Met an ultra-hot girl on this site, and we were together a year! Seriously, people thought she was a model or something. We were both 24... and along those lines, you creepy old guys saying this site is "fake" need to wise up- I met 3 or 4 chicks off this site while I was in Japan, just because a few profile are fake and you occassionally get a message from them, doesn't mean the whole site is a scam... IT MEANS NO ONE'S INTERESTED IN YOU!
Pros Genuine girls on the site, privacy protected... seems to pick up a lot of shy japanese girls that don't socialize well (good luck finding a nice japanese girl in a bar). especially good for young guys living in japan temporarily. Don't assume hot girls are always fake- my gf had the sexiest profile on there and it wasn't tell I met her that I believed it was real!
Cons Like others said, some of the girls are kind of desperate or a little weird. Japanese girls by nature are usually looking for serious relationships... true some of them might just be looking for fun, but good luck finding 'em. don't get stuck in a relationship you never wanted in the first place... seriously, think about this guys.
I believe that there are legitimate members on Muslima.com (I am/was one) but in my opinion the site attempts to con them into upgrading their membership to Gold or Platinum using fake contacts.
I joined muslima.com and the very same day an attractive 28-year old Standard Member Sayra from France sent an interest. I responded with a mail message and then determined that being a Standard member myself, Sayra would not be able to read my email. However, just a few hours later, unexpectedly there was a new message from Sayra and her membership had been upgraded to Platinum. Interesting enough, however, since I am on another online dating site (and despite being quite the catch :D), I am quite aware that things don't move quite that fast! So, I chose to do nothing and one week later I checked and Sayra's profile has been switched off. Another member yasmina from Edmonton, Canada then expressed interest and her profile became hidden shortly after. I received another contact from Aludra from France a Standard member whose membership status has now changed to Platinum (why wouldn't someone just upgrade to Gold, or not already be a Gold member?). Finally, I received another interest message from Valiya from the UK all within the span of 7 days.
The reason for concern is also that three of the profiles were of women more than ten years younger than me, outside my country of interest and didn't seem very discerning in what they are looking for. Common sense suggests that this is not reasonable :(
Hope this helps and good luck to those who continue with the site.
Pros Good detailed match information
Free to join
Appears to have several members
Cons Suspecting the legitimacy of the members
Site appears to use deceptive practices to encourage membership upgrade
I had a friend who joined SA and she cancelled her membership after the first three months. She met a guy who was a drug lord, who had connections in her country and threatened here to visit him or else. Now with kind of blackmail going on how can you be safe after allowing yourself to trust some of these men letting them in to know you and then they intern use the information to blackmail you. Well she had inspired me and i started a millionaires club with a different twist, both sugar daddies/mommies and babies get to meet each other in person at a private party every month so they can get to know each other all millionaires are verified as well as their networth. So if you need to find the real deal visit www dot meetelites dot com
I took a good look at this site. To me, it is obviously too good to be true. I say that because, having lived in Japan for more than 10 years, I can tell you that (like everywhere else) there are a lot of good looking girls, and a lot of not very good looking girls. On Japan Cupid, the # of very attractive women is far too high. I expect that many of them are just plants.
I have actually been on this site a total of two years. I have had some great experiences. Once I found I guy that paid me well to be happy I stuck with him. I made an arrangement with one guy on the site. He was 30 years older then myself however, he was really goos in the bed and he paid for everything and I mean everything including my tuition. I received money from him everytime I went to see him and a generous amount of funds also went into my account every week. I was pulling in over $5,ooo.00 from him every 3 weeks. He also took me with him into his jet where I became apart of the mile high club. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO exciting. I ended up moving and we lost touch with each other and I have not been able to find him since then.
