Review about CitySex.comi gave them my credit card number but a false credit card verification number (ccv#).......culd they be able to con me?
Huge time waster!
Review about FirstMetAYI is fun, entertaining and addictive for some as an upside.
Members are Global as is Face Book.
The downside that is huge IS the majority of women, perhaps 90% are non paying members that can view male profiles BUT cannot respond to messages other than YES and maybe send a gift and prescripts that are computer generated !
Coding email address' does not work unless you are some kind of geek!
BTW, email address' are removed by AYI !
I have met "tons" of women at the site but again it is a major push; 100 match ups versus thousands of hits and I mean thousands!!
one star on a good day!
"Just Don't bother"
Review about BeNaughtyI have used the site a few years ago and it was Ok to begin with, but as time went by the number of cam girls and prostitutes openly advertising their services went up, even if you complained to admin and reported the profiles nothing was happening, eventually i cancelled my subscription as i was spending so much time weeding out the nigerian scammers asking for money, cam girls and advertising bots.
I recently rejoined and its a lot worse than it ever has been, if you look carefully over half the initial messages sent tying to get me to upgrade were system generated from their own ice breaker system!! lazy and dumb its beyond a scam and just plain misrepresentation.
i get the feeling that there are lot better sites for this sort of thing, they may boast 4 million members but only about 1:10th of that are real. have a look round at all the reviews for this site, i have only found positive reviews from sites financially connected, all the review site like this have the same story. Benaughty!! more like you'd benutty if you join
Pros
there are real people on the site looking for sex
Cons
weeding out the 99% that are after money or just bots
Horrible customer service
Review about Seeking ArrangementI found few SD on this site that I was talking to and was about to meet until my profile was blocked for suspicious activity. I didn't do anything suspicious, I'm a busy and a real person. I wrote to the customer service, they didn't answer why it was blocked, just replied with a stupid automatic reply. I created another account and the same thing happened again except before the account was even activated. I wrote to the customer service explaining my experience and received the same stupid reply. I was wondering if it had anything to do with my IP address, customer service didn't comment on it at all. I spent my time filling out my profile, why cant i get a decent answer?
Pros
Good Idea
Cons
Ignorant customer service
Think about it.
Review about JapanCupid.comThe real fact of the situation is unless you are ready to travel to JAPAN, CHINA OR ANY OTHER countries in or around ASIA to meet these BEAUTIFUL ladies, joining these kinds of sites is a waste of YOUR money.
THINK ABOUT IT.
Pros
100% Affective
ONLY IF YOU LIVE IN OR PLANNING TO SPEND MONTHS VISITING IN JAPAN.
Cons
0% Affective
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A SEX PARTNER AND ARE BROKE AND HAVE NO DESIRE TO LIVE IN OR VISIT JAPAN.
SCAM
Review about XXX MatchI tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Ohhh and paid for membership does not work most of the time. Log in is a bitch!
Pros
none
Cons
its a con
SCAM!
Review about Fling.comI was with this sight since about a week after it has started many years ago. Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away.
I kept my profile with this site for many years (not paying) and they grandfathered me in for a free membership for a couple years. So many profiles and no responses.
About 2 years ago they upgraded their site to FULL SCAM. They removed my membership completely and then claimed how great they were and how you will get laid .... I find getting women is far easier at the local supermarket :)
Many profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... Some women had 10+ profiles .. same pic different screen name.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros
none
Cons
take the money you want to pay them with and wipe your ass with it. Far better use of your hard earned money.
Scam
Review about Horny MatchesI tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros
none
Cons
They are a con and some people will contact you to go to another site and talk with them there ... what a joke!
SCAM
Review about Adult FriendfinderI tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros
none
Cons
yes, its a con.
Not a good site
Review about SexSearchI tried their trial membership some time back .... Amazing how I had so many women wanting to message, talk and hook-up... then when I purchased a membership, they all went away. Some profiles were not there anymore, others were women from all over the world .... I responded to all of them and no response.
Don't waste your money or time!
Pros
None
Cons
They will con you into paying and then good luck having contact with anybody. Many false profiles or multiple profiles of the same person.
scammers on gdff
Review about GirlsDateForFreeI joined this site,to find all of the so called girls live in Ghana, this must be scammers paradise over there,I've received many messages that not one of them lives here in the U.S., im hoping to get my subscription cancelled.im disappointed that there cannot be a better control over these types of sites who make dating look so easy. They use other women's pics to deceive the guy who is seriously wanting a true relationship, this is extortion maybe I should start a site and scam people out of their money, but to me its not American to do that to other people, these scammers have no moral values, sitting behind they're pcs and generating money from unsuspecting singles who want real love,I think we should go back to the old ways of dating in the 80s when you really had to be in person and really work to get a date,as long as we have the net its not going to get any better,[email protected] for reading this.
Pros
No pros
Cons
Scammers delight.
Try it Now, it works.
Review about AfroIntroductions.comHi, i was referred to this site by a friend who is now happily married. I have tried it and it worked for me too, i hope to get married too soon. Thanks.
Note:
Not all African girls here are scamers or opportunist, we just want something new and out of our cultures. Hey men out there, take your time, there are real nice women in Africa.
Pros
You get to know so many people from all over the world. Choice is variety.
Cons
So many scammers, including men.
C-Date Not What You Want
Review about C-DateC-Date is such an obvious put-up for a scam, it's a disgrace that any so-called review sites give it any credit at all.
I received a variety of solicited and unsolicited responses from the 'girls', all of which I deemed to be not-genuine. The text was impersonal standardised gibberish, and those that were responses made no reference to the email that they were allegedly a response to. The average attractiveness of the women was also suspiciously high.
The real gotcha comes when it comes to cancel. You need to fax them a signed letter detailing your cancellation. This is obviously unnecessarily difficult and smacks of a scam.
Avoid at all costs.
Pros
None.
Cons
No genuine female users;
Bots or cheap labour create emails and responses;
Unnecessarily difficult cancellation procedure.
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Review about OurTime