I am a western girl (and pretty attractive) who joined up, and was only a member (standard) for 2 or 3 months, before Japancupid terminated my account, with no explanation as to why. I received a staggering amount of mails and messages from Japanese and western guys - averaging about 10-15 a day - and they were all paying members! :D So I obviously didnt need to pay any money to speak to them...
I sent 2 emails to Japancupid asking why I was getting the message saying "Your account has been terminated and can not be reactivated", and no-one could tell me why.
They didn't even bother to reply to my emails, but I know i did nothing to be banned in that way.
I tried to make a second account using a different email, but all my same details, and very shortly after they approved my photos etc, they then terminated the second account.
It can only make me think that they do indeed have ALOT of fake profiles, and for whatever reason they prefer to have their "own" girls on there as bait. Not other girls who may steal attention from the girls they want to promote. Its all I can think of. I am still waiting to be told what I have done to be banned, but I obviously wont be trying to sign up again.
Pros No pros. Its a joke... but obviously better if your a girl signing up than a guy. I felt bad for all these guys who obviously were just lonely...
Cons - lots of very sleazy guys
- lots of fake profiles
- The fact that they claim to monitor your emails and personal correspondance between yourself and other users... this scared me.
- the fact that you have to pay
A TOTAL SCAM. DO NOT GO THERE. Before you pay you get invited for chats the second you log on (that is odd) and also get e-mails of interest and both always by very beautiful women (even odder). As soon as you have paid you find these women are NOT interested in you at all.
When you join you get false messages. Also if someone reads your message to her and she DOES NOT like you, you still get a message from the administrators to say she wants to contact you!
I have contacted some women I met there who gave me their e-mail adds ... they were scammers.
When you try to CANCEL ... well, as others have stated elsewhere .... they PREVENT you from cancelling and keep taking money every month. They usually say you paid by PayPal when you did not and then tell you to cancel your paypal (which you cannot do as you did not pay that way) ... but I wonder if they want to get the Paypal details.
Finally, if that is not damning enough ... there were attempts to download a VIRUS onto my computer when I logged into the site.
This is the MOST TERRIBLE site .... DO NOT USE IT.
This site is rubbish all the women you contact do not exist and have a filter in place preventing you from contacting them and the ones that contact you do not exist..........They also signed me up for 6 months at £119.95 when I had not even selected..........Its a totla scam so beware
I've been visiting married dating sites for a while :-) All of them are the same: fake desperate housewives, pros who want money, stupid calculation of points, etc. This one is amazing as they don't have anybody trying to make you pay! No solicitation, no pros, no fakes! Flat low fees and amazing customer service! One problem: not enough woman....
Pros low fees
flat fees
no long time contracts
no solicitation
free instant messenger
free to leave
free basic membership
I was a full member of this site for three months, it didn't take long however to realise that the "aloha" and "look at me" messages were all fake. The women were probably members but had no idea that their details had been sent to me. Or the profiles come from the many sister sites.
I wouldn't pay to join this site. Sadly it appears that most of the dating site like this are very similar.
Ashley Madison has over 8 million members, this site has very few and is very sleazy. I couldn't recommend it. There are very few members, and the couple I communicated were "pros" not people seeking a love connection. I tried to tell them and I got an email in broken english that I couldn't understand. They refused to give me a customer service phone.
Well, this site is not a dating site at all; it?s just a brain washing machine from Zionists, with protagonists ?Conrad73? and ?Albertaghost? and some other fake profiles which they can create immediately if necessary, because they are the Zionists slaves running this site and being paid for it. My advise: Just stay away from this site.
THIS DATE SITE IS FRAUD OF THE WORST kind it is desisgned to prevent you from ever making a connection with the lady , th ladies look nothing like their photos they cheat you lot of yur credits and never refund your money. you cannot mmake any kind of personal contact wioth the lady
iam sure some of the ladies are getting pais to chat with the men and i have good reason to belive that impostures us the pofiles of other ladies to chat and produce revenoue for charming date. you would have to be absolutlu stupid ta sray on ythis site. smply put they are crooks of the worst kind
there are sure a lot more guys on the site than there are girls but the ratio is still better there than it is at adultfriendfinder. all in all, great site
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I joined the site...looked at a few profiles and was very interested but then when I tried to log back in my account had been terminated....it is very annoying to give out email addresses and other information to only be terminated immediately....there was nothing I placed on the site that was wrong. then the company would not contact me to explain why. I believe this site is a fraud because once I joined and was then terminated I started getting all kinds of junk mail on my email address.....DO NOT JOIN!