Pros some guys are who they say they are
the guys that are real actually don't mind helping out
the site is easy to navigate
this website is gets a very poor rating from me, all i have found are adds for this website and no real reviews. you have to pay to communicate with any other memeber, the only option that is free is to create a profile and send a wink. thats all. you may respond to a pay member email but thats all you can do. send free wink. you also cant see last log in of users, so i believe most users created a free profile and never came back. i believe most of the profiles are not current or active. this site is very poor and takes a lot of time, and you can not remove your profile. it remains forever.
Pros it allows you to create a free profile and thats all.
More than 8 members from this site with photos wrote me saying that they read my profile and interested in me and asked me to write to them. I joined the site paying $89 and I wrote to them my messages sat in the sent box for 10 days saying not read and after 10 days the messages were emptied without anyone reading them. It appears they are not real people, they setup phoney people and send tantalizing messages to trick males to subscribe. I think this is a scam site and I am in the process of notifying to the proper authorities.
I met my wife on this site. I also had some fake "interests" in me from other countries but I chatted with Japanese women that were living in my area. My wife was in Tokyo when we got to know each other. So of course I say the site is "real" but has it's share of scam artists as well.
In short: The site is not a scam but...some of the profiles are.
Just signed up for this website. They claimed the account the service was 15.00 per month, they immediately billed me $191.88. This was not disclosed and when I went to contact them I got no response. This site is a SCAM AND THEY WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY AND OFFER NOTHING IN RETURN. TELL EVERYONE YOU KNOW TO NEVER USE: "SPEEDDATE.COM"
I think the website is a waste of time becasue most members do not seem to contact when you email members. Also i would also like to confirm that i came across phony pictures and duplications of some pictures on other people's profiles which scared me. It put me off but then I continued to carry on my search.
I also believe there are people who are not being truthful and should be barred as a muslim matrimonial website is for marriage not for friendship this is why it is a MUSLIM matrimonial website it is not an asian dating site there are loads of these already on the net and if someone wants to be just friends with someone go on dating sites and not matrimonial sites.
Chnlove has a reputation as being far from honest. It is a multi-level (agencies) run scam. Company claims to wash its hands of the fraud committed. Many stories of translators not acting as proper liaisons. Internet provides many cases going back a number of years now re. this site. Attempts to get large payments from the gentlemen and/or the lady in China; this is, assuming, that a real-life "match" is ever made.
Almost all photos on Chnlove site are doctored with Photoshop, some more obvious than others. Vast majority of "eligible" ladies are well into their 40s and many are divorced or single moms in China.
Scam appears to exploit unsuspecting ladies in China who are often not notified that men are writing in regard to their images/photos.
Stay away !
Pros None. But encourages gentlemen to fly out to China in person.
Cons Pretty much everything. Just use free websites to make contact with potential matches in China and then save your money for the trip(s), not for paying bogus "EMF"s (emails) which are over $6 USD, per message !
While praying to Allah to bless those who created this site abundantly, I wish to express my frustration at how to register with you. I tried to do so, but anytime I ran into some hitches. One, when I thought I had completed the registration form correctly, I would find my sending was not successful. Two, as I am in Nigeria [West Africa], I don't know how to effect payment of the fee. But then I really desire to befriend and marry an American Muslim Lady of between 25 and 40 years. I am a black man, a Muslim and in my early fifties. I am a university graduate with Masters degree in Islamic studies but a practising journalist for 26 years in my home country. Right now I am a media consultant working in the Presidency, at the State House, Capital city, Abuja, Nigeria. I am dark in complexion, of medium height, weight and with some strands of grey hair. I am not fluent in Arabic but English and my mother togue, Hausa. I travelled out of my country only once, to Poland.
If you have any provision for free registration, kindly help me fisabillahi. May Allah continue to be with you in this lofty mission of forging legitimate man-woman relationship. Bissalam.
Pros I find the site as the most practical way of encouraging Muslims to embrace marriage and maximally produce children for the pride of the Holy Prophet, Muhammad, (S.A.W). It is capable of strengthening tiers among the muslims and beautify Islam and so make it more appealing to the non-muslims.
Cons Some devilish individuals may abuse it by pretending to mean sincere about their search for legitimate partners. May Allah bar such individuals from making in-road into the site and its services. Ameen.
Make sure you don't paid for membership. It's a 100% scam. They even create fake ads if not all. Be aware of "I told you so" if you paid for meeting fake ads. If you get a responds or someone shows interest in you, their ad will be deleted or they will not return your responds. Please pass this message forward with all know fake members # they has not been deleted yet. Here's a few I know are fake from experience # 500487, 506143, 501054, 429171, 497574, 496687, 480433,505584, 503565, 321012, 504770, 465889, 496823, 499333,166690, 304226, 162468, 500344, 497252, 471362, 506764, 506356, 505574, 495600, 329045, 501435,
This site is a scam, and I can't believe they haven't been closed down.
The site at one time may have been the real thing, but now the site is
crawling with con artist.
You will not find a real SD on this site. The guys are there for only one reason
to get laid by women stupid enough to believe what they say.
Dating for the over forties has never been easier, it's as simple as finding a site you are comfortable with and establishing contact with someone that catches your eye. We all desire some romance in our lives so if you have the time please don't hesitate to have a browse and hopefully join my UK based dating and friendship service.Don't waste your hard earned cash with adult-sites, real love and lasting romance is a more beneficial goal for all of us who are over forty and who would enjoy some genuine companionship in their every day life(me included).
Can't insert the dots due to spam restrictions:
maturedatingonline dot org a genuine site, great value too !
I had interest from a very pretty Japanese girl Named Uki! I am travelling to Japan this
year so thought I would join and make contact with her! When I paid up
and tried to contact her, her profile was deleted! Something wrong here!!
Whenever i contacted women replies were ALWAYS delayed & then when you do get a reply, it seems good at first but nothing ever comes of it (in my experience with the site).
Then, when you cancel subscription you'll get (after a while) a bunch of emails from 'supposed' interested women all at once..funny how they don't wanna know when you're paying..hmmmm.
As with anything else in life where variables are involved, in other words, good vs bad, this site is no exception. I have been on it for a year. Apparently, I had experienced "beginner's luck," as the first man I met within two weeks of signing up was actually what he porported to be; wealthy and truly interested in forging a SB/SD relationship. This involved no more than every other weekend to various locals involving wonderful resorts across the globe. Everything was first class; the transportation, accomodations, wining-dining, etc. He was an older man, not bad looking (Clint Eastwood type) didn't have any weird predelections, was a decent height- had hair, wasn't fat, had a pleasant personality, was intelligent and polite-all good. He alloted me generous sums of cash upon my arrival at the various locations in addition to the monthly stipend he wired to my account. (We're talking annually over 6 figures, btw.) Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart. Anyhow, I resumed my membership on SA and proceeded to meet a series of less than stunning individuals. All were frauds, fakes and pretenders. Some were the worst; obnoxious on every level pretending they really had something to offer when they were doing little more than creating the opportunity to have access to beautiful women which would never happen in real life beyond their computer access. Others, were interested in immediate cash "meet-ups"-the sort of exchange that can be otherwise derived from the yellow pages. Then there are those who must have had an abundance of time on their hands, who wish to feed/entertain their particular brand of narcissism. These are the ones who demand volumnous, endless email and photo exchanges-a sort of free supply of attention coming their way, that you eventually recognize is not going to result in any actual meeting, (much less SB/SD exchange.) But, the absolutely worst reprehensible ones are those (again) who waste your time in actually arranging a date. Within minutes of arriving, (Gals, be suspicious of "coffee dates"-not too impressive at the onset, you know?) it's abundantly clear, the guy is so gross he couldn't date his way out of a paper bag and so "not of means" he wouldn't pay a dime to witness Christ ride a bicycle! He certainlyisn't really going to shed cash on a woman and he, in so many words, will indicate this soon enough. While sipping your coffee, you will soon actually perceive his latent anger that he really cannot have you as nothing else has worked out in his life and he may become slightly obnoxious. Again, an example of this site creating another opportunity for "looky-loos" and posers to have their moment in the sun, being graced by a value beyond their reach. Therefore, I caution the women on SA to be judicious in utilizing such a forum and understand that just as with anything else in life where the strata of humanity is involved, there is a possibililty (admittedly, odds are not favorable) to find the "real deal" on SA.