I joined both JapanCupid and KoreanCupid (same owners) for a while. It is so NOT worth the time or money! First of all, I'm 36 and I may not be 18-20s but I'm not unattractive, desperate or psycho. I joined the sites because I'm planning a trip to Seoul, South Korea and Toyko, Japan for a few months this Fall and thought it best to make some friends first.
I posted my interest on both sites as "Penpals" with both men and women close to my age from those areas with shared common interest. Although I never paid for the JapanCupid site, I did pay for 1 month of KoreanCupid and just as soon as I paid...sudden silence!
On JapanCupid, the only ones that contacted me were..OO..scary! A couple of grandpa's well into their 60s, a few prison parolees types and of course a few over-sexually charged teens (18-19) but few Japanese men and never any even slightly close to a sociable age. I'm a friendly person that is open-minded but grandpa wanted a live-in-nurse/maid (with benefits), the prison parolee cussed me out for refusing to Skype and the teen boy sent me pics (more like a photo album) of his "manhood". oO Yeah, thanks J & K Cupids for rocking my world the wrong way!
I also refused to get "verified" because it was not a trust-worthy method to me and I wouldn't risk Identity Thieft. The decent members seemed to be fake and the ones that weren't were either creepy or nonresponsive. It was equally the same with the females claiming to also be seek friendships.
Pros I was always surprised and somewhat entertained by the members that contacted me. I'm sure that the creepers were real.
Cons I was on there for over 6 months and I wasted money on a month of "Gold" membership and never met anyone.
I tried to join this dating site, but was met by obstacles at every turn. First the site seemed to go down after I tried to enter, then after I was finally able to give them information and tried to get to the next step, I was told that either my information had expired or my credit card had been declined (I hadn't even entered it). I was told to go to a website called Allied Wallet, which I was not sure was completely on the level from the looks of it. so I left without signing up.
Yes I used the word speeddate in the email address I gave them and behold. I am now getting DOZENS and DOZENS of spam mails to that address with speeddate in it's title. rnTruly a dodgy website AVOID
I have been on there for years and not over 1 actual contact per year. I am a good guy, and always get bad comments form the very few that even respond. It is a waste of time. You get hopes up, then NOTHING. The few that I did actually meet with had no sparks either for me nor her..
I found the women there are skeptical or not even looking for a date.
I like the site. The problem is the bad chat and email software there. When in chat it keeps cutting off and you have to left click again to type, when someone else hits enter.
The email you type 1 letter, then it goes up and down a few times, then you have to left click again to finish typing the subject line. Then it does the same thing in the message box. It fights to get started. After the start of both, it works ok.
Next, when I.M., comes on it does not tell you who is requesting to chat. Then some times it never connects.
Some times it opens a chatr window on top of one already open. It needs a BUSY
Pros Great site, No flashy crap, just a good plane site Best look I like. Very good look, very nice Ladies, very good to go to.
Cons BAD Software, on mail and chat. It makes me cuss
Complete waste of time. Women think that all men are only looking for sex, however they don't take the serious guys seriously. Went on a few dates, needless to say the women I met were all unsure of what they wanted. If you're an attractive woman, expect tons of messages from men, if you're an attractive man, expect mesages from fattys and ugoes. Expect about 1 response for every 20 emails sent out, and out of those messages you get back, expect a short uninterested response.
Site seems to be a nice site. I like that it is geared towards people in our great years. Everyone basically in the same stage of life and searches bring up people in your area not 100 miles away as being local.
Cons Reason I would not recommend the site, nothing stating it is a secured site for visa payment transactions, and no way to call them and do this over the phone.
They most likely are overseas collecting the mula and dont want anything but the almighty dollar, is why I left.
Do not fall for this site. I put a profile and after 24 hours I have received over 50 messages. On checking who viewed my profile none had seen it. How come I have received this amount of messages and not a single one of these women checked my profile? :( :( :(
Pros It's really hard to think of any outside of the fact that it exists?
Cons The "idea" behind the site is great. But there is nobody home behind the scenes or on the Facebook site. This site could BLOW UP the internet dating circle and be extremely successful IF the owner took more of a hands on approach to it along with marketing the group.
Per the site: "All accounts are reviewed by human staff individually, so please do not add your personal contact details or your account will be banned without further notice. This includes any reference to email address, telephone numbers, other websites, instant messengers and internet service providers. Profanity and obscene profiles will also be banned."