Pros Possible to find the real deal.
Cons You can potentially meet;
-Men who do not really have means.
-Men who are not attractive on any level.
-Men who will waste your time.
It does seem odd that these men who self reportedly are worth 10-15 million dollars will squabble over a couple of thousand dollars to have sex with you. Seriously, I had one guy offer to fuck me in my ass in a starbucks bathroom. These guys are vile, disgusting, and will advantage of the naive, so beware. If someone really wants an arrangement with you and make $1 mil a year, they can afford to pay you more than 250 dollars for sex. Or even 500 dollars. I am disappointed by them and how manipulative and horny and ungenuine they are. Someone should work on shutting this site down. It is just a way for men to access beautiful young girls through lies and deceit. I am glad to say that I have not let any dirty mother fucker off the site even kiss me. Make these guys show you the money even before letting them touch you.
Cons total time waster
guys will lie over and over to you
no one seems really serious about an arrangment
A legitimate site run as well as could be expected. Unfortunately the site is overrun with prostitutes. The people who run the site will remove a prostitute when they uncover one but they are swamped with them. Just be careful and you should be able to pick out the legit members from the "play for pay" variety as the legit members will answer your email questions specifically. The hookers will just write back saying they've had a hard week and can't wait for the weekend to meet you (no matter WHAT you've written)
When you go to Ashley Madison just be careful. You have to buy credits in large somewhat expensive "lumps". These credits are used when contacting other members. They also have a "wink" you can send for free, the idea being if the person you winked at is interested in you they will send an email (which you pay for). In 3 cases, when I sent a wink an email came back asking if I was online. Being new I didn't know how to respond and because I thought the response showed interest, I sent each a legitimate email (10 credits each) which they never bothered to respond to. So there ARE people on there who sole purpose is to dwindle your credits. If you get an email asking if you "are online" do not respond and you should be fine.
Pros Can't think of many.
Cons A LOT of "members" haven't been there for over 3 months and are not contactable.
Just because there's some fake profiles doesn't mean it's a "scam"
Review about JapanCupid.comMet an ultra-hot girl on this site, and we were together a year! Seriously, people thought she was a model or something. We were both 24... and along those lines, you creepy old guys saying this site is "fake" need to wise up- I met 3 or 4 chicks off this site while I was in Japan, just because a few profile are fake and you occassionally get a message from them, doesn't mean the whole site is a scam... IT MEANS NO ONE'S INTERESTED IN YOU!
Pros
Genuine girls on the site, privacy protected... seems to pick up a lot of shy japanese girls that don't socialize well (good luck finding a nice japanese girl in a bar). especially good for young guys living in japan temporarily. Don't assume hot girls are always fake- my gf had the sexiest profile on there and it wasn't tell I met her that I believed it was real!
Cons
Like others said, some of the girls are kind of desperate or a little weird. Japanese girls by nature are usually looking for serious relationships... true some of them might just be looking for fun, but good luck finding 'em. don't get stuck in a relationship you never wanted in the first place... seriously, think about this guys.
Abandon Ship...
Review about Muslima.comI believe that there are legitimate members on Muslima.com (I am/was one) but in my opinion the site attempts to con them into upgrading their membership to Gold or Platinum using fake contacts.
I joined muslima.com and the very same day an attractive 28-year old Standard Member Sayra from France sent an interest. I responded with a mail message and then determined that being a Standard member myself, Sayra would not be able to read my email. However, just a few hours later, unexpectedly there was a new message from Sayra and her membership had been upgraded to Platinum. Interesting enough, however, since I am on another online dating site (and despite being quite the catch :D), I am quite aware that things don't move quite that fast! So, I chose to do nothing and one week later I checked and Sayra's profile has been switched off. Another member yasmina from Edmonton, Canada then expressed interest and her profile became hidden shortly after. I received another contact from Aludra from France a Standard member whose membership status has now changed to Platinum (why wouldn't someone just upgrade to Gold, or not already be a Gold member?). Finally, I received another interest message from Valiya from the UK all within the span of 7 days.
The reason for concern is also that three of the profiles were of women more than ten years younger than me, outside my country of interest and didn't seem very discerning in what they are looking for. Common sense suggests that this is not reasonable :(
Hope this helps and good luck to those who continue with the site.
Pros
Good detailed match information
Free to join
Appears to have several members
Cons
Suspecting the legitimacy of the members
Site appears to use deceptive practices to encourage membership upgrade
Meet The Real Sugar Daddies and Mommies
Review about Seeking ArrangementI had a friend who joined SA and she cancelled her membership after the first three months. She met a guy who was a drug lord, who had connections in her country and threatened here to visit him or else. Now with kind of blackmail going on how can you be safe after allowing yourself to trust some of these men letting them in to know you and then they intern use the information to blackmail you. Well she had inspired me and i started a millionaires club with a different twist, both sugar daddies/mommies and babies get to meet each other in person at a private party every month so they can get to know each other all millionaires are verified as well as their networth. So if you need to find the real deal visit www dot meetelites dot com
Diva
Review about Date a CrossdresserThis site is clogged with abandoned profiles.
There is virtually nothing you can do as a non-paying member. You can't contact anyone, and if they contact you their mail cannot be read for free.
They will take your pics and profile and use it to attract men and seduce them into paying for a membership, yet give you nothing in thanks.
There are free sites out there that give you total access, like collarme and fetlife
Pros
Can't see any.....
Cons
Virtually zero site access for free members....
Japan Cupid
Review about JapanCupid.comI took a good look at this site. To me, it is obviously too good to be true. I say that because, having lived in Japan for more than 10 years, I can tell you that (like everywhere else) there are a lot of good looking girls, and a lot of not very good looking girls. On Japan Cupid, the # of very attractive women is far too high. I expect that many of them are just plants.
lovely lady
Review about Seeking ArrangementI have actually been on this site a total of two years. I have had some great experiences. Once I found I guy that paid me well to be happy I stuck with him. I made an arrangement with one guy on the site. He was 30 years older then myself however, he was really goos in the bed and he paid for everything and I mean everything including my tuition. I received money from him everytime I went to see him and a generous amount of funds also went into my account every week. I was pulling in over $5,ooo.00 from him every 3 weeks. He also took me with him into his jet where I became apart of the mile high club. SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO exciting. I ended up moving and we lost touch with each other and I have not been able to find him since then.
Pros
some guys are who they say they are
the guys that are real actually don't mind helping out
the site is easy to navigate
Cons
None just yet
very poor website
Review about Positive Singles.comthis website is gets a very poor rating from me, all i have found are adds for this website and no real reviews. you have to pay to communicate with any other memeber, the only option that is free is to create a profile and send a wink. thats all. you may respond to a pay member email but thats all you can do. send free wink. you also cant see last log in of users, so i believe most users created a free profile and never came back. i believe most of the profiles are not current or active. this site is very poor and takes a lot of time, and you can not remove your profile. it remains forever.
Pros
it allows you to create a free profile and thats all.