FALSE! I have seen just today TEN profiles that were NOT reviewed by a human. If they were, they would have been able to see grammatical errors which are common with African scammers. One individual talked about his love for his daughter and in the very next sentenced, referenced this child as a "he", along with sentences that sounded like he copied and pasted bits and pieces from other profiles. IF someone read that and not scanned it with a computer program that has specific words in it that are considered unacceptable, they would have never put that profile on the site as live.
There is so much potential for this site, but sadly as with most interracial ideas, sites, blogs, etc ... they fizzle out and it's nothing more than someone getting rich off of $19.95.
I dont like this website...
Review about JapanCupid.comI am a western girl (and pretty attractive) who joined up, and was only a member (standard) for 2 or 3 months, before Japancupid terminated my account, with no explanation as to why. I received a staggering amount of mails and messages from Japanese and western guys - averaging about 10-15 a day - and they were all paying members! :D So I obviously didnt need to pay any money to speak to them...
I sent 2 emails to Japancupid asking why I was getting the message saying "Your account has been terminated and can not be reactivated", and no-one could tell me why.
They didn't even bother to reply to my emails, but I know i did nothing to be banned in that way.
I tried to make a second account using a different email, but all my same details, and very shortly after they approved my photos etc, they then terminated the second account.
It can only make me think that they do indeed have ALOT of fake profiles, and for whatever reason they prefer to have their "own" girls on there as bait. Not other girls who may steal attention from the girls they want to promote. Its all I can think of. I am still waiting to be told what I have done to be banned, but I obviously wont be trying to sign up again.
Pros
No pros. Its a joke... but obviously better if your a girl signing up than a guy. I felt bad for all these guys who obviously were just lonely...
Cons
- lots of very sleazy guys
- lots of fake profiles
- The fact that they claim to monitor your emails and personal correspondance between yourself and other users... this scared me.
- the fact that you have to pay
Be careful about this website...
WARNIG: DANGER! DANGER! DANGER!
Review about Muslims 4 MarriageA TOTAL SCAM. DO NOT GO THERE. Before you pay you get invited for chats the second you log on (that is odd) and also get e-mails of interest and both always by very beautiful women (even odder). As soon as you have paid you find these women are NOT interested in you at all.
When you join you get false messages. Also if someone reads your message to her and she DOES NOT like you, you still get a message from the administrators to say she wants to contact you!
I have contacted some women I met there who gave me their e-mail adds ... they were scammers.
When you try to CANCEL ... well, as others have stated elsewhere .... they PREVENT you from cancelling and keep taking money every month. They usually say you paid by PayPal when you did not and then tell you to cancel your paypal (which you cannot do as you did not pay that way) ... but I wonder if they want to get the Paypal details.
Finally, if that is not damning enough ... there were attempts to download a VIRUS onto my computer when I logged into the site.
This is the MOST TERRIBLE site .... DO NOT USE IT.
Pros
NOTHING
Cons
YOU WILL BE LIED TO AND ROBBED,
Total rubbish
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukThis site is rubbish all the women you contact do not exist and have a filter in place preventing you from contacting them and the ones that contact you do not exist..........They also signed me up for 6 months at £119.95 when I had not even selected..........Its a totla scam so beware
Pros
None
Cons
Complete waste of money and very frustrating
Great Site. REAL PEOPLE. NO PROS!
Review about Find New PassionI've been visiting married dating sites for a while :-) All of them are the same: fake desperate housewives, pros who want money, stupid calculation of points, etc. This one is amazing as they don't have anybody trying to make you pay! No solicitation, no pros, no fakes! Flat low fees and amazing customer service! One problem: not enough woman....
Pros
low fees
flat fees
no long time contracts
no solicitation
free instant messenger
free to leave
free basic membership
Cons
not enough women
Rubbish
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukI was a full member of this site for three months, it didn't take long however to realise that the "aloha" and "look at me" messages were all fake. The women were probably members but had no idea that their details had been sent to me. Or the profiles come from the many sister sites.
I wouldn't pay to join this site. Sadly it appears that most of the dating site like this are very similar.
DONT GO THERE
Pros
none
Cons
annoying
Terrible site
Review about Find New PassionAshley Madison has over 8 million members, this site has very few and is very sleazy. I couldn't recommend it. There are very few members, and the couple I communicated were "pros" not people seeking a love connection. I tried to tell them and I got an email in broken english that I couldn't understand. They refused to give me a customer service phone.