Cons
high price and many many inactive profiles
single
Review about Muslims 4 MarriageMore than 8 members from this site with photos wrote me saying that they read my profile and interested in me and asked me to write to them. I joined the site paying $89 and I wrote to them my messages sat in the sent box for 10 days saying not read and after 10 days the messages were emptied without anyone reading them. It appears they are not real people, they setup phoney people and send tantalizing messages to trick males to subscribe. I think this is a scam site and I am in the process of notifying to the proper authorities.
Not a scam
Review about JapanCupid.comI met my wife on this site. I also had some fake "interests" in me from other countries but I chatted with Japanese women that were living in my area. My wife was in Tokyo when we got to know each other. So of course I say the site is "real" but has it's share of scam artists as well.
In short: The site is not a scam but...some of the profiles are.
They are cons
Review about SpeedDate.comDon't waste your time here. They will bill you 191.88
I was billed without my permission
No reply from them when contacting them
Cons
Frauds, they bill you without permission and when contacting them, they will never reply
Crookes and Cheats
Review about SpeedDate.comJust signed up for this website. They claimed the account the service was 15.00 per month, they immediately billed me $191.88. This was not disclosed and when I went to contact them I got no response. This site is a SCAM AND THEY WILL TAKE YOUR MONEY AND OFFER NOTHING IN RETURN. TELL EVERYONE YOU KNOW TO NEVER USE: "SPEEDDATE.COM"
Pros
NO THING GOOD ABOUT THESE CON ARTISTS.
Cons
THEY RIP YOU OFF!
Miss STILL
Review about Muslima.comI think the website is a waste of time becasue most members do not seem to contact when you email members. Also i would also like to confirm that i came across phony pictures and duplications of some pictures on other people's profiles which scared me. It put me off but then I continued to carry on my search.
I also believe there are people who are not being truthful and should be barred as a muslim matrimonial website is for marriage not for friendship this is why it is a MUSLIM matrimonial website it is not an asian dating site there are loads of these already on the net and if someone wants to be just friends with someone go on dating sites and not matrimonial sites.
Pros
there were no prons
Sir
Review about CHN LoveChnlove has a reputation as being far from honest. It is a multi-level (agencies) run scam. Company claims to wash its hands of the fraud committed. Many stories of translators not acting as proper liaisons. Internet provides many cases going back a number of years now re. this site. Attempts to get large payments from the gentlemen and/or the lady in China; this is, assuming, that a real-life "match" is ever made.
Almost all photos on Chnlove site are doctored with Photoshop, some more obvious than others. Vast majority of "eligible" ladies are well into their 40s and many are divorced or single moms in China.
Scam appears to exploit unsuspecting ladies in China who are often not notified that men are writing in regard to their images/photos.
Stay away !
Pros
None. But encourages gentlemen to fly out to China in person.
Cons
Pretty much everything. Just use free websites to make contact with potential matches in China and then save your money for the trip(s), not for paying bogus "EMF"s (emails) which are over $6 USD, per message !
Mr.
Review about Muslima.comAssalamu alaikum,
While praying to Allah to bless those who created this site abundantly, I wish to express my frustration at how to register with you. I tried to do so, but anytime I ran into some hitches. One, when I thought I had completed the registration form correctly, I would find my sending was not successful. Two, as I am in Nigeria [West Africa], I don't know how to effect payment of the fee. But then I really desire to befriend and marry an American Muslim Lady of between 25 and 40 years. I am a black man, a Muslim and in my early fifties. I am a university graduate with Masters degree in Islamic studies but a practising journalist for 26 years in my home country. Right now I am a media consultant working in the Presidency, at the State House, Capital city, Abuja, Nigeria. I am dark in complexion, of medium height, weight and with some strands of grey hair. I am not fluent in Arabic but English and my mother togue, Hausa. I travelled out of my country only once, to Poland.
If you have any provision for free registration, kindly help me fisabillahi. May Allah continue to be with you in this lofty mission of forging legitimate man-woman relationship. Bissalam.
Pros
I find the site as the most practical way of encouraging Muslims to embrace marriage and maximally produce children for the pride of the Holy Prophet, Muhammad, (S.A.W). It is capable of strengthening tiers among the muslims and beautify Islam and so make it more appealing to the non-muslims.
Cons
Some devilish individuals may abuse it by pretending to mean sincere about their search for legitimate partners. May Allah bar such individuals from making in-road into the site and its services. Ameen.
Bissalam.
worst scam dating service to date.
Review about JapanCupid.comMake sure you don't paid for membership. It's a 100% scam. They even create fake ads if not all. Be aware of "I told you so" if you paid for meeting fake ads. If you get a responds or someone shows interest in you, their ad will be deleted or they will not return your responds. Please pass this message forward with all know fake members # they has not been deleted yet. Here's a few I know are fake from experience # 500487, 506143, 501054, 429171, 497574, 496687, 480433,505584, 503565, 321012, 504770, 465889, 496823, 499333,166690, 304226, 162468, 500344, 497252, 471362, 506764, 506356, 505574, 495600, 329045, 501435,
A breeding ground for loosers
Review about Seeking ArrangementThis site is a scam, and I can't believe they haven't been closed down.
The site at one time may have been the real thing, but now the site is
crawling with con artist.
You will not find a real SD on this site. The guys are there for only one reason
to get laid by women stupid enough to believe what they say.
Pros
Not a darn thing
Cons
Fake profiles
Loaded with broke men
Site used as a virtual club to get laid FREE
A NON-ADULT SITE FOR THE OVER FORTIES IN THE UK
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukDating for the over forties has never been easier, it's as simple as finding a site you are comfortable with and establishing contact with someone that catches your eye. We all desire some romance in our lives so if you have the time please don't hesitate to have a browse and hopefully join my UK based dating and friendship service.Don't waste your hard earned cash with adult-sites, real love and lasting romance is a more beneficial goal for all of us who are over forty and who would enjoy some genuine companionship in their every day life(me included).
Can't insert the dots due to spam restrictions:
maturedatingonline dot org a genuine site, great value too !
Paul
UKI
Review about JapanCupid.comI had interest from a very pretty Japanese girl Named Uki! I am travelling to Japan this
year so thought I would join and make contact with her! When I paid up
and tried to contact her, her profile was deleted! Something wrong here!!
Scam site
Review about Marital Affair.co.ukHad joined this site for a few months off & on
Whenever i contacted women replies were ALWAYS delayed & then when you do get a reply, it seems good at first but nothing ever comes of it (in my experience with the site).
Then, when you cancel subscription you'll get (after a while) a bunch of emails from 'supposed' interested women all at once..funny how they don't wanna know when you're paying..hmmmm.
Avoid...I've tried it.
Pros
hehe..that's funny. No Pro's
Cons
Pretty much everything
Miss Craig
Review about Seeking ArrangementAs with anything else in life where variables are involved, in other words, good vs bad, this site is no exception. I have been on it for a year. Apparently, I had experienced "beginner's luck," as the first man I met within two weeks of signing up was actually what he porported to be; wealthy and truly interested in forging a SB/SD relationship. This involved no more than every other weekend to various locals involving wonderful resorts across the globe. Everything was first class; the transportation, accomodations, wining-dining, etc. He was an older man, not bad looking (Clint Eastwood type) didn't have any weird predelections, was a decent height- had hair, wasn't fat, had a pleasant personality, was intelligent and polite-all good. He alloted me generous sums of cash upon my arrival at the various locations in addition to the monthly stipend he wired to my account. (We're talking annually over 6 figures, btw.) Unfortunately, it did not last "annually," as his wife found out after seven months and put the "squeeze" on him. "Dissapation of marital assets replete with paper trail," is not for the faint of heart. Anyhow, I resumed my membership on SA and proceeded to meet a series of less than stunning individuals. All were frauds, fakes and pretenders. Some were the worst; obnoxious on every level pretending they really had something to offer when they were doing little more than