Cons
Few members, sleazy. Poor service.
My advise: Just stay away from this site.
Review about ConnectingSinglesWell, this site is not a dating site at all; it?s just a brain washing machine from Zionists, with protagonists ?Conrad73? and ?Albertaghost? and some other fake profiles which they can create immediately if necessary, because they are the Zionists slaves running this site and being paid for it. My advise: Just stay away from this site.
CHARMING DATE REVIEW
Review about CharmingDate.comTHIS DATE SITE IS FRAUD OF THE WORST kind it is desisgned to prevent you from ever making a connection with the lady , th ladies look nothing like their photos they cheat you lot of yur credits and never refund your money. you cannot mmake any kind of personal contact wioth the lady
iam sure some of the ladies are getting pais to chat with the men and i have good reason to belive that impostures us the pofiles of other ladies to chat and produce revenoue for charming date. you would have to be absolutlu stupid ta sray on ythis site. smply put they are crooks of the worst kind
Pros
none
Cons
these people are faudulet crooks
xxxmatch is the best adult dating site i've tried
Review about XXX Matchthere are sure a lot more guys on the site than there are girls but the ratio is still better there than it is at adultfriendfinder. all in all, great site
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Review about ThaiCupid.comWe apologize for the difficulties you have been facing while using our interactive chat facility. We are aware of the connectivity problems and are working with our IM provider to resolve the issues as soon as possible. However, here are some tips to help you solve some of the other issues you have been having:
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Married Dating for Real People!
Review about FindNewPassion.comFindNewPassion.com is unique in the sense that it doesn?t really promise or guarantee that members will definitely engage in an affair or hook up with a sex-starved house wife. What it does is give married people with common interests a chance to anonymously share their experiences, discuss the present state of their marriages, and then possibly agree to meet and have an affair. This site also takes pride in displaying only elegant and classy profiles, and none of the nude or sexually explicit pictures that are quite ubiquitous in other married dating sites. Best Option for: Married people who want a classy dating site experience.
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Free sending greetings
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Pros
Real People! Unlimited Chat! Low flat fees!
Cons
For men: Not enough women :-)
You give your information and they terminate you
Review about Muslima.comI joined the site...looked at a few profiles and was very interested but then when I tried to log back in my account had been terminated....it is very annoying to give out email addresses and other information to only be terminated immediately....there was nothing I placed on the site that was wrong. then the company would not contact me to explain why. I believe this site is a fraud because once I joined and was then terminated I started getting all kinds of junk mail on my email address.....DO NOT JOIN!
Pros
NEVER
mostly looking for local japanese or caucasian
Review about JapanCupid.comI've tried joining japancupid. Most of the girls here only looking for caucasian or local japanese. They won't hook up with other asian guys.
Pros
lots of pretty cute girls
Cons
girls only look for japanese or caucasian
I was a member: I'm real but JapanCupid is FAKE!
Review about JapanCupid.comI joined both JapanCupid and KoreanCupid (same owners) for a while. It is so NOT worth the time or money! First of all, I'm 36 and I may not be 18-20s but I'm not unattractive, desperate or psycho. I joined the sites because I'm planning a trip to Seoul, South Korea and Toyko, Japan for a few months this Fall and thought it best to make some friends first.
I posted my interest on both sites as "Penpals" with both men and women close to my age from those areas with shared common interest. Although I never paid for the JapanCupid site, I did pay for 1 month of KoreanCupid and just as soon as I paid...sudden silence!
On JapanCupid, the only ones that contacted me were..OO..scary! A couple of grandpa's well into their 60s, a few prison parolees types and of course a few over-sexually charged teens (18-19) but few Japanese men and never any even slightly close to a sociable age. I'm a friendly person that is open-minded but grandpa wanted a live-in-nurse/maid (with benefits), the prison parolee cussed me out for refusing to Skype and the teen boy sent me pics (more like a photo album) of his "manhood". oO Yeah, thanks J & K Cupids for rocking my world the wrong way!
I also refused to get "verified" because it was not a trust-worthy method to me and I wouldn't risk Identity Thieft. The decent members seemed to be fake and the ones that weren't were either creepy or nonresponsive. It was equally the same with the females claiming to also be seek friendships.
Pros
I was always surprised and somewhat entertained by the members that contacted me. I'm sure that the creepers were real.
Cons
I was on there for over 6 months and I wasted money on a month of "Gold" membership and never met anyone.