creating the opportunity to have access to beautiful women which would never happen in real life beyond their computer access. Others, were interested in immediate cash "meet-ups"-the sort of exchange that can be otherwise derived from the yellow pages. Then there are those who must have had an abundance of time on their hands, who wish to feed/entertain their particular brand of narcissism. These are the ones who demand volumnous, endless email and photo exchanges-a sort of free supply of attention coming their way, that you eventually recognize is not going to result in any actual meeting, (much less SB/SD exchange.) But, the absolutely worst reprehensible ones are those (again) who waste your time in actually arranging a date. Within minutes of arriving, (Gals, be suspicious of "coffee dates"-not too impressive at the onset, you know?) it's abundantly clear, the guy is so gross he couldn't date his way out of a paper bag and so "not of means" he wouldn't pay a dime to witness Christ ride a bicycle! He certainlyisn't really going to shed cash on a woman and he, in so many words, will indicate this soon enough. While sipping your coffee, you will soon actually perceive his latent anger that he really cannot have you as nothing else has worked out in his life and he may become slightly obnoxious. Again, an example of this site creating another opportunity for "looky-loos" and posers to have their moment in the sun, being graced by a value beyond their reach. Therefore, I caution the women on SA to be judicious in utilizing such a forum and understand that just as with anything else in life where the strata of humanity is involved, there is a possibililty (admittedly, odds are not favorable) to find the "real deal" on SA.
Pros
Possible to find the real deal.
Cons
You can potentially meet;
-Men who do not really have means.
-Men who are not attractive on any level.
-Men who will waste your time.
not worth it
Review about eHarmonycost a lot of money and is a scam
Pros
nothing
Cons
getting matched with non paying members
getting match with no photos posted
Seeking arrangement is a hoax
Review about Seeking ArrangementIt does seem odd that these men who self reportedly are worth 10-15 million dollars will squabble over a couple of thousand dollars to have sex with you. Seriously, I had one guy offer to fuck me in my ass in a starbucks bathroom. These guys are vile, disgusting, and will advantage of the naive, so beware. If someone really wants an arrangement with you and make $1 mil a year, they can afford to pay you more than 250 dollars for sex. Or even 500 dollars. I am disappointed by them and how manipulative and horny and ungenuine they are. Someone should work on shutting this site down. It is just a way for men to access beautiful young girls through lies and deceit. I am glad to say that I have not let any dirty mother fucker off the site even kiss me. Make these guys show you the money even before letting them touch you.
Cons
total time waster
guys will lie over and over to you
no one seems really serious about an arrangment
See my review for AFF
Review about Passion.comSee my review for Adult Friend Finder as it is the same company.
plordinastibob
Review about Adult FriendfinderA legitimate site run as well as could be expected. Unfortunately the site is overrun with prostitutes. The people who run the site will remove a prostitute when they uncover one but they are swamped with them. Just be careful and you should be able to pick out the legit members from the "play for pay" variety as the legit members will answer your email questions specifically. The hookers will just write back saying they've had a hard week and can't wait for the weekend to meet you (no matter WHAT you've written)
Pros
Good site run by good people.
Cons
WAYYYYY too many hookers.
DGA2010
Review about Ashley MadisonWhen you go to Ashley Madison just be careful. You have to buy credits in large somewhat expensive "lumps". These credits are used when contacting other members. They also have a "wink" you can send for free, the idea being if the person you winked at is interested in you they will send an email (which you pay for). In 3 cases, when I sent a wink an email came back asking if I was online. Being new I didn't know how to respond and because I thought the response showed interest, I sent each a legitimate email (10 credits each) which they never bothered to respond to. So there ARE people on there who sole purpose is to dwindle your credits. If you get an email asking if you "are online" do not respond and you should be fine.
Pros
Can't think of many.
Cons
A LOT of "members" haven't been there for over 3 months and are not contactable.