Didn't look promising, despite all the blurbs
Review about Prescription4LoveI tried to join this dating site, but was met by obstacles at every turn. First the site seemed to go down after I tried to enter, then after I was finally able to give them information and tried to get to the next step, I was told that either my information had expired or my credit card had been declined (I hadn't even entered it). I was told to go to a website called Allied Wallet, which I was not sure was completely on the level from the looks of it. so I left without signing up.
AVOID - They sell your address to spammers too
Review about SpeedDate.comYes I used the word speeddate in the email address I gave them and behold. I am now getting DOZENS and DOZENS of spam mails to that address with speeddate in it's title. rnTruly a dodgy website AVOID
They will not stop taking your money when you ask them to
Review about FirstMetI think it is real sad how they took my money for a year after I canseled. They gave me back one mounth and kept the rest. DO NOT TRUST THEM!!!
No Dates
Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)I have been on there for years and not over 1 actual contact per year. I am a good guy, and always get bad comments form the very few that even respond. It is a waste of time. You get hopes up, then NOTHING. The few that I did actually meet with had no sparks either for me nor her..
I found the women there are skeptical or not even looking for a date.
Pros
free
Cons
no results
Bad Chat and email software
Review about ThaiCupid.comI like the site. The problem is the bad chat and email software there. When in chat it keeps cutting off and you have to left click again to type, when someone else hits enter.
The email you type 1 letter, then it goes up and down a few times, then you have to left click again to finish typing the subject line. Then it does the same thing in the message box. It fights to get started. After the start of both, it works ok.
Next, when I.M., comes on it does not tell you who is requesting to chat. Then some times it never connects.
Some times it opens a chatr window on top of one already open. It needs a BUSY
Pros
Great site, No flashy crap, just a good plane site Best look I like. Very good look, very nice Ladies, very good to go to.
Cons
BAD Software, on mail and chat. It makes me cuss
dead pics
Review about JapanCupid.comyyyyyyyyy..nobody answered..they all death
Better off wasting your time on /b/
Review about Plenty Of Fish (POF)Complete waste of time. Women think that all men are only looking for sex, however they don't take the serious guys seriously. Went on a few dates, needless to say the women I met were all unsure of what they wanted. If you're an attractive woman, expect tons of messages from men, if you're an attractive man, expect mesages from fattys and ugoes. Expect about 1 response for every 20 emails sent out, and out of those messages you get back, expect a short uninterested response.
Pros
It's free
Easy to use
Cons
Everything else.
no way to contact
Review about OurTimeSite seems to be a nice site. I like that it is geared towards people in our great years. Everyone basically in the same stage of life and searches bring up people in your area not 100 miles away as being local.
Cons
Reason I would not recommend the site, nothing stating it is a secured site for visa payment transactions, and no way to call them and do this over the phone.
They most likely are overseas collecting the mula and dont want anything but the almighty dollar, is why I left.
SWINDLE
Review about Meet-An-Inmate.comA good place for prisons to make a profit off YOU and the INMATE. And an excellent outlet for a convict to lie to get your money
Cons
see above
Scam
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukDo not fall for this site. I put a profile and after 24 hours I have received over 50 messages. On checking who viewed my profile none had seen it. How come I have received this amount of messages and not a single one of these women checked my profile? :( :( :(
Pros
no pros
Cons
scam site
Nobody home
Review about AfroRomanceThe Potential is there but the humans aren't.
Pros
It's really hard to think of any outside of the fact that it exists?
Cons
The "idea" behind the site is great. But there is nobody home behind the scenes or on the Facebook site. This site could BLOW UP the internet dating circle and be extremely successful IF the owner took more of a hands on approach to it along with marketing the group.
Per the site: "All accounts are reviewed by human staff individually, so please do not add your personal contact details or your account will be banned without further notice. This includes any reference to email address, telephone numbers, other websites, instant messengers and internet service providers. Profanity and obscene profiles will also be banned."
FALSE! I have seen just today TEN profiles that were NOT reviewed by a human. If they were, they would have been able to see grammatical errors which are common with African scammers. One individual talked about his love for his daughter and in the very next sentenced, referenced this child as a "he", along with sentences that sounded like he copied and pasted bits and pieces from other profiles. IF someone read that and not scanned it with a computer program that has specific words in it that are considered unacceptable, they would have never put that profile on the site as live.
There is so much potential for this site, but sadly as with most interracial ideas, sites, blogs, etc ... they fizzle out and it's nothing more than someone getting rich off of $19.95.